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>>18297459
>I want to give up, I want my life to end.
See a therapist.

For a cultural perspective it might be nice to know which country from a to.

Making friends in a foreign country can be difficult especially if there is a large cultural difference

No of this is a reason to give up.

>>18297613
I'm an eastern euro in western euro. Not that of a big difference in that, but I do get looked down sometimes.

S a m e f u c k i n g s i t u a t i o n

Eastern euro to western euro too, I want to fucking kill myself, I have no motivation to live my life anymore. I feel like I'll never be able to fully learn the language and use it with such ease as my native tongue. The culture is so much different that I will never be able to function in this society and to them I'm probably just a fucking autist.

My self-esteem went down, all my ambitions are gone and the only thing I do is taking drugs with a small group of people who speak in english. I know they ruin my life, but I have absolutely no fucking idea what to do and I don't want to be alone.

Your post is my thoughts 7 days a week. Turning 31 in a mo, feel like shit but I hear stories of it working out with people into their 40s so here's to hope

I dunno man - I met the love of my life at 29. Things are going great. In fact, I would say relationships you develop when you're a little older are usually more fulfilling, as you know exactly what you want and tend to have more self worth than you do when you're younger.

I was in a seven year relationship prior to this, and it was my choice to leave. As far as I know, my ex now has a partner who they are very happy with. Probably happier than they were with me!

Try not to put too much pressure on it. I know I was fortunate but honestly, I wouldn't have met my partner any earlier even if I'd had the choice to. Things are great the way they are, and we're both so confident in what we want that we would be happy doing certain things sooner (marriage, children, etc). Although I should add that we're not looking to do that at the moment!

Damn...29 here and I'm going through pretty much the same thing. Been depressed af for the last 6 months.

Try it, or regret not trying it. The choice is yours.

>>18297438
Yeah, I guess there aren't a whole lot of options here, huh? I could always try testing the waters by being more overtly flirtatious, but I think then I'd just come across as creepy rather than friendly and interested.

>>18297433
pic related? Melbourne?

Almost 30 here, and have pretty much gone my entire life without any sort of fulfilling affection. Have lived by myself for years, and grew up with a disfunctional family.

Don't own guns. There are time when the crushing loneliness and despair make you seriously and calmly contemplate killing yourself. There are times when you feel like you're pretty much used to being alone though. Then, someone will come along and tease you with the idea that affection is something that you can recieve from another human, and it will break you like they can never understand when they cut you off.

All in all, life could be better, but it could also be worse. There are worse things than just surviving with an empty feeling of pointlessness.

You can't. You're human.

>>18297429
Thanks man. It mostly happens when I get sick it seems. I try not to think about it but I live alone and have no friends. There's little to distract myself with. I just wish I had someone to tell me everything is going to be okay and give me some physical affection. Sucks knowing I'll never have that. Still trying to cope.

stop being autistic

put a piercing on ur dick and go naked in public

>>18297370
I had a girlfriend like that.
You don't want a girlfriend like that.

You could at least post a video

She has like a 22.5 degree angle up and down to the horizontal, either ask her to point her pussy vector more downwards or upwards depending on what you need

>>18297397
maybe downwards. how do you angle yourself in doggy?

>>18297294
Download an extension for your web browser that bans certain sites that you choose. Bingo bango, see you never.

>>18297299
But then I'll just eventually turn that shit off and come back anyway.

>>18297303
Then this thread is more a question of acquiring and exercising self control.

>>18297251

Not worth it. You will be the same person after you lose your virginity, and them ore you do it, the more you notice the shitty aspects of the industry. Don't even start.

>>18297254
I'm not a virgin

I "lost" my vcard to a massagist, in quotes because I couldn't even get hard. After that, I went to strip clubs and even swing clubs, never having sex in those.

That said, if you have the money and is not on the mood to play dating games, I totally support it. However, it does require a sexual and emotional maturity that most of the neckbeards here don't have to be enjoyable.

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>She was a bit of a roastie before we got together (had sex with 25+ people)

Just to be clear, I wouldn't have been so mad about her not believing God if she had told me privately that she didn't. Her blindsiding me is what gets me. She doesn't understand the "team" concept.

>>18297197

Yeah she's overweight too. Gained 40-50+ since we've been together.

And she doesn't give head. And acts like handjobs or anything not sex is a chore.

>>18297157
can't really answer the 1st question but soda is basically like drinking a candy bar. Just drink water, all that sugar and corn syrup isn't doing you any favors

>>18297160
diet soda.

>>18297157

I got into butchery by being a jack of all trades in a supermarket. Stocking shelves, doing reports for stock control, checkouts, food counters - all that shit. Take on more responsibilities at your current employment, even if it's just to pad out your CV.
I took over the social media of the business I'm in and am wanting to see if I can do that full time. Thinking of going on a communications course for some proper qualifications with the SM stuff being an added bonus.

>>18297152
>but video games are such an unattractive time waste that prevents them getting important stuff done

You could say the same form any hobby.

>>18297152
I'll answer yours if you can answer me this

How can I meet a girl who doesn't shop for hours?

Please don't lecture me on how its not my business, but shopping is such an unattractive time waste that prevents them getting important stuff done. I just want a normal girl not getting distracted over silly clothes.

>>18297153
I mean at least playing sports as a hobby has its health benefits. Reading? More knowledge. Sitting on your ass playing violent shooters while we're home together? Not so much.

>>18297150
Depends on the break-up.

Do you know what went wrong?

Have things changed?

Why are you getting back together?

I'm not saying it can't work but only if all the issues from the past can be resolved.

>>18297150
>What do you think you could have done to make it work out (better)?

Not gotten back together with my ex.

Generally, someone is your ex for a reason. And if both of you haven't dramatically changed, the same problems that caused you to break up are usually still there.

It's not impossible. But of the dozen or so times I've seen exes get back together (both myself and friends) it's worked out once. And that took over half a decade to work out.

>>18297150
I just got back together with my ex after half a year. Uhm, then a month later we broke up again.

things were better but we were still having the same issues we used to have. Our break up also went almost exactly the same as last time.

I don't know. It was a confortable month with nice sex. but then the week after I really suffered.

So it's up to you. do you want to suffer again?

>>18297135
>I want to say I don't seem desperate or needy for attention

But you are desperate. Chill, channel that energy into something, and just try to start meeting people when you are out. If bars aren't your scene do something else.

>>18297142
Meant to say I don't think I appear to be needy or desperate to others.
I do want to stop with going to bars for a bit, it's just a matter of finding something else to do.

>>18297145
>Meant to say I don't think I appear to be needy or desperate to others.

You think you are good at lying, then? Believe me, it shows. When you act out of desperation, people can tell.

If you try to score with a girl just to cross out "get a loving hug" from your life checklist, girls wil be turned off. Learn to be alone, learn to be fine with being alone, adnd then getting with someone will be way easier.

>>18297120
If she isn't hurt why vet

What's the problem keep her

>>18297158
She acts as if she's been physically abused, constantly flinching at the slightest movement. Her health was my immediate concern, if she dies it'd be my responsibility.

Google dog rescues in your area there's bound to be one that will take her

What state/city are you in?

>>18297092
tits or gtfo

>>18297092
We're slowly becoming like Japan. All the good guys/good girls are too busy to be dating; only way to date is to be very beautiful or rich.

Then there's this whole culture of not trusting each other and faking friendliness with everybody when in fact you remain distant

Alienation