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>>18305599
My friends are basically like yours. We joke about everything. It's hard to have a completely serious talk about stuff. But that's probably because we've realized there are very few things worth taking seriously. Although we tend to be much more clever about it than just calling each other fags. We are all a bit smarter than that.

And no, it doesn't get draining. I look forward to it.

>>18305618

Right, to me it often looks like making jokes is just a social crutch use to avoid talking about something normally.

It's also frustrating if one of us is speaking to a girl or something, then another of the group always goes in with the joke's and end's up fucking up the other guy's game.

>>18305599
Maybe it is time for you to grow up, and tell them all it is time to stop calling each other fags and do something better.

Maybe it wont work, but maybe it will.
>get new friends

>>18305560
No. Just leave.
I was in a similar relationship and situation, I know the agony you talk about, it sucks man it sucks so much. Cut her out again now.

>>18305560
Are you fucking retarded OP? Block her and never speak to her again, she is clearly pulling you along with a rope around your neck, don't let her.

If she had feelings for you only she wouldn't do this shit and make you question yourself so much that you had to run to 4chan for help, seriously think about this.

You're wasting your time with her, find someone else who appreciates you for you because she clearly doesn't.

>>18305590
I've been on that train of thought as well.
Would it be absolutely retarded to see if i could bang her then ghost her?

you should ask her out next week and stop waiting for a chance
also 18+ board

>>18305490

That's months away, way too soon. Just ask her out on a date, if you're interested in her.

>>18305492
I turned 18 last last month

>>18305482
What's her reaction to your unusual behavior if you've shown any?

>>18305496
The only real unusual behaviour I've shown is not finishing drinks I've ordered out of fear of throwing up. I can talk to her fine, I just feel really ill when I'm with her.

>>18305511
How is your relationship with her and how comfortable are you guys around each other?

>>18305459
Wealthy people can hire Mr Goldberg if/when they get caught. Can you?

>>18305466
No. But what would they have done?
I don't know... I feel like they played me for a chump. Playing off my fear that I would get caught or something.

But I remember one time they said they overpaid me and took it all back, I can't even remember how that panned out but- what's the worst they would have done? I would have said
"Oh sorry I didn't know I was breaking the rules"
And they either would have said, "it's okay we will let it slide and be more clear in the future" or been like "we need the money back" but either way it would have been the same.

>>18305506
They would take the risk since they can afford to deal with any kind of negative consequences. The joys of being too big too fail.

>But I remember one time they said they overpaid me and took it all back
Completely different scenario either way.

>"Oh sorry I didn't know I was breaking the rules"
Ignorance is never an excuse. They could've shrugged it off but they could've easy sue your ass for attempted fraud too. Depends a lot on the contract and what else.

You're almost done with uni and you got a job. No point worrying about how things could've turned even better. And you did it fair too without a system designated to give you a fellatio at every opportunity. There will be chances to make 6 grand look small in the future, focus on that.

Why would it?

>>18305437
Yes, gaining weight in muscle and fat will generally make a skinny girl more curvy

>Can squats improve breast size?
Kek no

>>18305437
>Is it possible to change a girl's body type from skinny to curvy and athletic?
This question is not asked enough around

>>18305389
I got dumped by email when I was living in Japan.
College boyfriend and we had been together 4 years. It fucked me up so badly. My life really hasn't been the same since.

>>18305389
i havent had to do this but i would think the best way would be talking over the phone. or tell them that you "want to talk" next time you see hem in person. they can prepare themselves for it and stuff and you both know whats gonna happen. its a shitty situation

>>18305485

Thats rough. Sorry anon

>>18305249
yeah your dick is way bigger than the average, it's coming from you. I don't know man, meditate on your dick.

Vag depth is only 3-5...maybe sometimes 6 inches deep. Why would you need more? Unless you want to do balls deep anal.

Try to look at it from the side instead of looking from the top. It always looks smaller from the top.

In terms of things like potential salary and job security, engineering is probably better than computer science. Finish your degree, and then decide what you want to do.

>>18305219
I studied ChemE for the money. Graduated and immediately ditched it to work in a field I actually gave a shit about.

Its not like you're locked into what subject you studied.

>>18305232
What was your second field? Did it require you to get some other qualification?
Just want to know the degree of freedom in career changes

>>18305208
You can work on a student visa, but you'll get fucked in the ass being tertiary education costs in pretty much every country you go to.

I have no idea what the process is for a working holiday visa for any country

Why these specific countries? There are much nicer places

>>18305251
lower cost of living desu. They aren't too bad i don't think

>>18305198
I doubt HR is going to give your answer as much thought as you are. Do you realise how many applications they must get?

bump?

>>18305198
Apologize, promise them to personally talk to your superior to order it later and suggest an alternative.

Also since it's clearly a shittier job, your answer doesn't matter too much unless it sounds absolutely retarded.

>>18305195
I'm housemates with old high school friends I kept in touch with

Try to room with people you already know?

>>18305199
i already asked them. They;d rather live at home and not have their names on a lease than move out and have to pay bills.

Honestly, i just wanna live with a bunch of people that like playing video games.

>>18305207
>Honestly, i just wanna live with a bunch of people that like playing video games.
No, you THINK you want to live with a bunch of people that like playing video games.

Coming from someone who has had 2 friends kill themselves (one may have been murder but we never figured it out) it leaves a terrible legacy to your name. Stop. Take a breath. Realize that your conditions are better than a large majority of the world. Yeah people suck, that'll never change. You probably have family and friends who would be devastated if you killed yourself. Im not a very financially successful person but I've been through enough shit times to be able to step back and appreciate that I'm alive. It's never that bad....and usually there is a source to your struggles. Find it. I'm also really high but ultimately don't do it. We need as many good people on the planet as we can get

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>Why do I have such a shitty outlook on life?

Because you chose it.

>Why do people piss me off so much even though I'm truly a nice person?

People can be different. Sometimes things can arise in us that might make us reject them or maybe feel ''not so nice'' about them.

I believe this is ok. Entertaining these feelings or not exploring them to a point where your each a satisfactory conclusion (one where you might realize and come to terms with the origins of your anger) is what seems wrong to me.

Even though I know this Its been years but I think, for me, I am getting over it.

>Why do I fail at everything I do?

A very broad question. I know why I failed my tests and school in general, I chose not to go to school, take them, study or give my homework.

Like this I could find other examples where I ''failed'' and see if it was because of me or because of outside factors.

>So many questions can someone on this thread actually help me?

How can I help?

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>>18305188
Just channel all your self hate towards minorities and people who aren't like you.

Build up more self confidence. I don't care how pretty they are, they still take a shit and wipe their ass like everybody else. So, I don't care who it is, I never feel intimidated.

thats a paradox you just described

You could call it that but there is actually another meaning. You have to look at things differently to start boosting your confidence and self esteem. They may be pretty but they are also just people. While they have looks they are deficient in other ways. You may feel your looks are inferior to theirs but I sure you excel in other areas. We're a mix of different people and you can't judge quality by the package.

>>18305133
Low level work in the public service. Support areas, not in the core areas

whole foods can pay their managers and sups close to 30k+

>>18305164
I heard Whole Foods pays similarly to Trader Joe's, and Trader Joe's managers and sups make $70k+. In fact, a Trader Joe's SM makes six figures starting pay.