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GIOYC thread. Vent, Rant, Project, Explode, write love notes, etc...the point is get whatever you're holding in out onto here.
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it seems physically impossible to have a healthy platonic relationship with another person, let alone a romantic one.
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Just went on a huge Cynic binge and it made me think about my ex. So I entertained the thought a bit more and it's fucked me up. I'm actually short of breath now, I got a barrage of urges to text her out of the blue and tell her how shitty I think it is that we can't talk. FFS, she didn't even like them that much. And she didn't like Traced In Air. Why do I have to get so fucking triggered by music I loved years and years before I even met her
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I had the worst dream last night.
It was extremely vivid, like I was truly there.

Then it turned out to be a dream within a dream. I kept hearing a voice telling me to wake up... again and again and again.

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have to break up with gf. and it's not a good reason.

shes balding and I find it repulsive. that's it. she lost a lot of hair in the last 2 years and it kills my boner. Should I make something else up or should I be an asshole and break it to her straight?
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>>18349573
get her some Rogain, you nitwit
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>>18349573

doesn't really matter at this point. honesty has its point, she at least knows its because you are shallow (And reasonably so imo) but also lying to her has its advantage of not crushing her hopes for hte future, which may not need crushing depending on the severity of it all.
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>>18349573
make up another reason, its gonna hurt enough.

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>I have no game
>She always smiles and giggles at me ever since this one time I looked at her boobs when she wasn't wearing a sweater for the first time
>One time while talking to me even grabbed her boobs
What do I say to get her number?
I don't want to take her out since she slutty and horny.
"Hey , you got/want my number?"
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>>18352732
desu she's probably being friendly because you act like you have autism and she feels bad.
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>>18352736
Lmao nah bro. Im pretty funny, and i flirt back.
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For the most part i act professional

Are most guys really put off by shaved hair girls? I don't mean full bald or balding spots but shaved like pic related. I find it really hot, and I always hear people talking about it like they're vomiting is that really what other guys think or it's just because they think only "feminists" look like that and want to piss them?
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>>18352510
i could get used to it.
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>>18352510
I can't speak for "most guys" because like everyone else replying to this thread I'm a single person in a world of 7 billion.
7,000,000,000
seven billion
seven thousand millions
7000 millions.
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>>18352510
that shits too freaky for me
like that haircut doesnt even look that good on men

i dont want to see your fuckin scalp

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>feel bad for no gf
>"you just need to start to love yourself anon"
>starting liking myself
>go to gym
>eat healthy
>get /fit/
>educate myself with shit im interested in
>only focus on myself, dont care about others
>realize that I hate other people, everyone except myself
>stop meeting my friends because they are retard losers
>get redpilled on women
>stop getting interested in girls, i dont wanna have a gf that divorces me, takes custody of my children and take half my paycheck when im older
>still love myself though, especially mirin myself in the mirror after a tan

So did I take the advice well?
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>>18352247
No.
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>>18352247
You slipped up, loser. You are tripping out rn.
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>>18352247

Congrats, you turned youself into a physically attractive and confident dumbass

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>be me, match Asian qt in December
> Get confused, /adv/ watches me go from hero to zero and fucking up with girl
> wait a week, in last ditch effort apologize for coming on strong and creepy, ask to be friends, give her my number
> she says it's ok, texts me her number
> wait a while, follow each other on IG
> play it cool, finally opportunity for date in April
> we have two dates, I purposefully take things slow in effort to move from trying to be hookup to a little more serious than that, all good so far
> she gets into car accident, try to comfort her, I get confused again and rely on my "player" of a buddy to help me out
> he gets me insecure about not fucking tinder girl yet and she's just gonna ditch me when all this blows over
>i recruit his help to text for me
> he texts this bullshit and fucks me over
> I can tell there's tension between me and girl, wait a couple days, called to apologize for these ridiculous texts and showing up at her place uninvited, tell her I'm just shit and try to hard with girls
> make a couple more attempts at hanging out with her
> busy a lot, facetimed me a couple hours once and told me she felt on the fence about me, open to seeing if I turn out to be a player like her ex or actually a genuine moron


Tl;dr - I've asked about my case before. I barely knew this girl about a week and we went on a couple really good dates. There's a lot of attraction and I tried to take things slow (that's just my personality these days). Anyways... Came off creepy with these texts, not sure if there's anything else I can do to salvage situation. She hasn't necessarily ghosted me but her replies aren't what they used to... Help me out /adv/
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>>18351880
I should never of taken my buddy's advice. I've seen him text girls before and holy shit they are cringe worthy. But he claims to have fucked hundreds of girls...
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>>18351883
These hurt my soul to read. Holy shit they are bad
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>>18351887
Proof my friend is a psycho. But I'm also a weenie for listening to his crap

I've spent 5 years feeling incredibly disconnected and numb. I am unable to make clear thought and I am often forgetful and slow. I've had blood tests and they've all came back completely fine. It feels as if there is cotton wool wrapped around my brain.. Has anyone experienced this?
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Have you talked to a doctor about this?
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>>18351789

He can't help me...
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Stop smoking weed.

And get a broad spectrum test for things you might be allergic to.

Do you live a normal life or are you ingesting or doing something that could be a cause?

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>smack my female friend's ass
>she just turns around with a smirk and tells me I'm a fucking asshole while giggling
>she smacks my ass back, then massages my back neck/traps area for a couple of seconds
>we just go back to walking normally afterwards
does she want the d
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>>18351753
in a word: yes.
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>>18351753
she wants a back rub
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>>18351764
what if I told you
>she tries to date other guys but quickly loses interest in them, has high standards apparently
>she wants to find a guy when we go out to bars/clubs half the time while I split off to half heartedly find a girl or dance with rest of group
>she straight up said she didn't want to date me (it's okay, the feeling is mutual), some time later when I got a bit more /fit/ she said she finds me attractive
>was her date to her sister's wedding
>tells me I could get a gf or get laid easy if I tried, knows I'm a kissless virgin
>Tipsy carried her for all of 1 minute princess style in arms while she was saying "hee hee look we're married" two weeks ago
>asked me to move in with her, but it's more of a "I need someone to split the rent with" situation

I don't want to date her but I don't think I would mind fwb. Is this just deeeeep friend zone area?
Known her for around 1.5 years.

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Does anyone know about the masons? How does one become a Freemason? What are the benefits of being one? Honestly I'm kind of terrified of the idea but I feel like I need to do something like this for myself. I haven't committed to anything like this in my life before.

If not becoming a Freemason, are there any alternatives? So many people I know are part of some sort of group (i.e. joined a frat at some point), went to the military, etc. I'm not sure if this is for me but I feel like I'm not living correctly if I don't aim for something like this. Sorry for the loaded OP.
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Goto the website.
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>>18351684
I don't recommend it. These groups will try to pump your head full of a bunch of bullshit manifestos, effectively brainwashing you until you completely lose sight of yourself as an individual. Your life becomes centered around living under the ideology you have been fed, regardless of whether or not you're making decisions within your best interest.
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>>18351715
It is what OP seek, he is lost alone he needs a path to follow, something to do in his meaningless life. But OP, joining a sect isn't the right thing to do.

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Today I saw, for the second time, a bunch of kids filling alcohol on cola bottles behind the car lot at the local grocery store, most likely to bring it with them to the high school a bit down the street.
Was around lunch time like the other day I saw them.

Should I contact the school about this or ignore it?
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>>18351428
This is literally, and I mean this in the correct sense of the word, none of your concern.
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>>18351428
no
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>>18351431
Exactly but seeing young people fuck up their future doesn't sooth me either.

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>like a woman
>need to pretend you dont give a rat's ass about her

Is there a scientific/psychological reason behind this. This shit makes no sense; Can anyone hook me up with some articles
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>>18351015
People want what is unattainable to them at the given moment.
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Women are actually braindead, narcissistic fucking idiots idk what to tell you anon just treat them like semi above intelligence dogs
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It signals value.

Imagine that you had the pick of any female you wanted: you would most likely be uninterested and bored with the vast majority of them, since you get the cream of the crop. On the other hand, if you're an undesirable NEET you would be extremely desperate for any kind of female attention.

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I meant what the hell is wrong with my sister?
She's 3 years older than me and she's having a habit since forever that every time when somebody asked me anything she would answer it for me. Like seriously. It was fine when I was younger, I felt protective and such but since we're getting older and older, up to now is almost 30s she still has that habit.
She corrected me every damn time, when someone asked me she automatically answer it like it just that. I tried to tell her not to do that and we ended up fighting each other.
What do I do now?
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>>18350798
What was the gist of the fight after you told her to stop answering on your behalf? It will help if you can remember accurately and don't gloss over retelling parts of the conversation with "blah blah blah."
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>>18350938
I always tell her not to cut me off in the middle while I am answering people's question. Sometimes she admitted and apologize she won't do it again bla blah. But sometimes the fight even worse because she thinks I don't see the point that she's helping me to make it easier for people to understand what I wanted to tell them.
Like seriously. I am an adult now I work I have my social life and connections, it's just something that I don't see her would change. Not even she's done it to me she's also done this to her husband. Whenever my brother in law get asked by others she automatically cut him off. It's really annoying.
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>>18351036
You're an adult and you can speak for yourself. Make that plain and clear to her if she keeps doing that then the best thing you could do is just ignore her and not talk to her. She'll wonder why you're being so "mean" and just bring up that you are ignoring her since she ignores a pet peeve of yours.

you're an adult in only thing that she can do for you to "stop acting that way" is to fulfill your wish and stop is she people's questions when they asked you.

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I'm in a relationship with my dads ex wife. We are around age I'm 27 she is 31 and they met 2012, married 2014 and divorced in 2015. I met her 7 months ago and starred sleeping together and we secretly moved in with each other 4 months ago. I'm in love with her. I barely met her when she was with my dad because I don't have much of a relationship with him. She is now 11 weeks pregnant with my child. I want to marry her but I really don't want my dad or family to find out because they might get wrong idea. What do I do?
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Well som you could have thought anout this 11 months ago or literally any other time you were banging your DAD'S ex WIFE bro what the fuck are you doing dude??!

>they might get the wrong idea

And what idea is that sonny boy?
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>>18350765
The idea that we are bad people or are doing it to hurt my dad. We genuinely love each other it isn't a fake relationship meant to piss off people.
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>>18350768
Well you kind of are bad people and doing it to hurt your dad. Cuz there's no way he wont be hurt when it comes out, and you knew this and decided to not only fuck her but have a child with her. Look maybe you do love each other but you really fucked up here man.

Man up and tell your dad, and expect your family to want nothing to do with you anymore. You made your choice now you must stand by it.

>i'm not good enough for you

What did she mean by this?
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>>18350733

>What did she mean by this?

I think the sentence is pretty self-explanatory. Do you seriously need help interpreting a straight forward, 6 word sentence?
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>I just don't see you as romantically as I first thought

JUST fuck my heart up senpai
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>i might like you a little bit but I want to fuck and pursue people that aren't you more and that isn't fair to you

(sorry for my shitty english)
Short story: should i try to become a game developer?

LONG story:
i have always wanted to make videogames as a living. Watching game desing videos, readings stuff, etc.
i'm basically a walking "game desing" encyclopedia....BUT, i just recently starting learning programing(thanks college!) and actually doing things in order to accomplish this stupid dream.
I only have 4 years until i finish college and have to get a "real" job so i made a plan:

*first year(this one):
-learn "at least" one programming language(currently learning C++, it quite easy but i think i will try java next)
-get a "gamedev" program (i got game maker studio because Unity is mostly desing for 3d games and 2D is my jam)
-don't be an idiot and learn to use the program, watch tutorials, practice, etc (i already started this one)
-learn pixelart (i haven't started, but i will spend at least 2-3 hours at week during the first year)

*Second Year:
-start making small projects(nothing that takes more than 1-2 months) just to practice in general.

*First half of the third year:
-Make a game in 6 months (the objective of this step is to test my skills until this point. I want to know what i'm capable of making for the next step)

*second half of the third year and fourth year:
-Make a "legit" videogame in this time(i'm not gonna be stupid and try to make Undertale. I'm just going to do the best i can do with my skills and time)
-Sell the game
-????
-profit

Cons:
-i would have to do this while i study
-i know the "theory" of game-making but i have no practice so i'm starting pretty much from zero
-fuck my free time :)
-i may fail....

Pros:
-I WANTED TO DO THIS SHIT SINCE I WA A KID
-i know that being a gamedev is not the most rentable job, but i don't care about having a lot of money if i can make games for the rest of my life and get paid for it.
-My BF fully supports me(he is a nice artist and is willing to help me)
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>>18350706
you won't fail if you try hard enough and you should try enough to achieve ur dreams, go do it faggot
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>>18350706
OP here
Pros continued: i have a friend who composes music(is not that good but is something) and also knows animation(she is PRETTY good at that) and she's also willing to help

SO.......should i go for it? do you have any advice? should i change my plan?
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>>18350709
i suggest you stick to your college but in the meantime you can still learn stuff on your own, independently of the college course. even if you fail, you'll have more knowledge than other students in a similar field and you could get a job at bigger companies.

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