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>be me 33yo male
>been dating 24yo female for +5 months

Stop doubting, sweetheart. Just find a good man. Preferably one who would also date someone his own age, and isn't attracted to you because of your young age, but despite it.

>>18276110
Don't worry, the man of my dreams is 41 and I'm your age. My god what a difference having a man instead of a boy.

>>18276110
Men in general love youth, going for older guys is cruise control for bone zone. Don't worry about. Just approach and show interest.

>>18275776

Not kidding, wanting to be like Captain America.

This thread hit me in the feels, because right now he's terrible in the comics and I have no hope because of it.

I don't know, got bored of depression I think.

Also Gurren Lagann, I'm not trolling that shit got me more pumped than I had been in years so I used that energy to go back into school.

Also the feeling of a woman being attracted to me is something that I cannot explain, inside I still feel like that guy who spend all day hidden in his room watching anime and playing video games and to be honest once they get to meet me they run the fuck away because I still can't control my autism but fuck just the fact that they are slightly interested in me makes me wanna keep going.

>>18275776
Inb4 underage, but finding the love of my life.

She absolutely fixed me, reconstructed me. I haven't cried from sadness for so long, it all seems like a bad nightmare now. I've regained hope and joy, all those feelings and emotions that I forgot existed.

Hang in there, OP. I wish I could do more than sympathize with your plight.

>>18275289
haha, nah man my family was fucked up and abusive. but you have fun with that? lol.

yeah use birth control. you do not want to have kids with your cousin. white people i stg.

>>18275289
At least it's not your sister.
Personally I'd go to a place where it's legal and seal the deal. If it remains a secret or one time thing you both will just look back on it with pain.
If you're in the US then you can marry cousins in Alabama. But there are a few countries where nobody will even bat an eye if you married a cousin.

Are you pakistani?
if yes, get married.
if not, well, make sure you keep your genetic heritage well wrapped under plastic, yeah/

>>18274456

Used wrong word. I wouldn't say i was belligerent towards her, i was just stubborn and wanted to go home because i had work in the morning, and she's a bit of a drive from me.

>>18274456
You're an angry drunk with a DUI pending court case. She could do loads better. You're out of control and need to sort yourself out before you get into a relationship.

>>18274456
>I'm afraid if i don't make my intentions clear that i still want to be close to her, she'll throw me in the friend zone.

I was going to ask if people seriously think this is the way shit works, and then I realized this is 4chan...

Stop falling for the fucking friend zone meme.

The friend zone is not some fucking mythical place you get shunted to if you don't hit the right sequence of buttons.

This isn't a fucking video game.

Women aren't so fucking empty headed that they follow yes, no logic operations if you don't trigger all their flags like it's some kind of dating sim.

They are capable of developing their own thoughts and interpreting things on a case by case basis.

Frindzone is some bullshit guys who are incapable of taking responsibility or ackowledging women are more than just conquests made up.

There is no such fucking thing.
You are either rejected.
Too much of a pussy to take a chance
Or took a chance, got rejected, and are too desperate to acknowledge it.

>>18274072
Yes and No, technically if you REALLY wanted it you can get it. There are alot of gross girls that will give it up like its nothing, but im pretty sure they say they are pathetic because it means you must have something wrong with you, socially, mentally or whatever. Like everyone has a reason for not being laid if its been a long time or at all.

>>18274096
How can you figure out your reason?

>>18274072
Not all of them do. Maybe you're hanging around a certain type of girl.

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I also wanted to mention I've been watching "Jvloggers" for years now, so it's not something I just thought "hey, I'll do that". It's been rolling around in my mind for awhile now, and I feel like I'll always regret it if I don't try.

It'd also be amazing if anyone here who has taught English in another country could chime in. I've heard a speaking gig in China is incredibly easy, but pay and placement can vary wildly. I chose Japan cause I find it more interesting than teaching in China or Korea. I also started taking Japanese language classes last month and will continue regardless of my decision. I should also clarify that I haven't taken depression medication for 3 years now, in case it sounded like a potential concern. I also haven't seen my parents or brother in 10+ years so family's not really an issue, but I would miss my grandparents and a couple friends.

I guess what I'm really asking is,
1. General thoughts?
2. Reasons I should
3. Reasons I shouldn't

I haven't done it myself, but I hear it's really spotty. As in, some people have a nice experience while others have really terrible experiences. From that, I'd assume it's mostly expectations.
From what I know

The pay is terrible
Japanese people tend to be pretty racist
You will NEVER fit in

I've also heard that you barely teach. You just sit in a classroom and speak English every now and then. I'd assume you aren't going to be an actual "teacher" in the traditional sense, more like a teacher's assistant.

Anyway, I'd say go for it if you really want to. Like you said, worst comes to worst you can just go back home. Just don't expect it to be some sort of paradise.

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>>18271036
Thanks for the response.

First year JETs make a little over $30K, which isn't amazing, but it's also not too shabby for cheap rural life living or being paid right out of college.

They are. I don't think it's hostile racism, but it's "you will never fit in" racism and assuming a lot of things about the person.

I heard that too, and I'm more than fine with it. I have no interest in being a teacher, though it might be kinda fun to interact with kids, whether they be younger or older.

Bitches

Once you die that's it. Might as well keep living since you're gonna die eventually anyway.

Life itself is a good reason
What do you need to change to enjoy it?

>>18277580
Stop falling for the conservative propaganda and eat more.

>>Went on calorie restrictive diet
you're probably malnourished if the only thing you were looking at was calories in

in/out is definitely a 100% working solution to weight loss, but it's not a solution for overall health improvements
now you need to look into proper dieting and macronutrient composition

>>18277580
Getting sick, no to mention "sick as hell", every two weeks does not sound normal at all. It probably has nothing to do with the fact that you lost weight either. I imagine you did thousands of other things within that time frame.

>>18277307
>Yes i know its pathetic...
Naw man, it's no shame if you're relatively new to the experience. This has happened to me a couple of times.
>The first time I had sex, I put my head against her opening, then got the angle wrong. It was awkward as fuck. Plus, she was tight as fuck, so I really had to squeeze it in when it eventually went.
>Also, I went through a year or so without sex, and when I finally did get to, I had to "get back on the horse".

My advice is to align your body so that you're pointing your wang directly forward, make sure your partner is laying completely flat on her back (At least until you get it in). Then use your body, and not your wang to push it in. It's all about the position of your body, not your penis.

After it's inside, go crazy.

its lower than you think it is

>>18277307
That's normal, especially if your dick is big.

It's called skinhunger.

Thing is. No woman will be like the woman of your dreams, except maybe a prostitute.

So either you accept that, as your lot of life, and just date some ok to be with, insecure hambeast who won't be able to cheat on you, or you go along with porn and fuck hookers on occasion.

>>18277177
I don't know if this helps but we're in the same boat Anon, you're not alone. Peace man.

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>>18277197
I don´t like with prostitutes and I think I wouldn´t do, the idea of being with a woman that just don´t feel anything for you and for her is more important that finish and go...It´s feel just uncomfortable. And I´m not crazy or something like that, I just would apreciate being with someone who I love, I´m not a psycho who collets human bodies in his bathroom.

By killing yourself?

>>18277071
>mysoginistic
Castration.

>racist
Marry independent black fat woman with 3+ children.

Easy.

>>18277071
If you really feel that way you can do it. Do what comes naturally.

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>>18277065
Wrong question.
>no, this is how you become alcoholic in few months

Better question would be how to solve your problems you are trying to ignore / forget by drinking legal drug.

What is your problem op? And being lonely is valid answer, but you have to tell us why.

how long have you been doing this? might not seem like a big deal at first but it WILL catch up with you and overall make things worse in the long run. speaking from experience of drinking every day for years btw.

>>18277091
My work and general life situation make it next to impossible to even start finding a romantic partner.

>>18277003
That might be a clit. Do you know if you're intersex?

need pictures from other angles-

could be either a mosquito bite or an inflammation cause you don't shave properly

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>>18277009
It'snot a mosquito bite cause it doesn't itch and it was there before I shaved. I haven't shaved in months, just noticed that it is this big.

>>18276943
Why is no one answering

>>18276943
Just go to your local postoffice or UPS store. They'll help you out.

>>18277219
But does anyone know what to do

you feel you are not adequate because you don't like yourself pretty much probably because your parents were demandant with you.

you are afraid of open up.
if by all logical means this girl is letting you approach, perhaps trust in her for a change

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>>18276905
Don't text. Call. Fucking call you autistic cumstain.

If for no other reason than we don't have to listen to your incessant fucking whining about how you can't find a girl, you cowardly, self hating assburger.

make sure of showing your intentions of dating before she turns into a friend.