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What the fuck am I going to do I had a final and forgot about and I just bombed it REEEE. what do?
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You'll probably continue to repeat approximately the same behaviours for most of your life. That's what usually happens. The trick is to find some little spot where you can get away with being you.
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take the class again
accept that you can't do anything about it and move on
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>>18303319
How do you forget shit like that senpai
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Newd to find her....please help me 2017-05-10 04:33:53 Post No.18303288
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Newd to find her....please help me
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>>18303288
That is so heavily filtered, I don't think you'd even recognise another photo of her.
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>>18303314
Dude, stop. What are you doing? You want a fucking rapist on her tail? That girl is clearly underage, stop.
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Of course not i...but I gotta find her and how do I do that??
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>have good ez-mode job
>pays well
>completely unmotivated and slack off
>it's going to catch up with me eventually
>want to quit
>but would rather get fired so that i can claim unemployment benefits
>have a pretty comfy living situation
>have a couple thousand saved
>could easily live off savings and regular plasma donations for over a year
>could also do odd jobs infrequently like basic mechanical labor & other odds and ends
>just going to keep padding bank account until they fire me
sound like a good short term plan to take a break from working? I doubt I'd actually stay unemployed for the entire time.. But, after working with next to no time off for the past 7+ years, I really miss being a NEET in my mommy's house playing WoW in my underwear for a week straight
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>ez job
>pays well
>want to get fired and live on unemployment
Okay, so whats your plan when unemployment/savings run out? Doesn't seem like your brain has the capacity to plan long term.
You have an easy job that pays well. Probably would be a good idea not to lose it.
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>>18303217
It's just there to prolong my NEETdom, like I said when, if not before those assets were to run out, I'd have another job and just work there until I could take another hiatus.
Who knows, maybe something will happen and I'll find a job that suits me properly.
Ideally I'd just like to work when I need the money, and not work all the time.
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>>18303202
What's the job?
I'm depressed and so is my fiancé.
I suffer from major depression, the constant low kind and have for most of my life, I first tried to kill myself when I was six. I have ups and downs but no manic highs. I have done drugs and alcohol in the past but have been more or less clean for 3 years apart from a through fall offs.
My fiancé is bipolar, and vocal about it, always telling me he's miserable or stressed or whatever. He just told me that at least I'm always constantly miserable, it's just a nice even plateau of sadness where as he goes through mood swings like a menopausal 2 year old (paraphrasing).
I don't know how to cope anymore, our life is a bit crap but theres plenty of good, I always make an effort to be sympathetic to him and he tries to be sympathetic to me, sometimes we fail sometimes we succeed.
Trouble is right now I want to kill him or me or everyone. I just have days when his depression on top of mine is too much, how can I cope with that? I don't want to push him away when he's struggling but when I'm going through my own shit I really don't feel able to carry his shit as well.
I don't know what to do or if this post makes any sense. I'm on my third double whiskey and I just don't know. sorry.
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>>18303166
I'm bipolar and my wife suffers from depression, so we're in a similar situation to you. We argue sometimes and it can get really bad, but eventually we kind of got used to holding each other up. Hug your fiancé, talk to each other about it and be as open as possible. Get out of the house and do things with each other.
Sometimes, it all does build up and becomes too much. Don't worry about being a burden to your fiancé at all, you're engaged after all so he must care about you deeply.
Drinking it out is going to do more harm than good.
And I know you've probably heard this before, but have you tried therapy? Personally it didn't help either me or my wife and we eventually sorted it out ourselves, but it has really helped some people I know.
Best of luck. God bless you.
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>>18303190
How do you do the getting out of the house? That was actually todays argument! He feels trapped but doesn't want to go out alone and I cannot cope with going out today.
Your post helped more than you can possibly know man, just hearing someone say "I know".
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>>18303198
Glad to know it helped.
As for getting out of the house, it's very much something you both have to work out on your own. I spent most of my teenage years indoors and hated the thought of being outside as well, but in the end I figured that I'd have to do it for her.
You don't have to do anything major at first. Even something as simple as going for a walk in the park together for an hour or so will make you both feel much better than staying at home.
Hey, /adv/.
I need help with something. I've been feeling really sick and annoyed at something that happened. I was on /tv/ last night, and I was just doing the usual thing of shitposting and trying to relax after a long day. I was on this one thread that was making fun of Amy Schumer, everything was normal, and then one thing happened and one anon posted a webm of child porn. I was going to report it as soon as I saw the thumbnail but my mouse on my laptop was acting funny (which it usually does), it bugged out and ended up on the thumbnail with me accidentally clicking on it. I quickly turned it off but I was quite disturbed by the very little I saw. I hate it when children do or are forced to do stuff like that. I tried sleeping it off but I felt a really awful pain in my chest and I was quite numb and angry. I then threw up in the middle of the night a few times. I might sound like I'm overreacting over this but I just feel really uneasy about the whole thing.
What should I do to help with this?
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get over it
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/thread
You are over reacting OP. Go watch some gore threads to build up your stamina.
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We just have to accepted bad things happen to people and there's nothing we can do about it. Just worry about those near you.
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Why do i keep forgetting everything?
I always forget important stuff, the names of common things and everything i study.
What the fuck is wrong with me?
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Bump help please
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>>18303123
Is this a tip of the tongue thing? In that case, 2.4g of piracetam each morning fixed my problems. If it's a general inability to commit things to long term memory, check out Jim Kwik's podcast and video course.
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See a doctor. Maybe you have add or some other memory issue.
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I've been seeing a therapist and psychiatrist regarding my ADHD, and they've stated that attending Vocational Rehabilitation would be in my best interests.
They performed multiple IQ/Apptitude tests and all of them noted that my memory retention and math skills are below average, but my general IQ is 105 with my non-verbal skills floating around an IQ of 125 but a verbal skill around an IQ of 85. I know it's low, but I still believe that I can perform well in college.
My only fear is that I'll go into vocational rehab, be setup with some menial job which will disqualify me to complete college, and be stuck and labeled by everyone in my town as being mentally retarded. I'm not trying to cut anyone who is down, but I was just wondering if anyone here as experience dealing with vocational rehabilitation. I'm just scared is all.
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Op here. Anyone?
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>>18303095
You cant be denied school access. If anything, you will just have to pass tests to get in.
Listen to your doctor and do it.
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>>18303095
Professor writing here.
Nothing you do and no job you hold will automatically disqualify you from college. If you decide after exploring the vocational options that you want to apply to college, you will be treated the same as any other applicant, and admitted or rejected on the same basis as anyone else.
Meanwhile, what you dismiss as menial jobs might be satisfying and build on your talents and abilities better than college-grad jobs might.
The world will always need plumbers, carpenters, bus drivers, barbers, mailmen, firemen, construction workers, auto repairmen, factory workers, etc etc etc - all honorable and well-paying professions.
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Craigslist for roomate 2017-05-10 03:09:34 Post No.18303090
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>18
>ready to leave I cant stand my "mom" shes a piece of shit.
>plan on in summer
>is craigslist good (to search for a roomate)
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>>18303090
thtas how i got all mine. i mean its a free service that connects you, everyone uses it.
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>>18303114
I just heard it's not the safest. Im a girl so do you think i should get a girl roomate, or would a boy be fine
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>>18303120
You should kill yourself then you'll be safe from all the dangers, fucking dumb cunt.
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>SAT/ACT scores were on the level of the best colleges the state
>Mediocre grades kept me out of anywhere but a mid-teir school
Lads I fell for the "smart but lazy" meme
How do I straighten myself out before the world BTFOs me the fuck out
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Who CARES ? Lazy people deserve worse than dumb people
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Once you're in college, your SAT scores won't mean jack. Maybe try selecting a school based on an actual interest (do research on departments), and then excel at it?
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>>18303093
'Cept dumb people believe "alternative facts". Bringing the lot of us down.
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Getting over losing a girl? 2017-05-10 02:45:41 Post No.18303057
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Getting over losing a girl?
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I started dating a girl before Christmas and our encounters were going great. We never hooked up but made it to second base. I came back to her after 3 weeks of Christmas vacation and she was acting uncomfortable on our date, physically apprehensive etc as though something had changed. We continued to date but by our 5th outing she eventually said she "wasn't looking for a relationship right now", which I now know is womanese for "not with you.".
Come to find out she was never really over her ex and went back to him after stringing me along. I cant help but feel as though I was inadequte in comparison to her ex seeing as how she decided to go back to him in the end. This has left me jaded and cynical I will be able to find someone who I can trust, though I now know the signs. For the record, they were high school sweethearts and I was set up with her through a mutual friend after she broke up with him since he had no job and seemingly nothing going for him. I feel betrayed, inadequate, and frustrated. I've been hitting the gym super hard and been reading life improvement stuff, also trying to get out and expand my social circles as best I can in a small town (<50k).
Anyone ever feel the same? Pic is me
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Yep except my ex cheated on me with her ex. Amd she kept talking about him to me quite a lot and they were meeting and only times we were arguing were always that fact, and she aleays blamed me that I am too jealous. BUT I was actually right obviously That I should have been worried.
I once was seeing another girl after my ex and she too said she was not too long from her last breakup and she was talking a lot about that ex so I was like fuck it.
You should ne happy you werent a couple. Fuck her. Fuck all the women not getting over their exes. When they talk aboit them its a major red flag.
Get over her, you dont need her. Sorry for bad grammar.
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>>18303057
ur a handsome man who had an experience that most every man has in their life time. stop creating imaginary problems to victimize your self. it was just a run of the mill series of bad decisions.
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shes probably an ugly ass ho, you're a [spoiler]cute[/spoiler] guy so she's 100% missing out tbqu
from the sounds of it she's also ugly on the inside, definitely dodged a bullet
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>be me
>legal immigrant to another country (not America)
>visa fuckery sees me booted out
>back in the Old Country, living with parents while I try to figure something out
>my bedroom doesn't have a lock
>people just blunder the fuck in whenever the fuck they feel like it
>I could be asleep, masturbating, working on a project, doing freelance work, masturbating, or just enjoying being nude in my private place
>put up a sign
>keeps happening
>tried yelling at them to stop
>keeps happening
>tried making it weird
>was sent to the local priest for that one
Any ideas beyond buy a new door, which isn't possible? Any psychological tricks or ways to block it easily that won't trap me on either side of the door? I'm pretty sure stuff is going missing, too, but I can't prove that. Yet.
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How about just buying a deadbolt, a chain, literally any kind of lock...
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>>18303040
>could be naked asleep masturbating working on project at once
I dont see a problem. Once they see you fapping, they will either stop frequenting your room or start going there more so they can help you with fapping.
Move out? Also there is this funny site full of broscience about not fapping (i dont believe it, but maybe you will)
https://yourbrainonporn.com/
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>>18303040
A simple door wedge would suffice.
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Should I fuck a cougar? 2017-05-10 02:10:15 Post No.18302989
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I'm a 22 y.o. dude-NEET who gave up one uni, failed another, and right now I'm trying to get back to the last one I failed. No job, since family holds me back thinking I'd have huge odds to fail any kind of future educational development.
I have some psychological issues. First, when I lost my virginity half-drunk...I didn't actually penetrate the girl. This happened at the same time when I was in a toxic relationship with a hoe, which kinda led me to going thrice to prostitutes.
Eventually, I had a half-decent gf, but never had sex with her, and all this lasted 2 months. I broke up with her on my birthday.
Recently, I acted like an autistic child on two dates, which both turned out to be made out of some girls' intention to get laid with me. And I fucking missed.
As a 22 y.o. dude, I know two chicks (one 27 y.o, and another one who's 30). Somebody suggested I should try to fuck one of them, for the sake of having a half-normal sex experience.
I've been NEETing for a year. I'm emotionally tired.
The 27 y.o. seemed more interested, the 30 y.o. one, whilst older, seems more kinky.
Should I go and try my luck with one of them?
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Absofuckinglutely.
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30 isn't a cougar you smelly NEET
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>>18302989
30 is not cougar.
And buy condoms.
I say shit like "Thank god" or "God bless you" and stuff like that all the time but I don't believe in God, is this a bad thing? I mean I don't hate god or anything, I'm not one of those autistic faggots that make fun of people who believe in god and are always trying to prove that god is/isn't real. I just don't care about religion at all but I say this kind of stuff all the time, should I stop it?
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I'm the same way, personally I just don't care and will continue using them.
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I think its normal.
I'm that an ex-muslim atheist would still say Allahu akbar from time to time when they get shocked by something.
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>>18302968
Congrats, you're not part of the anti-theist faggot club.
Now why are we bothering with this thread again?
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I think i may have fucked up on my dream job application because i rounded my gpa
Ive passed 2 online tests, an online interview, 2 assessment days and 2 irl interviews for it and im essentially now waiting for clearance - criminal, employment and educational history before i get the offer.
I just noticed now though that for some reason i rounded my first and second year GPA up to 1 dp by .05 and .04, but not my third year in my application (which is correct and to 2 dp). There are multiple causes of worry now.
Firstly i legally declared this to be true on my application and ive just realised its false (its a government job so i dont want to fuck around). To some extent it could be though that i was invited to the final test on a false GPA. On the other hand even without rounding i pass the entry requirement + GPA is not the grading system in my country so this sort of thing may be overlooked simply because of unfamiliarity with the way it is calculated etc as long as i hit entry requirements either way.
On the other hand theyre going to have my academic transcript and be able to potentially detect the discrepancy - whether or not they make a deal about or not.
So what should i do? Come clean and say i made a small error on my application - which they could overlook or could see me disqualified on the spot for . Or hope they don't notice or hope they just assume there was a small calculation error if they do (they could i guess still disqualify me)
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anyone? ;_;
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Call and explain to them that you looked at your transcripts mention you thought you knew the numbers off hand.The sooner the better.
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>>18303261
I was thinking this would be a good thing to do.
But then I also realised that my 'yearly grades' are not on my transcript, only my final grade. You have to sit and calculate yearly grades from 28 individual course grades.
Consider that my country doesn't actually use GPA (i studied abroad) on top of this.
The discrepancy looks more like an issue with calculation rather than outright deception. Especially since I would pass their requires regardless of rounding or not.
I just feel that being straight up about it, may make it an issue - especially since I declared the rounded up ones to be true to the best of my knowledge etc, whereas just not mentioning it may seem like I didn't realise I had done anything wrong (ie calculation error)
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/adv/ what the fuck is the purpose of it all.
I come from the really poor background. All my childhood I tried to get out, to be successful. And I did in the end. I managed to get myself through the good school and after many failures I landed in a relatively good job. It's a dead end carreer-wise, but very nicely paid and relatively prestigious.
I'm now 27 and Ihave "everything" my peers did not. And I was never more depressed in my life as now. What is the point of being here? What is the purpose? Why even try anymore? Even if you make it, no matter if it is job, girl or whatever, there is just no point.
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>>18302912
there is no point famalam.
The only purpose of your life is what you make it.
Please realize noone gives a shit about you or me. This should be freeing as it allows you to do whatever the fuck you want. Why have you gotten all that shit for your life? It sounds like you didn't even want it, it was probably what your family wanted or whatever. You need to think long and hard about what YOU want. Noone can do that for you.
I'm not saying it's easy, I haven't found what I really want either. I'm going on a trip this summer to a desolate place to do some real thinking for a month, trying to figure out what my deepest desire is.
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>>18302918
Yeah, this is exactly it. I don't know what the fuck I want.
I would like to be a part of something bigger than me, something meaningful. I would like to achieve something that matters, even if I know it's pointless in the long run.
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>>18302912
One thing to note is that the depression you're feeling might not necessarily be directly related to your status or success in life. It might simply be a the mental illness itself showing symptoms. In this case, see if your family and friends have noticed a difference in your actions over a long period of time. Ask your family if there are any history of mental illness. If any signs indicate to yes, then go to a specialist. Hell, actually forget that shit. If you're feel you're depressed to a point where it negatively impacts your life, go to a specialist. It will help you and change your life for the better. Trust me.