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What is dating ? What it means to be dating 2017-05-06 12:14:55 Post No.18289476
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What is dating ? What it means to be dating
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I've posted something similar recently, but I'm still confused
What the fuck is "dating" ?
>Be me, 19, collage, move to another city
> mild jet lag insomnia
>meet a girl
>she texts me everyday
>I ask her out on a date
> YES!! she says
> "Don't think about not sleeping after that anon" she says
>we go out on a date
>we talk for almost 5 hours, we walk trough parks, drink coffee - the regular stuff
>she seems to like me
>"Anon you have to take me camping sometimes !" She says the next day
>we text for a couple of more days
>I ask out on another date, this time cinema
>"Uhh, sorry, I'm just too busy right now and will probably be for the next few weekends"
>she keeps texting me still
What the fuck am I on, are we dating ? Or what the fuck is going on ? Can someone elaborate, I've never dated anyone before, I've always met girls on concerts/pubs/bars and kissed them there, this shit is all new to me
Someone elaborate, I can't fucking sleep
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>>18289476
You're dating if you go on dates.
But until you have a talk and go steady, she'll be talking to other guys the same way she's talking with you.
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>>18289490
So it's normal that people go on dates with more people and I shouldn't really expect anything now ?
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>>18289476
So you calmed down from before? Awesome! I was in your first thread.
This is dating, what you are doing. You are not exclusive yet, so don't be mad if she meets with other guys. Keep at it, have fun, and something may develop.
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>Can't feel a reason to work a real job
>Astonished by the waste of existence having one is
>Wonder why I should live at all
>Realize I'll never really be happy in this world
>I'll never have an escape from it at all
>Should be able to own everything I work for, but the society I live in has stripped that away from me
>Should feel gratification from just getting through the day
>Can't see a reason to bring children into this world now that I'm a laborer in it
>Will spend the majority of my existence tearing through it
It's impossible to change my attitude as all I do is rooted in emotion.
I was contemplating suicide everyday at the last job I worked.
I can't see a valid reason to reproduce into this world now that it's industrialized. I understand my thought process isn't conducive to a healthy life, but it's all I can see.
This world is very lonely due to the way it's structured at large.
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>>18289436
You forget to ask question.
I think you might have better success in
>>>/lit/
where they can maybe point out some books to gain insight on your fucked up life values.
Also
>reproduce
You need partner for that first. Does even somebody like that exists?
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>>18289514
There's no point in having a partner if I've no intention of having children with that partner.
How many people don't want kids?
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>>18289588
There are a lot of points for having babies, but i am afraid with your current attitude all of them will be rejected.
What is wrong op? Tell us something about you. What country, job and age?
I admit, for majority of people work simply sucks. But it is still not even (maybe even quarter?) half of your time on this planet.
What happened to you op?
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I´m doing a "sure degree", I mean, I´m studying Administration, somethg that will provide me a work in the future, on the other hand, I´m good at drawing and I´ve been going to an academy art for sometime, I´m thinking of changing my current stuides in administration to art studies, but that´s a great risk, nothing asures you to get a work in the future with arts, doing both just delay my time to start to earn money.
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You need a degree to work administration
You don't need a degree to work art.
Nothing says a man can't study administration but devote all his free time to art
I don't understand the modern obsession of "major in your hobby"
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>>18289441
But no one hire an "artist" with a degree in administration, I mean, I don´t want to work administrating a business or giving advice about it, my marks in my exams can prove it.
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>>18289453
No, they hire an artist with a good portfolio who is professional with a good personality
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Femanon here. Even though I made it to 3rd base one time, I'm still a virgin. I'm at least average looking, around 100 lbs, and smart. Why have it still not been penetrated
Some people say it's because I'm too forward, but isn't confidence a good thing? What's bad about going after what you want
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>>18289414
Gurl some guys need their time too. Make ocassions to be alone with a guy, better if there's alcohol involved. Something will eventually happen
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Nothing wrong with making the first move, from then onward indirectly guide the guy, if he can't follow basic leads then what the fuck. No need to say fuck me or be too direct.
And have you tried tinder?
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>>18289414
>skinny average girl
>wanting sex
>not getting sex
hard to believe
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I really need help with premature ejaculation. I'm keeping this girl because I can make her orgasm with my hands and mouth. I can't have proper sex. I can last a minute and I can tell she gets so frustrated. I'm starting to think I'll always be like this but I'd be interested in trying some pills or techniques.
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>>18289389
Have you tried having sex again after you refractory period? I personally don't last long the first time, but the after I get it up again I last a lot longer.
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>>18289401
This
You can practice edging, but from someone who did it for years and regret it now, just practice going for the second round
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>>18289389
Numbing condoms.
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How do I kill sexual urges? 2017-05-05 11:10:53 Post No.18289343
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How do I kill sexual urges?
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2017-05-05 11:10:53
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I don't want to watch porn. I don't want to masturbate. But the underlying urge is there, and it is tempting as all hell to contact this one girl for nudes and phonesex. I almost fell into it yesterday, but I was able to stop myself before it escalated to phonesex.
I legitimately don't want any of this and it disgusts me. I feel like a totally different person during anything sexual, and I'm totally vanilla sexualwise.
I need to be productive and focus on other things, but SEX SEX SEX is clouding my mind.
I'm alone in my room 24/7. Help?
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>>18289343
>it is tempting as all hell to contact this one girl for nudes and phonesex
I don't think your issue is "sexual" urges so much as it is the urge to be an idiot.
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I think you're just stupid dude
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Stop creeping on girls online
How do I ask a girl out if we only talk on Facebook Messenger, see each other but never have a chance to talk IRL, and I only have $30?
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>>18289260
Please help me /adv/ I'm severely socially autistic
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>>18289260
If she has shown interest:
Ask if she wants to get coffee with you sometime.
Should be less than 20 bucks and just get a part time job after that.
And be a little flirty, don't be afraid to compliment her or you'll become her guy friend
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>>18289353
Is it okay to ask via FB Messenger in my position?
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Is he attracted to me? 2017-05-05 10:04:59 Post No.18289240
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Is it a bad sign if my boyfriend rarely looks at me? I've started noticing recently, particularly when we're out he won't look at me when he talks. He'll look anywhere but at my face. He's still very affectionate though, he'll touch me a lot; such as holding my hand, putting his arm around me, initiating kisses etc. He tells me I'm attractive often and he's definitely interested in sex, but isn't it weird to avoid looking at your partner? I love looking at him, but he rarely looks back.
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>>18289240
Nah, it's just slightly autistic behavior. I've noticed that I do this too sometimes. Constantly looking around when outside even when talking to her, and being a bit shy and shit, just as never being really affectionate in public with her. Nothing to worry about desu. As long as he does all the things you mentioned, you shouldn't worry.
t. Guy who does the same and loves his GF just as much as yours loves you.
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This
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wear a shirt like pic related. :)
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Online friendship/contact chat 2017-05-05 09:38:31 Post No.18289193
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Online friendship/contact chat
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2017-05-05 09:38:31
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Hi guys/girls,
Feeling pretty lonely here.
I was wondering if anyone has tips/links for online contacts. Like oldschool penpals.
Any had experience with them?
Would apreciete the advice!
Or we can chat here? :)
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>>18289193
I'm lonely and have little friends that I can just talk to.
What's up Anon?
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Hey Anon,
Nice to see another anon here. How you have little friends. You have atleast some friends?
For years I have lived pretty isolated social contact wise. I had people arround me, but with none I had good contact. Now I find out its really hard to make friends or meet possible friends.
And tonight the feeling bucked hit a limited and I feel really lonely and sad, Altough its flow away a bit.
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>>18289222
Well I have friends.
But it doesn't feel as genuine.
I feel like I gotta be something I'm not to keep the friendships.
Sometimes I just wanna talk you know, and not constantly judge every word that's coming out of my mouth.
Only have a "few" friends though, for a long while I too lived isolated, never talked to anyone or anything. I think that has done some damage to my social ability that I haven't quite recovered from yet.
But anyways I digress, whats going on with you?
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Is it wrong to have sex with another guy while you're in a relationship but it's not really serious?
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if you have to ask...
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>>18289132
Definitely makes you whore. Ask yourself if you feel comfortable potentially hurting somebody, and then ask yourself how you would feel if they did that to you.
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>>18289136
I don't care about a guy's feelings. relationships are garbage anyways. true love is a meme. It's impossible for me to find someone i actually like.
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Hook up with a girl or no 2017-05-05 09:09:07 Post No.18289119
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Hook up with a girl or no
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2017-05-05 09:09:07
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Hook me up adv, randomly bumped into this girl, got to know her, turns out, she is definitely attracted to me and I don't know whether I should go for it or not. Here is some short Yay/Nay
Yay
>Redhead with Green eyes, nuff said, been busting my nut on that fantasy whole life, never got to fuck any...
>Extremely likely dirty in bed, can make her my fuck toy
>low end 7/10, nice petite body, will destroy her (I am a big guy)
>is 17 while I am about to hit 26 (it's legal in Czech Republic)
Nay
>Is dumb like a fucking rock to the point of evoking disgust in me
>Got ugly ass tattoo on a shoulder blade
Up until now I thought that "le brain matters" is a meme but holy shit it feels real. Help me out.
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>I am a big guy
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>>18289125
Memes aside, i am 6'3" with 230lbs fellow /fit/izen. She is 5'3 at best with 115ish pounds.
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>>18289133
Femanon here, just because it's legal doesn't mean it's moral.Go find a girl your own age.
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Show me a photo of a 5/10 woman, please.
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Entirely subjective, but here's mine.
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>>18289084
5/10 means average, so if you live in the first world a fatty qualifies if you care to make it somewhat objective.
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>>18289087
She's a 8-9/10 if her body is as good as the top half
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If a guy like to dressed up as a girl does it means he's gay? Or transgender?
I have a guy friend he always dressed up as a girl in Halloween or Xmast. He claims he's straight as fuck but I'm confused. Don't know if I should make a move or not
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>What is a transvestite?
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>>18289011
Transvestite. Is it a thing?
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>>18289020
It has been a thing for much longer than being a tranny
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Which of us is more autistic? 2017-05-05 07:45:57 Post No.18288920
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Which of us is more autistic?
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2017-05-05 07:45:57
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Should I clear up this misunderstanding or just let it go and act like nothing ever happened?
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Let go
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Context??? Whats going on here
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>>18288920
>stop by whenever (You) feel like it
eesh man, you could have played that better. Might as well cut all contact at this point, since she'll probably think your a betacuck
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I can't stop sleeping in, especially for work. I have a very understanding manager and knows I work hard at my job, but I can't keep this up.
Even yesterday, I napped 2 hours after work, then I had a full 12 hour sleep when I went to bed, but I still didn't wake up on time. Why can't I just get out of bed when my alarm goes off?
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Any helpful advice about getting out of bed would be appreciated /adv/ you're my only hope
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Because you don't want to.
Make yourself or force yourself.
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This sounds like something you should consult a medical professional about.