I'm 28 years old and have a liberal arts degree because everyone said I had to "do what you love ". Now I realize the wages are low and even if I'm the best in my field, I won't be able to achieve my dream: buying a house and having a family. Besides, I'm not really that good at what I do.
How do I increase my income?
Do I have to study a degree of a trade? Is the investment worth it?
What concerns me about starting over is that I'll be too old and inexperienced to enter the job hunt.
What to do? Do I just kill my self?
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One less progressive the better so yea
kys
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>>18358897
I want to study finance or start a business.
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>>18358900
lol maybe you shouldn't have majored in something retarded and put yourself in crippling debt
better luck next life
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i am thinking about reading now, im 25.
what books should i read?
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Go to >>>/lit/ and ask them the same question. Write them down on a list and go the library or a book store because reading a physical book is so much comfier than reading e-books on your phone. Now go look around and get any book not on the list.
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thanks bro/ u suk
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Read: Mein Kamph and The Protocols Of The Learned Elders Of Zion.
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How do I ask people for their phone number without being awkward about it?
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>>18359801
>ask bartender to charge my phone
>say put your number in there while youre at it
just dont be a retard and make sure it sounds not awkward
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Stop being u fag
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Stop being dumb and have some confidence u faggot
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it's gotten to the point where my bf disgusts me. what's happened and how do i change that?
he's not objectively disgusting. he's good looking and has good hygiene. yet, everything about him disgusts me. his breath, his snoring, his saliva, how he smells, how he has always a clogged nose, how he's always horny, his sperm... i feel VERY bad about it, because i don't know why i feel that way and he definitely doesn't deserve this.
i seriously need help.
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Sounds like you have pent up resentment towards him. Take some time apart. Really think about what it is that made you view him differently. An argument? A difference in opinion? A feeling that he doesn't value you?
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i've just googled "disgust" and came across an interesting article that described the psychology behind it. it basically said that disgust is the fear of contamination. and that might just be it. i'm pregnant and he wants a LOT of sex (if it wasn't for me, he'd want to fuck 5x a day...). which has led to me having various infections, including a bad bladder infection and having to take antibiotics. all stuff that can cause miscarriage. i think that might be the root of it. it disgusts me that he doesn't even stop and think. that he seems to care more about shooting his sperm inside me than not killing our baby. i told him SO many times. infact, we have that discussion almost weekly. he thinks i'm being cold and distant, when at first i just tried to not fuck up my body in order to protect the kid. but since he can't accept my physical limitations that are there to keep our unborn alive, this has evolved into disgust from anything that reminds me of his bodily functions or indicates that he wants physical intimacy, like kissing or caressing.
ugh... how do i make him believe me that it is extremely important for my body and our relationship that he seriously tones it down? this is breaking me.
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>>18359759
Why don't you stop being a cow and just suck him?
t. A woman
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>mole on navel suddenly becomes raised, pink and sore to the touch
>no medical insurance
what do i do?
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Is it multicolored an asymmetrical?
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>>18359656
seems symetrical. its mostly one color, like one dark spot where the hair is growing tho
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>>18359697
>like one dark spot where the hair is growing
congrats you got an infected hair follicle not cancer.
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Do girls like being called sluts/whores over (dirty) text or am I being too aggressive? Should I be softer? I feel like I would weird them out.
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>>18359525
Ask first if she's into rough play
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>>18359525
It depends on the girl. Some are really into that others will be offended. Try to start out less harsh and see what the response is first
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>>18359525
>Do girls like being called sluts/whores over (dirty) text
Stupid question. We have no idea what "girls" like because girls aren't a hive mind. They all like different things for different reasons because they're all individual human beings, not a species of Pokemon.
Feel out social situations for yourself and don't depend on a board full of teenage virgins to inform your decisions through wild speculation about the preferences of some girl they know nothing about.
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22 year old beta seeking advice. How to score pussy?
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Go get it. It's so easy.
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>>18359513
>22 year old beta seeking advice. How to score pussy?
Stop using internet memes propagated by losers and virgins to shape your interpretation of the world.
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Go to r/theredpill and read the concepts. Truly understand them. Then, improve yourself, the pussy will follow.
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How do I convince suicidal girl to be sex slave 2017-05-29 12:06:11 Post No.18359285
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How do I convince suicidal girls that if they are going to kill themselves they might as well make themselves they might as well make themselves usefull by letting their friend dump a couple loads into them?
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When she talks about suicide. Say this : I don't give a shit about your problems, call me when you want to change your mind.
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>>18359285
what's in it for them? the key to persuasion is appealing to their own self interest.
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>>18359285
That's gonna take some serious manipulation on your part, so it'll depend on how good you are at manipulating people. You don't convince her to be your sex slave. You convince her that you are everything she needs to continue wanting to live. At that point, she'll be willing to do anything you want to keep you from leaving her. That's when you drop the "sex slave" bomb on her and hope that you've done a good job of making her feel like she needs you to live.
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suspected pedophile found out by accident
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friend of mine borrowed phone to use facebook, forgot to log out, and had chats with a forty five year old man that she called 'daddy' (he was not her dad.) they talked about kissing and other... stuff not appropriate to be discussed between a middle aged man and a seventeen year old girl. need advice as to whether or not i should report the activity to the authorities or let it be. don't want her knowing i snooped through her messages, but also don't want to see her taken advantage of by an old man. i still have her log in info and could gather evidence if i needed to... not sure if i should.
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>>18359094
You should do it to get YOU a peace of mind.
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>>18359094
>seventeen year old girl
She's not a fucking kid OP let her make her own life choices
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not sure how to go about reporting it, even. would prefer to stay anonymous to authorities- not sure if i would need to go back and get proof or if police will just get a warrant to search his message history just on my word.
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hi. my life is becoming hell.
i live at home. my plan was to move to another state in a few months. i have friends in the town im moving to. my parents would support me for 6 months while i live in an apartment while i:
1. find a job.
2. sign up for local community college.
this is starting to crumble. i hate my parents. i hate my house, i hate my life. this is how i was going to start over and it seems that i might have to do it on my own.
what can i do? can i literally drive there tonight, sleep on a street/couch surf etc? can i then get a job? who would hire a homeless 20 year old?
how can i get an apartment without a job? how can i get a job without an apartment? i won't technically be a citizen of the state for 1 year.
i'm getting dangerously close to another suicide attempt, but today isn't the day. today might just be the day i pack up my bags and walk out the door, past my screaming mother and shitty father, get in my car and drive there.
no plan, no money, no anything. homeless in a city with friends is better than living in this fucking prison cell.
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>>18359082
>my life is becoming hell.
>my parents would support me for 6 months
>i hate my life
wew lad.
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>>18359093
they offered, now they're taking it back.
that's fine. thats fair. its their money.
what the fuck do i do though? do i just leave anyway?
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>>18359097
Are you a bit behind/slow? I'm not joking
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Questioning my masculinity
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Hi /adv/
I'm a 20 yo guy. I've never been a really manly guy, and always been okay with that, since i've always hated the stereotypical macho manly dude. I'm pretty skinny, not much body hair. I look pretty much "twink" if you want. I've always liked being androgynous, always despised sports, and I have some pretty feminine traits, especially with my emotions, i'm a pretty sensitive guy. I'm completely heterosexual though.
But, lately, I kinda want to be manly. But I still enjoy the androgynous/boy image too. Well I don't know what I want to be anymore.
It's true especially since I'm with my gf, I love her, and I want her to feel like she's with a MAN, not with a boy. I want to have a better body, and to act manlier.
So I'm kinda lost. Like I really don't know if I should hit the gym for example, one part of me wants to, but another part doesn't because "it's not who I am". But at the same time I can see some muscular guy and feel like "Damn, i wish i had that body".
That's pretty much it, tl;dr androgynous boyish dude suddenly wants to be a man but at the same time still hates the MUH STRONG MAN cliche. I know I could become manlier without turning into a cliche, but I don't know how to do that and it's bothering me, I feel so conflicted lately. And since I'm the type of person to question myself all the time, I'm just lost.
What am I supposed to do ? How do I become manlier without completely changing my appearance and personality ? I wish I could keep a balance of both but I don't know how.
halp pls
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Just go for the ottermode physique. You're already skinny so you don't have to lose body fat, just work out and get some abs.
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>>18358994
Changing your appearance won't change much of your perception of your self. If you want to "be a man", the best thing you can do is be assertive and not care what anyone else thinks about you and what you do.
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>>18358994
Your 20. Grow up and you'll be there, you already sound more manly than alot of guys out there.
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I have a very complicated situation on my hands.
I'm 19. My parents separated when I was 3, mostly because my mother wanted indepence from my father because she was mad that he managed all the money and was very tired, my father was never around for me so idgaf about him and my mother wasn't around for 5 years until I was 8 years old, she was in another country working so I could go there, but as a result I feel no attachment to her, I feel grateful for that, but that's all I feel.
My mother had a tough childhood, she also has this very rare mental illness called somatization disorder (akaik it's an ilness that makes you feel real pain in your body instead of anxiety/depression), she can't stand any arguments or agression or anything like that, the problem is, that I really don't get along well with her current husband of many years, who she's going to divorce.
On top of that, things are really shit for me now and have been for a while, like 4 years, I had a tough childhood too and really fucking broken heart, so I want to kill myself and I see absolutely no way out of the pain and no point at all in trying to make things better for me anymore because I don't even have the strenght anymore and I'm broken as fuck so things will eventually go back to being shit anyways for me. I have been honest about this many times to my mother, as much as it pains me to tell her, but just now I realised this is making her sickness way worse. She really loves me, but I don't feel the same way, I'm just grateful that she gave me a better chance at life.
I just want to die. I used to think it was selfish to think like that but fuck me I've been in pain for so long I don't even care anymore.
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I'm sorry you're feeling bad.
I'm depressed as fuck also so I don't have any advice aside from, don't kill yourself. Wait awhile. Keep moving forward. We can do this
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>>18358858
I don't know man, I just don't want anyone to suffer if I choose to go, especially my mom who has worked so hard to give me a better chance at life, but the pain is fucking unbearable, I've already "toughened up" so many fucking times
I have no studies, no good future yet all my life my expectatives have been set extremely high by other who said I was so smart and talented
This shit is such a bad fucking joke
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Hey bud. Right off the bat, I'll include my shell email account for these kinds of occasions, should you need to chat in more detail
lololfireishot @ live . com (no spaces, naturally)
I'm 28. I've dealt with severe depression, anxiety issues, and a handful of other health related problems.
As for the depression, it's honestly just something that comes with the tides. Every spell I've weathered felt like it would never end, and every time I managed to get out of it, it felt like I might finally be free of it.
Currently, I feel mentally wonderful, and it's been quite a while since I actually felt like I was stuck in the abyss, but I know it's still there. My immediate suggestion is to reinforce the notion that you're still young, and with so much left to experience and fight for, you need to push yourself through this. Analyze who you are as a person. What may make you happy. What goals you have or may have.
In such an intense amount of pain, and perhaps feeling as though you have nothing, you have nothing to fear in the pursuit of happiness, or these goals you've conjured up. The best solution is that you find a source of joy that is static. Something that doesn't revolve around something you can lose. For me, I'm an artist of sorts. I can fall back into a creative world that can't be stolen or lost.
I think the worst of it is over for me, but I can never really be sure. Regardless, just know that us fucked up folk stick together. If you ever need to talk, shoot me an email.
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This is going to be long so bear with me.
Around 5 years ago I met a Hungarian exchange student at my university. We fell in love and were together 4 years. Finally we would close the distance so she moved in with me in my city in Germany. However, she wasn't able to adapt here because she felt 'trapped' and like a 'housewife' (I was working full time to provide for us while she'd look for a job). She gave up and moved back home after being here for 5 weeks. We mutually broke up. 3 weeks later she has a one night stand and tells me about it. Breaking my heart again. A month later I decide to swallow the pill and propose that I move to Hungary for her to live together there. She says she met a new guy and she wants to give him a chance instead of me moving to be with her. Breaks my heart the 3rd time.
Now 4 months later she messaged me again saying she 'can't stop comparing me to other guys', that she would 'fall into pieces if she thinks about whether or not she still loves me' etc etc. That she is 'reconsidering everything'. I get my hopes up and two days later she's cold as stone again. She ignores me completely no matter what I say. The only thing she said is she "doesn't want to talk to me" and today she accused me of logging into her instagram because a German IP tried to log in because she had a mail about suspicious activity.
What should I do, /adv/?
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Bumping it up.
Forgot to say, she's not in a relationship right now but she's still ignoring me and not respecting me at all.
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>>18358669
Find another. There is no fix for this.
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Typical german cuck.
The bitch fucked other people. Its gg. Get drunk for a weekend or two fuck a whore. if she contacts you again respond fuck off whore.
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How to give a woman several orgasm 2017-05-28 07:50:24 Post No.18358628
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How to give a woman several orgasm
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Hi dudes and femanons. I have an idea in my mind that doesn't allow me to sleep. How the heck do I fuck a woman in order to make her have a lot of orgasms ? Please tell me legit information, my life depends on it. I want to fuck a woman until she faints from pleasure.
Thanks,
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every woman is different, but there are the basic things like knowing how to use your finger and tongue.
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Get a Hitachi if you don't have the stamina to keep up yourself.
But every woman is going to be different, this is a conversation you need to have with whoever you're involved with and see what they like.
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>>18358628
>get super into rock climbing
>fingers are stronk as fuck
Love life is good.
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Just a quick reminder to 75% of this board to go fuck themselves and get on with their shitty lives with their petty problems. Bitches
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fuck u too
all the best.
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>>18358609
any advice on where i can get on with my shitty life?