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You better be paying that shit nigga and not forcing it on your friends. And stop bringing your fucking dog into someone else's property. They could have met you outside at the park dipshit

Did they invite you or did you causally go over? If you just went explain to them that you didn't know they had rules like that, maybe you can fight it off.

>>18300965

Of course I am you salty faggot, and I even waited til the dog was 1 year old and fully trained. KYS fucker, my friends landlord is taking advantage of him. But I guess you have no relation to my plight, since obviously nobody would be your friend. KYS already.

This isn't my story and it's pretty horrible but it'll give you a perspective perhaps and maybe help the thread get going.

My sister was in the same class as a guy whose younger sister (aged three or something) was terribly burned, like 60% including the face etc. Reason was that their dad got piss drunk and tried pouring liquor on the barbecue fire to get it going. She was watching and he had managed to douse her in alcohol as well.

Hope your buddy forgives you at least, and that you had a semi-good reason for breaking it off.

>>18300892
plot twist he has no clue why he blocked you either while she is just using this to fuck with you and both of them are in on the joke

>>18300933

Shit man, that's hardcore. When you put it into perspective like that you appreciate that so much worse stuff coulda happened. What's the most fucked up shit you've done?

And thanks dude. I'm very curious as to why he blocked me but maybe he'll unblock me and we could talk. Also girls come and go so I suppose it's a chance to meet more.

>>18300871
>tfw no bf to choke me
why live?

>>18300883
I think you answered your own question.

>>18300883

My bf chokes me every time we have sex. I cum really hard every time he does it. I think I'm messed up

Don't be an asshole, asshole. If you wouldn't want her to do that to you, you don't do that shit to her.

>>18300872

You're right, that's what i'm thinking. I just thought playing the field was an acceptable approach to dating when you aren't exclusive with anyone yet. But she's amazing and i don't want to shit on that. I just don't want to end up alone if it doesn't work.

>2 girls
Fuck off Chad

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>>18300806
Become a greaser

>>18300806

do you eat lots of junk? stop eating junk

>>18300806
It's your diet that you need to change anon. Describe your daily diet.

Going out and getting laid will take your mind off it for a while op.

>>18300794
We're all alone. Even if you have friends or a partner, you're alone. Everyone is on their own in this world and you need to accept it. Become at peace with yourself, and learn to enjoy your own company. I'd suggest meditation, or try to find a way to give your life meaning without resorting to others. Social contact is fleeting and not a good long term basis for happiness.

>>18300805
I try to be happy and do thing by myself but i'm constantly just sad, I just want a little bit of love in my life

>>18300765
Either get better paying job or reduce your expenses.

For starters living with roommates is always cheaper than living alone.

>>18300865
I don't know who I could possibly room with.

>>18300875
The most comfy is to live with parents.
Second most comfy is to live with gf so you share the rent.
Another option is to get random roommates. Google searching for roommates.
And last option is to get cheaper rent by moving to worse part of town.

Also you have a car. That is luxury item in like 3/4 world. Maybe you can do public transport until money get better?

>>18300726
>8 hours at a time
You might have worked, but multiple studies say that you can't do more than like 1 or 2 hours (mostly 1) of productive work. You might be able to push yourself through it, but you get less and less efficent with your brain.

That said, I don't really have an answer Sorry.

>>18301549
>studies done by a bunch of nerds

Come out to the oil patch or hell loads of other fields of work and we put in long, consistent, hours daily. Thinking someone can only put in 1 hour, 2 tops, of productive work is fucking laughable and only someone who have never really worked hard would say something that stupid.

>>18301562
inb4 you say less efficient.

In my line of work less efficient means losing millions of dollars from the smallest error, or worse someone dies or is seriously maimed. These things hardly ever happen though, but are of course to be expected. Point is there loads of people that can work hard for 8+ hours a day and do it well.

Anybody?

raffing my asg off anon. join the military buddy.

>>18300836
Any other insights?

>>18300705
Grow balls and learn to set healthy boundaries.
It might cause conflict sometimes, but most of the time it won't.

start disagreeing with people and don't always say yes when people ask to hang out, especially girls. Girls go crazy over guys that ghost them

the key to conflict and arguments is never admit the other person is right, the second you do you lose but if you just never admit defeat you never lose

>>18300701
My gf and I used to be like this - realized we smoked weed every time we were together. Once we stopped doing that, we had a lot more energy for other shit.

>>18300706
we both don't do any drugs or drink alcohol though...

does that cat have a botfly inside his nose?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fU6XTZ1vEoM

>>18300679
Does she go there alone?

>>18300692
No, she's actually the leader of the church group.

>>18300721
What do you already know about her?

>>18300618
if you couldn't kill yourself then don't try again, work on yourself. realise life is shit and to make the best of it. we all die eventually. Life isn't always bad

>>18300618
A writer I really love said that the only joy in life are new beginnings.

If you tried to commit suicide, you must have been very unhappy with the life you had. You could try to see this as a chance to forge yourself into the person you want to be, and there's nothing holding you back.
Now all things that reminded you of your past are gone, and you can move forward.
Don't think about what you have lost, but think about how much lighter you are now that you are starting back. Think of your future: who do you want to be? What do you want to do from now?

If you are scared of forgetting about the good memories, why don't you start writing a journal? Every time a good moment linked to the pictures or the objects you threw away pops up, you can write it down. So you'll have it there for you.
They were just objects, you still have the good memories, the love and the affection in your head.

New beginnings are scary, but often starting back from square one might be your chance to become a person you can be proud of and be happy. You've already been through hell and you have made it, don't let emptiness get to you.

Hugs, OP. I hope everything works out.

>>18300618
see this is a a fresh start and nothing but a fresh start. leave everything behind. work on yourself as a person. make new memories.

>>18300598
>Who is worse, the person in the relationship cheating or the one outside?
The one who is in a relationship, obviously.

>Are there any situations where cheating is acceptable?
No. Unless you and your partner agreed that it's fine to have sex with others, you are a piece of shit for breaking their trust and not having the decency to leave them.

>>18300598
Only acceptable relationship to cheat in is when its an abusive one. Like if a girl was getting beat by her boyfriend I think she'd have the right to cheat.

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>opinions on cheating on partners?

Cheating is one of the most degenerate things you can do. If someone ever cheats on me, I will legit kill them for wasting my time and emotional energy. It is the real reason the sanctity of marriage is being tainted, not gays doing their own thing. If it were up to me I would want to purge the earth of cheaters and round them up in concentration camps.

>Who is worse, the person in the relationship cheating or the one outside?

Depends. If the outside person knew about the cheater being in a relationship, they are just as bad as the cheater. They are incredibly disrespectful and a terrible person. Yes the outside person isn't the one who made the commitment to the victim, but there's this thing called basic human decency.
If the outside person doesn't know about the existence of a relationship, they aren't as bad as the cheater.

>Are there any situations where cheating is acceptable?

No. Don't get into a monogamous relationship if you are looking to sleep around. At least have the decency to break up before you decide to be a degenerate. If you're in an abusive relationship your priority should be to get out of it, not sleep around. I understand that the relationship is shitty and basically doesn't even count, but your priority should be to get out of it, not to get your pussy dicked or your dick wet.

>>18300586
That's phimosis. A very mild case from the sound of it. It's treatable.

>What the hell am I supposed to do?
Come on, dude. You know what to do. Go to the doctor.

Don't listen to people on here who tell you any different, and don't look up treatments online. If you get other advice from anons on here saying, "Just retract the skin, it'll get better!", still go see a doctor. Don't mess around with your dick. The fact that it's actually hurting clinches it. Your dick shouldn't hurt when you touch it. See somebody with the training to tell you what to do. I promise this is easily fixable.

>>18300606
I partially agree with that, but if op lives in the US, the doctor will probably recommend circumcision

You can stretch the skin, as long as you do it slowly, daily, over a long period of time. There are also steroid creams that make the sking heal faster and get more flexible, which for your case apparently would be the best option, and what you should be pushing the doctor to prescribe you.

>>18300620
I very much doubt they will immediately recommend circumcision. Not for a mild case like this. I'm not saying there are zero doctors out there who'd jump straight to the surgical option but they're not the majority, and if he gets a shitty doctor he can always get a second opinion. He doesn't have to actually DO it just because the first doctor he went to advised him to.

I'd be shocked if they didn't recommend exactly the treatment you suggested (gradual stretching, possibly in a hot bath, steroid creams) with circumcision as an unlikely last resort. I had this problem - at a younger age, in the US - and circumcision was never even mentioned as a possibility because it was pretty clear that it wasn't severe enough to warrant it.

He shouldn't try to treat it himself because there are risks involved, not huge ones, but they're there, and I'm not just talking about paraphimosis either. He really shouldn't be fucking around stretching the skin on his own when his dick already hurts to touch, that ain't normal. The doctor can let him know exactly what's going on, what to do, and how to do it safely.