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What do i do when i live in a country that i do not like living in
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>go to sweden
>say you're an oppressed ethnic kekistani
>enjoy your NEET-Bucks until a muslim rapes and kills you
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>>18323281
move
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move :)
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What are my options?
My relationship with my younger teenage sister leaves much to be desired. We rarely get along. She often has a terrible disposition and little respect for authority. This includes me. Yet my parents (btw their marriage is rocky) are reluctant to properly discipline her.
If I ignore her, my parents stress that blood has to stick together and expect me to fix the situation (placing no responsibility on my sister).
If I give into her demands for the sake of making her happy, that will only encourage her behavior.
I could beat her up to teach her some respect, though I'll be referred to as a woman beater and hated by my parents.
What should I do?
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>>18323222
>little respect for authority
>This includes me.
This is the problem. You are not an authority. You are their sibling.
Hang out with her. Try to understand her on a personal level. Talk to her as a friend. Give her friendly advice and stop trying to be her third parent.
It's not your job to judge her or condescend to her. Accept your sister for who she is. That's family.
Unless she's physically attacking you, you are being far too sensitive. The fact that you are considering beating up a teenager is indicative of some serious rage/anger/insecurity/arrogance/superiority/etcetera that you should probably take care of.
It's also not your job to judge the way your parents choose to raise or discipline your sister. She is not your child. You do not get a say.
Stay in your lane.
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>>18323222
>She often has a terrible disposition
Details? How old is she exactly?
>and little respect for authority. This includes me.
Kek. You have no authority, nigga, and since the parents seems too be too lazy to give a fuck, neither are they.
>If I give into her demands
Like?
>I could beat her up to teach her some respect
That'll only teacher her to hate you and possible men like you.
>though I'll be referred to as a woman beater and hated by my parents
Ah, yes. People will call you names. That's the biggest issue with violence indeed.
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>>18324080
t. single parent
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Repost from /r9k/, they told me to come hereAnons, I'm currently in HS (Senior) and I'm really obsessed with this one girl. Not only is she attractive as fuck, but she's also pretty quiet, and those characters I suppose, beget a certain ideal which I have become EXTREMELY attracted to.
Only problem is, I haven't talked to her all year.
Primarily because I have a terrible stuttering problem, a sentence that might take one person 10 seconds to speak will take me 2-3 minutes.
The school year's almost over, and I won't be going there next year, I want to confess to her in some manner, but I don't know what to do, not to mention the aforementioned difficulty in speaking.
I realize this is not the best place for relationship advice, but you guys are my only friends, and have been since around 10, I have no one else to turn to. Could (/adv/) help me?
Will post picture of me and the girl in question if neccessary.
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>>18323192
>/r9k/
Thats your problem
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>>18323320
What do you mean by that?
My pic btw
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>>18323192
>Will post picture of me and the girl in question if neccessary.
inb4 bait pics with ugly guy so you start get roasted so you get turned on
At the suggestion of an anon on /r9k/ a few days ago, I'm going to start a checking account at Chase tomorrow. Apparently, in addition to an ID and social security card, you need to bring a piece of mail with your name and address on it and an initial deposit.
I don't have a piece of mail with my name on it because i still live with my parents and don't ever get mail. Is there a way around this. Also, can the initial deposit be in cash, or does it have to be a check?
Thanks!
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Order something from Amazon. Or sign up for bullshit spammy mail like the Penny Saver.
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>>18323162
The mail will be used as a proof of residence, for which a few other documents can sometimes stand in. You would only need one of the following.
>Do you have an automobile insurance card?
>Do you have a paycheck stub?
>Do you have evidence of an income tax return?
>Do you have a transcript from high school?
If you have none of these, have you ever obtained a public library card? If so, what proof of residence did you use to get it?
The initial deposit should probably be made in cash.
. . . Just out of curiosity, if you were to write a check, where would it draw funds from? Personal checks are normally attached to an active bank account.
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>>18323184
>anon shows up with a giant dildo in an open box with his address on it
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I am slowly going deaf. It's hard to identify certain words when there is a loud background. When I go to sleep there is a loud singular ringing making it impossible to go to sleep without a loud fan.
I am terrified that I will never hear silence again or even worse only hear silence for the rest of my life.
It's a degenerative disease so when I am about 40 I will be functionally deaf without major surgery like a cochlear implant which will cast me further out of society.
I understand that I really can't change my situation it's just hard to accept. That's really my question is how do I cope with such a major loss? I have very little family, few friends who I have talked to and understood.
Even worse I live in Murcia where I don't make enough money to afford decent healthcare. Not that getting hearing aids or major surgery would be covered even with the best plans.
How do I cope? Where do I start? I've looked into ASL classes, I am starting to work everyday on improving my personal chances at getting a job with healthcare but if I am going to be very hard of hearing or even deaf I have no idea who will hire me. I have even considered moving to a country that has universal healthcare.
I am lost, hurt, and more importantly going insane from this mounting disability.
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bumpariono
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cump
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Is he ignoring me (and if so why)? 2017-05-17 03:18:27 Post No.18323063
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Three weeks ago I told a guy, whom I'd been friends with for maybe three years now, that I liked him. He turned me down, but said he really valued our friendship and still wanted to be friends. I said that was fine, so I've been trying to keep our friendship going since.
Except now I get the feeling that he's ignoring me, or something like that. He won't sit next to me in class (which he used to), he doesn't interact with me via social media (i.e. Liking FB posts, which he used to), and I really have no idea why. I'm cool with staying friends but it makes me sad that things are worse off since I admitted my feelings, than they would've been had I never said anything.
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>>18323063
Are you a femanon?
Honestly, i know it might sound shallow but how do you look? Overweight, ugly, etc?
It's either he likes you as a friend and maybe feels awkward
Or
He actually likes you but is too shy to come off from someone asking him out.
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>>18323086
>femanon?
Yeah.
I'm not drop dead gorgeous or model-attractive, but I'm not ugly or overweight either. Average, I'd say.
>he actually likes you but
Well, I mean, one of the things he said when he turned me down was that he's considered dating me before, so-- I don't know what to think.
I'm pretty sure he's not the shy type, though, so I don't think he'd be ignoring me or w/e out of sheer shyness.
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>>18323063
Yes, he's avoiding you. You've made the friendship awkward. He said he wants to remain good friends, and he probably meant it, but at the end of the day that isn't always possible and that's not his fault, and not your fault either. You took a risk, it didn't pay off, that happens. Lace up your boots and move on.
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This feeling of apathy/dullness. 2017-05-17 02:11:37 Post No.18322965
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This feeling of apathy/dullness.
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To put it simply /adv/ I would not say that I'm sad, but when it comes to joy, being happy, excitement, or other "happy" and "motivating" emotions. I just feel like those emotions are dulled, i feel unsatisfied and unfulfilled with just about everything. Also after i do really enjoy something or have that excitement it is quick to fade. Anyone else have this problem?
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I am also an adult, yes.
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How do you spend the majority of your time?
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>>18322970
I'm like just coming out of high school so maybe that's why?
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hi /adv/, i have a problem and i would like some feedback...
I've been friends with this girl for about 7 years,i had a little crush on her when i met her, but she had at the time.
she broke up with her boyfriend last year, so she started hanging out more frequently with me and my friends
2 weeks ago i confesed my feelings to her, I was rejected, ok no problem the last thing i wanna do is to make things wierd for averyone.
Last friday, we celebrated the birthday of one of our friends in my house, she wanted to tag along, ok no prob, but then she asked if she could bring someone.
she brougth a guy she was going out with...
to my house, one week after she rejected me.
so i had to sit ther watching while this other guy plays my guitar and flirts with her, while I pretend that none of this bothers me...
did she think about, how i would feel in that situation??
im pretty mad/sad rigth now, some friends told me to not talk to her again... i Think that too, how should i proceed /adv/
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Yeah, carry on and cut the comms, you are being her cuck friend if you keep supporting this kind of shit.
There is no salvage from this.
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>>18322914
hahahahahahahaha get fkn rekt. Imagine turning down a girl and going to her party at her house with another girl you're dating that you know she doesn't like. This girl is either selfish or a shit person.
>>18322933
agreed, cut her off completely
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What a bitch . I would have hit his ass with that guitar
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I am just out of highschool, with a payed off car and no money, and a really good pc, i dont wanna be a wagecuck.
what do i do with my life neets?
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>>18322833
wagecuckery is just a means to an end. get some work experience for a year or two which will mature you immensely and then see if college is right for you.
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Learn a skill and build a portfolio with a few years experience.
Win the lottery.
Wagecuck.
Pick one
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Is real estate a good thing to do? I was thinking of doing that but i have no idea how to begin, im set out in a whole world of realities and my autism is hard to control...
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Redpill me on women and sex. I come from a very conservative muslim family in the lands where people don't have loos to poo into.
Everyday something happens that keeps reinforcing that women don't really care about sex or men for that matter. Here are two concepts from the religion I follow:
Mahr: Payment by the groom to the bride for sexual access. Cleverly masqueraded as "Insurance" if something goes south.
Maintainance: The guy has to provide bare necessities to the girl, in return he gets sex. Wtf?
I started working out recently and some of my relatives mentioned how woman don't care at all and I should be more focused on getting a high paying job (I'm not making this up).
Then I come to boards like these and other forums and see woman wanting to jump over the partners dick/being sex positive etc.
I know it is the problem of the regressive culture I grew up in, but is there any truth to the claims Islam makes? It is making me all depressed and shit. I only want to feel wanted. I'll most likely end up getting an arranged marriage (not forced). I want her to desire me the same way I would desire her.
inb4sandnigger
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You're the indian guy in the arranged married right?
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>>18322813
Yes I am. Lol. I wasn't satisfied with the responses yesterday. I actually rephrased the question so people respond more accurately.
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>>18322825
I guess there isn't much more of a redpill than what people already told you.
Attraction is dependant on what culture you were raised. It's partially cultural, partially animal/instinctive. A woman might grow to like you in an arranged marriage, but only if she has a very traditional raising too I guess. You'd need to be very lucky to have love at first sight in the setup you're into.
Since having money is important in your culture (obviously it is in every culture, but it seems to be more in yours), you will probably look attractive to women who share this value. However, the fact that nobody gets do pick what they lust makes this of little use. You can have tons of women lusting for you, but have a wife that doesn't, for instance. About being fit, I guess that's the animal part. Instinctively it is surely attractive.
About women, they enjoy sex as much as men do (hell, sometimes even more maybe), they love orgasms maybe even more than us, they lust and so on. But in a society that repress them from even chosing who to mate with, it is likely that they are sexually repressed too (not unique to your culture bth). Somebody said that if even raped women can cum, you can make your wife cum too. Yes that is true, but from my standpoint, the fact thath nobody's got to pick will make this bittersweet probably.
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I've gotten way too close to this woman who is married. It's gotten to the point where we freely admit to having feelings for each other, and her marriage is miserable(although there's nothing flagrantly wrong with it either such as abuse or neglect - he's just really boring, kind of retarded, does nothing for her sexually, doesn't even talk to her really for the past few years).
Lately she talks about such notions of finally ending it with him, though on record, we both maintain with each other that we absolutely don't want my presence to influence what ultimately happens with her marriage, as they've been married over a decade. I'd feel incredibly guilty, and she'd feel wrong to finally pull the trigger just because she met the right kind of guy.
In the long-run, I think the end of this marriage is inevitable unless I removed myself from her entirely. But I don't want to do that either as she's actually an amazing gal, and I've had a lot of fucking shitty relationships.
What do /adv/? Anyone else been in something similar? Pic semi-related
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>>18322800
I had something similar, but not as clear cut as you. The tension was there but we never said anything about it, considering I was related to her husband and that would ruin our relationship. Anyway, their relationship was rejuvenated after she got pregnant. What I would do if I were you is get while the getting is good. It seems as though their marriage is going to end anyway, and if it's not you catching her afterwards it'll be some other guy.
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Do you think that you and your girl would have ended up together and caused her to leave her husband if you made the right moves in time?
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>>18322921
If I'm being honest, no. In hindsight, I think I was there to assure her that she hasn't already passed the prime of her life. She's in her late twenties and I think she was beginning to realize that this was a lifelong commitment, yet, she didn't want to break away from it. But your situation is different, and I think that your best move would be to try and secure your position in her life.
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how the FUCK do I find an asian girlfriend
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>>18322762
I'm in Asia and I'm having a hard to finding a non-Asian gf.
Anyways Asian girls that specifically target foreigners (at clubs, or English School staff) are always sketchy af.
If you want a proper Asian gf, learn the language to some degree and make sure you are the initiator. If an Asian girls initiates with a foreigner (or anyone for that matter) it's a red flag.
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>>18322770
Not op. How so? Please explain a bit more. I think if you are in Asian, finding one from a middle class upbringing who has travelled and understands a little bit of Western culture would be a good match.
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>>18322762
I bet you find them on Saturn.
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So i recently went overseas to a country called panama, and well basically i bought 4 tabs of lsd, thing is i wanted to take them with me back to the states, and well i just wanted to know how i can hide it without getting caught (aside from that im overseas so idk) and well i guess i just really dont want to get caught, so could anyone give me any advice ?
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>>18322707
Its a 1cm piece of paper that smells like nothing, just put it in your suitcase
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>>18322713
no aluminum wrap right ?
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>>18322707
Jesus fuck just carry a couple of books and just put it inbetween random pages, and remember the number. No way they will go through 2000 pages of paper just to find it. I smuggled weed in a Barilla Pesto dose kek, but that was on a bus ride through 2 borders.
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>new girl enters friend group
>mutual friends ask me if I'm interested
>go spaghetti and answer I'm not
>skip 2 months
>literally every single guy in the group goes for her
>she's pretty much bombarded by texts and fb messages every second
>never try anything bc I dont want to be another one of those pathetic faggots
>multiple males from my group fail at winning her grace
>me and girl somehow share same musical interest
>asks me to go with her to a concert of a band I don't know
>I pretend to know band
>we are now going to see this shit together
How fucked am I
I like the girl but I have never listened to this band in my life
yeah it's the same genre but it's gonna be hard as fuck to pretend I have been listening to it for years
Even if it all goes well
How am I going to tell if she's even into me?
All girls I have been with to this day have shown interest in me, not the other way around. I have never spent any effort to get with a girl. So I've only had about 4. But I really like her
So it basically boils down to this
How does one "make a move" during something close to a date?
How can you gauge the setting?
Like I said, I've been in this situation before., but it was always the girl making the final move
How do I "test" whether she is down or not without ruining it if she isn't?
I feel especially restrained because there are like 5 guys in our mutual friend circle blasting messages at her at all times
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First things first, read up on the band and listen to some songs so you're ready. Don't worry too much about the rest!
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>>18323101
Agree with this anon, open wikipedia for basic shit. Listen the discography on Spotify or Jewtube and get your dick wet.
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she also keeps mentioning she hasn't seen the latest 2 star wars movies; neither have I
could that be a window of opportunity?
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Smoking weed for the first time
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I'm about to smonk the devil's lettuce for the first time this Friday.
I'm getting a little nervous. Don't know why, as I've been on the highest doses of morphine for like a week on multiple occasions + I'm on some terrible medications that fuck up a person's health.
I'm wondering how it will affect my comprehension, thinking process, actions, abilities etc. I'm gonna be smoking with multiple friends, so I don't want my genuine personality to slip out.
I was also wondering what to do when I'm high. Like, should I watch a show, or a particular type of show, listen to music, like what do I do.
Also wondering what being high on Weed feels like. Will it take my anxiety away and shit?
What should I expect, /adv/?
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make sure to try it analy
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>>18322561
Thanks
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I smoked for the first time with a couple of friends a while ago and have a few more times since. I enjoy it but it's not something I would like to do every day but I do like it.
Everyone's different but personally I found everything 10x funnier and would laugh a lot for no real reason. My emotions were slightly amplified and my balance was slightly affected. Everything seemed to be going slower and I felt like I had two pillows around my cheeks. You may throw up as some of my one of my other friends did (his first time too)
I find myself quite tired after smoking but in a chilled out kind of way.
Take short breaks if you cough a lot you don't want to throw up. Bring a drink. Don't drink alcohol beforehand or you'll throw up. With all that you should be good to go, it think it feels pretty good, with all that you should be good to go.