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>>18293885
Introspect some. Why is that people “in the end people don’t seem to like [you] very much”? Are you actually clueless about this or can you figure out some reasons why that might be if you think about it a little?

Other than that, have you tried finding people with common interests that necessitate hanging out? For instance, a couple of my friends share my love for the card game Magic: The Gathering and we all meet up regularly to play it. But this could be a number of other things: Playing sports, making music, watching movies, going bar hopping, you name it. The point here is that you meet up on a regular basis.

You say your friends don’t talk to you anymore after a while. Is that so are YOU not talking to them anymore after a while? Friendships have to be manually maintained to some extent. If you never do anything with your friends or only do so rarely then this tends to wither the relationship. You gotta to shit together to keep it “active”. Of course there’s friends who show initiative and suggest these kind of things and there’s those who are more passive and just go along. But even the latter sort should at least get involved a bit.

Iktf, no problems getting to know people but never become close
For me the problems lies in my uniqueness, many of them dont understand and I figure out they are nothing special, so its over
And honestly this is really tiring, approaching people in order to maybe find one rare bird like you, so I just stick to acquaintances and we hang out once in 3 months maybe, for everything else I have my girlfriend and family

>>18293908
you sound arrogant anon sorry to say. Maybe you just dont get to know the people that well. You cannot look into their minds and why do you think you are better then them? is it a self protection mechanism?

>>18293878
You're completely overestimating the number of girls who would be all over your dick.
Enjoy your relationship.

>>18293880
No. I just feel like im missing out alot

>>18294477
>I feel like I'm missing out on a lot
So you're completely overestimating the number of girls who would be all over your dick?

>>18293868
My parents had me the first time they had unprotected sex.
My dad routinely blames me for "taking away from him the pleasure of months and months of unprotected sex".

If you want more general data,
>about 45 percent of them will have conceived within three months
>60 to 65 percent within six months
>85 percent within a year
>93 percent within 18 months.

I'd go to a doctor after about 6 months.

>>18293868
I assume you have tracked her ovulation cycle.
Try not drinking alcohol for some time and have sex in the morning. Worked for me.
Try these if you havent before spending a fortune on fertility doctor.

>>18293868
First : took around 6 months before success .. Second : took three years (first was around 3 yrs old when we started and 6.5 when second arrived) Third : 1.5 yrs after second .. a "mistake" but a good one at that

>>18293849
this sound a bit fishy how can she feel bad after having not romantic sex? There must be something you have done to her
if she wants to go let her go even if it hurts

>>18293857

We've talked it over and over, she just didn't feel comfortable during sex, and put on that she was fine so that we didn't talk about it. Now that she's brought it up, I just don't know what to do. I love her more than anything, we called last night and spoke, she said she wants us to be together but she thinks that she needs to get over it. I just feel so shit that I've done that to her after everything we've been through. I'm seeing her this weekend, should I straight up talk about it or just blind side it? I just don't know what to do man.

>>18293872
in my oppinion its never good to ignore a problem because then you just carry it with you through your relationship and buts you under stress. Is she insecure about her body? If so then maybe think about what you say about other women

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First of all Pepe is a frog
Second of all why the fuck do you want a toad tattooed on you
First toad that comes to mind is hypnotoad from Futurama.

Top kek.

why don't you want to be associated with the prophet pepee

Praise kek OP

>>18293813
hello there i dont have depersonalisation but derealisation. I dont know exactly how to fix it but im in therapy and talking didnt help. I have started SSRI's a week ago and will see if it gets better... Can you describe how it starts creeping up and your thoughts while its happening? And in which situations do they occur? When your alone or under people?

>>18293875
I don't want to take medication thats why I didn't see a therapist about it, even tho in the beginning I was terrified and I almost went to a therapist. In the beginning I was feeling it all the time, as if I do not know myself, as if my memories are someone else's and my body is not my own. After that it started occuring from time to time, usually when I am alone. Talking to people really helps me, especially friends I've had for a long time...as if they give me a sense of self.

>>18293898
what ybout your family? do you have family?
My problem is that i have a family but almost everyone if them lives in a different country.. We are all spread in Europe and my sister who is my closest family member lives in America so thats what triggers loosing myself and thinking my feeling that reality isnt real i guess.

>>18293799
get a prepaid visa or mastercard

Just play magic duels instead.

>>18293802
Any idea how to get these in Moldova? I can’t find anything on prepaid VISA cards from here and for a Mastercard (https://www.micb.md/tipuri-carduri-ru/) I apparently have to be of age.

>>18293738
Now I'm laying in bed looking up jobs, not for the first time. But I don't want to do anything. I don't feel much either. I could probably just keep working at the hotel but it's going to get worse, probably.

Should I quit?

>>18293740
Get another, better job. Then quit

>>18293740
Why not continue working for hotels? Go to hotel school. A good manager is worth their weight in gold.

Might be athlete's foot, might simply be dry and flakey calloused skin.

Ask a doctor to be sure, if it's athlete's foot it's highly contagious so you'd be a real bro if you got that sorted out.

Buy moisturizer.

>>18293747
This nigger be right. Fuck the doctor though, go to a pharmacist and get some anti-fungal foot cream. Will be a lot cheaper. Hell, most pharmacists will ask to look at your foot first and be able to recommend something if you ask to speak to them instead of just the counter chick.

t. worked in a pharmacy

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Ayy ima bump your thread for I suffer of similar circumstances.


Basically I've been an introvert all my life and only recently (like two years ago ?) have I decided to become the man I want to be and cease being a lonely bitch. So far I've improved everywhere, but on the romantic line. Mind you, I never had a somewhat succesfull romantic relationship before, and everytime I got close to it, it endend in a shitty manner (treason, broken friendships, blood on the walls and all that jazz).

I'm clueless about what the whole dating/flirting thing is about. I get it implies some sort of "games" and that transparency is never rewarded but other than that I'm a goddamn alien. And it's making me feel inept.

I've gotten most of my shitd together, now I'm surrounded by normie fucks who hold me in high regards and meanwhile I'm still wondering what pussy feels like. This is ridiculous.

Any advice welcome

>>18293666
OP here, thank you for the bump and reasurrance in knowing I'm not the only one. May I ask your age friend?

And I have some advice, but be warned it may in fact be bad. I recommend a prostitute, purely because then you can say to yourself "I've had sex and it is no longer an alien mystical concept". Trust me, you won't be any more than slightly satisfied, and girls and relationships will still seem out of reach, but at least you'll have your nut and know what sex is.

Keep in mind I did so and am also clueless, as you are, so it seems it can't hurt or help. But it is fun once in a while.

>>18293670
Aye, I'm turning 20 this month. I understand I've still got a great deal of time before me but I'm a live fast sorta guy, and this aspect of my life has always bothered me.

Also honestly I've no money to spend on whores. Shit is too hard to acquire to literaly bust a nut on it.

what are the requirements and how much would you pay?

>>18293628
Income needs to be 25k for past 3y, you'd use your tax income as proof, need to be american

i dont have much so if you'd do it itd be to help me build a family in america, money is bonus but i only have like 3k left after expenses, lawfirm and the country itself are very expensive, my bf isn't a risk and has a very good job he just didn't have it for past 3y which is a bummer

>>18293635
i'm american, but i live abroad. i don't think this would work. sorry anon. good luck!

>>18293588
wash dick you ape

>>18293588
Wash your dick

>>18293603
>>18293607
But me too lazy

>>18293566

Just tell them you have a "type" but you don't discriminate and find girls of all walks of life attractive. There really is no good reason to have to justify your preference to someone, having asian fever or whatever people call it is almost degrading to that culture and race because it makes them out like a commodity.

>>18293583
Ty anon. Yeah I don't see why I have to justify myself to people but idk people will always pick on shit to criticize these days.

it's because you aren't attracted only to the physical features but to the assumtions you make about that race. for example: asian girls are more feminine, european girls are more traditional, whatever.

>>18293561

Walk into the sea and don't come back. You'll die eventually.

>>18293562
Good suggestion, I'm pretty far inland though.

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Take a bath and drop a toaster in with you.

Nobody has anything to say?

>>18293540
Ooohh that's a pity.
Bump.

We have to know the other side of the story. Seems you are hidding info.