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I would like to avoid dating multiple people at the same time, so help me pick who I should go out with between these 4 dudes.
I am 25.
>A - 27, PhD student, 7.5/10
Pros - very sensitive, intellectual, artistic, well-read, elegant, similar interests, decent sense of humour, similar background
Cons - shy, a bit overly emotional, just out of a long term relationship
>J - 33, university teacher, 8/10
Pros - same interests, adventurous, fun to be around, very charming, well-read
Cons - a bit of a manwhore, conversation can be a bit dry at times, extroverted
>L - 24, master student, 7/10
Pros - great sense of humour, caring, well-read, fun to be around, similar interests, makes me feel very comfortable, seems very into me
Cons - will move away after the summer
>M - 25, master student, 7.5/10
Pros - great sense of humour, very charming, similar interests, seems very into me
Cons - a bit of a manwhore, very closed off emotionally
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Why?
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You would like to "avoid" dating multiple or are you just a slut...it's ok to be a slut ...some men can smell a slut like a lion smells it's pretty from far away so they might not want nothing more but nutting down your throat
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FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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1. sup boyos
2. Do men actually care about women's finger nails? I look at nail polish and manicure prices while waiting at the salon and am blown away that people would spend that much money on those things.
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Guys: How long does it usually take you to get over a relationship? I know you probably can't ever fully but when's enough time that you're feeling fine and can date again?
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Any girls here actually willing to fuck other men if it was ok for your boyfriend?
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I wrote a 10 page paper for a friend of mine for $100. Problem is he has only paid me 40 in cash. He tried to get out of paying me the next 20 by buying me dinner and other bullshit. It has now been over a month since he paid me and he still owes me another 40, 60 if I don't count his dinner scam. He said he would pay me the next 20 two weeks ago and he still hasn't. I have reminded him several times and plan to do so again tomorrow, but he is ignoring me and I have a feeling he is trying not to pay me the rest. If he refuses to pay me by the end of this week I am going to report him to his college. However since the school year is over now, what kind of trouble could he get in if I report him over the summer? Colleges usually make a big deal about plagiarism so I am seeking the harshest punishment. I've written many other papers for him as well, so would this be enough to get him expelled permanently? Also since we go to different schools, nothing can happen to me right? This is all assuming he doesn't pay me what he owes.
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>>18364036
If you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas.
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kek, they'll tell your school you're selling your papers. Don't think you won't go down for this too. Colleges take plagiarism very seriously after all, and most colleges are in contact with one another.
Suck it up, ignore your petty need for revenge because you're only gonna fuck yourself over more. Be thankful you got dinner and 40 bucks out of him, never write another paper for him again.
You do shady business, you gotta realize you're gonna get scammed at some point. Your buddy knows you can't touch him without getting in trouble yourself too.
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Worst they'll do is give him an F for whatever class it was, maybe put him on academic probation for next semester, provided you really can prove it's not his work.
He can probably spin it on you and say you're the one that stole his papers.
Truth is, schools don't actually give a fuck about plagiarism as much as they let on. I've cheated most of my way through college, very blatantly, and they've never done shit.
They're a business. They want this dudes money, no way in hell are they gonna suspend him or expel him. That just means they're gonna lose money. No, instead they'll just tell you "Uh hah. yeah k dude we'll def look into that" and ignore you. Too much work to investigate, especially since you don't even go there.
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I'm a 22 year old man, I live alone, have a full time job and I've never dated anyone. I don't drink or do drugs either.
The loneliness is getting to me but I find myself becoming more disgusted with the idea of relationships and sex. I also think majority of people my age are disgusting because of their substance use.
I'm not sure how to proceed. I feel like the last member of my species.
The pic is unrelated, garter snakes are just cute.
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>I also think majority of people my age are disgusting because of their substance use.
yeah seems like most single women around here all have some drug use problem. imagine that.
it's not that everyone has a substance use problem anon, its that all the single people do. most of the good women are in relationships, or pursuing careers and not actively looking for relationships.
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>>18364045
I'm not pursuing anyone.
I've just never met another a person who doesnt do those things.
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>No girl's into me
>I hate my entire species
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My boyfriend is cheating on me
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A few nights ago I kept having really bad dreams that he was speaking to other girls. He had odd behavior so I felt the need to go through his phone (I know, I know I'm a bad person...) I found out he's been flirting with some girl he met on overwatch and he's been flirting with some other girl I asked him not to speak to. He even messaged her on my birthday which really hurt me.
I've been feeling really down about it and I'm way to scared to say anything. And I have no idea what to say.
I don't want to really be with him anymore either. I know for a fact he will blame me.
>but!!! You talk to guys when you play overwatch!!
Yeah but I don't flirt with them.
>it makes you an attention whore!!!
I have screenshots of everything so he can't deny it
I have no idea if I should keep gathering screenshots or bring it up right now.
Also we do live together. And I don't really have anywhere to go. But I'm talking about this situation with a coworker who might need a roommate.
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hey, he sounds just like me. yeah, just leave him. doesn't matter if you bring it up but there's no reason to have a long drawn out fight about it. you don't need to use evidence to break up with someone who's hurting you, whether it's a serious issue or not.
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>>18363631
You are right about this. Yeah.
I'm just super nervous. Should I do it tonight?
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if you're feeling up to it, i don't see a reason to drag it on. are you dead set on this decision? it won't go over well, but you know that. next week or next month when he tells you things have changed, they haven't. when he tells you he misses you, he hasn't changed. don't fall back into a mess of a relationship.
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My Parents Are Blackmailing me with my Internet History 2017-05-30 02:20:42 Post No.18363327
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My Parents Are Blackmailing me with my Internet History
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So before you scream underage, I'm 18. I didn't know this but for the past year and a half my parents had been keeping and storing my internet history through the router or some crap. They told me today and I got embrassed and ran out of the room before I got the details. They said if I don't get into an Ivy League Uni they will reveal my internet history to everyone. They showed me proof of it so I know they aren't bluffing. I don't know what to do i don't know if i can make it into an ivy school but I really don't want this to happen. What can I do? The day before I turned 18 my parents seized my bank account (they can legally do this) and took all my money so I can't afford to move out and called my employer and said im quitting. So im out of a job and have no money. They said they will give the money back if i get into school but honestly I care more about the history thing due to whats on there. WHAT DO?
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call your job and say you ARENT quitting, that your parents are being assholes but you are now 18 and your parents cant decide if you're quitting or not.
immeduately go to your bank and ask to open a line of credit, wells fargo will give oyu 5000 dollars even if you have no credit.
try to get into an ivy league school anyways, i mean if your parents are willing to pay for an ivy league education thats great.
then call their bluff. the truth is your parents DONT want ot share your internet history with everyone.
you can also sue btw.
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Sue. Not kidding. Take legal recourse on them for stealing from you and defaming your character.
If this is real. But my parents did this shit to me too. Legal action is the only recourse.
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>>18363366
>call your job and say you ARENT quitting, that your parents are being assholes but you are now 18 and your parents cant decide if you're quitting or not.
They already got me quit though. I didn't know about it i think its too late and im replaced
>immeduately go to your bank and ask to open a line of credit, wells fargo will give oyu 5000 dollars even if you have no credit.
That may work actually. I will try it
>try to get into an ivy league school anyways, i mean if your parents are willing to pay for an ivy league education thats great.
I know but im really not that smart. I study 24/7 since i and my family doesnt like to talk to me and im not allowed to have friends but i must be super low IQ since i just can't get my grades that high.
>then call their bluff. the truth is your parents DONT want ot share your internet history with everyone.
I don't know, in elementary school they volunteered so they could tell everyone i liked this one person to embarass me since i left the house once without asking. I doubt they are bluffing
>you can sue
I don't have money for that.
>>18363377
defemation only counts to a lie tho, i really did type those things
On Friday, my school is going to an amusement park. My friends and I said that we will spend the day with each other. But this girl I like asked me to go on ONE ride with her and I said yes. Now my friends are literally pissed off with my decision. It may be a long line up. Any advice?
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>>18363323
tell them to fuck off that youre just trying to get your dick wet and that you will meet up with them later. what kind of shitty/autistic/gay friends do you have
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They said they're angry because I didn't tell them before I made the decision
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>>18363338
Your friends are fags, I would be jumping with joy if one of my friends had to leave the group to be with a qt.
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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>>18363135
Why do niggers look like apes?
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>>18363215
With the amount of our genetic composition that we share with apes, and the range of genetic diversity amongst humans, it's inevitable that some people would look more like apes than others.
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Girls: if your SO was having second thoughts about the relationship, how would you want him to tell you? I feel like saying "I'm not sure I love you anymore" wont exactly go over well.
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how do people cope with being unattractive? 2017-05-30 01:01:57 Post No.18363118
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how do people cope with being unattractive?
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inb4 'looks aren't everything'. I'm not talking about sex or romance seeing as anyone can settle though that arena is important; I'm talking about day to day life.
People will say 'how you carry yourself is more important' (personality, manners) but let's cut the B.S. That's mandatory even for attractive
people and having them just makes them better. If you're unattractive the only hope is that people will always consider you ugly at first and then perhaps get 'comfortable' with you. You will never however be able to enjoy being adored by others, being complimented by your children's friends when you become an adult.
How can anyone wake up every day for 80 years as an unattractive asian/african minority when they could end their life and hope to be reincarnated as a beautiful white woman?
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>>18363118
The majority of the world's population is average looking. We all live with our flaws one way or another. If you truly are objectively unattractive then having a complex about it is only going to make you that much more unattractive. Stop giving a shit. No one will ever care as much about your looks as you do.
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People who don't cope don't really stick around past their 20s.
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be miserable for the rest of your life
be miserable until you're rich and can offset sexual attraction with money
kill yourself
these are the only options you have. ignore the other retard who said "stop giving a shit." there is nothing more important than how attractive you are when it comes to first impressions, and these impressions usually define your relationship with any given person.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo_effect
tl;dr: you can't cope with it.
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My niece just got caught shoplifting two $30 shirts in a Texas Zumiez as the Mall. Anyone know any corporate policys or laws that can help her out. I really dont want my Memorial Day ruined by this dumb bitch. Her dad will be pretty pissed for the rest of my stay.
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Hahaha fucking cunt deserved it. Why not just sit back and laugh your ass of OP?
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>>18363077
If it's her first offense she will probably get off with having the shit scared out of her and then banned from the mall or store, with her photo circulated to security guys.
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>>18363077
What is her first name?
How do you cope with all the bullshit in society? It seems like everyone is humiliated twice, through the thing itself and societal pressure that tells you to stop talking about it.
You're called dumb if you say you find any famous and old books boring. You're not allowed to call out the incoherence and subjectivity of literary theory. You can't point out that philosophers merely try to monopolise the ability to make unfalsifiable statements. You can't point out any subjectivity at all or else you'll be abused for pointing out the appealing to authority nature or the arbitrariness of accepted axioms.
You can't point out that women live lives on easy mode (easy sex and relationships, all sorts of additional educational and professional help). You can't say that 20 % of men get 80 % of the sex and that being introverted or ugly as a male is a social death sentence. We have tinder / dating site data screaming that 80 % of men are on the social shitheap but still you can't say a thing.
You are forced to empathise up the social ladder but nobody gives a single fuck about anyone below them and you aren't allowed to point it out or complain.
Society has moved to the point where expertise comes in thousands of varieties (e.g., mathematician, bricklayer, football player) yet bullshitting is the only fungible skill. Pseudo intellectuals pretend that reading about, for example, football will give you an understanding of football. As if the words are all you need and the experience of playing it means nothing. The words are nothing.
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Shit, I made it to the second paragraph and I already was done with your pretentiousness.
I can't hear your opinions because you are so full of yourself it's a turn off. Even if you were right, I wouldn't hold a conversation with you.
Hope that gives you a starting point for your problem.
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>>18363060
You seem like a very unpleasant person with a lot of dumb, red-pilled opinions. I don't think society has much to do with the fact that its just not fun to talk to you.
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It was too long for me to read
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Sup adv. I'm a woman and have been dating pretty steadily for the past few years. Nothing's working out, and I'm beginning to get frustrated. I'm especially frustrated because I had my ideal relationship already, but he broke things off for a very stupid and unresolved reason. I've been chasing anything close to what we had, and everyone else is falling short. Luckily I have no way of contacting the ex, otherwise I'm sure he'd get some pretty pathetic drunk texts.
It's been a few years, and time is not healing this wound. So barring time, what does one do to get over an ex? Especially when the break up wasn't due to issues in the relationship itself.
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>he broke things off for a very stupid and unresolved reason
What was it?
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>>18362937
Other people's opinions. Basically we were young and people mocked him by saying I was out of his league or whatever. Including his roommates.
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>>18362933
>Nothing's working out, and I'm beginning to get frustrated.
sounds like you think you deserve more than you're worth.
I overthink when it comes to texting girls in general. Did I rush the conversation or what guys ?
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I probably could of said "oh a research poster? <talk about school> and I was thinking dinner at x"
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Also I'm in the mountains of Colorado right now so it's warm but cloudy. I just checked fb and it is indeed raining in Denver
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>>18362746
honestly I think dinner is a bit hasty for a first date, especially one you meet on Tinder...most people I find are more likely to agree to just going for drinks or something....less of a commitment and an easy out if things aren't going great.
But besides that I think you maybe did rush a bit, you should talk to someone to at least figure out if you enjoy talking to them before hanging out IMO
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When is it okay to tip, or not to do s?. If I get average service (ie. at a restaurant, for an uber/cab ride, etc), am I an asshole for not tipping and if so, why?
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it's never ok not to tip.
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>be bolis
>get meal paid for by citizens a lot
>always tip waitress like $10 if so
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>be me
>go to buffet restaurant
>get up to pay the bill
>man gives me a receipt to sign after I paid
>receipt has "tip" and "total" lines in bold
>don't fill them out - I already paid, after all
>man gives me a dirty look before I leave
Fuck me. I'm retarded. Was I supposed to tip?
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Do you think I'm attractive ? 2017-05-29 09:54:38 Post No.18362463
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Do you think I'm attractive ?
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. Be honest tell if something is wrong. Also guess my ethnicity.
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Wrong board, rper
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you're latina and I'd lick your booty
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>>18362463
You look pretty normal but it's a blurry pic. I'd guess latina.