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Hey, can someone with a similar mindset or experience in matters like this help me?
I have a recurring thing where no matter where I work, I become fixated on who I think is the tallest, broadest, grumpiest guy in the office or whatever. I don't fantasize about them romantically but it's like I have to keep an eye on them. But I want them to like me. Last night I had a dream about the current one, he kissed me on the forehead. Why am I like this????

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I'm thinking about cheating on my girlfriend. We used to have sex ever single day like 3 times a day. Wherever whenever. And one day to another. No more sex. Like once a month. She teases the shit out of me. Then she gives me oral and everything and out of no where nothing. She's never been able to make me cum with oral. And she'll tell me and send me messages throughout the day of the things she'll do to me. And once we're about to. It's always a stupid excuse. And I'm getting tired of it. I'm really good looking. Have girls hitting on me everyday. I notice it more and more now. Girls telling me to go over and have lunch. Or just straight up telling me they wanna have sex. I'm so frustrated and built up. Like I feel the blue balls. I'm tired of having to jack off after this shit and I'm seriously considering cheating. Honestly tired of this shit
What do guys?

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I know this is probably the weirdest thing to ask, so thats why I'm on 4chan. So there is this girl that looks kind similar to ic related, and she's realllll into me. She's fun, got a car etc, But after dating her for a week I've only just noticed her left hand is just a thumb and one finger. Guess she always hid it. Seems that she was born that way. I know its horrible but it kinda bothers me. What do I do?

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TL;DR - talking about breaking up with my girlfriend today, how do I play this?

I'm meeting my girlfriend today to talk about our relationship, and it's almost definitely going to be about our relationship and us potentially breaking up - she talked about how she wants to break up before and she's been pissed off lately.

The reason I'm making this thread is because I wanted to ask how I should play the whole break up talk and what I should say/do. The reason the talk of break-ups exist is because I said a few things that pissed her off/upset her, and she doesn't want to stick around anymore as a result of it. So some info: We met each other just over 3 months ago and we've been dating for two of those months. Everything started off really good, and everything was very passionate and happy. However, we both went away on our separate holidays - I visited family and she went on a tour of Europe with a travel company and other people her age (19-30) - all of the guys were cheating fuckboys, but that will come in later.

However by the way the relationship's been going so far and getting to know her, I'm almost certain she's BPD, and also has fear of abandonment issues. Her father killed herself when she was 6, and she blames him for abandoning her/not wanting to stick around, and she was cheated on the whole time in her previous relationship, only for her to find out at the end.

Throughout our relationship, I have been caring, sweet, loyal, always there for her and never gave her any reason to think I was cheating - I didn't talk to other girls or screw around, always talked to her consistently and stayed loyal. Despite this, she thinks I met some girl on holiday and that I don't like her anymore judging from the way I talk to her (when in reality I'm treading carefully and playing it safe after our fight about the things I said, especially as she still gives me a feeling that she's pissed off or not over it yet, and doesn't feel like she used to be).

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I lied and said I was forklift qualified and I'm actually not. I start tomorrow morning. I've used a forklift before a couple times and I've moved a couple pallets around but nothing major.

How fucked am I?

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A girl I'm dating just told me she has an STD, given to her by some shitty ex boyfriend who lied to her about it. We haven't had sex yet. What do?

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So a few months ago, I went on 2 dates with a girl. On the second date, we got really close to having sex, but then she said something that set off alarms in my head, and so I de-escalated and did not have sex with her.

The next day, she texted me asking for another date, and I declined. She left me alone for 2 days, but then texted me again saying "I know we'll be together someday" and other creepy shit. I ended up talking to her on the phone and explained to her that she was making me uncomfortable. At that point she acted more rational, apologized for coming on too hard, but still asked for another date. I told her I would think about it.

Couple days later I ended up rejecting her again. This led to a month-long struggle of her trying to win me over and me trying to de-escalate things. It was mostly over text and phone, no face-to-face contact except I did end up getting smoothies with her one time when she promised not to treat it as a date. Then she called me one night and became extremely hysterical, at which point I told her in clear terms that she was to leave me alone forever.

It is now a few months later, and she has been texting me from 2 different phone numbers, leaving me voicemails, adding me on various social media (she created new accounts because I blocked her) etc. I have not responded to any of this at all. Getting scared. What do?

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Is there an actual reason NOT to drop out of society for men?

>cultural marxism/feminism has destroyed the family unit
>can have your life ruined by divorce rape and having your kids taken from you
>having a job means you pay into the system that continuously works towards destroying masculinity
>every husband has their garage or basement room and the wife gets the house
>every husband has to put up with his wife and misses out on bro time

Meanwhile, the modern man can
>enjoy films, vidya, music, hobbies
>enjoy going to the gym regularly
>fap to porn, VR, or get a sex doll/robot
>get hookers
>not have to get a normie job and instead use that time to work on an actual career or hobby

The only answers I hear are "muh white race" and "because you're supposed to", which are shit arguments. Why should men have to sacrifice themselves just to live up to what being a man "used to mean", given that that no longer exists or is relevant in today's vaginacentric society?

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>literally nothing interesting about me
>not reasonably good at anything
>don't go on any "adventures"
>have no friends and spend my free time in front of a computer
how do I fix this /adv/? how do I become an interesting guy with exciting and funny stories about my life?

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Does anyone else feel like their parents systematically impeded his/her progress?

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So, i fucked up a little bit. I'm a 21 year old from NYC. I was bored last week(Wednesday night - 8/30)) and used a texting app(textnow) and pretended to be a mutual friend and texted some girl i used to know. I didnt send anything bad, but as a joke i mentioned her and I(the person i was pretending to be) dating and she caught on that it wasn't really the person i was saying it was. She then texted my real number and asked if i had seen somebody mentioned in the fake conversation and how she thought maybe it was her was texting her from a fake number. She told me she was going to file a police report and a little after that the conversation ended. So now i started to worry a little bit, but whatever. The next day, about halfway through the day she blocked me on snapchat and instagram. I dont give a fuck about being blocked, im just hoping thats not an indicator she actually filed a police report.

Ive texted her(and a bunch of others) from fake numbers before, but im not really worried about those because they were a while ago.She had asked me to stop a while ago on an old number/app but i didn't listen because I'm a moron. Im worried she filed a police report and the cops are gonna subpoena the texting app and then my ISP to find out it was me. I'm nervous and scared. What should I do? Or is there even anything to do? Do you think i'll get arrested? or called in for questioning?


I posted this a few times in the last few days so that I could get some opinions and shit.

I looked into it and there wasn't a threat so it can't be considered most forms of harassment legally but it could still be harassment in the 2nd degree which is a violation.

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I'm 19 and pregnant single, how do I unfuck my life? Getting an abortion isn't an option for me because my family would disown me. I have a guy who's the same age as me, we were fwb before I got pregnant and now he's been around a lot because I want it way more since I've been pregnant. I also just get like cravings to cuddle with him. I don't know what to do about him, I want him but I don't want to force him to have a kid. What should I do /adv?

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

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Hey

I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. We have plans to move together and we will in near future, but before the long-term commitment I wanted to have sex with a different woman. I hooked up with her today. Afterwards I feel deep regret and anxiety, but I feel like this had to be done.

What is your opinion on cheating. I cba to dissect this topic deep, because I'm in a hurry, but I'm open to opionions

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I've been checking this girl's Facebook profile every day for about a week and suddenly I don't have access to all her photos and wall.

I know that Facebook doesn't tell you who viewed your profile and stuff, but if you're stalking someone, is it possible that Facebook might give them a hint that you've been on their profile a lot? Like for example by coming up on their suggestions?