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Crush on Bf's Roommate 2017-05-20 04:56:29 Post No.18333175
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Hey so I have a crush on my "bf"s apartment-mate. I don't develop crushes like this often. I've tried to break up with my "bf" 4-6 times now, but each time he somehow smoothtalks it to keep going. It doesn't help that I like sex and he won't fwb.
So, how messed up would it be for me to pursue "bf"s apartment-mate,
or any advice on how to go about this? I want to do this the right way.
Thanks
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>>18333175
It would be pretty messed up, especially if he introduced you two together
Also, immediately leaving then going out with his friend looks VERY bad. Atleast wait a couple months.
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Breakup with him. He doesn't smoothtalk you into keep going, you just agree in order to use him for sex.
The only way to date the other guy would be convince him to move out when their lease is up and then date him afterwards.
By the way, when you're older and in a serioud relationship or married, you're not immune to develping crushes on other people. How are you going to handle it?
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>>18333190
I met them around the same time, and am friends with all of their roommates. Thank you for the advice
>>18333198
Their lease is up in two weeks (we all live on campus), and after that they won't be living together anymore.
The last guy I had a crush on, we dated for four years. You're probably right about the sex thing. Any advice with this new info? Thanks
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Kissless Straight Virgin 2017-05-20 03:47:15 Post No.18333022
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Im about to meet an older man off of craigslist to suck me off. Very nervous. Any stories of craigslist encounters would help.
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Is that him in the picture?
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>''straight'' kissless nervous insecure virgin
>invites a fucking random old guy to suck him off
The fuck is wrong with you? What makes you think you won't hate yourself for doing this later or even already during the act?
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>>18333034
Well i already hate myself so im not losing much.
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What do you anons use for online dating? What websites and apps should I look into? I would try and meet local people, but I live in an Indian Reserve where I might as well be related to everyone. Native families are fucking huge.
I live in Canada if that changes anything at all. Pic is me, I know I look like a baby 16 year old. I'm turning 25 later this year though.
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Tinder is not enough for you?
you look like 12 get your homework done first
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>>18333006
Tinder, okcupid, eharmony, etc. Google.
Start by unfatenning yourself
>>>/fit/ read sticky
get new haircut (anything really, let the stylist to pick somethibg for you) and try to take more selfies from various angles with smile on/off.
Good luck in dating game, you gonna need it. And looking young is not disadvantage.
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>>18333018
Nope. I've made 1 match in the past 10 months with a girl that was a 40 min drive away from me. Don't own a car or a driver's license, so that went RIP really quickly.
but homework is dumb and stupid, fdgds
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I'm 27 and I feel like I'm a used up old man and have wasted my youth already. Anyone else overcome that feeling to have a good life?
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I feel that way, too. What helped is that, medically, you're a 'young adult' until you're like 40.
Best time to plant a tree was 10 years ago, second best time is now. Also, I hear your 30s is supposed to be a lot of fun. Like your 20s, but without all the awkward, depressing mistakes.
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>>18332754
The majority of my work colleagues are hovering around 30 years of age and look like they're really enjoying their lives with the freedom of stable income, no debts and good work life balance
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>>18332754
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wS5xOZ7Rq8
In all seriousness though, happiness comes from letting go. Just be who you are without a concern for what other people think of you. If you haven't found something you'd love to do for the rest of your life as a job, figure that shit out and start enjoying your life.
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So, say I'm taking a walk and see a girl getting raped by another girl with a strapon, what are my chances of getting away without any legal consequences of I just run up and plunge my dick into the rapist girl?
Could I make a lawyer spin it as if I was trying to help the girl getting raped?
Pic semi-related
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>>18332600
It would most likely still be rape, mate.
If anything the prosecution would make it seem like you were taking advantage of the girl being raped, using her situation as an opportunity to do some raping yourself rather than helping her.
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>>18332600
what kind of retard goes and posts a thread like this. It's like you wanted to be creative and edgy and find a reason to use a new .jpg you got but couldn't come up with anything actually creative.
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>>18332617
As i said, I'm raping the rapist, not the victim
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Do any of you have experience with internet tests on psychological health?
I've been feeling terrible in the last few weeks and since I already have diagnosed depression I took a few internet tests on bipolar disorder and being suicidal, got 100% in bipolar disorder and 50% for chance of comitting suicide.
How serious should i take these and does anyone maybe have some credible tests?
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Yes, credible tests exist. Only caveat is you have to go to a fucking doctor to receive them. You fucking retard.
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>>18332410
I only want to know what's up, I don't want help I can help myself.
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>>18332457
>I don't want help I can help myself.
You're setting yourself up for failure.
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Coping with sexless marriage 2017-05-20 08:41:01 Post No.18332291
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Coping with sexless marriage
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2017-05-20 08:41:01
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I love my husband, but I do not love the fact that we do not have sex anymore.
We used to have an awesome sex life to the point of having sex multiple times a day. I have not had sex like that with my husband in over a year. We had sex one time late last year and I got pregnant, we have not had sex since that time! I am about to have a baby girl and It's very important to me that we remain a family unit because I acknowledge that girls need their daddies around. So I will not be leaving. We also have 0 problems in our relationship besides this sexual problem. He is a kind man and takes care of me, we love each other very much.
I have talked to him about his lack of attraction to me but we have not found a solution to fixing the problem because we do not know what is causing his dysfunction. He has had bloodwork done to figure out the cause but there have been no clues. We think it might have something to do with him watching years of extreme porn since he was a child, but he cannot even get it up for porn anymore. He would like to have sex with me but his drive is tanked. No, he is not cheating either I have proof of this.
So, what I'm asking here is how to cope with having a sexless marriage. I have an extremely high sex drive for a woman so sex in a relationship is very important to me. I have been feeling incredibly depressed that I can't be sexual with the man I love. I have a lot of dreams about sex and it makes things worse!
Is there anything I can do to keep my desire for him down? Are there ways I can tank my sex drive by eating certain foods or doing certain things? Masturbation can only help so much.
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Maybe you don't look attractive to him because you're pregnant?
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I'm in a similar boat. I wouldn't say we have a sexless marriage but it's definitely maybe two or three times a month. It's been six years. Over time my libido dropped. Every once in a while I'll masturbate if I need to. There's nothing you can do about it unfortunately. And there's no fix. It's just a slow, painful death that we will never get out of unless we leave them.
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>>18332302
This. It's not even about looks so much as the fact that he might just not want to stick his dick where his baby is currently residing. I mean fuck, it's just weird. And what if he shoots his load inside you, and gives his unborn kid a facial? That's fucked up. See how things go after the baby's out.
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Concern over HPV developing to cancer and being unable to afford treatment 2017-05-20 06:38:57 Post No.18332067
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Concern over HPV developing to cancer and being unable to afford treatment
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I really need help.
I started seeing a girl whom I grew very close with but am not officially going out with (we just haven't yet adopted the title of boyfriend/girlfriend). She recently came out positive for HPV, showing some cell abnormalities but she was told they were slight and not cancerous. The thing is, she has a weak immune system and the results she received were from last November and she only heard about having HPV from her last visit which was related to her IUD, so she is concerned that the condition could manifest into cancer the more that time goes on. Her insurance can cover all but $345 for the colposcopy, which she can't currently afford and that is really unsettling her because she is unsure about how much time she'll have left before things get worse, if they do indeed get worse. I'm ignorant about all the resources that are available and it is really stressing her out to where she feels helpless and afraid that she'll die because she can't afford the procedures that will follow if she does indeed get cancer. I care about her so much and I want to do whatever I can to help her, but she is so downtrodden right now to where it seems she almost wants to give up. I don't know what to tell her to ease her mind at the very least. Pic obviously unrelated.
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Where do you live?
Why the fuck is she getting charged 345$ for a colposcopy?
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Remember that you properly carry HPV now. In case you fuck other women in the future.
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>>18332096
Texas.
>>18332105
I was aware that I had it before I met her and she found out she had it as well the day after I told her I did.
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HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 2017-05-20 06:10:10 Post No.18331999
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I've been seeing a guy for four weeks now and I want him to be my boyfriend. We text every day, day and night, and we always meet at least twice a week. We have a lot in common, a lot of obscure and esoteric interests that are hard to find in anybody. We have great sexual chemistry. We get along very well. However he never holds my hand in public, hugs me, holds me, no PDA, speaks with a monotone and is very detached and unemotional, doesn't flirt. I ate dinner with his parents twice. They like me a lot.
I asked him over dinner today if we are bf/gf and he told me we will revisit the question. Then explained to me that he doesn't know me very well and it hasn't been long enough to build an emotional connection. I agreed with him and told him I liked what he said and it made sense then continued the dinner as it was going. He kissed me like he loved me as a goodbye.
What should I do?
Act business as usual, don't mention it and continue as it always was?
Build value of myself? I already dress and good as possible, give him small gifts, treat him great in bed, show him the very best of what I know, etc.
Be a girlfriend without actually being his girlfriend?
Become aloof and distant and detached? I'm afraid he'll know I'm manipulating him.
Business as usual but ask him in a month?
Withold sex? Ask him if I can fuck other men? I don't want to jeopardize the future of him wanting a relationship with me or scare him off.
I don't know what to do. I'm very mind-fucked.
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Talk to him about it.
Quit making it a secret for the both of you.
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>>18331999
Your mistake was sleeping with him before you became exclusive. Guys hardly ever give out commitment if they are already having sex with you. Chances are he's having sex with other women if he doesn't want to be exclusive. My advice is to stop sleeping with him and stop contacting him as much. If he really cares about you on a more than fuckbuddies level he will realize that he's making a mistake by not commiting. Don't give sex freely to men who aren't already in a relationship with you, men will play the field if you allow them to because it's in their nature.
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>>18332006
I talked to him about our status and he basically said ask me later. In the meantime what do I do to increase the odds of having the situation be favorable to me?
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Community college or uni 2017-05-20 06:09:55 Post No.18331998
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I am getting a degree in computer science and or IT. I am going to get all basic classes out of the way before my main degree. I am wanting to go to uni regardless, but is it better to go to community college for 2 years or uni for 4 years?
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>>18331998
Uni
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Unless youre amazing enough to get a full scholarship or you have rich parents, do community college first. Remember to work a part time job
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>>18332097
Shit didn't read question. Go to cc for 2 years, then uni for 2
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Why do I get asked if I have a GF? 2017-05-20 06:06:28 Post No.18331981
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Why do I get asked if I have a GF?
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>start job at a bank
>Get asked first day by a female co-worker if I have a GF
>deflect question
>go on a date with this chick one Saturday downtown
>Different co-worker apparently saw us
>She asks if I was downtown that weekend purposely not asking about the girl
>Get asked randomly today by my 8/10 boss if I have a GF
>Deflect again
What is the proper response to this question? I don't like discussion about my personal life as I don't really date. Why do women always ask me the same question? How do I handle it?
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>>18331981
Chad Problems ™
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>What is the proper response to this question?
Answering the question you were asked.
>Why do women always ask me the same question?
It's not limited to women. "How's the wife and kids, Frank?"
They're asking because you're projecting the aura of being an extremely boring person. "Nobody is all work", is their belief. They don't want to be silent around you, so they ask about your life away from work.
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>>18332048
No. My persona is the opposite of boring. I don't like discussing my personal life with anyone other than family. We talk plenty about everything, but this same question keeps reappearing from my female co-workers.
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lunch with muslims? 2017-05-20 06:00:31 Post No.18331965
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lunch with muslims?
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so my partner has made a friend at day care and they have organised a play date at the local park.
this guy is a indian muslim and i think the religion is barbaric. how do i eat luch with this guy without critising him?????
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>This moron bred
First you kill your entire family. Then yourself.
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>>18331965
Well it depends on where you are from, how many generations is he native to the country and where exactly did he migrate from, rule of thumb is any African or poor middle East country is a bad thing
I say better safe than sorry and just don't show up and don't let your spouse take your kid there
Also watch out for any bruises on your kid when he comes home .
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>>18331982
he is a nice guy works for a bank his kids are nice to but he is still a muslim. he worships a guy that married a 9 year old its just wrong my partner says i should be more accepting and not judge till i get to know them. but i think she does not actually realise how much i hate islam. i might let him have it i just might.
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I have 4k in savings
i need 15k to start my web company/advertising/living while i'm advertising my company.
Tomorrow i will book a flight to anchorage then to kodiak island to find a job on a salmon boat.
How likely am i to die homeless and cold in 4 months after nobody hires me and i cant afford to come home?
Current stats are 19 years old, no highschool, officially never worked, but unofficially worked as a handyman for 1 year.
Please tell me what work options i have available to me in alaska if fishing doesn't work out. I am scheduling the flight tomorrow after speaking to my brother and my father. If my brother agrees to buying my truck back i'll have another 1.5k
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>I need money
>so I'm going to go to Alaska to become a fisherman
What
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is it even fucking salmon season?
In any case, it's pretty shit money, and most crews don't want to take on newbies because they go out for months. I was on a crabbing boat back before those tv shows fucked everything up, and I usually barely made 40k a year. And all the off time is horrible, so you try to find more work but no one wants to hire someone who's only skillset is rigging.
Find manual labor work where you live now. Build up a portfolio and do freelance work setting up sites for local businesses, it helps expand your portfolio so if someone hires you, you can throw that at them, and also helps allow you to build a reputation.
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>>18331774
how did you find work on a crabbing boat? How did you start off as a greenhorn?
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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Men,
Would you prefer
>a traditional girl, pretty and submissive and sweet and innocent but mildly boring and kind of stupid
or
>a career focussed woman who was very intelligent and well read, earned her own money but was also fiercely independant and slightly cynical of the world
This assumes other things, like mental health and attractiveness, are equal.
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Women,
How do I tell my gf she could be taking better care of her appearance without sounding like a dick?
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>How do I tell my gf she could be taking better care of her appearance without sounding like a dick?
It's honestly really hard. All I can suggest is buying her nice clothing or something, but it's tricky and likely to backfire.
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Tldr, went to a psychiatrist because I was raped recently. I haven't lost weight since it happened, I just don't eat or sleep as much along with many other things but thats what she focused on the most. She said I'm too skinny and prescribed me Seroquel, I refuse to take it. She lied and said its for "Anxiety" and should make me gain weight/sleep. It would make me gain weight and sleep but thats about it.
Can I ask my psychiatrist to change my medication to anxiety meds?
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i think a lot of psychs are too willing to prescribe stuff, try treating without medication for a while
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>>18331051
A psychiatrists' main goal is to prescribe meds and monitor their effectiveness. As a result, some might pay little care to your feelings.
My suggestion would be to see a psychologist for therapy and get the meds from someone else, such as your PCP (they can prescribe psychotropic meds too).
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>>18331065
>some might pay little care to your feelings
This is awful. I literally get headaches/nausea already and she tried to give me shit that has headaches/nausea as a side effect.
What a piece of shit