This is a follow-up to my last thread: >>18293063
So I bit the bullet and gave my bird away to a friend I have, it's for the best really, but recently i've been thinking a lot about what I did to my sister's bird years ago, I hadn't thought about it much until now, and every time I see a bird it eats away at me. I can feel my guilt brushing more away every time it comes, any advice on how to help this?
>>18303641
i strongly suggest that you kill yourself in the most painful manner possible at your earliest convenience
seriously
>>18303641
Well that's good
>>18303650
Nah im good
>sit down in shopping center food market to eat my kfc
>across and 2 seats down a Chinese girl who works at the chinese fast food place sits down and eats her meal
>whilst eating my tendies, i notice her head looking up and tilts to the side
>i look up at her for just a split second it see whats up and look away. Her eyes are boring directly into me, start feeling scared
>after a full 4 fucking seconds, (felt like forever) she looks back down and gets back to eating her food
I still don't understand what this meant. It was pretty blatant. Is this normal behaviour for city people?
should I avoid sitting in that area again? or was it supposed to be a way of initiating contact?
and yes I'm sure she was looking at me. behind me was a wall and god damn, the eye contact was the scariest thing ive experienced in so long
>>18303002
Next time when such things happens, smile, wink and wave back at the girl. Then just go to her and ask her whats up. Dont forget to exchange phone numbers so you can ask her on date later.
If she starts yelling rape, just stay calm and dont run away. You cant get sued for rape when you havent even touched her.
Either you're posting this ironically or you have a totally skewy perception of the world. That's okay, it happens. But this was eye contact, some girl looked at you. Nothing happened. She might have been thinking deeply about something else and ended up staring at you randomly. And don't put up the suicide picture like that, that's such a grim thing to post, why do it.
>>18303055
I would do this if I knew my smile would not look like the one of a mentally retarded creep
my gf just blew up at me and broke up. I know I was dick-ish but I want to know if you guys think what I did warrants a blow up of such magnitude. Please keep in mind this important detail, that we are a Christian couple and I consider us pretty devout so bare that in mind
>I just got off work and at home resting
>Shes at work also and calls me on her lunch
>She goes to Christian women's conferences and always tells me how she and the other ladies constantly observe how each other is dressed and how classy/elegant they are
>I tell her "you should go to one dressed really casual and plain to make the statement that you're there for God and not as a fashion show"
>she basically says she doesn't want to and she doesn't appreciate me telling her how to dress (even though it was a very mild suggestion and I didn't think I came across forceful at all) and that I shouldn't suggest corrections on her attire unless shes dressed immodestly or immorally
>She goes on and on and on
>The call drops (as it always does for some reason) and I call back immediately and explain I didn't hang up, the call just dropped
>she orders some food and then goes back to reprimanding me over the same topic
>Eventually (this is where I admit to being a dick) I hang up on her and turn off my phone for like 5-10 minutes but feel bad and turn it back on
so while my phone was off she sent me some extremely angry messages, which I will now post, and I want to know if hanging up on her warrants this reaction or if shes as crazy as I think...
I'm like 80% sure shes never cheated on me, but she always says shit like this when shes mad
1/2
2/2
I'll answer questions if you guys need more info
I'm also pretty sure she isn't going to accept that guys offer, she just says these things to get under my skin
I'm always amazed by by people who call themselves Christian but don't act like it. She should be more worried about how she acts not how she looks. To go off on a rant over something so stupid is childish and immature. To make up lies and try to hurt other people is mean. I would dump her ass and look for someone who isn't batshit crazy.
I'm a 20 year old uni business student.
Can't find work, thus can't really do much or invest into any hobbies.
Can't find a girl. Feels like life will just go past without me having developed any emotional relationships with women.
Moreover, it seems that I can't relate with people as I have these obscure "nerd" hobbies eventhough I am quite social and knowledgeable with a variety of things.
Is there any frame of mind that I can put myself into that won't make me into another alcoholic? Will I get into a better place as time passes? I'm not willing to give up and I'm trying to better myself everyday but time after time it just feels that I'm not moving anywhere.
Please assist, anons
first of all, work out. this won't solve all problems, but you need to be fit, take care of yourself. be active. eat well. limit all kinds of addictions, even porn. spend more time with real people, it's exciting. maybe you're a nerd, but you can connect through general stuff well enough with pretty much everybody who's a decent person. and yeah, even if you can't find a job, do something. maybe try a shitty job at first, but don't waste time for excuses anymore
>>18307464
I do work out and try to take care of myself. I've also recently quit porn and masturbation to a certain extent. I've also been working on this shitty warehouse for some time, but it's usually the case that I can't work during that time because of my education. Everything just seems to fuck me over, I just need a mindset where I could actually be doing more and not caring that much, but the feels keep coming back.
i feel ya. dad had two strokes. he seemed to recover, but then he fell over and broke a rib. not looking good. mom got fired for taking time off to take care of him. my dogs losing an eye and her other eye is going to cost a lot to maintain for the rest of her life, but at least she doesn't have ot lose both now
My favorite porn star is escorting and I am going to book her.
Problem is, she has had ginormous penises including the BBC, and I am only 4 inch when erect.
How can I compensate for this?
Will she even feel any pleasure?
>>18307037
>Will she even feel any pleasure?
>escort
Pick one
>>18307037
booking an escort is about your pleasure, not hers
>>18307060
but if shes just laying there bored, it wont feel good for me.
I am also a virgin, is her vagina "stretched out" from having tons of sex with large penises or is that just a meme?
>meet super hot girl by accident
>so many coincidences bring us together
>I don't put her on a pedestal and she's interested in me as well
>never had a real relationship with a girl before
What do I say when she asks me about that shit?
I'm not a virgin but I just literally had hookups and I'm 23 now.
>>18306959
Forgot to say: i want to gf her
How does that shit work anyway? Do you just date until you're a couple?
>>18306959
Do whatever comes naturally to you. If everything has gone good so far just keep at it
>>18306963
>I want to gf her
Hott. Yes just date until you guys are a -thing- how cute :>
Will be homeless for 2-3 months starting this day next month
Any advice or general tips?
why will you be homeless?
do you have any money?
if so, grab some soap and shampoo and go to stay at one of those hippie hostals
they're cheap and better than living on the street, but only barely
>>18306907
Wife left me. Won't be able to pay for the house anymore which is already one of the cheapest around. Already in debt.
I have about 200 pounds.
I'll be waiting in an emergency Council housing wait line.
>>18306930
join the army quick
What's a good day job for someone trying to be a full-time musician?
don do it
>>18306869
Burger flipping probably
>>18306869
>full-time
I don't think you know what this word means
What's this?
A wasp
a type of ant that made a deal with the devil, sprouted wings, and turned yellow
>>18306744
I dunno. candy?
which photo is better for a facebook profile picture?
Go with the right. It makes you look like Forest Gump.
Personally I wouldn't chose any of them because I don't think that those are really good pictures of you (something seems a bit out of place but I can't really say what it is).
But in the end it doesn't really matter which one you take because who do you want to impress with a FB pic?
>>18306642
absolutely no fucking one
everyone is chaging their profile picture right now and i figured i could go with the wave and let it pass
i dont give a single fuck about facebook but my profile picture is old as fuck (like 5 years)
Why is it so hard to be a good person?
Twenty years in, I still can't get the hang of it. Regardless of what I do, and how hard I try to improve, I still get shat on and treated like a monster.
>>18306604
Because you're not being empathetic, if you learn to look at things from other people's points of view, you'll probably become a better person.
>>18306608
I do that and still get shafted and taken advantage of by them.
>>18306613
What you just said shows you aren't being very empathetic. You're thinking that you're always the victim. You have to realise people can be good, and they can be evil, of course, but try to see things from other people's perspectives.
Try Headspace, it's an app and it's only 10 sessions (over 10 days), so you're not losing anything if you do it (it's free). It may help you with this. Good luck.
hello /adv/
Generally I'm kind preson, help others, make them laugh and other shit, but people seem to fucking treat me like worst type of degenerate. They ignore me, don't start conversations with me, don't stand by my side, I mean I can stand up for myself but it's nice to have someone that helps you. It's annoying me and I don't know what to do, I hope that someone here will help
pic not related
>>18306554
>people seem to fucking treat me like worst type of degenerate.
>I mean I can stand up for myself
It sounds like you can't. If you could they couldn't treat you that way.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G4IPEBpoad0
>>18306554
I've been feeling the same anon so I feel you. I've decided to say fuck everyone else and now I test everyone I meet. I don't know if this is good advice or not but I'm just sharing my 2 cents on the matter. I guess I've become rather jaded than I used to be.
>>18306973
....so I should bring a baseball bat to work? Cos I am not an intimidating person.
Not OP by the way.
How to stop the feeling of heaviness on my chest when I think of all those years that I've wasted? Does anyone know this feeling, what is it called?
>>18306526
Shame and regret
Everyone fantasizes about going back to when they were young and the media pushes is hard. See for example.
>>18306528
Why does it hurt my chest, tho? And how do I stop it. It happens everynight when I think about my life, or see pictures of my friends from old times all grown up and accomplished things. in life. I know noone is as happy as they seem on Facebook but I feel like my 22 years of life was a waste.
Was I was in the right here? I'm so tired of being stepped on in our friendship.
You showed zero empathy and just tried to wave the issue away by offering some nonsense solution. You're a shit friend.
>>18306454
no he's not. you obviously don't ever deal with people like op's friend. can you not obviously read between the lines? first this person is asking for money (like a coward, without saying it outright) and then for a ride. It's the hallmark of someone who thinks they are charismatic and a master manipulator when in reality they are so transparent and Op is just trying to avoid the "request" subtly without straight up saying no, since this cowards methods are indirect, and if op were to answer directly, the coward would have the ability to act accordingly ("i'm sorry i can't help out" "what?? you thought i was asking for help? i'm not a charity case, etc."). cowards, man.
I am really fucking stupid adv.
Here I am, trying to solve the maths extended A-level and I can't do it.
Here in Poland we have 3 classes in liceum and I'm in the 2nd one right now. Next year I'm writing this test, called matura here BTW
Yesterday I tried solving the basic maths matura, and I would have failed it, since getting below 30% results in failure.
What can I do?
I don't like maths, I got it because I thought of pursuing a career in IT and I can't because I'm shit at maths(desu I don't like IT as well, I got turned on by the pay).
My parents are forcing me to learn this shit subject and I can't do nothing about it.
I don't know what to do and because of this I feel stupid and depressed.
Help
>>18306308
Change school, get private tutor, consult with your math teacher.
Study more. Also
>career in IT
>i dont like IT
Pick something you like or at least dont hate.
>>18306352
Can't change school. I used to go to a tutor and it didn't help at all.
My maths teacher is a fucking bitch like hard(your typical moron on a power trip who thinks it's ok to verbally abuse pupils and talk shit on them).
I don't know what I like or what I'd like to do in the future. Nothing interests me
I thought of boxing or something but considering the fact I never attended to a class and that I'm 18 it's too late.
I wish I would be able to stay a neet but it's impossible since my parents would kick me out
>>18306308
Math is all about practice, just do the problem sets (get a book with them) that show up on the matura over and over again.
Good luck!