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>broke up with ex bf 18 months ago
>very, very messy
>own property together
>we both meet new people, but keep each other updated on financial matters regarding the house
>wanting to cut ties for good now, so we can both move on
>text him asking for an update - no response
>email asking for an update - no response
So what do I do? It's literally only a matter of signing documents and remortgaging, as I'm not bothered about gaining financially from this. My options are:
>serious letter threatening further action if no response is received
>speak to his parents who I still have on social media
>get the big guns involved (lawyer) which will cost me money even though I don't want money from the house
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What action would you threaten in your serious letter that wouldn't involve getting a lawyer?
Ask his parents what's up first, and if you still can't get in touch get a lawyer.
Or ,if you don't care about the money, just don't bother.
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>>18302903
I can't just not bother because my name is on another mortgage, meaning I cannot buy another property.
I thought maybe a letter might show my intention before paying a lawyer to send the same letter on my behalf. The parents thing is probably the best way forward but it just seems so awkward. We've always been great at keeping things business and updating each other so I'm a bit concerned that he isn't responding to my requests at all.
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>>18302896
lawyer up OP and do it quick. He may have already fucked you over
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I have a question.
Would be best to answer from your personal experience.
Situation: girl has a boyfriend of 6 to 6+ months and flirts with you noticably.
What are the chances of that situation escalating in the sense of 1) the girl pulling through with said flirt, 2) to have a relationship with said girl afterwards
Don't take this too seriously as I don't either. I'm just wondering how this situation tends to resolve from your personal expetience; as I'm not as experienced.
Thanks in advance.
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>>18302886
well I'd say girls are just getting less and less faithful so the chances are pretty good. 6 months was also the time my last gf started cheating. It is why I no longer have ONE (1) girl friend. They cheat alot these days and I'm done getting cucked.
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>>18302886
So your saying you want to be the girl's side piece? Better beta of you anon
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>>18302902
exactly. why on earth would you want a gf. I get fucking this girl but anything more is insane. Don't take them seriously. Ever.
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How did you stop weed /adv/?
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>mom I'm addicted to weed!
Just stop it, Haley.
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>>18302875
I didn't lmao
> 4 more years! 4 more years!
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>>18302898
Try mushrooms anon they can help deal with addiction/depression, they aren't naturally addictive either
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Is having no matches in Tinder after two weeks a good sign that you're ugly as sin? I knew I was not a model but damn, this is a blow to my self esteem and ugliness would explain a lot. How do my fellow ugly men cope with dating life?
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I hang out with lesbians and use art as a way of escapism
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>>18302874
Tinder is rigged, I would avoid online dating if I were ugly. I have a great face, have had lots of gfs and ons, but none off of tinder. I got some matches but not with the chicks I wanted the most, and it was pretty clear they just used the app to receive good feels and not doing anything about it. I believe the reason for me not getting all the matches and messages from all the girls is because my body was average. I've now been body building for 2 years and plan on making a tinder comeback soon. Just gonna nail the sixpack
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is there anything written on your profile or does it say something dumb like 'im just a chill guy' 'i like music and tv', is it generic?
have you taken the picture in a way that makes you look like spazz? are you standing in your bathroom with your phone in front of your face, or something similar? either of these may be the reason.
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So, I sent an E-mail to my boss the other day due to some frustration I've had to deal with at work.
Backstory:
I really love my job! everyday is an absolute joy but I have one major issue with it: I've been working for this employer for about 2 years now and I still only have the "entry-level-apprenticeship.contract" that pays me shit!.
Typicly these contracts are signed for 6 months and are then upgraded to the real full time deal, but in my case after those 6 months my contract was only renewed for another 6 months and then another 6 months and then another 6 months: I am now on my 5th 6 month deal and it's bleeding me dry economicly.
the reason behind this has been ,accoring to my boss, "that unfortunately hiring another person for the fulltime contract isn't in the budget" but I chose to be patient with it until this changed.
So over the passed few month we had 2 guys quit the job so I thought:
>"Well now there should be space in the budget for 2 new contracts, so when my current contract expires I'll finally get the deal I want"
last week they anounced that they had hired 2 new guys from outside the company, same field but still!
So they filled up those 2 spots with strangers instead of fucking me!
So I sent him an e-mail the other day about what they're plans are for my future in this company:
>Is my target even realistic?
>Am I wasting my time?
And well... 4 days deep now and still no answer!
I need to know!
if you have any advice please share it!
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You should have been looking for a new job the last 1.5 years.
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>>18302872
I currently am the boss of 6 full time and 4 part time employees. What's in the budget or not changes so much. It sounds to me like your boss don't want to move you up in the system when he's had that much time to do it. I would ask for a meeting with him and explain that while you do love your job and are ready for more responsibility, you feel like you aren't being appreciated there and will consider changing jobs if nothing changes, and soon. This could work very well and it can also cost you the job. If it costs you the job there is 0% chance that you would be moving further up after some time anyway. If they want to have you working there they will realize that you must be moved up or they will need to replace you. Employers don't like unneccessary work so if you're a good fit for the company/position they will try to keep you. If not, to hell with them. Only you have your best interests in mind (and me right now for some reason I'm not sure of).
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>>18302890
The plan was a meeting.
E-mail>answer>meeting was the idea but he's not answering.
Also it's not like I'd get a bigger responsibility, I've been doing this for 2 years now and are if not fully then pretty damned close to my co-workers in productivity.
So I'd only get a fair pay for it if I'd get the fulltonig contract.
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Anyone know what these are? 2017-05-10 12:55:42 Post No.18302849
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Anyone know what these are?
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Just wondering if anyone knows what these are?
Copper plates connected to steel spring with copper wire inside. Rectangular piece is a non ferrous metal.
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>>18302849
Trash?
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>>18302849
electric motor brushes. those are big so I'm gonna say they're for like a drill or something. replacement parts. why are you bringing this here?
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>>18303023
OP's scared someone they're close to is building da bomb.
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Bought 500mg of 20x extract.
How much should I take and can u give /adv/ for a good trip?
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>>18302837
Divide it into three doses, use a metal pipe or a bong to smoke it all in one toke. Then keep it inhaled for as long as you possibly can, and before you even notice exhaling, you'll be flying off.
It takes about 5-10 minutes to recover, however time seems stretched.
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>>18302858
I was thinking of splitting it into 4. Dosage info is annoyingly hard to get so id rather be safe than sorry
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>>18302837
>hit the whole thing in one
split it to 5 and take a test hit. salvia can fuck you up even in small doses, the trip really depends on your mental state and the setting. also be sure to have someone with you. take a minute of silence and balanced breathing before hitting it. if you're in the trip try to remember that you've just took salvia. if it's a bad trip, remembering that you smoked salvia can cancel the trip. neverthless, if you overdose and have a pretty fucked up trip, the only thing that can pull you out or at least make sure you're safe is a friend with you.
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My gf bled a bit on my bed.
It's not a particular big stain so I don't want to put the whole sheets into the wash.
How do I clean a period blood stain off of my sheets?
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Cold water and salt. Really rub in the salt then leave it there for some time. Make sure to use real cold water, not lukewarm, not hot, that only makes everything stickier.
t. someone who bled on lots of things
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>>18302829
thanks
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>>18302818
you clean the sheet seriously...
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>ex contacts me after months of no contact
>casual talks for a couple of weeks
>now seems he avoids talking to me
Wtf - why? What this could mean?
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Who cares? He's your ex for a reason.
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>>18302810
Probably broke up with their partner and was looking for a replacement. Someone else was quicker and now they don't need you anymore. Cheers.
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>>18302810
The fact that you responded was all your ex was looking for. They wanted to know that you were still interested in them or thinking of them. By you responding, it tells them that they were the winner in the breakup.
General rule is to make no further attempts at contact or responses when a relationship ends
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I feel really lost currently, and i would love some advices/words of wisdom.
I started to be depressed 3 years ago, and soon enough, i started to have suicide thoughts almost every day.
i just put up with it and expect things to get better sooner or later.
but recently, i feel like i'm truly exhausted and about to burst.
i feel like the world around me is not making sense anymore, and is even going against me.
It feels like i'm being surrounded by bad lucks that are stopping me from achieving anything.
I lost my job 10 months ago, and unable to find any job at all.
i burnt through 5k of my savings on rent and food and stuffs expecting i'm able to find a job soon enough.
everyday i try hard to endure it.
But after months of it,
i started to feel how useless i am.
and how i wasted my life in the past,
and being 26 this year, not having a degree, working experiences (less than 2 years), no savings (burnt the only 5k i have up), kissless virgin,
i feel like my present is not great as well,
and i have no high hopes towards future.
the only way i can cope with all these is to not give any fuck to anything anymore.
but it leads me to feel even worse because it's escapism.
I wanted to kill myself to end it all so badly,
but i still have about 7k in debts.
And its what stopping me from killing myself, because even if i die, i will not leave a mess for others to clean up.
not my family.
I don't even know where to begin to asks for help.
I feel like my life is at a mess now,
i'm forced to face it alone,
but i rather just quit.
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>but i still have about 7k in debts.
>And its what stopping me from killing myself, because even if i die, i will not leave a mess for others to clean up.
>not my family.
Not to let it encourage you or anything... but if you die they can only claim what you own... they can't chase anyone else for it
(though shady people try the police can shut that down pretty fast)
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I'm similar, dropped out after just turning 18, almost killed myself, hypnotherapy helped my depression and ended that (still have some side affects like anxiety but no randomness sadness, and not an emotionless slab of meat either, I get rationally upset over situational circumstances :) )
Anyway, what I thought was... I want kids. This came because in hypnotherapy, long story short I went back to a memory of 7 y/o me getting beat up, and I spoke to him and told him it's all gonna be okay. It all felt real and I was laughing and crying simultaneously as I was sat in the therapist's chair (not a classic therapy chair).
So now I do everything I do for the younger me, and/or for my future children. Not for myself, I think myself is a waste of space, but for others I can be a great help.
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>>18302815
Adding to this (same guy), keep looking for jobs or ways to make money. I'm currently making a little off tipped bets (search football fella on Facebook) and a shit job with 2-5 shifts per month, but I'm gonna make it work, for them
So I met this girl about 8 months ago or so and I realized pretty quickly that I liked her, "girlfriend material".
Unfortunately I found out that she unfortunately had a bf and I went "aaaah fuck it :/" and started "trying" to date other girls but even though many was friendly and goodlooking I couldn't really get over how much I liked this perticular girl: not really trying to like these other girls due to some hope that I'd still have a shot with her somehow.
fastforward:
>She breaks up with her bf
>I instantly go into "hell yes mode!"
and now we sit here 3 months later, I still like something to happen between us!
It didn't start out bad, I feel like I made some proper progress in the beginning when after I "switched on the charm": we started hanging out more, sent flirty texts and got pretty touchy if drunk.
But it passed into she telling me her problems about x-thing and x-thing: I've turned into her emotional fluffer!
that's not what I want!
I mean I care about her and are more then happy with helping her out with things but I do it mostly because I want more but I don't feel this is the way to get it.
How do I break this emotional fluffer role now?
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>I mean I care about her and are more then happy with helping her out with things but I do it mostly because I want more
Your problem is right here, in this sentence. This is not how you attract a girl in 20XX.
The short answer is:
If you don't want to be her emotional tampon, do not respond positively when she whines to you.
Don't ask her follow up questions about such shit. Don't ask her about her feelings.
Talk to her as little as possible, especially about shit you don't care about.
If you text a lot, stop that. Texting is for setting up dates and short exchanges of information.
You cannot make her like you by text.
The long answer:
The quest to find and take the red pill
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by jumping the gun and get physical with her when shes flirty, no need for eternal love confessions and ritualistic asking out, just do what you wana do
shes telling you about her ex because theres no new cock plowing her pussy
also note telling you things are a sign of trust and closeness, try to get closer
what she sees is theres a guy who is wishywashy around her, sooner or later shes gona find a guy who does what he wants
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>>18302819
yeah and what is the difference in that situation and the one you're describing here?
One you were already banging and one you want to bang.
If a girl ditches you for a beta bitch that actually says more about you and your level of alpha-ness
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What's wrong with just not investing any time or energy in ANYONE be it friend or girl?
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>>18302784
Well, you personally aren't going to get anywhere new if you don't invest time or energy in anything. Are you talking about being a neet and being on the couch all day erry day?
I currently invest almost only in myself and it's going great
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I was gonna say:
Nothing, just get lonely.
But: It's the ultimate social echo chamber, breeds unhinged chains of thought without external moderation.
Also kinda sucks if you ever find you need help with something.
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>>18302784
Better crippled in body than corrupt in mind.
Invest time in the Imperium and invest time in yourself.
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I've always been the more affectionate one in the relationship. She used to be more needy. We've been together for two years and I am employed part time (2-5 bar shifts per month, can't drive so can't get a job out of town, can't afford driving lessons).
She's been studying for exams for a few months, and her first exam is next week. We have seen eachother practically every weekend until a few months ago (live 20 miles apart, neither can drive). Now we see eachother every other week, occasionally not for three weeks.
She has a chip on her shoulder about proving herself to men (me and my dad) since she stop living with hers about four years ago. (Useful info for my eventual question)
She hasn't text me for a few days, not properly for a long time, and I see her online but not reading my messages, stuff like that. I'm not paranoid or worried about shit like cheating etc (she literally is all about education and getting a good job in life, sucks that's she's dating a dropout lol), but I signed into her Facebook to at least see who she's talking to.
Turns out she's got a weekend job at a restaurant last week, didn't book my birthday off, or hers (she knows I plan to take her out) but luckily she starts after her birthday, and she already told me she'd be late to my birthday (now I know why).
Basically, (tl;dr) my girlfriend didn't tell me about a job she got, why would she hide it from me?
The reason I mentioned the chip on her shoulder earlier is because I initially put it down to worrying about not getting the job, and the embarrassment of telling me, but she's got it so... why wouldn't she tell me?
Maybe it all seems blown out of propertion, but I don't speak to her anywhere near as much as I used to. I just wish she could care about me like she did a year ago. Now it's like I'm a hopeless burden, put aside until she needs attention. If I mention that, she's busy and I need to grow up, which tbqh I agree with.
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If she lies to me about having a job, something's up and I'll be ordering drinks on her next shift to say hi
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I don't think it helps that I have to much free time to think about her etc, but it sounds silly to me to try and distract myself due to a lack of interest from my girlfriend
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I am insanely jealous of my friend.
We are both in our late 20's, and have been trying really hard to "make it" since teens.
Well he has finally come onto something that has basically given him everything he has ever wanted - but here I am still struggling to get by.
We don't talk anymore because everything is about him when we do, and he is kind of a dick now and I feel like he looks down on me now that he has "made it".
The jealousy is eating away at me. Has anyone else felt like this?
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It's kinda a natural response to change.
Sometimes you don't realise it but many people are friends of convenience.
If you think you can hang out and chill about things without bringing up the gap in current life then it'd probably be a good thing.
Chances are they're suddenly a lot busier with life now rather than actively ignoring you.
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First off, are you a man or a girl?
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It could be that he senses your jealousy and decides to "poke the bear" to make you realize how silly it is. Of course you should be able to be happy for him, but if he keeps rubbing it in your face I understand that could be hard.
To answer your question, your feelings are natural, don't be ashamed but try to not let it affect you even though it may be hard.
As for advice, I would stop talking to him. I can't stand people that can only talk about their own successes. I've dumped several friends like that, you can't make them change, but you can deny them spreading their toxic ego in your life.
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Dated a girl within the group. She came into it as a friend of a friend. Got to know a couple of her own friends as they'd invite us for summer evening get together's on the deck.
We break up, so I figured I lost that social group too. Now one of those friends of the ex invited me to one of her parties coming up.
I was a bit surprised and have been wondering if I should tell her I got the invitation and that I appreciate it?
She was always great to me and sometimes I wondered if I was dating the wrong woman, but I didn't entertain it long so I wouldn't get into the grass is greener mess
Also, I know my ex and her new boyfriend will be there.
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>>18302739
If you don't mind seeing your ex with a new bf, just go to the party if you want. Maybe the girl inviting you wants you. You won't know unless you go. And no, you can't ask her, that's not how it works.
I would not want to go, but thats because my ex' new bf is my former best friend and we get into fist fights every time we meet now. I'm 4-0 but I don't enjoy fighting him. I get so angry at them first and myself later.
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>>18302739
>She was always great to me and sometimes I wondered if I was dating the wrong woman, but I didn't entertain it long so I wouldn't get into the grass is greener mess
Entertain it now then.
>Also, I know my ex and her new boyfriend will be there.
Is this a problem for you?
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If the breakup wasn't messy and you're ok with her in general then, yeah, go