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I'm 27 years old. I adopted my son when I was 23, he was 10. I enrolled him into a nice private high school last year. Turns out his biological brother goes to the school they became friends. Should I tell him he's adopted? Or should I let him find out himself?
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>>18307498
>or should i let him find out himself?
why? how would this be in any way helpful or good?
the only reason i can think anyone would wnat ot do this is part of some story telling prophecy moment.
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>>18307498
>Should I tell him he's adopted? Or should I let him find out himself?
Tell him he's adopted and let mommy give him a blowie.
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I'm missing something. How can he be adopted at 10 and not know he's adopted? You certainly weren't around for most of his first 10 years?
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How do I stop hating myself without becoming one of those egotistical bags of shit that can't stop talking about how great they are?
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>>18307457
Its impossible, things are always black and white, god forbid you stop being an edgy fuck and find a nice middle term
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>>18307457
Why do you hate yourself?
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>>18307457
Work on a skill or set of skills. Embrace them. Now surround yourself with other people doing the same.
Odds are you won't amount to a dirtbag unless it's apart of who you wanted to be in the first place. Or you're surrounded by cunts and want to fit in instead of finding a new community.
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What is the truth about porn and masturbation?
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I feel like I am being led astray. Some say porn is just fine and jerking off as much as you want is just fine.
Others say porn is "cuck tier" shit and should be avoided and masturbation fucks you up.
So what is the true? I personally love watching porn because I like seeing nude women. I also like masturbating because it helps me be less bored. Also, it keeps me sane. I imagine not masturbating for 1-2 months and all I can think is "Wow, that sounds fucking retarded.. would it even help me?"
What is the fucking truth? Its crazy because you never hear women having these issues. Why is that? What is it about the female form that grants them near immunity to over masturbation and porn addiction?
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see for yourself. just try for a day or two. personally, I quit porn because I feel slightly better without it. no superpowers or other faggot shit. but slightly better, more connected and in the moment. you can still enjoy porn once a week no problem, but you probably better limit it then to an hour or so. if you have the will power. do you? if not, begone completely
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The truth is, as usual, somewhere in the middle. Porn and masturbation are fine in moderation, however they can be abused.
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as long as you're able to get off without porn when you feel like it you're probably in good shape
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Has anybody been more addicted to bestiality porn than cocaine?
interested to hear from fellow experiences on either topics.
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What's wrong with some knotty dog dick?
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>>18307356
If anythingdominates your sexual repertoire then it's gonna be a problem
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If you are doing cocaine and watching beastiality then you are fucked beyond believe. Stop snorting and atleast if you're going to watch porn just watch people, god damn man.
What hairstyle should I get?
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>>18307259
A Hitler Youth. By which I mean you find an Aryan boy to march you over to the nearest death camp.
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>>18307259
Go to barber
Ask for Brooklyn on sides and around the back of head
Cut down sides a little bit.
Get bitches
It's easy Anon
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Taper fade
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On an unrelated topic.
If I was to drop out of college in my senior year, with only three classes left, do you think I could file an appeal to finish my coursework?
Or would I have to jump to through some major hoops to finish my degree?
Need someone to tell me how fucked I can potentially be, and if I should start signing up for the military in a very desperate attempt to not become a total failure in life.
Pic is vaguely related, I'm very, very numb.
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It is possible to withdraw from the semester without throwing away all of your progress. If you need time off, no one I forcing you to take your classes continuously or consecutively. As long as you dont let your prerequisites expire (going more than 2 years without using you trigonometry credits for example) you shouldn't have any major issues.
This is from personal experience at a public university in Utah though. Check with your school before you do a thing retarded or permanent
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>>18307243
Well, they kinda don't help anyone. I attend a UC.
I'm also broke, and survive because I'm a student.
I'm thinking that this is my only option desu.
If I don't graduate, I'll have to work a shit job in at taco bell. If I graduate with an engineering degree, at least I'll be the manager at that taco bell.
But If I did drop out, what would you recommend?
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>>18307227
coincidentally, suicide is always an option, right?
I mean it's looking mighty tasty right now.
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In an effort to move on, burn the toxic bridges that kept me down and clear up some mental space, I sent pic related to a long time fuck buddy I had. I am content and happy that I finally got to tell her everything I was so afraid to before, as when I was depressed I was timid and easily influenced by others. However, she responded to the email (which I explicitly told her not to do). Can anyone give me insight into why she responded? I am J for context.
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Her response
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Because you criticized the fuck out of her. Most people don't just sit back when others insult them. She was hurt, so she struck back. Just like you wanted to tell her your feelings, she wanted to tell you hers.
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writing anger out of yourself is a good thing
pressing the send button is not
you cant just say dont answer then attack her, good for the girl to put you in place,
you behaved like an angry kid throwing a tantrum
this chick hurt you somehow and you wanted to hurt back, it doesnt work like that anon
if you dont want anything from someone, you dont write them a tirade, be a bit more mindful, but you angry, which is ok, lashing out is not though
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I have to fundraise $1,845 in exactly one month. I'm going on a Christian missionary/humanitarian trip to the third world to do some good, etc.
Probably is I have no idea how to even get this money. Do I just ask for it from friends and family? Do I ask strangers? Post on social media? What?
What are some fundraising ideas that people can feel like they're contributing to this really important thing and help me raise the money in only 4 weeks?
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You want people to pay for your vacation.
Fuck off. Work -> Save -> Play.
No shortcuts.
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>>18307225
I could go into what we're doing and where we're going but I don't think, by any stretch of the imagination, this could be considered a "vacation."
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>>18307230
You are traveling some distance, probably abroad, to have experiences and meet people. That is a vacation.
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My boyfriend is literally disgusted by my vagina. When we first started dating, I quickly learned that he dislikes doing oral, and it's not my favourite sexual activity, so I was okay with that. But sometimes I want to enjoy something different, you know? So we tried doing 69 - he suggested it too - and he lost his erection because of it. I can't even be mad because he's not being an asshole or r9k-type guy about it; he looks sorry. So it just makes me sad. He would probably suck my dick if I were a dick girl, and that hurts the most. Plus, the reason he's so affected by it is because his first girlfriend tasted really poorly so he got turned off from vagina forever. I understand, but at the same time, that excuse is what guys always complain about on advice - "my girlfriend used to give blowjobs but then she was traumatised by it so she doesn't give any to me" - and everyone tells them that she's being selfish. How is this any different?
I don't know. Are there any solutions for this? It's not a deal breaker because it's not my favourite sexual activity, but I would like it if I could ask him for whatever I felt like, sexually (since I do whatever he wants).
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>>18307102
Time to FORCE him to like it! Sit on his face . every. chance. you get. Fuck it, that's what guys do all the time and they don't give a shit. It's your turn. Get it girl!
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>>18307102
You are dating a closet homo.
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>>18307102
For a split second I thought I was on /cgl/ and this was the Anime Expo thread
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>Age
18
>Savings
$3000
>Debt
None
>Monthly income
Around $4000, soon to be $4500 with a max potential of $ $5600 if I work 60 hrs per week
>Financial question
I want to save up until I'm 20-21 and put a down payment on a house near a college I'll be going to and rent out the spare rooms while living there and attending school. Is this a good idea?
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>>18307099
Where do you work bro?
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You got to invest in that down payment. Once you do, mortgage shouldn't be that bad considering your income. Renting is a good idea if you're willing to put up with ppl's nonsense.
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>>18307099
sounds like a good idea to me. stay focused and this will be entirely possible.
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I have an over 7" penis that's a bit over 5 inches in circumference erect. I know this is above average so I should feel happy about it, but honestly my sex life sucks. Despite this, I'm generally awful at dating and almost never get laid. I've never been able to hold down a girlfriend up to 25.
What the hell am I doing wrong?
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>>18306968
lul tfw anon thinks having an above average penis alone will sustain a relationship. Like how about try holding an interesting topic of conversation? Or building a personality? Or at the fucking least learn some techniques to pleasure a woman?
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>>18306968
>Despite this, I'm generally awful at dating and almost never get laid.
Yeah, you date with your personality and looks with clothes, not with your penis. So I don't see the correlation here.
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>>18307175
mine is that brown curved one, but a bit thicker and darker. the curved can
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So, I feel like an idiot asking about this, but after stumbling on a thread about it and researching it, I've started thinking I might have ADHD-PI. I sound like I'm making excuses even to myself, but I also think I do a lot of things that aren't normal and go beyond laziness or a lack of discipline.
The most blatant and embarrassing example I can think of is that if I'm doing anything mildly interesting and I need to go use the bathroom then I'll just hold it in until the need is pressing and I'm squirming in my seat. The same goes for eating, even right now I probably should have gotten something to eat over two hours ago, and I only remember because my stomach hurts. I guess I don't do it because it's either too boring, the thought that I need to go just leaves my head after thinking it, or both. I struggle to do anything 'boring' until the last possible minute, even if I'm screaming at myself in my head to go do it, how easy it is, and I'm feeling anxious and horrible for not doing it.
My sleep schedule is also always moving forward. I never really go to bed unless I'm already struggling to keep my eyes open both because I get too sucked into whatever I'm doing and because I'll just lie in bed for hours with my thoughts racing while wishing I was doing anything else. I can't even seem to finish doing things I want to do. I have a plethora of half-finished games that I enjoy playing, but just lost interest in for no apparent reason. I started playing a game at 11PM thinking I'd only play for a couple hours, next thing I know it's 9AM, I've fucked another attempt at fixing my sleep schedule, and I haven't touched the game since. I spent an hour looking up the best translation of a book, read through a couple chapters before deciding I needed to go do something else, and I've never even looked at it since.
Do these seem like things I should see a doctor over? Do other people have these problems and I'm just a failure at dealing with them?
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I can give more examples, like for instance, I'm starting to think that it taking me about an hour and a half to write this down might be related. Those were just the clearest examples I could think of.
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>>18306939
go see a doctor
in the end a diagnostic about a mental trouble is only to make you feel secure; you hanging to a label
A label is just going to limit you in the long run. Always. You should get rid of them, not hang on to more of them for a false sense of security.
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>>18307012
I wouldn't ever define myself around a label or use it as an excuse but I think having an understanding of why you are the way you are helps make it easier to recognize problems you're specifically having and develop strategies to deal with them. All I've read also says that ADHD medication is incredibly effective at dealing with the symptoms, to the point that a majority of people using it are completely normalized.
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There is this ugly asian chick who keeps fucking stalking me around campus, even when I've literally given her zero interest and ignored her. Do I physically have to walk uo and tell her to go the fuck away? It ruins my day when I see her
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post pic of her
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yes tell her off
once you do, if you see her again you'll have grounds to take legal action maybe
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>>18306910
poor stalker girl. She'll never get a taste of your apparent fine ass, anon lul
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I love to flirt. In the flesh or online. I don't send pictures or at least never nudes. I enjoy knowing male or females find me sexy and i love the idea of them masturbating to the thought of me. I am in a serious relationship but i don't view this as wrong. I recently told a friend about this and she considers it being in unfaithful. I consider it harmless fun and think if we all had a bit more flirting in our lives.
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Cont. We would all be a lot happier.
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>>18306889
>I am in a serious relationship but i don't view this as wrong
fucking dropped
why are you turning people on if you have someone to be faithful to?
fucking slut
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>>18306889
Do you flirt in front of your partner ?
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Share advice based on the shit you've been, so we can learn from each other. Anything at all. I'd chip in that you should never alter your beliefs to appeal to people, it will elevate you in the eyes of your peers if you're self reliant enough to not need to suck up to them by always agreeing with them. Be selfish, that way people know they're not as likely to get away with fucking you around because you can afford to cut them out of your life.
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If I had to give advice that is universal, I'd say to never give up. It's strange advice because often life shows us the opposite. You may be born not as the ideal, you may be incompetent, unattractive. You may be too nice, too violent, too whatever. You may be going though hell right now and there are no signs of it stopping. No matter what the situation, no matter what the consequence, no matter how bad it seems or how crappy your hand is in life, don't give up on what you desire. You'll have to face a multitude of demons, people who hate you for shallow reasons, people who laugh at you and make fun of you. But if you persist even after all of that you'll gain something amazing.
I'm not saying it will always work out, but don't give up no matter what it is you want. Go for it with all of your being.
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Give a man an inch he takes a mile
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It is better to do and regret than to regret not doing at all.