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He said he assaulted her? She didn't accuse him off it?

If she doesn't press charges, won't be be released?

>>18278475
Yeah, he said it, not her and she has no marks or scratches. The only supporting evidence they have is that he happened to have his hand on her arm when they showed up.

I worry that they'll say the state is pressing charges and she can't make that go away by not pressing herself.

How do you know he didn't actually assault her? "He wouldn't do that, he's not that sort of guy" isn't an answer

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Mostly, the modern fwb community is filled with people who have physical aesthetics or are good at emotionally manipuliapting people.
Fit eithe me of those niches and you should be successful.

Tinder/Bumble

Just ask politely, but make sure you guys are a bit close already at this point.

>>18278418

>hollywood

sup neighbor. your name isn't 'buck' is it?

>>18278430
Buck Naked?

>>18278444

no, buck actualy did NOT appreciate nudity and as a result we are no longer roommates.

brad is okay with nudity though and seems to not feel awkward about it at all.

>>18278388
Stop taking the pharmaceutical jew you moron.

Ssris and adderol are fucking stupid

>>18278388
These may help:
>cardio
>Kegels
>supplements, specifically L-arginine and L-citrulline

>>18278388
I used to take antidepressants and ADD meds, they didnt work. I did feel their side effects of decreased libido and slight ED even over a year of stopping them. But then again I fap every day, so that might have a factor in it.

Talk to your family and friends again, tell them you are afraid, ask them to call a doctor, because you will need a shrink to talk to.
If you continue to be afraid, you might develop agoraphobia, which will fuck you up for the rest of the life.

Hi i once crashed a car at highspeed on the motorway i went off the road and hit like 8 small trees at 100kmh. I survived with no serious injurys. After that i had to catch the train to work(no car). Anyways like 2 weeks later my boss tells me to go into the city to the docks and get a package. I take the work truck on the motorway in peak hour traffic everyones driving like jerks cutting in. And im having panic attacks and crying the whole time. I had to stick it out which sucked hard. I eventually bought a sports cars a year later toyota supra and would thrash that car on the motorway. Face your fears dude You will come right.

>>18278398
Agoraphobia? I might already be fucked.

Before witnessing this second accident I Rarely left my house because there are cars around every turn. I became extremely depressed and would only leave after some kind of mental numbing.

Tossed my bikes and skates
Quit school
Cut contact with any friend not within walking distance


I'm constantly thinking some vehicle will burst through the wall and get me unless I'm up 2 stories or more.

I'm ok with being a virgin mostly because I have yet to find a decent female driverskate because of how women see men without vehicles. I just don't talk to them or try anymore because all of it revolves around car

My apartment is expensive because I'm within the city. I only took this place because I can go anywhere without the need of a car.

I haven't even left my city yet anon.

That painful chest constricting fear I use to know has subsided now I just sort of semi black out and my heart rate jumps.

do you have any friend that lives in the area?

>>18278326
Start going to the library every day.
Walk.
Get exercise and go places outside.
Stop fapping every two hours and pick up a hobby. I don't fucking care if it's collecting sticks or LARPing in the woods.

Step 1 is stop jerkin' it so damn much and go outside.
Step 2 is delete all those dating apps and shit off your phone. Your grandpappy didn't have to check his Instagram every five minutes to get some moist poon, and neither do you. Start communicating with people. Start with attractive people and work your way down.
You might have to fuck a girl with downs, but it doesn't matter, just get out there and experience shit and occasionally try to verbally finnesse your donger into a hot Pocket.

Last but not least: No pressure. I know it seems like the end of the world that you're an unfuckable mess, but relax. As long as you're taking steps 1 and 2 seriously, you'll eventually end your dry spell. Until then, get a Fleshlight and use sparingly.

>>18278344
fuck anon thats some good advice. Guess i'll give it a try and no fapping it is hard as nails

perhaps commitment

>>18278255
How the fuck is fwb such a common thing here? Fucking degenerates.

What do you mean by commitment?

What's the issue with his sisters? Are they aggressive towards you? Or are you unfamiliar with their closeness?

I am incredibly jealous of her. She's very beautiful, very fit, earns a lot of money and everyone likes her. I think it comes back down to my low self esteem and worrying that my boyfriend will fall out of love with me. I feel like if he is used to these exceptional women in his life, then I can't meet those standards. She has always been lovely to me.

>>18278269
Yeah I dont think its you being a lonely child. I think the reason you dislike her might be that she's better than you. Shit happenes famalam

Just tell him the truth if he brings it up. Unless you're actually a pedophile.

>>18278211
whats bad about the former? I'm only 18..

>>18278208
You sound like you might be a pedophile.
If you are a photographer then you wouldnt be worried someone thinks you are a pedophile.
This is what it sounds like happened based on your post.
>im a pedophile
>have an album filled with stock photos of clothed little girls
>if investigated it will look bad
>how do i keep from being investigated
If you are a photographer it would be easy to explain what happened.
In either case, unless you are creepy looking then he might ask about it but he wont assume you are into kids just because he saw your 10000 pictures of clothed little girls.

It feels like ghosting is some epidemic no matter what these days. You don't really want to meet anyone.

I don't get it. Was she a rebound? What freaked you out?

>>18278114
are you autistic?

>>18278111

>im more scared to lose my will to do it

no you're not, you're more scared to do it, otherwise you wouldn't lose your will.

what is i tho

>>18278137
I'm excited to do it, I'm also just a pussy faggot who gets scared by the littlest stuff, like talking to the guy at the cash register. I'm going to basically ditch my family and travel around the country or possibly world with as little money as possible before I die of cancer. I'm going to be going on bike, with just the bare minimum necessary to survive allowing for extreme cold/heat. As you can see this is a really stupid fucking idea but I really want to do it even if it kills me before my body does.

>>18278148
DO IT.
If you have friends, tell them, maybe they could lend you some money, or ask grandparents...
Believe in yourself.
I always wanted to do this, but was too weak.
You're my hero, guy.

>>18278093
Not creepy, she asked mulitple times if she'd given you her number.

It would only be creepy if you got pushy on demanding to get to know her, merely knowing how to find an avenue of contact via facebook is completely normal in the modern world.

And if she takes offense and deletes her facebook/manages it with more consciousness, so much the better for all parties. Except Zuckerberg, but fuck Zuckerberg.

send banal message and see what happens. forget the creep thing, it's like a dark cloud. people do talk to each other or find each other online as you know, without sinister intent.

>>18278399

Well I have to add her as a friend for her to see my message, otherwise it'll get filtered.

>>18278049
>waaah, they put a girl in muh gaymes, it's all ruined now

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>>18278049

>>>/r9k/

>>18278049
Jerking off.

Neither extreme is good. It's important to both recognize your faults so you can work on improving them but also not be held back by them. Balance is key.

>>18277941
for me balance feels impossible
its like I can only be one extreme or the other

what do I do about that?
its possibly because of ADHD or autism

>>18277927
Better for who?
Shameless is better for self.
Shameful for society.

Someone must have some advice to give!

>>18277924
Get into some hobby where cooler people would congregate I guess. Stay away from the videogame crowd, anime etc.

For what it's worth, nerds are fun in their own regard. I feel like I'm in the unique position because i grew up a huge nerd and with time got better looking, more extroverted, etc so I hang with both types of people. They have their pros and cons

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>>18277924
>He's so boring that he has to get wasted and do dumb shit to have a ""good time"" (TM Normieville USA)