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Reminding yourself the truth everyday, there's no such thing as perfect or the best. Everyone is is different, be enough for you

>>18311991
I don't think I can ever be enough for me.

>>18311994
No one will ever be enough to themselves, you're not alone in this. You can do what makes you feel better if it isn't bad for you. We're all in this infinite search of self acceptance, unfortunately

It isn't. So much can chance in two years, and it is too much to wait.If you really want, just go for it and don't mind about other think. Life is too short and people change too fast to wait for two years

>>18311984
It's just I'm in US, so I could be a criminal.

>>18311990
It's not criminal if she tells the cops she lied about her age to you

You don't. Unless you have the help of a professional. If it's getting to that point you should reach for help, I'm In the same situation...

>>18311902
Thing is, it's one persona that wants to eliminate itself. You can do that without totalling every aspect of your inner team.

>>18311902
>>18311912

Please go to therapy, I was in the same position as you guys, I hated life. In fact, there were a lot of times where I put the knife to my wrists and I don't know why I didn't do it.

I went to therapy a few times, and I changed my mindset towards recovery - instead of simply waiting for it happen, I changed it to "I need to do this for myself".

This will help a lot, but it's not all that you need to do. Try mindfulness (specifically Headspace), it will really help. It is a way of enjoying the every day moments, the interactions you have, the sun on your face, for example. You don't realise but these things are lost when you're depressed.

Mindfulness lets you enjoy life again. It takes time though, I still feel sad on days, or get angry and upset with people for no reason, but every day it gets better.

Remember recovery is a curve, and there are dips, just keep in mind that it will get better.

>>18311898

he might, he might not. we can't really know for sure, but hte fact that you suspect he would is probably indicative of him assuming. even if he doesn't assume, you're making that assumption for a reason and it reflects on the kind of person he is. its not bad, but yeah, if you think he might, chances are he probably will.

i think the best way you can open this with is
>hey i asked this girl on a date but she totally flaked on me last minute, but i got this extra ticket now, wanna go?

highlight your gay

>>18311898
Drop in seperate conversations that you're gay and that you want him to join the mma fight.

If he's a bro, just tell him what you said here.

>>18311901

That is indeed a slick way to ask! Im not so open about it to many people. But yeah I am seriously considering what you said.


It's really one of those annoying situations, i don't want to give the guy false hope or anything.

Just say "Yes Im sick so what"
It is flattering that you ignored the consequences and just went for her

>>18311863
She's going to feel bad though. I don't want that.

>>18311853
Be vaguely poetic about it.
"Something something no disease is going to keep me away from you babe."

>>18311849
Diario 2: Las ventaja de los relaciones interculturales son muchos y generalmente muy interesante. Mientras que los esposo Frank y Ana se casan con el otra, muchos relaciones de esta relaciones son novio y novia. Un ventaja de esta relaciones son la diversidad de los personas y las familias suyos. Las culturas de personas de donde fue paises diferencias son aislado, pero cuando las personas se encuentren las culturas mezela. Este es bueno porque las personas tienen ánimos abiertos y son muy simpáticos.
Una otra ventaja de relaciones interculturales son las romper de él estereotipos. Porque las personas tienen muchos inteligente, las personas no creen estereotipos. La crecimiento las familias de las parejas se entrenen a ayudar las familias ser más comprendido del mundo.
Mi favorito ventaje este las parejos necesitan esfuérzase a entienden la otra y generalmente se ponen mas intimo desde la relación suyo. Porque las personas proponen a matrimonio y viven vidas simpáticas y intimas con el otra. Mientras que las parejas se enfrentan a desafíos poco a poco, muchas personas en una relación intercultural casan y viven vidas muy graciosas y generosas. Finalmente las parejas cuando las personas son de culturas o países diferencias son muy intimo y muy abierto en amor. Las familias de las parejas interculturales son muy aceptaban de otra persona y crecimiento.

>>18311849
Diario 3: ¡Hola estudiante! Me llamo anon y yo atiendo [nombre] esquela. Mi favorito lugar en esta ciudad es el [lugar en mi ciudad] porque este lugar tiene café, pasteles, y comida saludable. De el fines de semana va al cine porque puede ver películas y salir tus amigos. Una lugar cuando tu puedes tener divertido tiempo es el [lugar en mi ciudad]. Este lugar contiene restaurantes, actores, una fuente en el parque, y tres teatros. El [nombre de lugar] es viente minutos de la escuela, y porque somos estudiantes, va al museo de arte en [ciudad] se llama el Alto museo del arte. Mis favoritos actividades por mi tiempo libre son ver programas de televisión, hacer ejercicio, y mi mejor favorito actividad es comer. Hay muchos restaurantes en [ciudad] y muchos restaurantes son interculturales. Uno de mis restaurantes favoritos es [nombre del restaurante] porque me encanta comida japonesa y este lugar es tres minutos de mi casa. No hay mucho deportes en nuestra ciudad porque no tengo grande universidades en este locación. ¡Espero que te gusta mi ciudad! ¡Buenos días!

>>18311849
Diario 4: ¡Hola! En escuela yo estudio mucho porque quiero voy a ir a una buena universidad. Muchos tiempos después de esquela, me levante, me duche, me pone, y me afecta mi cara cada mañana. Puedo irme a esquela yo salgo mi casa a las siete y media de la mañana, y me llegue a esquela a las ocho de la mañana. Cada dia en esquela me preocupan de mis notas, pero no es necesario porque me gano A’s y B’s solamente. Cuando tengo un vacacione me olviden mis rutinas diarias y me vuelve tranquilo y sin estrés. Me gusta ir a otras ciudades porque me lleva con un tiempo bueno. Me fija mi familia se vuelven muy ani,o porque no tenemos un rutina de vacaciones. Me acuesta tarde y me levanta tarde porque no tengo muchas responsabilidades cuando me va a un vacaciones. Finalmente me pone ropa muy casual y alegre porque me vuelve muy permisivo de vacaciones. ¡Hasta Luego!

>>18311817
Dont let it bother you. A lot of times people use the term awkward way too much.

>>18311817
when you stop caring

also a lot of girls call guys 'weird', 'creepy' or 'awkward' if they don't live up to their standard. This way they don't seem that bitchy because the term can be used positively or negatively.

'it was a little awkward' could be positive because there was tension in the air. so really, just stop caring about girls talking behind your back. look at the situation positively, at least they are talking about you.

Kek, I think this is why 3 of my old female friends don't even want to meet up with me. If y'all knew each other during a certain age, it's as though you must have ulterior motives. The whole point of building a friend zone relationship is pointless because they'll still think you're trying to get into their pants.

Don't pull it back, just show it to her as is.

I don't know what to tell you man, it's not really an issue. You're above average. Dicks all kind of look alike. She's not going to expect it to have special features or be pretty or something. She just wants to see your dick, so show her the goods and try to enjoy it.

>>18311813
Dude, noone cares about your dick, and your gf only cares about your ability to satisfy her sexually.

People are selfish like that.

>>18311813
Also having insecurities, and especially being scared of showing yourself naked is an extremely unattractive trait in both men and women.

micro dose lsd or mdma in tea

>>18311782

How about just simply just do something interesting as a group that encourages such behaviour? This is not just about morals, drugging someone qualifies as an assault in court. Don't a dumb ass.

>>18311782
>But i still would like to spice up our evenings and force some more outgoing behavior.
Be entertaining and make them feel comfy.

>>18311761

Read it wrong, I'll rewrite my response written on my understanding of the situation.

She was desperate and is riding the excitement of doing a life changing thing, rather than focusing on her issues and moving on from her dysfunctional relationship.

Protip - in a few months when the excitement has worn off and they're both dealing with boring everyday problems, the issues will come back a million times worse, only this time she will be completely isolated from family and friends.

Personally I would cut contact before you become her fall back/emotional tampon.

if this is a back and forth conversation you had with a girl, it's kind of hard to follow without names like "her/me".

she told you she was going to do something pretty spontaneous, so she obviously acts on her emotions.

her boyfriend probably did some big gesture that made her feel really good, or got her excited about a new life opportunity or something. girls like this are pretty unstable, but also stealable if you want to do that kind of thing. like when things cool down in a month you could probably show up at her new place in a cool car and take her out dancing and she'll cheat on her boyfriend with you. promise her a bunch of amazing things and she'll get excited and leave him.

i don't know what the fuck the first two posts were about but... anybody who has to move from under one person's roof to another based on a personal breakup, is not an adult.

There are tons of videos on youtube.

Haha faggot you use a crutch kys smoke like a nog

>>18311742
You know, sometimes I really hate internet for that...
Some time ago it was acceptable to ask for advice and even make friendships from there
But now I think "what advice can I ask, everything is on the internet" and also know that they will reply like "Go google/youtube it yourself"

>>18311648
I have a tip for you op. Calling everybody around you crazy means only one thing. YOU are the crazy one.

As with being fat and nonfat, count calories and weigth yourself daily and never let go yourself.

Find better job and move places.

Stop posting pepe memes.

THROW YOURSELF OF A CLIFF BITCHBOY

>>18311644
Smoking is considered pretty shit by most girls. It also fucks your teeth. I thought it made me look cool and I smoked a bit too. Never got hooked but I smoke rarely when I'm drunk. Now I just dip and get a can once about every 3 or 4 months.

Sounds like you haven't smoked yet. Buy a pack and after about the first one, if you're actually inhaling it, it should become clear why you should stop. If you have smoked then you know it fucks your lungs and the cons far outweigh the pros.

JUST FUCKING DON'T IF YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT IT OK. CUZ IT FUCKS YOU... WHY DON'T YOU GET DRUNK INSTEAD

Substitute tobacco with marijuana

>>18311641
Fap?

>>18311645
Fapping is great but afterwards I feel more drained and shitty than before

>>18311641
Do something you actually enjoy? Don't just seek validation from other people.

>>18311615
was she hot? Explain scenario pls I've always wondered what getting a whore would be like

Remember, it takes a couple weeks for STD's to be testable in your system. Don't panic and try to get tested right away because it's not going to be accurate.

It's INCREDIBLY rare to get any kind of std as the non receptive partner (putting your penis in, rather than receiving it in the ass or something.)

Take a long hot shower and scrub with soap, then go clean your room and make a plan to slow down the drinking (or preferably stop.)

If you still feel paranoid in a few weeks, go get a test.

Or, if you're a super paranoid richfag, go get on the preventative antivirals right now.