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Job loss again thread 2017-05-12 10:36:53 Post No.18309949
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Ok today I just got let got from my 3rd job in 14 months. In that span I have had in total 6 about to be 7 jobs.(got lucky old employer was hiring again)
Has anyone experienced this problem of having several jobs in a short period of time? I am so fucking tired of trying to go into a job thats my degree and losing the internship/job in the 90 day probation period. I dont understand what is going on. I feel like a piece of shit because I have no money to make a living. I cant help but feel sad going out because try meeting girls when you are 28 living in a house with grandma or house with parents. Its so pathetic
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>>18309949
Tried to ask your boss why you are not good enough for the job? Phone your ex boses / ex coworkers and tell them to be brutally honest with you, so you know what to work on to improve yourself.
Or just give up and try different line of work.
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>>18309949
>I dont understand what is going on
Have you asked them for feedback when they let you go? You'd have to be an ATROCIOUS employee to be let go, so it can't hurt to ask.
Or you could be like the girl in my team who was fired this week and completely lack the ability to introspect.
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My sis-in-law is a manic/depressive and used to work at every business in a small town over the course of a year. Couldn't keep a job, but was a really hard worker when she was lucid (or manic). So do you have any mental problems you're not acknowledging? If so, get psych help, proper meds and counseling, then stick with a job.
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Dating when you're famous 2017-05-12 10:33:04 Post No.18309939
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Dating when you're famous
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So, Im a little famous. I don't know where exactly I fall in the celebrity spectrum. I don't wanna give myself away, but Im really a nobody, Im just kind of connected to some things and people and have a lot of fame. I get recognized a lot and it always comes first. Im not rich either, which is really frustrating. Once people know who I am they assume I can just buy cars and stuff willy nilly. Like....no, the car I have needs to last me, as do my clothes and phone....
So, I tried online dating with a picture and without. Got next to no responses with no picture. Got my pic taken down a lot with pictures. I just, wanna be able to meet and connect with people. Im not a sure how to do that, ya know? Anyone got any tips?
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>>18309939
If youre a cutie, just date me
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> I don't wanna give myself away
Then go away.
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>>18309939
>Anyone got any tips?
Kill yourself
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help me with my crush 2017-05-12 10:11:44 Post No.18309879
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I've got a problem /adv/, I've got a crush on a girl that I've known for about a year.
We're on the same class and we don't really talk to each other a lot, but we at least share a word or two per day. The thing is, I'm a kind of a social retard who doesn't have a lot of experience with girls or guys or people in general and I'd like some help on how to know if she is into me, and if she's not, on how to get her to be. I'm saying this because she has done some things that at least for me could count as signs, but I'm not sure if they are, because as I said I don't really have any experience on this. What she has done is that she changed seats in a row in a day that weirdly were all in front of me or by my side, has sometimes hugged me out of the blue, her friends have teased her that she likes me and she has reacted weirdly when I talk to her about other girls. The things that make me doubt if she actually likes me is my social inexperience and that she normally hugs her friends and acts really close/intimate to other people in general, so I don't know if she is just being her normal intimate self or if she actually has some interest in me.
Any help or thoughts?
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>>18309879
Fucking tell her you like her you retarded faggot. Just take her hands and say "will you be my girlfriend?"
or dont because you're retarded
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>>18309908
But what if she says no? Won't it get weird to be with her or something like that?
Also, where, when and in what context should I ask her? It can't just be out of the blue right?
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>>18309918
if she says no what is the point of cojtinuing to fuck aroind with her anyway?
it can be out of the blue.
it will work unless youre ugly.
stop asking about it like an insecure bitch and do it, faggot.
she'll think better of you for it.
and so will I
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THICC Coworker Date Help Thread 2017-05-12 10:06:56 Post No.18309855
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2017-05-12 10:06:56
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I don't frequent this board but I need to pour myself out and calm my dick.
I work with a Romanian qt who is literally so my type it isn't fair:
>cute, but not gorgeous face. Approachable
>glasses
>long auburn hair
>cute voice and laugh
>hourglass figure with slight focus on the hips
>child-bearing hips and thighs
>plump pillowy ass
>slightly paunchy belly
>great hip-to-waist ratio
>double-D cup breasts
>demure but driven personality (Pharmacy Intern)
She's literally fucking perfect and still within my league.
She works intermittently because of school so I said fuck it and just asked her out to dinner today. She gives me her number but mentions that she's not sure when she'll be free because she's technically graduating from undergrad this week and will be busy.
Not a problem since I work 2-midnight the next 5 days but say I'll call/text her when she's free later.
Get her number and text her asking what food she likes. That was 3 hours ago. She was supposed to get off work 2 hours ago.
I don't wanna come off as desperate and blow up her phone so any advice anons?
I don't wanna fuck this up. She's LITERALLY waifu tier.
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Shameless self bump.
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>She's LITERALLY waifu tier.
She sensed how much of a creep you are and is smart enough to stay away from you.
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>>18310064
Well it's going on hour 4 and still no text back so maybe you're right.
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apprenticeship decision 2017-05-12 10:02:03 Post No.18309837
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So i was accepted into two apprenticeships as a programmer and now i have to decide between:
#1 Deutsche Telekom AG
-mostly HTML, PHP, Javascript, Oracle SQL
-cubicle workspace environment
-pay is definitely good enough to save up a bit (to maybe get a degree afterwards)
-chances to get a job offered afterwards are higher (at least what they tell)
#2 Olympus Soft Imaging Solutions GmbH
-mostly C++, C#
-sit with 2 professionals in one office and switch office once in a while
-pay is about 100€ less
-offer job for 6 months after apprenticeship to find out if they want me there longer
The school part would be in the same school eiter way.
I'll be called on monday to tell them my decision, but am struggling to decide.
So anons, any advice?
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>>18309837
What do you want to create after you finish school? That should help speed up your decision.
I want to do embedded systems, so the #2 option would be my choice, if you want to do more of a webdevelopment or datahandling kind of thing the #1 would be your pick.
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>>18309875
I think that i'm more interested in writing dedicated applications or system software over web development.
The thing is my goal is to do an apprenticeship, then work about two years and then study CS.
Option #1 would make it easier to reach that goal. Although i'd have to do 5 years of the less interesting work.
Option #2 would make it harder to save for studying afterwards. But the work would be more interesting and maybe those experiences would make more sense if i want to work in that field after studying anyways.
I'm 21 already, so i dont want to start studying too late, or it might not happen at all.
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>>18309976
Aren't there some form of student loans in Germany? Money can be made back and student loans don't weight heavily on credit loss in most of western europe. As for internships always go with what you're in the programming world for, not something you're half-interested in
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I want to break up with my gf because she visits her ex bf's fb page all the time. She says it's just a habit and she doesn't like him at all, just wants to make sure that he's not doing well, but I am suspicious.
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You must be about 15 then. Get used to it. She wants to be happier than the ex because she does not want to have settled for a lesser male.
Try oh try not to take your relationships too seriously. You are young and should have fun.
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Relationship is about mutual trust and respect. Learn how to trust her or break up. No other way around it.
Maybe try to make her block him so she cant spy on him and finally forget about him.
>once he will be single, she will try to return back to him and dump you if she succeed.
Pic related, you may be backup man in her mind. Cheers.
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Yup dump her since you obviously dont love her and you're wasting her time you piece of shit
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Ruined my relationship with the love of my life 2017-05-12 09:56:18 Post No.18309825
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Ruined my relationship with the love of my life
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I've been dating my gf for just over two years now and we've talked about marriage, kids, and the whole lot. She's not super communicative, sorta like the opposite of me who likes to tell her how I feel. I don't condone any of my actions and I will never be able to forgive myself for what I did, I'm not making the story biased towards either of us, I honestly need help.
About two months ago it was just us two in her place and we got mad drunk. Drunk enough to try anal hammered. So we started off and the first go was pretty good, we both liked it and she said how much she wanted to go again later. So around 10 minutes later I ask her to go again. She said "I don't know" and I stupidly say "but you promised we'd go again" a couple times. She feels that I pressured her into doing it again, which I don't disagree with, essentially guilty tripping her. :/ Right before we went again she told me it hurts, and in my drunken mind I thought, "it must hurt when I go in bc it's dry" so I put a lot of lube on my dick and said "it shouldn't hurt now."
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Here she thinks I completely disregarded her, but it honestly sounded like she wanted more lube because anytime it's been dry when we've fucked in the past, she tells me it hurts (exact same way she told me that night) , which I put more lube on and we're happy. I thought that's what she meant, but she meant that her ass literally hurt. I should've stopped right there, but I didn't. I hate myself so much. So we start going again and I'm listening for if she says stop it hurts, no, stop, etc. She says stop and I stop. After the fact she's telling me crying that she was saying no the entire time, which wasn't true because I was specifically listen for a no, I knew it mist definitely would hurt so I was actively listening. I told her i didn't recall you saying anything until you did, because I stopped once I heard her, but I didn't try and change her mind on that since it would've just sounded like me trying to tell her "nononono you're totally wrong!" She told me I should've seen her face that she didn't want it as we were going, but we were doing it from behind so I physically couldn't see her face, plus I was asking if she's fine and it was "yep" each time. I feel like she was thinking it, but didn't say it out loud until she did and wishes I stopped. She was sexually assaulted three years ago (which I found out after the fact) and I honestly think that experience is clouding her judgement of the situation, as in it felt X therefore X must've happened. I'm not saying she's wrong though, it's honestly all perspective and hers was awful, I don't blame her but still..
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We both noticed a drop of blood rolling down her leg and I quickly wiped it up, I usually help wipe cum off so it was sorta the same thing for me. Then she runs towards the bathroom and I think there must me shit coming and she didn't want it to go everywhere. She's in the bathroom crying and I'm trying to comfort her thinking it must hurt a lot right now. She was wiping off a bit more blood and went we went back to her room I looked into the toilet bowl and I barely saw any blood. She says there was so much blood, I'd bet my dog that there wasn't more than 5 drops of blood. However I wouldn't argue about such a thing because it wouldn't get either of us anywhere and it'd make things worse.
First time trying anal went sideways, and she feels like I sexually assaulted her by not stopping when she was saying no, even though they didn't happen. I'm more concerned that I pressured her the second time, regarding the 'promise' bit. Long story short, she told a friend what happened and that friend has and did manipulate what actually happened and she lost all her friends. Now whenever she thinks about not having friends, what happened between us two comes up in her thoughts too, since it was the direct result of that night. Now whenever marriage is brought up, she thinks how can I marry someone who did this to me within the last two months. I'm not saying that's not good, I know she needs more time to get over it, but honestly, she made that night out to be WAY worse than what actually happened.
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In no way am I saying what happened was acceptable, I hate myself for pressuring her into doing it again, but it was a drunk sex mistake, I wish she said "no my ass hurts" rather than saying what she says when it's about to go in raw dry dog, the whole not very communicative really added to that night. Most of all, I wish I never suggested it, it was definitely the worst decision I've ever done.
I talked about it with my close friends and they all say it was anal gone wrong, no physical assault (I still hate that I pressured her), but the whole friend situation is what bothets her the most about it all. They say she regrets it and putting the blame on me. Like she knows me well enough to know I would stop when she'd say no, not keep going.
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Finding open-minded motivated people 2017-05-12 09:53:05 Post No.18309818
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I figured out what I want to do with my life and generally, answers to most of the choice-related questions that comprise the majority of this board.
I am okay with being alone, but sometimes I feel like there would be a huge boost in overall happiness if I had anyone to share my ideas and insights with and they would share theirs. Some sort of implicit mutual motivation.
I've tried talking to people around me about this, but without exception, they either have one very simple mindless hobby or spend their time getting hyped about getting wasted the next friday (yep, university).
I would love to have someone to do not-that-stupid shit with, like experimenting with polyphasic sleep, different diets, talking about books about philosophy, math, neuroscience and stuff. Basically going beyond normie lifestyle.
Where do I find people who have their shit together and are working towards something? Something like link related
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ISXHVrJs11E
In my opinion, wolf pack sounds a bit corny, but it has a nice ring to it anyway.
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4chan is obviously not the place where the hot shots are but had to give it a shot...
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>what are friends
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>>18309906
for me, people that give a shit about my existence
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Is it normal to be attracted to teen girls?
So I'm 27, almost 28, and when I pass a high school I'm still attracted by many of the girls there, is that normal? Will I always feel attracted to girls that young even as I get older?
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>>18309806
Just don't fuck 'em.
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>>18309806
>is that normal?
yes
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>>18309810
but what if i did? Is that a problem?
(btw age of consent is 14 in my country)
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a girl told me that she was raped multiple times by his brother when she was younger
she doesn't hate him, it was a long time ago and she never told anyone
how do I do to not feel angry when I see him? I don't want to hate him either because he's a good brother besides this, but I don't know what to think about him
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What age did it happen? Could it be an age where he honestly didnt know any better? Not that thatd make it ok, but itd give you reason to forgive him.
You have two options:
Forgive him.
Hold a grudge against him forever.
If you have to, you can confront him for his side of the story
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>>18309803
>confront him for his side of the story
This, but ask the girl first if she's comfortable with it.
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>>18309803
He was 13, she 12 so idk
She said it was like the time he got his first gf, and he was like "testing" or something like that
>>18309832
I'd like to but she doesn't want to talk about it, in those years they haven't talked about it and act like it never happen
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Husband wants his freedom back 2017-05-12 09:15:10 Post No.18309746
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Husband wants his freedom back
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>Nov 2016
>found out husband has been cheating on me for 3 months
>I wanted to divorce but husband said he will do anything to gain my trust back
>henceforth we had GPS tracking on our phones
>husband is not allowed to drink socially with female friends without me
>husband can only have male friends
>husband needs my permission and approval when he wants to hang out by himself
>fast toward to May 2017
>husband still has to do everything to earn my trust back
>recently husband made a friend with a female coworker
>coworker is a little too fucking friendly
>coworker texts husband from 8am to 2am when husband is practically in bed with me
>we hung out once, I dislike her for how she fakes friendliness towards me
>husband wanted to hang out by himself with female coworker and other coworkers yesterday
>husband broke curfew by an hour
>husband barely is even sorry for it
>said he wants freedom and lead back
>I said that either I give up on caring completely or husband has to stick with the anti-cheating program
>husband said he wants a middle ground
>we sort of agreed, slept together
>he uninstalled GPS app
>doesn't respond when I ask him about it
should I just serve him divorce papers? at this point he should just be by himself
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Yeah this sounds like it will fail regardless of what you try from now on.
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>>18309746
i would serve him the divorce papers.
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>>18309760
if this is you, Alex, fuck you
I'm the only person that even fucking cares anymore. You can tell you you love me all day but you'll turn around and shit on what you said with your actions
If you fucking loved me, it wouldn't be so fucking important to have the freedom of "spontaneous hangouts" with Karen. I should have left you when I first found out of that fucking whore Karina
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I passed three teen girls sitting on a bench today and as I walked by I heard whispered 'psst! Girls! Girls!' behind me and knew they were talking about me. I awkwardly turned and stared at them and then walked away, but later sperged out and walked by that place again because I was mad and wanted to confront them.
Feels bad man. I think I looked pretty normal as I was passing them, I put hands in my jacket pockets because I didn't trust them to not swing manually, but I'm not sure if it looked awkward or something
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>>18309693
Why the fuck would you care about some teenage gossip by some random girls? Get a grip, man.
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What if they think you're attractive and didn't want to say anything? What if it has nothing to do with you? What if it was the person behind you or something? Don't assume things man. And don't let a group of adolescence get to you. We were all there once.
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>>18309693
Stop being a twat and get over yourself, who cares if little girls are talking about you? Move the fuck on man
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>caught my 9yo sister vaping
>gave her a wedgie
>warned her I'll tell mom if she does it again
>she's mad at me
Did I do the right thing?
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You realize women can be sexually aroused by wedgies, right?
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Front or rear wedgie?
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>>18309680
So can men.
There is litterly no better way to get rid of bullies than being honestly aroused.
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Hi!
I'm looking for a new monitor toreplace my 8 years old monitor.
Any advice ?
My expectations:
Nice image quality, capable of gaming.
I sit very close to the monitor so something thats not bad for the eyes, not too pixelated.
I have a gtx 1060 6gb to run games on.
My budget is around 180 - 210 euros.
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>>18309674
Not saying you wont get an answer here, but >>>/g/ would probably help you a lot more.
Personally, I just use a cheap ass tv from Walmart and an early flat monitor (like 1 step above a box) I got from a closing thrift store for $2 to dual-screen. I havent had any issues, but the most "intense" game I play is Overwatch
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>>18309721
so u r basically a cuckbeta fag who plays a faggot "game". wow god i hope you either die from cancer or are beaten to death in thevey very very near future
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Nice B8 M8
You almost got a (You)
I was talking to my GF about my sex life before I met her and she said it seemed really unhealthy, and that I behaved in a way that was typical of sexual abuse victims.
I didn't think I had but on thinking about it for a while I can think of a few examples that stick out. But I'm not really sure if they count.
When I was about 6-7 I watched hardcore porn with my uncles friends (14-15). It was really graphic and made me feel sick.
Once I was having a sleep over at a friends. I was about 10. His older brother (16-17) came into the room and started showing us how to wank. Basically spunked a few times in front of us and told us how we could wank. We were also playing some American football game where we'd pass the ball to each other behind are legs and I remember he was resting his hand on my ball sack waiting for me to pass the ball to him and insisted I do the same when I was receiving the ball.
There was anther time with my uncle who's about 5 years older than me, I was 10-11, and he was wanking in the same room as me too, and showed me the sperm on the porno when he was done.
After typing this out I think I realise that this was not normal. But what do you think?
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not normal but do you give a shit? don't let other people tell you that you're damaged or tell you that you should feel bad
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A. Does the realization that you where abused change anything at all?
2. This is not asking for advice.
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>>18309654
She wasn't trying to make me feel bad.
But I have some issues that I need to address, and maybe these are the root cause.