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how do I be nicer to people whom i can't tolerate their personality?

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Hey, what's up /adv/. I need help with my foreskin problem. I have phimosis, but it's gotten to the point where I can pull it half down when I'm erect. The problem I have is that the head of my penis is super sensitive. How do I desensitize my penis to where I can actually touch it?

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23 years old and working at a restaurant making less than minimum wage. What's a job I can get with 1-2 years of training where I can make a living?

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Guys i have 18 years old and will move out to USA next year, i will do
a community college at Valencia in Florida, i really don't like hot
weather but i will have to because my stepdad lives there.

Soo what's my questions?

1:I just want to have a simple life living in a state that has a good quality of life without working 24/7 (Like everyone says about USA)
I want a state that has nature, mountains and parks but doesn't lack on night life, having nice restaurants and cool places

2:Is true that Americans are cold as fuc?

3:How hard is for someone to earn $2000 dollars per month with 23-26 years old?
(Figured out that's my goal with money, to pay my hobbies and have a simple life, don't want to have more)

4:Most useful tips for a young adult moving to Usa? what should i expect?

5:i will have to work 24/7 all my life to afford me in the country? like i said i don't want this, i want quality of life.

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Dumped my gf because i was being to clingy
and i hate feeling this way [first gf]

I am crying and suffering and i will wait 1 month soo i can't suffer soo much that i won't forget about it

but what is the best way of talking to her?

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Should I continue to be picky and hold out for a girl that fits what I want in a girl, both in looks and personality?

I'm not expecting that I am gonna end up with a supermodel, but the idea of compromising and going out with someone that doesn't fit my style or my interests seems like a waste of time. But I am 30 now... is it time to just give up now?

For example, I love this hairstyle and redheads, almost like a fetish. Wouldn't it be wrong to date a brunette with a pixie cut?

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How do I dance at parties? I'm very robotic, and I want to fit in at college.

(Sorry for accidentally posting this in that other thread)

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Am I right in thinking that I'm well past the age where people start exploring their sexualities? I'm 26 and really, really, really, really horny

I've never found the opportunity to have sex in real life, so should I try tinder? I've been waiting to lose my virginity to my first boyfriend (I'm a woman) but I've given up on ever finding a boyfriend. Should I lose it to a hookup on tinder?

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I've been living with my uncle for a while. First time seeing him in maybe 15 years. He is happily married and has a daughter my age. They're all good people and I love them.

I am so, so attracted to him. It's insane. He isn't objectively handsome or anything, he's shorter than me and obviously much older, but he's so funny and interesting and one of the best people I know. I thought about raping him. I want to attack him and do things to him. But I'd also like a more peaceful, traditional relationship. We'd sit at the table, eating, I'd laugh at some joke he made, but all I can think about is I want to rip his clothes off and I want to bite him and I want us to fuck and I want to suck his dick.

I'm horrified of what goes through my mind. I plan on leaving here and removing myself from the situation and hope these horrible thoughts go away. Until then I'm paranoid I'll say something or do something to make them suspect me. I need some advice please.

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Tldr How do I tell a woman I'm not interested without her being shitty?

Story
>Great friend of mine got me an awesome job making awesome money
>his fiancé is my manager
>shes about my age, 30 or so, has that 9/10 thicc softball player kind of body but 5/10 kinda beat face
>I knew her a bit before this but not like I do now
>I'm more or less the only person who has to work directly with her, we share an office though we're rarely in there
>finishing our paperwork the other day after hours, she tells me they are on the rocks
>he has never said anything like this to me so Idk if true or not
>two days ago, either by her design or they actually are on the rocks, she left to stay at her sister's until they figured it out
>today as I was getting my things and closing up our office, she doubles back and asks if I'm doing anything tonight
>"I've got a couple of errands but not really, what's up?"
>"you want to get a drink or something?
>" I shouldn't, maybe Friday? "
>"yeah that sounds great"
For one, I shouldn't have said maybe Friday. I now have to back out of that because I'm not going. Its not just because of my dude Im saying no, I'm legitimately not interested. I'm just worried if I turn her down she'll become a bitch and I have to deal with her everyday. How to let her down easy without seeming like an asshole? Shes kinda brash but pretty smart, what are the chances she'll see it for what it is and understand?

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Is lying in bed at night, browsing murky corners of the internet on your smartphone to drive away profound existential dread a productive activity? Because that's what I'm doing right now.

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/adv/, can you advise me on which are the best video games of the 2000-2010~ era? Current titles all feel a bit hollywood, and I prefer how the games from back then let you have full raw control over your character's movements, instead of having mini cinematic-style events for simple things like healing, or opening a door.

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So I my girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me about a year ago. I went through all the stages of grieving with that and got over her so this isn't about that. I realize she's a spoiled child and I'm better off without her.

For the purpose of advice giving I am a 26 year old man, out of school, working full time.

But where I'm going with this is, despite being over her I can still safely say that she was fucking beautiful.

Now I've always struggled with self esteem about my looks. But in the past I went to some therapy and I started lifting a few years ago and that helped me out a lot.

However I've come to the depressing realization that no matter how much I try to love myself. At the end of the day. I'm ugly. Ok maybe ugly is too strong a word. But I am a 6/10 at best.

I've been trying to get into online dating for like 3 months now. I've been out trying to meet people. And all it has done is affirm this fear I have that I will never be with anyone as attractive as my ex ever again. Worse than that, no one I find attractive finds me attractive, ever. I've had the depressing realization that I will probably either live my life alone, or have to settle for someone I don't even find attractive because my standards have been set too high by my ex.

And before anyone says "we'll you got your ex didn't you." Well it turns out she's a lesbian. She was never really attracted to me, but liked me for who I was. I was just the first guy that was good enough for her to get over her lack of attraction. Until she realized why she was never attracted to men.

To top it all off I'm balding. Every time I look in the mirror I just see this extremely slightly below average face and it just disgusts me.

How do I go on living like this? Because its draining me of my will to even live. Knowing my future love and sex life only goes down hill from here.

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Hi /adv/, I start to worry that I'm fucking retarded.

I went on a date with my next door neighbor after her third request. We talked for four hours straight, seemingly we share a lot of interests. She is cute, smart, young and healthy.

I couldn't care less about her and felt as if I was wasting my time. There's no interest in her at all. It's not only her, this is how I feel about most people.

What the hell is wrong with me? Pls explain, it feels as if I'm highly dysfunctional. The only thing I get emotional about is my career.

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Hi /adv/. I have never posted here before, but I need some relationship advice.

I've been in a relationship with my bf for a little over 2 years. It started out as a normal relationship but slowly became more of a D/s dynamic with me being the sub. That's all well and good, but lately he has treated me very degradingly and hasn't really done anything to care for me afterwards. Whenever I bring it up he just says "you know I love you" or "you're too sensitive." He does love me and he has never treated me badly outside the bedroom, but still being treated like that can be hard on my self esteem. I still need to be able to look in the mirror and see a worthwhile person afterwards.

We love each other and I have no desire to leave him, but something needs to change.

Should he take more time to make sure our relationship isn't hurting me, or is he right and I'm just being oversensitive? Also how can I talk to him about it in a way that he'll listen?