Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 1674. page

>>18303685

There are sites for this very purpose, just google it and find someone you'd be interested in writing to.

>>18303694
i went to some but they just seem like okcupid in disguise

make a new facebook, find things your interested in and make new friends. or something like tht

>>18303680
You probably should go to a community college. GPA of less than 1 means you aren't going to college, you're just hanging out with friends for an excuse to go to parties. You aren't going to classes, and you aren't learning the material. Keep this up and you will screw yourself, and in 5 years you will look back at yourself and wonder what the fuck were you thinking when you went drinking instead of paying attention to your studies.

How do you do that

>>18303680

Is it because you're lazy or because you're stupid? The first is fixable, the latter not so much. If you've just been slacking off or had some problems in life, then work hard and you can still make it. If you're just shit at studying or simply dumb, then accept that it's not for you and find a trade that might suit you.

Please don't ignore me

Dude we can't tell you what to do with your life.

You sound depressed, why don't you go do some generals at a community college and find a therapist?

At least those moves will get the ball rolling.

>>18303672
Get some food, some porn, some movies, videogames, whatever, and take a break to not think too hard.

If I were you (dunno if you're depressed as other anon said, but I am) that's what I would do.

>>18303606

You don't need advice, they do. Don't make their problem about yourself. Be there if they need you, and chill.

>>18303606

This doesn't even make sense. One of them is getting bullied? By who, the other one? Why does this make one want to break up if it's not the other girl?

What do you expect to do about this situation? Why do you care? How is this urgent?

These threads need more detail.

so what? two degenerates less. win win

>>18303601
>If she says yes and I go with her, won't it leave me even more wrecked afterwards when we part?

Probably. Your best bet is seeing her less, not more. Also, you need to be 18+ to be ion this board. I'm not from the US, but I'm pretty sure "prom" happens before you can legally come here.

>>18303607
There are some people in my class that are 19. I'm above the age limit. Prom occurs at the end of the last year of high-school in my country.

>>18303614

Whatever. Still don't do it. Good luck.

>>18303595
If his birthday was during the week, plan some kind of celebration for the upcoming weekend and pretend that was your plan all along.

>>18303600
I am not in my hometown in the weekend

>>18303610
Send a gift in the mail then. Tell him it must have gotten lost and just hope he doesn't check the date it was shipped when it gets there.

Alternatively, you could try apologizing and making it up by giving a nicer gift than usual.

>>18303577

If you can attract girls, just try doing new things and meeting new people. Probably things already settled in your life and the girls interested in you found someone else or got to know you enough to decide you are not compatible. Try meeting new girls.

>>18303589
>try meeting new girls
where? how?

I'm gonna get a part time job soon. I'll have a *little bit* of money to do things, no car.

Any specific suggestions?

>>18303590
What do you like to do, dipshit? I'm not going to feed you a life, I'm tired of OPs here asking that. Pick a class, a club, go to the park, whatever it is you like. We can't micromanage every single aspect of your day.

>>18303546
looks like new age gibberish

what do you guys have against being concise?

>>18303553
Please allow me to elaborate. When you see that your backyard is full of beautiful indigo flowers and only your backyard you can either believe your instincts that say you attracted them to you or you can Google why indigo flowers are only blooming in your tiny portion of grass.

>>18303564
so you're saying not to investigate the causes of things, because the mystery leaves more to the imagination, and that's more positive?

Yes get a good paying job and find some local hoes on Backpage. After seeing them for a while one should cling on to you if you treat them ok. Get a job you loser

>>18303538

Nice try shitposter-san, but I have a job.

It's in a warehouse, where there are no women. Hense the interest in online dating.

Low expectations make you smell weak,

The grills can smell weakness. Draw a line when it comes to standards and don't cross it.

Death is inevitable. Unless every single moment of existence is unbearable suffering for you, I don't see the point in killing yourself. You might as well just live until you die on the off chance that something good happens.

>>18303473
>virgin
>>18293702

Boom, reason to live. Easy.

Why don't you get a real job loser. Life isn't fair. Who gives a fuck about politics. And buy some pussy off Backpage too

No.

>>18303450
Invest in lube and toys. Do not put getting laid out of the question.

>>18303450
Try look at this site.
https://yourbrainonporn.com/
It is heavily biased, but i think we are heading towards vr future where having sex wont be that good and easy compared to fucking your waifu.

Also porn will probably skew your view on sex and average female and male bodies. I suggest you to fap gently without porn once per day or less if you arent horny teen anymore.

Take care op.

get a job

why do you feel entitled to happiness? why does it matter that you are American and can't leave? does anyone really owe you anything anywhere?

>>18303395
I have a job. I assume I'm entitled to advice, since that's the name of the board, but maybe not.

>>18303406
what advice are you looking for then

>>18303388

What do you do in your free time?

>>18303398

Most nights I get off work, go for a jog (used to be a fat fuck, but then decided to stop being a piece of shit and dropped 40 lbs), cook dinner, fap, and go to bed. Occasionally add a movie, some video games, or a visit from one of my few remaining friends from high school.

Most of my weekends are spent working on an independent video game that I will probably never finish, but I don't look at it as anything more than a hobby that I can work on when I'm alone so whatever. As alluded to before, I really don't have much of a social circle so I really don't get out all that often.

>>18303422

Ok, try joining a group for your jog. I don't know how they are called or how those people meet, but I've seen them in parks and I know guys that joined. Maybe join some other physical training activity near your house (in my city we have people that go to teach dancing or to help training. A lot of the participants are older people, but you can see young ones, too. And they are free.)

Instrad of watching a movie alone at home, join a movie club. Some may have a token admitance fee, but it's usually low if you go to an art center of some other left-leaning organization. No need to be political to join.

Basically, try to do whit with other people instead of being alone so much. THere are cheap options out there.

marriage is a trap

>>18303377
It used to be kind of a protection against adultery, as it used to be illegal.
Now women can sleep around all they want, then divorce you over some bullshit reason and get half your shit.
I've heard prenups are easy to do away with too.

Seems more and more like a trap to me. Sad because I really want a wife and kids.

it depens on what you make of it. marriage can be a disaster or a wonderful promise. and it stands or falls with the people involved. that means, if you are immature enough to marry an unworthy person, you pretty much brought this to yourself.
giving marriage a bad name because of stupid people who aren't able to keep up a stable and functional relationship is like saying science is bad because some morons use it to develope nuclear weapons.
there are good reasons to get married, and there are very bad ones. so if you consider marriage, make sure you know WHY you get married and why your partner gets married. and also check if you are both willing to not give up when slight inconveniences arise (a habit a lot of people have... not only when it comes to relationships) and seek help if you realize you aren't fit to sort shit out on your own.

>>18303343
Give it time. Appreciate all you've done to change etc, appreciate your value.

>>18303343
Who cares about women?

>>18303343
A nice cologne is always a plus.

But realistically, you need to care a bit less about the opposite sex. That'll make them care more about you.