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>have girlfriend.
>was nice when we first started dating
>now kinda bitchy and controlling
>extremely lazy and makes me do everything.
>meet girl online
>as girlfriend pushes me away, I find myself liking this other girl more and more.
>she lives nearby...
>I flirt with her, shy but receptive.
>shes into a lot of the stuff I'm into
>we have a lot in common, my girlfriend constantly complains about not having nice things, is a total bitch, and yells at me when she doesn't get her away, a constant drama pit.
>other girl is shy, sweet, and cute, has depression and self esteem issues, but never makes it my problem... is just kinda a frumpy NEET girl, who plays video games and draws porn.

I'm thinking of dumping my girlfriend, no talking it out, nothing, and trying to get with this online girl... the online girl though is significantly less attractive though, shes overweight, dresses really frumpy, and has freckles, but they aren't placed cutely, it looks like they're randomly clustered on her face, but her personality is so captivating I want her.

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>last year
>post photos on /soc/, get high rates and lots of compliments
>have many insecurities by then, vent about them there and have people tell you how unfounded they are and how handsome you are
>now
>moved forward in life, more confidence in myself irl, don't come to /soc/ often and generally have focused on other things than my looks (still taking good care of myself though)
>post photos a few days ago, get average rates and comments that make you insecure
>feel low as shit and like you're not good enough
>haven't changed too much (even posted photos for comparison before) and feel that whatever made me attractive or not back then should still be there now

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My ex-gf dumped me at the start of the year, after 8 years together. I found out this evening that she has begun dating another man for at least a few weeks. How do I move past the feelings of hurt, anger, and betrayal? I know in an academic sense I'll be fine, i'll move on, but I really don't feel it. What do I do?

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So... I've catched a cute girl staring at me in class, at first I sensed a very playful feeling in her eyes but today she had a more "bored" feel
>inb4 paranoid loser she wasn't even looking at u bla bla bla
Let's just suppose she was actually looking at me, does she want me to talk to her? I don't know how to start conversations with people I don't know and I don't want to come off as cold, like I usually am with people I don't know
Is it too late? I've the feeling I already blew it
If you are going to call me autistic please don't bother, thanks
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>tfw your sister is dating a Mexican national
>mfw my entire family acts like he's god's gift to earth because he looks like Zac Efron and can speak Spanish.

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So my "friend" and not a boyfriend of 7 months got mad at me yesterday because i told hin in the morning to meet up and smoke. This is something usual we do since he moved to an office near mine last week. So its sometimes given that he will text me hes done with work that hell go home already but before he goes hell ask me to go down for a quick smoke.

This time around im the one who planned it and he said to msg me once im free. I did not message him at 5 (thats when he usually txts me that hes done with work). I was waiting for his txt and he obly txted at 6 what im doing. I asked him whats hes doing too and he told me that hes talking to his officemates. I assumed that hes not waiting for me cause he didnt even ask me about our "appointment". Then he azked me finally if we're still gonna smoke. I said to move it tomorrow since my friend suddenly trxted me to hang out.

Now hes mad at me that i wasted his time. I didnt say sorry since hes always like that. That he never tells me what he feels. Cause i didnt know he was waiting up on me. In his defense, he did his part of telling since he asked me if i still wanna go. But in my defense, he said it too late.

I gave him this analogy and i want you guys to answer it too:
If you and your boss has a meeting at 5pm and hes still not around by 5pm, are you gonna wait for 2 hrs to text him?

His answer to that is that its the boss fault for not telling he would be late. And i told him, maybe the boss is busy and kinda forgot and is preoccupied with something else?

Please help me. Its oksy to be harsh on me and that i should say sorry to him. Im gonna meet hin later so please tell me what exactly i should do.

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I have $4500 and I want to move to Colorado. I'm currently stuck in a small suburban shithole in Georgia, that I've lived in since I was 10 (I'm turning 22 in september).
In the past year, I had to drop out of college due to an opiate/cocaine addiction. Got sent to rehab, came back to live with my parents. At first everything was going well- I had a decent job, I was saving money and staying clean- things were ok. Unfortunately, my manager was a fucking psychopath and I had to quit. Spent a couple of months NEET'ing it up, hanging out with friends, smoking weed every day. Met a girl, fell in love, got another job. I then got fired from that job for "not meshing well" (whatever the fuck that means), and my girlfriend left me for another guy.
All of my friends have moved on. They either hate me or they're out living their own lives. I have no one to stay here for. I'm depressed to the point where I can't get out of bed in the morning, so I sleep 15 hours a day. I never leave the house. I'm scared that if I stay here and try to make the best of it, I'll relapse and eventually die (or an hero, whichever happens first). I've been buying suboxone off the streets and it isn't doing the trick anymore, and relapse is literally just $20 and a phone call away.

My best friend lives out in Fort Collins, and I think $4500 is enough of a safety net that if I try and find a job ASAP, I might actually start a new life for myself. I've fucked up my life here, but I can maybe start fresh and be happy for the first time in years.

It's a risk and I'm fucking terrified. someone please tell me if I'm making a huge mistake. should I just take the money and bolt?

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I wrote this but don't know if anybody will approve. Constructive advice welcome.

Energy is the single most powerful force in the universe. Energy is that which is and was always will be the driving force of all Interaction and subjective experiences. Energy can't be destroyed, it can only be converted into different "states" and flows of energy. The human experience is an interaction of this divine energy. You can't change that which is, just like you can't keep yourself from being who you are. Your thoughts, feelings, emotions, sensations or experiences are the pattern of this interaction of energy which is just that, the awareness of having them (The knowing). Just like waves in the ocean which spread out in a specific pattern, you are the part of this universal pattern. Your existence is not an coincidence but rather an interaction of that which is the essence of "being". The only universal law you have to obey is that of your own, to be, that which you already essentially are. Everything you do is that which is already perfect. You can't do anything wrong. If there is one message the universe is trying to convey to us it is the essence of "being". There are no words to describe knowing, knowing is the end result.

Sometimes all the answers are right in-front of us. ;)

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Is it wrong to go on multiple dates at a time?

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I've started to lose all my sense of emotions and I'm not sure why.

I haven't properly met or talked to anyone for ages, yet I don't feel lonely. I don't mind my current lifestyle, I don't feel good nor bad about it. All I have is this gray, monotone feeling, like nothing really matters.
I used to be a very emotional person, if I didn't talk to anyone for a while I'd feel lonely and depressed, if I sat inside all day I'd feel bad, I used to crave social interaction and feel excited before events and such, people and things used to interest me. I used to be curious.

Now I don't care about anything. Friends, girls, work, traveling, things that used to interest me doesn't matter at all anymore.
I'm not saying I wish I cared again, but life at this point seems so dull and meaningless. I don't know how to move on or what to do next with my life.
I have a few hobbies which I spend pretty much all my spare time on, they don't make me feel much better, they just kill time and are more of a routine.

Anyone with similar experiences? What happens next? How does one deal with this?

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Hey guys over the past two years ive been getting fit and now i finally have my dream body. I dont want any roasties i just want a qt to love me. I dont want roasties to like me just for my body, i want a meaningful relationship where i will be loved

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Is it okay to quit your job without a 2 weeks notice?

Long story short, I started working at a steakhouse as a server about a month ago. It's 45 minutes away. At first I didn't mind because I was desperate for a job and needed to start making money asap. But the driving is getting annoying especially with traffic it can take up to an hour drive. The money is average. Not worth my driving back and forth imo. I don't feel like working there for another 2 weeks. Mother's day is coming up so this weekend will be slammed so I won't quit just yet but after this weekend it will be slow and not worth my time.

I just want to quit but I feel uncomfortable because they're already short on staff and a bunch of people already quit because they graduated from college. I feel bad but my car is old and I don't want to drive back and forth for average money. What should I do?

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Why do some people get born with gray hair? What does gray hair mean in babies?

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A very long time in the future, I'd like to get a different iPhone, especially if this one is broken beyond repair for whatever reason. Basically the reason is I'd like more than 12 gigs of space (it says sixteen but it's several gigs less of space).

Because this purchase will likely cost me hundreds of dollars (with the phone, case, screen protector), I just came here for advice.

iPhone SE looks small, but upon reading the technical specifications, it might fit my bill, but, how can someone text on so tiny of a screen? Someone please fill me in on this. I do a lot of texting in landscape mode and even then I make a lot of mistakes.

Yeah I guess that's my main question. How does typing feel on an iPhone 5, 5s, or SE?

Last question: what's the most reputable place to buy an iPhone? I've got amazon, Walmart.com, an Apple Store, and straight talk's website. Yes I plan to use it with straight talk. There's a lot of options and I wanna make sure I don't get scammed

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How do i convince a dude i like to get a medical check up after having a skanky girlfriend?

Im not here to judge her life style, but the idea of hooking up with this guy makes me paranoid.