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Girl became suddenly uninterested in me and I wondered why. She told a mutual acquaintance it was because I emailed her for her number. I did because it was the only way I could get in touch with her. Why is this a big deal? Not like I was shy around her or was going to sit around and text her cat pictures or whatever the implication is.
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>>18362831
sounds like bs
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>>18362831
Hilarious. I have an unusual flip-flopping problem instead.
>coworker was flirty and kinda interested in me
>then she's not
>then she was again
>then she's not
I will never understand.
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>>18362831
idfk, I once gave a woman that consistently would just like make contact through other people, my number so she could actually contact me through a method I actually use. then just never heard from her again. good either way I guess. who fucking knows OP.
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my roommate smells so fucking bad and he doesn't seem to know it.
He has IBS or some ass disease and when he shits it stinks up the entire house for like an hour.
Not only that, but the smell of that shit, the sour, acrid, SHITTY smell clings to his person almost 24/7 except the hour following a shower.
When he pets my dog, the poor dog smells like shit. He lent me his phone, for which I am grateful but it legitimately smelled like fresh human feces and I had to hold it up to my ear while he was in the room watching me.
he used to literally smear shit on the toilet seat, but I put up a note so he doesn't do it anymore, and now i noticed he doesn't consume any toilet paper despite shitting 3 times a day.
what the fuck is this all about?
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>>18362690
Go to your RA, request to change rooms. There is no way you should have to put up with that....shit
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Is he indian?
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>>18362826
I don't have an RA
we're not in school
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>>18362681
Elaborate. If she has different religous views, probably not, because if it got serious, you'd be looking at some issues down the road as far as marriage and raising a family.
If you're just looking to have a casual encounter, then go for it.
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>>18362681
if she looks like that yes :D
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>>18362681
definitely. bonus points for sexy accent
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Can My Girlfriend's Mother Get a Restraining Order Against Me 2017-05-29 10:43:48 Post No.18362627
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The mother of my girlfriend just told her yesterday that she doesn't want her dating me anymore, because I'm "dangerous" supposedly, I opened to her about my past in Mexico and how I was forced to be involved in many dangerous situations with the mafia over there, which couldn't be prevented or the lives of your family and you are in risk, all this things happened until I turned 16 years old and I started to move away from the Mafia slowly to prevent any harm to my family, and eventually I moved to U.S.A. to seek a more prosper future for myself.
My girlfriend got intoxicated at a party with weed laced with PCP, and ended up at the hospital, at no moment she directly ingested the drugs but she was around the environment where it was being smoked and inhaled the substance, she's 5'2 and weighs less than 90 pounds and the doctors mentioned that it wasn't rare that she almost died because of her body type. Since that incident happened, her mother doesn't let her go out from her house, only to go to school, and doesn't even want her friends talking to her or having any type of interaction. My girlfriend spends every day going to school and then to her house, we have only gone out 6 times in total during our whole relationship, our dates are basically at her house. She has slowly starting to become sadder and sadder, to the point that every single time I see her she ends up crying on my shoulder about how her life being "miserable" and how alone she is becoming, and how much she missed her closest friends and also her best friend since that incident happen she also has nightmares every night and became really paranoid, also her left-hand twitches all the time, but she doesn't have the courage to try to talk and try to stop her mother, and her mother is not taking seriously what is happening to her body and it's not seeking for help, and it's not my place to do something, legally.
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>>18362627
What state?
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your whole second paragraph is insane lies.
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>>18362627
you have to go BACK
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My abilities to express myself are...well, let's just say they're babby-tier minus the cute.
I'm a visual, abstract thinker but never understood the complications that may arise from being this AND a cripplingly shy girl.
Don't know how to word stuff properly. Don't know how to give my thoughts a proper, understandable, and meaningful form. I'm so out of touch.
Before I thought I was okay. Had the best grades in my AP English classes and usually got compliments on my writing assignments (i.e., omfg this reads like a story! This is so poetic and fun to read! etc.)...but the thing is, I actually didn't know jack shit about writing. Moreover, I didn't know jack shit about talking or speaking. What a shocker!
Though I make a living through creative work I feel less than human sometimes. Dull...and it gets kind of depressing. Where should I go from here? Verbal communication may never be my forte but I know that I can improve.
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How did you pass AP English and not know basic writing? It sounds like you just have a lot of self doubt. You should read Amanda Palmer's The Art of Asking and watch interviews of artists, singers, writers etc you admire, you'd be surprised how many of them are awkward as fuck and not all that good at talking in person.
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Also practice reading out loud, enunciate, "act" by yourself and find your voice.
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>>18362594
are you fat?
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A women I was being intimate with kissed me right after performing several minutes of fellatio on me.
It happened so suddenly that I couldn't react in time. I guess it didn't bother me but it definitely caught me off guard. I'm indifferent towards the situation.
HOWEVER, was that some kind of power play? Should I not allow that next time? Does it make me look bad? I'm just confused about this. Looking for anyone's two cents.
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I don't think it's a big deal at all. You're looking too much into this.
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>>18362397
OP gets his dick sucked by a qt.
Thinks he got screwed over somehow.
This is pretty normal desu. My gf and I do this to eachother all the time. It's kinda hot.
OP is a confirmed faggot
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>>18362397
If she's got your dick in her mouth, the least you can do is kiss her thanks afterwards.
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Hey /adv/, a few weeks ago I aksed how I could make my room look better/less-childish
I took your advice and made some changes.
Does it look better? I'm pretty proud of it so far
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Also, I didn't get rid of the consoles and games because that would be throwing hundreds of dollars in the trash
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>>18362156
It's good that you're making effort. The differences are hard to see for someone unfamiliar with the room though.
I like the couch and the TV stand. The furniture lacks a common theme, but that's understandable. It looks like you don't need all of it (lots of empty shelves), so I would try to get rid of some (the white shelves). Videogames are childish, sorry. If you want the room to be less childish, keep them and their paraphenelia out of sight, or at least not on display. That's really a beautiful floor, do you have a clear mat under your computer chair to protect it? If I moved in there I would put a plant somewhere too, or at least a picture/poster of one.
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>>18362236
I have a rug under the couch but not the desk.
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I want to get my boss fired. If I plant cocaine in her jacket she leaves at work (I wear it sometimes with her permission to restock the cooler which would explain me finding it in the pocket) how likely would it be to get her fired if I called the cops about it at work
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What could possibly go wrong?
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if you want to get your boss fired tell somebody the reason that she should be fired. if there isn't a reason and you have to invent one then she shouldn't be fired
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>>18362046
You're a fucking idiot, and probably suck at your job.
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I literally haven't left the house in months. How concerned should I be about vitamin D deficiency?
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Pretty bad desu senpai. I have a desk job where I stay 8 hours inside and come home when it's dark. Doc told me to take vitamin D supps. Have you thought about a seasonal depression disorder light for your room? It can give you the dose of natural light you need. Or you can walk a dog or run in the afternoon if you are a NEET and That's why you've been locked up
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Get a job at Lowe's or home depot. They hire anybody and you'll get sunshine. Especially if you work garden, lumber, or a loader.
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>>18362047
Unfortunately going outside is pretty much off the table for me right now. I've thought about the SAD light thing a couple of times but never seriously looked into it. Got any additional info on that?
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So can any of you tell me about you experiences in therapy? I'm pretty sure I need it to keep from killing myself but I really don feel comfortable talking about my feelings. Every time I try to talk about things like that I more or less just fall apart. How does therapy work? Is it actually helpful?
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Bumping for replies, I'm in the same boat as OP pretty much. I need therapy because I clearly have major chronic depression and I think I have borderline personality disorder but I really want a professional to figure it out. I'm very paranoid though and walled off, I find it hard to talk about how I feel without using too much sarcasm
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Haven't been to therapy myself, but from what I have seen from people around me, it helps as long as you're willing to go through with it. Just posting this shows you want to do something about your issues, though, so I'd say try it out.
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I had major depression which caused me to drop out of college and become a NEET living at home. My parents forced me into cognitive behavioral therapy, and that combined with meds was really helpful. I was able to cure my depression in a little under a year.
It's not easy though, a big part of CBT is learning to recognize how you cause your depression, and how to actively control your emotional state. Several times I wanted to quit because my therapist was really bringing me to task on being a lazy POS, and the source of all my problems. but thankfully my family refused to allow me to quit and in the end I was much better off for it.
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You're not alpha or beta, only a human.
Go someplace with people.
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You have two options
1) lower your standards. you won't get any hot / cool chicks being a beta, but that's fine as long as you're not expecting an attractive gf.
2) stop being beta and expose yourself to the social situations that provoke anxiety for you. It's never too late to desensitize yourself. Your confidence will skyrocket. It just takes time and a lot of self discipline.
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>>18361906
Delusional fuck.
Alpha and beta are just categories people use. Yes there are more categories but it's a simplified version of "i'm either a loser or really awesome".
Beta = Low confidence, low self esteem, low self worth.
Alpha = Opposites of beta qualities.
SIMPLIFIED, there are more qualities but those are the only important ones.
>>18361901
Dating tips for a beta? Join a gym, go on /fit/ and get 1/2/3/4 (works wonders for dating), people mire you, you feel more confident, initially girls will like you more than previously AND THE LIST GOES ON. ( I Know cause im /fit/ but used to be not ).
Also go on /pol/, it helps you strengthen your morals which increases confidence and self worth.
>lend a "friend" $100 since he promised to give it back
>ask for it back after 2 weeks like we agreed, he tells me to fuck off
now he asked another person to lend him money and I called him out on being lowlife piece of shit thief and he wants to fight me now
next course of action?
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>>18361874
Beat the living shit out of him. Careful it doesn't get recorded so he can't sue.
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You shouldn't know the difference between a friend and not a friend moron.
A friend doesn't ask for money, thats what a begger does.
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>>18361897
this
it's your own fault OP. You got fucked. Now you learn from it and move forward. if he still tries to fight you videotape it and then sue him for 100 $100 bills.
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So I have to write an essay on the quote from the Bible:
"Do not judge others, and you will not be judged"
Any tips
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>>18361753
Shit quote.
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>>18361764
Not my choice :/
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>>18361753
There's an idea that we could have been anyone else given their same experiences. When we judge others we condemn ourselves. Apart from this you could reference the story 2 Samuel 12 in which David learns that man should reserve judgment for God lest he suffer the cruelty of man.
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What does she mean by this?
So about a week ago me and a few friends had a party and so I got a little drunk. I told a girl that she was hot that I have been crushing for a couple of months now.
For the past week she has been talking to me more than usual (we go go the same class).
What does this exactly mean?
Keep in mind prior to the party neither I or her had shown any interest.
Also I'm kind of shy/virgin so sorry if I'm reading way into this.
Also she didn't drink.
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>>18361686
>you showed interest
>she is now showing interest
C'mon OP
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>>18361691
>>>18361686 (OP) (You)
>>you showed interest
>>she is now showing interest
>C'mon OP
Is she though?
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She probably seems a bit interested or intrigued since you drunkingly said you think she's hot/crushing on her.
Probably just ask her out so you can find out whether she wants to see u or not. If you want to not be shy, lift weights and go on /fit/ otherwise your on ur own.
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I'm in love with a colleague from high school since February. I tried my best to suppress my autism and got close to her, and despite her giving off some very positive signals at first, it turns out she's friendly and enthusiastic with every other male as well. She also told a mutual friend "there is someone that might be interested in me, but I have no romantic interested in him" - she was clearly referring to me, since no one else was chasing her. So I'm aware my chances with her are low.
She's very traditional, very girly, maybe shy, and comes from a strict religious nutso family (I'm also religious, so her family won't be a problem). Only wants sex after marriage. She's not exactly sought after by other guys, either, so I doubt she will be taken any time soon.
I used to be very socially awkward, but I'm getting a lot better. I can easily make small talk with any girl, except of course the one I involuntarily put on a pedestal for god knows what reason, and despite not being the most charismatic guy around I think people generally enjoy my company. I consider myself to be at least a 7/10, I'm around 6 feet tall and I'm fit.
Now my question is: summer is coming. For three months I won't be with this girl. I want to use these three months to reset my mentality, and to better myself any way I can in order to try and make this girl fall with me next year. I'll go to the gym twice the times I currently go, I'll put myself out there more in order to increase my conversation skills, I'll dedicate myself to my lifelong dream of creating music in order to keep my mind off her and to remind myself she's not my only objective in life. I'll do whatever it takes to cultivate a great personality and better my body and mind. But how do I go about doing this? How do I change my mindset? I think that with a better mentality, I would be able to earn this girl's love. Maybe I'll still get rejected after all this but I'm not going down without a fight.
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Also feel free to try and knock some sense into me, already spent hours reading and watching videos about oneitis/limerence/infatuation/whatever, they only help me in short term. I'm still obsessed with this girl and I don't think that's going to change until I get some really definitive closure. Or if time just does its thing I guess
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>>18361677
Sounds like you have the right mindset and mentality, young buck! Your rounds are packed up and ready to be sent downrange!
Now as simple as it sounds, you have to take that loaded magazine and lock that shit to the rear.
That means you have to take the first step and keep running. Hardest part!
You have the formula down! Your focus now is to immediately get your butt to the gym or snatch up an instrument; keep busy and make no excuses.
Idle hands are the Devil's plaything!
So get on the bounce and keep rocking steady!
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>>18361743
lol I like this larp.