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If you see someone cheatting in a exam and you tell it out, is that okey?
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>>18327832
If you want to make yourself a pariah yes.
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>>18327832
Generally the rule of thumb in life is to not call out anything that has no effect on you.
If you're teacher curves the grade, then blame the teacher for being shitty.
But yeah it is okay. It is morally okay. But socially it does make you look like a jerk, even though it is not morally incorrect or wrong to do.
>If you want to make yourself a pariah yes.
this
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If it's an asshole person that always brags to teachers about being good and not wanting to help anyone, yes, but if it's an at least semi-ok person then no.
Is it normal to be attracted to teenage girls no matter how old you get?
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Yes just don't act on it if it's below the age of consent in your state or country.
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>>18327647
Depends on how old you mean when you say teenage. But generally speaking there's a reason the older mid-life crisis man getting with the hot 18 year old cliché exists, and it ain't because of their brains.
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What do?
I've got this deep belief that no one outside my family could ever love me deeply. I'm not sure if I'm depressed because I think I'm unloveable or if I'm depressed and that's why I think so.
I'm kinda proud of myself that I can get intimate with attractive girls after being foreveralone but it's only very superficial and I'm never able to break into deeper territory. The fact that I'm not able to connect to anyone on a deeper level is very worrying to me.
>inb4 get therapy. I already have
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>>18327612
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>I've got this deep belief that no one outside my family could ever love me deeply
They could if you tried building deeper relationships with friends and love interests. The solution is right in front of you, talk to people, get to know them, help them out on their issues and before you know you'l have friends for days
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Stop being ugly and grow a bigger penis.
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So /adv/, I'm a devout catholic and now have a girlfriend. We both know we are going to marry each other within the next year or so. My question is since we know that we are to marry, would haveing sex be OK within the religion? Like would it still be a mortal sin or would I just have to goto confession?
>inb4 god debate.
No I just want to know the very specifics of the rules.
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>>18327327
>Sex before marriage
The answer is NO. Firmly.
>would it still be a mortal sin
the answer is YES. Definitely.
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>>18327327
If you are catholic, you can have sex just to procreate and with your wife.
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>>18327327
>Like would it still be a mortal sin or would I just have to goto confession?
...both? How do you not get how your religion works yet?
Yes, it's a sin in the eyes of your dumb religion to fuck before marriage.
Yes, it's also true that your dumb religion will absolve you of that sin in confession.
Pascal's wager is one of the dumbest propositions in all of philosophy.
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Advice dealing with suicidals? 2017-05-18 06:07:36 Post No.18327234
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Advice dealing with suicidals?
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>Girlfriend says she feels empty/depressed/emotionless
>Says she'll kill herself in a month, I say she's bluffing, but then she says she's going to commit suicide along with someone else.
>When I ask her how to help she says to leave her alone
Anything is welcome.
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Okay let's start with the usual.
Are you in love with this girl? If no, cut contact. If yes, think about the last thing she complained about. Now replay that memory forever. This will be your life if you both don't communicate better. If she can't open up to you then get her some counciling.
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>>18327234
Wait what you mean with someone else? That's sus as fuck.
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cuddle her :)
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Weed has become a part of my daily life...
i find myself irritated if i dont smoke, lacking the motivation to dig deep to my creative side, generally more annoyed at small things, and quick to lash out
im in an area where its hard for me to find weed and i have to face that im gonna have to go a few days without it....
im not sure if i can do it....
tl;dr am I just a sober asshole, or addicted to weed?
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Move to Cali. Smoke weed everyday. Be happy.
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>>18327167
>when I don't smoke I'm more anxious and irritable, can't fall asleep as easily, don't enjoy music as much, etc., etc.
That's not withdrawal or being an asshole. That's not being high.
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>>18327167
Weed is psychotic drug which has potential to trigger mental ilness if you have predisposition for it. The longer you will smoke it, the worse your life will be without it. Better drop it now before it becomes even worse.
Dont become pot head.
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How to get respect from both male and female, today i got pushed around and disrespected.How do i fix thi.
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>>18326904
First you get the money, then you get the power, after which comes respect and bitches
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Can you gain power if you have no money?
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>>18326925
Can you gain power if you have no money?
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My girlfriend thinks I am cheating.
We've been together almost 4 years now with lots of ups and downs but we are madly in love. She has a couple problems with mental health but lately she has been getting into this wierd mode.
She tracks where I am through Google pretty often, goes through my texts and emails. I let her go through it all because I thought she would feel better having the freedom to look but the more she looks and doesn't find anything she just thinks I'm hiding more. She gets worse at night and thinks I'm lying and hits me when she gets really angry. (girl strength so nothing terrible, just doesn't make me feel good). There is a girl at work who she thinks I oggle and lust after, but my girl is so much more in every way. She is just the receptionist/dispatcher so it's part of my job to send in reports to her and ask her about problems I run into in the field.
What else can I do to get her to stop thinking this way other than quitting my job? I really love her but it's getting to the point where I almost spend more time defending my love for her than time enjoying the time.
Thanks
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>>18326869
Look man I'm a loyal guy but I'd kick her to the curb in a heartbeat. She doesn't trust you is paranoid and abuses you how the fuck are you okay with this?
>b-but I love her!
K and she sure as fuck don't love you if she's hitting you and stalking you all the goddamn time. She's toxic and the only solutions are 1. To break up with her ass or 2. Get it through her head you don't cheat.
Don't fool yourself she's hateful and nasty to you. Its not worth it the rest of your life will be proclaiming innocence and getting beaten by her if you stick around.
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>>18326869
Oh and I'd like to also mention that she fucked my best friend twice before this and ever since is much more leery of me. Almost like I'm doing it for revenge or something
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Did she fuck your friend while you were dating?
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Im a black man with an afro staying in the uk, does this haircut seem stupid to you /adv/ should I get it cut?
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>>18326111
Just keep it short and not those big afros. Better than being bald
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>>18326111
nope, I actually prefer it to modern memerap inspired cuts, but if young I'm sure most black and white people that are part of your generation will prefer you emulate pop stars.
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>>18326113
I did that recently but all the older people around me and neds look at me like im a fool
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Someone who fucked with my head is now living the life of their dreams 2017-05-18 03:09:24 Post No.18325469
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Someone who fucked with my head is now living the life of their dreams
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Someone who made me cry essentially non-stop for half a year by tricking me into having feelings for them then acting like a monster towards me is living the life of their dreams, with a girl way out of his league. His dad left him a huge sum of money for him to use to attract beautiful girls a decade younger than him. He travels all the time, everywhere, with them. Goes to concerts, camps, everything.
Meanwhile I'm in a severe depression, am suffering from a disease, and I'm struggling to survive with pretty much no money to my name and an uncertain future.
Why does life reward liars like him and people like me get fucked over all the time?
How the fuck can I get over this? Because he tricked me the time he did, he stole any chance I had at finding someone I could fall in love with because I was only focused on him. Now I'm older and too depressed and sick to want to find anyone new.
I want revenge but it's not possible without stooping to incredibly low levels. What the fuck do I do with myself?
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>>18325469
>because I was only focused on him
there you go
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>>18325472
I don't know what you're saying. It's inevitable for me to focus on him every once in a while. He fucked with my head for years. I'm not just going to suddenly get over that.
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>>18325469
You grow up. Life doesn't reward him or punish you. Life is totally indifferent to your existence, and his, and mine, and everyone else's. There is no grand karma that decides he wins and you lose, that's just how the chips have fallen, and the only thing you can do is deal with it. Revenge is petty. You fucked up by falling for his tricks, and you're going to have to learn from your mistakes and move on from them. If you can't do that then purchase a shotgun and pay him a visit. Your call.
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I have a BS in Biology and ~5 years of lab research experience (doing Neuroscience shit).
I've been a lab technician for 3 years in two different labs and I've come to hate it now. What kind of jobs can I get with my education? I honestly don't care about staying in science, I know there are certain jobs where they just want somebody with any college degree to prove you're not a moron and then they train you for whatever themselves. I also have no family/attachments to tie me down which i'm sure has to be attractive to someone?
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>>18325294
See if you can get a job somewhere in Europe at a University. It might be more of the same career wise, but atleast you'd have access to culture that you haven't experienced yet in life. Something to counter the monotony, etc, of lab tech-ing.
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>>18325323
i think i legitimately hate being a lab tech, but yeah, a change of location might help. my current lab is very disorganized (as in the direction of the lab/projects) so that doesn't help.
but i think international gigs are probably pretty competitive, and while i'm not a bad employee i'm definitely not an a perfectionist over achiever. also i don't want to get a phd so i don't think there's much of a future in lab teching so i think a new career direction would be best anyway
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>>18325294
Who is she?
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GF wants threesome, what do? 2017-05-18 01:59:46 Post No.18325289
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GF wants threesome, what do?
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>gf says she wants a threesome with another girl, but has no girls in mind
>mention my co-worker at my new job who seems to have a crush on me
>gf says go for it since she would be too nervous to try asking a girl herself
So, how do I do it? I'm sure I can find an excuse to get her number, but how do I not come off as if I like her and more like I wanna fuck her? And how do I pop up the question without having to solo-fuck the second girl without my gf (don't wanna cheat or have it seem that way)?
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Is it possible that that was just a shit test from your gf???
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>>18325292
Naw, she's not like that. She's openly told me she was bi multiple times before, she's brought up the 3some thing multiple times and that she'd probably be nervous if the girl and I had any sexual contact and that she would be left out. So I reassured her by saying that we'll mostly be focusing on her.
Plus she explained in great detail what she'd like to do in a 3some anyway.
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>>18325289
>3some rule n# 1:
>never do a 3some with your gf/wife. its >gonna stick forever on you and only damage the trust btw. you & her
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>diagnosed with depression 7 years ago
>had a few sessions with a psychologist but I wasn't able to open up and never consulted any help ever since
>never felt able to talk to friends or family about my feelings or my concerns because I don't feel I can really trust anyone and didn't want to expose myself
>always turn my feelings etc into a joke when the topic comes up
>manage to get by half-ass my a-levels, do voluntary social year, find a student job and work extra shifts for cash, move in a flat with mates
>been wanting to go to Uni for 2 1/2 years but not confident enough
>had a girlfriend with 17 but dropped her after 3 months, never came relly close to anyone since
>turning 24 this year still depressed, start losing interests in my hobbies in the last months, just work and lay in bed wanting to die, hate myself for being a weakling, think about Suicide almost non stop, feel my existence is pointless
>don't know what to do
>meet this girl, hit her up on fb, she is super cute has similar trust issues as me, we talk a lot, about deep stuff too, find a glimmer of hope I might have found someone special
>we haven't met yet after the first time, she has a boyfriend, she is 5 years younger
never been to /adv/ before desu but I really have no idea what to fucking do
can you guys help me?
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>>18323835
Op here no answers required anymore, it's over
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>>18324502
OP? What happened?
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>>18323835
Hey I'm 24 and depressed too.
My cat meowing out of loneliness makes me fucking hate myself.
Relationships usually make depression worse.
Depression is such a big problem now but I don't know what else to say but try to find a therapist and doctor. It is helping me.
But I think you just need to decide you want to live.
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Odd female friend behavior? 2017-05-19 12:59:06 Post No.18328320
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Odd female friend behavior?
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>Have a female friend
>Comes over everyday
>Asks to take naps at my place
>Bought me about $200 in food, coffee, and movie tickets the past two weeks
>Planned a road trip just for us next semester
>Sends me texts "Thank you for hanging out with me."
>Always texts me she has a surprise before she comes over...usually more free food
>Text me random pictures of her family and dogs
>Constantly sending me memes
>Invited me out to dinner with her mom
>Always rubs my back when she gives me a hug
Spoiler Alert: She has a boyfriend who lives an hour or two away...so why is she developing some sort of emotional dependence on me...is this odd behavior?
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Sounds like a really good friend.
Not seeing anything emotional or dependent about this. You might be overthinking this.
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>>18328327
If I don't text her in a two day period she will text me something like
>I miss you
>Are we still friends
or my favorite text which I forgot to include
>"You're the only person who gets me and enjoys what I enjoy."
Its strange
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Planning a road trip with a male that isn't your bf does raise some sort of red flag...even if you are just friends imo.
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im 21 and i've only had sex with 1 girl. Am i fucked4lyfe? kms ?
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well at least you aren't a virgin. just get a girl the way you got it the first time, what's the big deal retard
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>>18327347
Yes, kill self.
Not because of the sex tho, for caring at all/posting this.
And don't make a massive mess pls, get a bodybag for lying in when you do it ta.
