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Would you be bothered if your GF likes to wear short shorts/yoga pants? 2017-05-05 07:09:17 Post No.18288837
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Would you be bothered if your GF likes to wear short shorts/yoga pants?
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Why or why not? Also, what would you say if it bothered you?
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>>18288837
Me, no.
Guys who trust their girlfriends wouldn't care about attention from other guys. If they do they're possessive assholes.
Let her wear what the fuck she wants. As long as it's not way too revealing.
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>>18288840
What would you consider way too revealing?
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>>18288837
Have you considered girls might wear short shorts because it gets really fucking hot outside
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I'm a guy, my male boss at work keeps grabbing my ass. Is this gay?
So I'm 18, on my first day in a sales job. I have this over-enthusiastic boss who keeps touching my ass and feeling my arms and chest. He's passing it off like playful banter but this shit is over the line for me especially since he's like 40 years old and I look younger than 18. I know sales people are all energetic-like but god damn.
What should I do? Should I quit? I don't want to have to spend all day with this guy. It's fine if he's gay but c'mon man. Do you think he's gay or is this just enthusiastic salesmanship?
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Tell him to cut that shit out.
Then quit if he don't stop.
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>>18288795
That conversation would be awkward as hell, I'm from England we don't talk about our problems up front like that.
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>>18288809
>england
>we dont talk about our problems
This is not about you, this is about HIM.
Either decide if you are bi curious and try to get more out of him (buy lube and condoms beforehand), or tell him in private that you really DONT LIKE his ass grabbing behavior and you would like him to stop.
If he wont ir will laugh at you, contact HR or get a new job.
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What does one do about self-loathing?
I've come to the realisation that my failures with women havent been because im emotionally immature or afraid of rejection or even appearance (amazingly), but that I just hate myself and start figuring out any way to sabotage it.
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You don't hate yourself, you just hate how you are in relation to others. You like your appearance, I bet you think you're smart, you probably make yourself laugh and you like being in your own company. You don't hate yourself.
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>>18288791
Then why do i always sabotage my own chances?
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>>18288791
This is a good way to approach it.
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Hi /adv/
So I am applying to uni in the UK for the next school year. I've had all 5 conditional offers and now I have to choose my firm and insurance choices by the 8th of June. I am applying for journalism and I can't decide between University of Westminster and University of Bournemouth. Any advice would be helpful, I'm desperate.
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>>18288739
Salford is based for journalism due to the BBC being so closely linked with it... Consider it as an option buddy
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>>18288766
I have a conditional offer from them as well but I feel like the university is not as good as Bournemouth if I'm gonna choose something that is not based in London.
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>>18288739
I'm at Bournemouth uni. Cant give you advice on which uni to go with but what I can say is Bournemouth uni is a great uni and Bournemouth in general is a really nice place to live.
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I've goofed up.
CS student.
Missed two hand ins yesterday because I left my work to the last minute and gave up as I was putting it off- i had no idea what I was doing.
I did half of one assignment and then asked for a clarification for part of the task and at that point realised my code wouldn't do what was asked, so needed changing. In the end I was so tired, I went to sleep. Woke up in the morning and didn't bother doing it.
The other assignment I didn't even start. Over the semester I struggled with the topic but didn't seek any help.
I feel insanely guilty and paranoid about this because I have nothing to do. I could do them now but for everyday that passes I lose 10 marks so I'm not sure it's worth it.
It's a few months before we get our transcripts back and then I will have to resit those modules.
I've not talked to anyone else about this, I lied to a friend and said it went alright but I haven't told my family or Personal tutor.
What do?
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Do your fucking assignment s or drop out
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Go to your administrator and break down in tears while trying to hold them back, apologise profusely for crying. Say a close relative died and it's been hitting your family hard, you've been on the phone non stop since and need to go down soon for the funeral. Ask if there's anyway you can retake the work at a later date, and ask if he/she can send you your work while your away.
You look traumatised/but brave and attpting to be professional.
Your desire to do the work makes you look honest and worthy of help/sympathy.
Do any work you're required to do in your bit of leeway and your grades will most likely be adjusted to account for your hard time (depending on performance.)
Lying is a way to get out of problems but only if you put in the effort and go whole hog with it.
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>>18288775
I can't do that.
I barely get emotional, rarely show it and have been described as heartless by some.
I don't think I could even work up to crying.
I'm the kind of person to never really speak about myself or ask for help and instead just keep it to myself.
The ruse would soon be up.
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my fiancée has a daughter from another man.
i know, i know. but hear me out.
our relationship is very good (dating since two years, engaged since 6 months, live together since 1 year, getting married in 3 months).
her daughter is a pleasant kid too and i've grown very fond of her.
the only issue is that i can't completely cut out my jealousy for the biological father. there's very little contact (yearly update mail with pics from the kid), he has never met her. despite this, there are no hard feelings between my fiancée and him. she says he's completely irrelevant to her life other having been the cause for her daughter. (she hasn't fucked him over, either. they both agreed that they would never want a family together and that it would be best to go separate ways before the kid grows attached to him).
i know it's kind of silly, but it bugs be that there is a walking and talking evidence of my fiancée having had sex with (and had some feelings for) another man.
how do i get over this for good?
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sounds like you're overreacting, if everything is as good as you say.
the only place you're going to get a virgin bride is in Pakistan or somewhere, so be grateful fo what you've got.
oh and try talking to a counsellor or something. that could help. don't mess things up with your missus.
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>>18288747
i know it's irrational. that's why i'm seeking help. appart from that, it couldn't be better. i donmt know why i'm sabotaging myself like that. it's not like any other girl hasn't had sex before or said "i love you" to someone else (which she hasn't even said to him...). but why is it so hard for me to get the fuck over it? i know i'm not the only one hving issues with dealing with the fact that their partner had previous sexual and/or romantical encounters. i've seen a lot of threads about this. is it a problem with low selfesteem?
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Men have been partnering up with women who have children from earlier relationships for hundreds of thousands of years. My great grandma had a kid outside of wedlock before she met my great grandpa. There's nothing new or unnatural about this. You should be glad he's out of the picture.
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I've been on 4chan since I was 13 and 5 years later I've begun to get very disgusted with some of the comments and opinions here.
In my youth I never cared, found it funny even, but now I'm just disgusted. (Albeit not offended)
Am I growing up, or am I becoming soft?
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Growing up.
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what comments and opinions?
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>>18288745
Literally everything on /an/
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I'm a 20 year old guy and I very, very rarely have sexual dreams. I never had a wet dream during puberty and can remember maybe three sexual dreams I've ever had. Am I normal? I looked it up and apparently they're meant to be really common
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>>18288717
I only have sexual dreams when I don't masturbate for a while, and even then I can only remember a maximum of maybe 10. 26 here.
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Also I regularly get morning wood but I don't remember my dreams, is morning wood related to sexual dreams or is it not sexual at all?
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How long do you sleep for?
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Is it right for me to wait for the right girl
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Yes.
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>>18288713
Sure but keep in mind sometimes we want someone who isn't right for us to be the right one,good luck!
Hello /adv/, I was just wondering if anyone knows anything about trade law or can shine some light on my situation?
Recently I got fired from lidl via a set up and I was pretty much over it until I got a letter with my final paycheck saying that I owed the company £193. I phoned up payroll to ask what this was about and they explained that I banked a thing called 'undertime' and that I had been paid more than I had worked. I was confused as I have always worked every shift that I have been given and not missed or skipped any hour of work. I went to store I was fired from to question why this has happened and they told me because the hours were cut in the store, they have paid me my contracted hours (20 hours) but I have not actually worked those hours because of the cuts. They told me it would've worked out later in the month when it would've been balanced with an extra shift but because I was fired in the middle of the month it wasn't dealt with.
I had no formal reduction of hours, I would come in and see that I was working less hours a particular week and that was that. The area manager said he was going to send an email about this but yesterday I got another letter from the company saying they will take legal action if I don't start paying it back. I went into the store today and the same area manager then told me I just have to pay it back and that I have been paid hours that I didn't work but I explained that this can't hold up due to no one legally reducing my hours or having it in writing, I should still be paid my contracted hours and not owe them anything. He said he's gonna send another email and get back to me but he was really rude about it so I don't think it's going to do much.
I've looked at the contracts and they can legally request this undertime pay but I feel like it's an unfair situation based on the fact they fucked up and went about shit to cut hours for the store. I'd like any advice on this matter please! Am I in the wrong here?
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I left Lidl, got the same thing and ignored it. They never got in touch.
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>>18288708
Do you mind me asking how much you owed and how long ago this was? I just wanna figure out if I should ignore it or if it's too much of an amount to just waive off.
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>>18288716
I think it was about £600. Mine was for holidays so I probably legitimately owed it, but fuck it.
It would cost them more to chase it, unless they get an attachment of earnings. This was several years ago though so I don't know if they've got more hard-core over the years.
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Meeting women my age(26)? 2017-05-05 06:18:48 Post No.18288699
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Meeting women my age(26)?
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I am starting to get a bit worried. I am a 26 year old male and I am finding that the baggage on women my age is getting worse and worse and soon I fear I will have to settle for a woman who has like 10 kids, drug addicted, obese with no intention of getting healthy.
I am real worried that I have not had a girlfriend because I don't even know what I really want. I just know what I don't want.
Where do you meet women my age who don't have such insane baggage? I personally have little to no baggage. Nothing significant that would effect a relationship at least. Like kids effect a relationship. Drug addiction affects relationships. I have neither of those traits.
Help
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in a word: church.
otherwise, try asking friends and family to find someone, they'll have your back and keep crazy away.
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>>18288699
Here's how I look at it OP, if you're single at 26 with little to no baggage, then it's likely there are women out there in the same situation. There may not be as many of them, but they do exist. What it comes down to is it's a numbers game, if you put yourself out there enough you'll eventually find someone worth dating.
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>>18288699
You look like a person who knows what he wants, so why not try meeting women of different age than yours?
My boss threatens to shut down the store I work at constantly. I mean the guy flips his shit over spending on his own descions and generally has run the simplest venture right into the ground by bieng overly cheap. Our yogurt shops toppings are cheap and gross, the fruit is even sketchier, we almost failed health inspection because the guy was turning off the fridges at night letting excess bacteria form in the frozen yogurt. I'm in disbelief how much this guy can't see how much he's fucking his own business. I'm looking for a new job, only been here for 4 months. How do I deal with a verbally abusive owner that constantly does illegal shit to save money? Another problem is I originally was supposed to work 2 miles from my home but I got transfered to "manage" this other store. I get no extra pay for my promotion and I deliver supplies to and from stores including excess cash in the register. I've never worked for someone this shitty and I'm looking for advice on dealing with it. I'm generally really laid back and I work and do my job unlike most employees, so I usually rise pretty quickly. any advice besides suicide please lol.
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Oh and tldr how to deal with shitty boss
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>>18288681
If what he's doing is illegal, report him. If he promised you a raise, but you didn't get one, then you can probably report him too. Otherwise, nothing you can do about him running his business into the ground. I think you have the right idea by abandoning ship.
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>>18288681
Pffffffffffft change companies he clearly has Winter in New York temperature IQ. Either you quit and find a better job or get fired, have a mark on your resume, and stuck out in the cold desperate to get a new job before you get fucked by bills.
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Being mad but still loving someone 2017-05-05 05:50:14 Post No.18288634
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Being mad but still loving someone
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It is that thread again /adv/, let's get straight to the point.
>Be me
>have a good friend, she is a 10/10
>she hates capitalism and everything modern like me
>we share a shitload of ideas
>I start to like her
>she is okay with it since I said it neutrally
>Imnotgloriousenough.png
>Improve myself well enough, still doing it.
>Talk about sleepover in spring break
>she says it is okay
>she says her finals are soon so she cancels it
>goes to another guy and fucks him
>she is okay with me
>she tries to avoid that topic because she doesn't want to be called a slut
>I'm mad as fuck
>Icantditchhersheiscute.jpeg
Help me /adv/ how do I get over this feeling?
I can't take it, I can't take lies anyway because muh autism.
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OP here, as an addition. I'd like to say that I am in college right now, spring break is ending soon.
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>>18288634
1. Y'all weren't dating and she fucked a guy. Stop being a possessive autist.
2. She ain't gonna go for you dude. No amount of "improvement" will help. Not saying this as a sockfucking forever alone neet I'm taken and happy. At your core you cannot change and that's what women look for. She sounds like a Stacie anyways.
Liberal colleges have tons of Stacies. Don't look in your school for chicks they all got like 5 sideguys.
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>>18288660
First, she told me she did not want to have sex with anyone
Second, we used to have a pretty good bond
Third, we met each other outside of college, at a concert.
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Tiring event with the girlfriend 2017-05-05 05:28:19 Post No.18288589
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Hello, the following left me in a state of confusion and I would like some advice
>Talking with long distance gf (Korean, 23 years old)
>Good talk, feeling good, talking about sweet stuff and financial stuff for when she comes here in a week to live with me for a year
>Out of nowhere she says, "you ignored what I said"
>Ask what specifically I ignored and it was not my intention to ignore it
>"Just now, you ignored me?"
>Get a little bit annoyed and ask "what specifically"?
>she says her mother came home (living with your parents until you marry is normal in Korea) and she has to end the skype.
>She quickly ends the skype .Leaving me confused
>Suddenly she sends me a big text saying I ignore her a lot on skype, that I am not focussing on her, but that she can do it because she can multitask and I cannot (basically incoherent BS story, 95% of the time I am glued to the screen when I skype with her)
>then suddenly says that I always interrupt her which is highly exaggerated
>I ask her why she suddenly changed from good conversation to this BS; causing drama for no reason
>Say to her that I think she is trying to fight for the sake of fighting and that I do not like that, but I am open to discuss if she feels bored or has a problem. But that she does not have to take it out on me through this proxy BS
>Have not heard back from her in an hour
Wtf is this?
>Inb4 she is cheating on you, because this seems like /adv/ favorite reaction to everything.
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Maybe connection problems? Like maybe you answer to almost everything but she doesn't hear it and/or maybe it sounds like your answers take a little longer to get to her due lag and it feels to her like you interrupted her? Try some other call program
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>>18288598
This. I often have to ask my GF to repeat herself and it annoys the shit out of her. With that said, yours definitely overreacted. Don't overreact back and see if she calms down.
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>>18288598
Yeah, I really made this clear to her already. Also does not really explain the other BS to me.
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How can I be more deadpan snarky?
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>>18288582
don't worry, young anon/ life will take care of that for you.
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>>18288582
Adopt the concept of misanthropy into your heart.
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Your ideal delivery is that the other person doesn't realize it's a joke until a moment after you finish saying it. Their reaction should be "yeah, I guess... oh wait, that was a joke" and if it was clever it'll be funny