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>>18308222
Congrats on showing her you ave no life. Nice trips though.

>>18308232
What do you mean "nice trips"?

Well, the good news is you're going to be a virgin for quite a while, so it doesn't matter if it's normal or not, you're harmless either way.

>>18308186
You had a positive interaction with a girl, and it was about sex. Your brain is urging you to explore this thing that might possibly lead you to sex. That's why you suddenly live BDSM. It's normal, but it implies you need to get laid, bad.

Btw BDSM is fucked up.

>>18308186
I've had a very similar thing happen to me with a girl i know online.
i mean sure I've thought about tying her up a couple of times.
but just control yourself and use your head instead of the head in your pants.

>>18308071
get mental help if possible, although the relationship might be beyond saving at this point?

in the meantime, figuring out what your triggers for shitty behavior and how to avoid / minimize them may help a little.

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>>18308071
read this book

>>18308089
do u have a pdf link?

>>18308065
Find a parallel to your interest that allows you to still pursue your interest in your off time.

I once heard a comedian say, "Never turn something you love into a job. That is the fastest way of turning it into something you hate." And it makes sense, when you think about it.

I like fucking fat woman and eating cheeseburgers. If I had to do both simultaneously for a living, I'd be one unhappy Gonzo pornstar.

>>18308065
Public service, teaching

you can be the next Indiana Jones

>>18308061
I feel you completely, anon.

Here's a little secret that I've found in life. People that actually "love" things don't actually talk about them constantly.

Good dog owners let their dogs become a facet of themselves, and don't constantly try to project their pet as some extension of their persona.

"Oh my God, I love my dog so much!"
"Oh my God, cats are SoOoOo much better than-"

Just shut the fuck up already!

>>18308069
see! my girlfriend is almost becoming like that. no kidding over the years these people made me almost tsundere for dogs, because it was just fueling my jealousy of them being able to have one

>>18308069
wait you have a doggo?

>>18308051
do it now. NOW. I SAID FUCKING NOW WHY ARE YOU READING THIS.

if she says she doesn't like you it might hurt for a bit but at least you won't keep living your life with a fantasy about how she was the one.

>>18308051
nigga do it just dive in. no regrets

no, sloppy seconds are the worst

>>18308035

Are you going to meet for your uncle's funeral or is it too late for that?

>>18308043
After that. It's been a month. I'm back in my city.

I seriously have no choice but to ask her to courier it to me.

>>18308035
Dude, just head over, give her bring some beer. Say that you just want to talk about your dead uncle.
Get wasted all night with her. Get your shoes and leave.
You don't have to apologize, just say that you wanna bury the hatchet.

>>18307997

Lose weight, you could do it anon. Work on yourself first and care for yourself.

>>18307997
>abloo abloo im 18 and im going to kill myself because girls dont like me
They should bump up the minimum age for 4chan to 25.

>>18307997
how small? I'm about to be 19, I'm 7 inches, with great girth, and I feel basic

Does your name start with S and end with H?

>>18307992

lol no. But does it help if I say yes?

>>18307998
No. I was just making sure you weren't one of mine haha. I'm sad too. Go make friends online and play vidya, remain as anonymous as possible with these friends. Give them a user name and only little generalizations about yourself to make them not curious and you'll be alright. Tell your boyfriend to stop being a cunt and pay attention if t really hasn't noticed a change in behavior. Know that all things will come to pass. You are not the same person you were 5 years ago. Look at your situation in a funny way and make a joke out of it to squeeze an experience of it. You as a person should not stunt yourself because of your family. Its hard i know but you really don't have to love the family you were born into.

Cute sissy!

Get swole

By taking the hint and not getting insecure about a girl that's already matched with you. You're an absolute faggot.

>>18307942

kids are weird, unless she has persistent short genes, or you have short relatives, it'll be a crapshoot.

>>18307951
honestly I've just always wanted a tiny girlfriend I could easily lift up and carry around like a toy. I lift regularly but mostly dated girls of "normal" size. Never been with a girl who was even 4'11", I sent her a voice message saying i wanted to benchpress her and she told me she's 90lbs, she's a mouse! is it bad to be so turned on by the thought of being with someone so tiny? i'm the shortest of all my brothers so maybe there's a chance it won't be more manlets...

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bump

She has a viewpoint, you'd do well to understand it, and its depth. Is this mild annoyance, or an affront to her core values?

You may disagree with it, but you better address it if you are going to keep this friend in your contact.

>>18307909

Your fiancé, has every right to feel that way, because they do. Youll never understand the discomfort she faces, since you are not a woman.

They also have been ruining womens only sports, undermining actual women, who are biologically female, and not mentally ill crossdressing individuals whos sickness is encouraged by government and society at large.

Your fiancé is redpilled. Good for you.

>>18307895
you're just a rag for her tears, worry about your own fucking life. just stop talking to her. seriously, no goodbyes, no having it out or anything, fuck all that. just stop answering

she's feeling bad because some chad has been pumping her and then ghosting her on a regular basis.

while you sit here "thinking about u hurting" she's literally legs akimbo right now getting drilled, bet on it

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I'm in a situation that is eeriely similar. Nothing seems to be working. She has such bad self perception and it's all because her parents weren't loving and supportive and of course society is generally shallow and indifferent.

It sucks, man. I love her, and she loves me, but I can't get behind her defenses. It hurts to keep on pushing and trying to let her let me in, but I keep feeling pushed out. It's not even her fault, you know. She just doesn't want to be hurt, and I can't prove that I wont' hurt her. I mean, honestly, I can't even prove myself of that because in a way I'm guarded too and am too jaded. This world just screwed me over on this one.

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>>18307925
>I can't get behind her defenses. It hurts to keep on pushing and trying to let her let me in, but I keep feeling pushed out. It's not even her fault, you know. She just doesn't want to be hurt, and I can't prove that I wont' hurt her.

>"it's not you, it's me"
fyi, Chad gets past her "defenses" with a grin and a shitty joke

you can verify this very easily especially online

1. make a diff acct with a model's pics
2. add her
3. "oh sorry i added the wrong person, thought you were someone else. hi though" and then start a conversation from there
doesn't even matter how awkward or stupid you sound, you'll see a totally different personality from your poor broken little girl.

tfw 8/10 qt chinese anime fan girl at work but is married

>>18307882
Why does this post imply that I'm a weebfaggot?

The fact your rating women on 0/10 scale shows how imature you are.

Stick to the anime girl youll have more fun with her.

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>>18307878
>Leaving shiploads of used drinking glasses in the sink without washing any of them.
>Getting up in the middle of the night and turning on the lights of the room we share multiple times
Seems to me his just used to living alone.

>Once he tries to get your attention he never stops until you look at him
Why would you just ignore someone who tries to talk to you? Grow up.

>If you raise your voice in any way he thinks you are screaming or angry.
Again sounds like a problem with you. Why do you need to raise your voice? Learn to deal with people without getting so worked up about it.

>If you point out something that is blatantly wrong or false he will never accept it even if you prove him wrong.
>if you try to change something and provide suggestions, he will simply find any excuse to not do it.
All humans do that. Get used to it.

Don't expect instant change and thank him for even the attempt to do these things.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9VM1UA0pCMQ

>>18307878
I assume it's autism?
When my friend told me he was bipolar I read about the mental illness so I knew how to interact.
If it is autism it's also not impossible to help him get shit together, but it takes patience and shouldn't be your problem.

Excellent pic of the best gem, so might as well give advice.

I would talk to your other uncle about the autistic uncle's behavior. Don't call your other uncle a dick or attack his person, instead bring up these specific behaviors. Make sure you don't complain about just the behaviors, but how they make you feel specifically. I.e. "whenever uncle leaves out his dishes, I am upset because I do not like clutter and I do not think it's fair that I have to clean up for him."
Since you haven't been living there as long as them you have less of an authority, but the other uncle will have more sway. If he acts like a child, being direct with him and saying "you are annoying" without the backup of your uncle might lead to him being passive aggressive/vengeful. If the other uncle doesn't want to deal with this or thinks it's not a big deal, keep the conversations with the autistic uncle very basic and short.

If he is autistic, empathy that is second nature to some people will not come naturally to him. You need to ask "if I did this to you, how would you feel?". He also might just be a dick and not care.

In the mean time
>Leaving shiploads of used drinking glasses in the sink without washing any of them.
Don't do his dishes
>Getting up in the middle of the night and turning on the lights of the room we share multiple times
Acquire an eye mask
>Once he tries to get your attention he never stops until you look at him
See previous: "I am busy right now. If I did this to you while you were busy, how would you feel?"
>If you raise your voice in any way he thinks you are screaming or angry.
Unfortunately you might just need to keep it monotone with him. I don't see a better solution. Sorry.
>If you point out something that is blatantly wrong or false he will never accept it even if you prove him wrong.
Avoid arguing with him. If he's wrong and you NEED to correct him, say he's wrong, then drop the subject. Refuse to engage.