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I met a meth addict today, he was nice but his teeth were fucked and he was clearly messed up in the head. he talked to me a bit, asked me about my day and then he said he was nearly in heaven. Do you think he meant nearly at the apex of the high or nearly dead? he was fairly light.

Anyway should i have helped him? im thinking about calling the non emergency police but i doubt that would help him. i sort of saw it as a plea for help as i doubt many people would have talked to him. i dont want to be a bystander to his death
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>>18363898
>Do you think he meant nearly at the apex of the high or nearly dead?
Hard to say.

>Anyway should i have helped him?
There's nothing you can do for him.

>im thinking about calling the non emergency police but i doubt that would help him.
My guess is they'll toss him in a cell, beat him if he resists and then pat themselves on the back for adding another one to their arrest figures.

>i dont want to be a bystander to his death
You're not culpable for his choices. You could put him in touch with some kind of charity or hospital or something, I guess, but don't put yourself in danger. Obviously you're a better judge than I am, but plenty of well-meaning people have been exploited by someone in this person's position.
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>>18363909
he hugged me after i did a slide and fist bump with him which scared me. i think you get it, the meth help and rehab in Australia sucks so idk, plus drugged people can easy go apeshit. and man ive seen the police here they barely help so im very much reluctant
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>>18363918
I think I understand your issue, wanting to help everyone and feeling bad if you don't. I think you might have to let this one go. You already did the man a kindness by talking to him.

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I make $120k/year
Live in bay area
Found an apt that I like for $2k/month
This feels like a huge amount of money.
I REALLY wanna have my own apartment, been sharing room then sharing house for a long ass time and I wanna have my own shit for once.

How can I justify this $2k/month cost?
It's 20% of my income basically.

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>>18363871

how old and how stable is job?
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>>18363878
27yo
Software Engineer
Job's pretty stable
Actually have recruiter trying to steal me away for a bigger offer but like current job
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Bay area is expensive. Don't expect to find much cheaper. I'm in the northbay.

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Need some advice. I'm going to be in a three-way soon and I've never been in one. Is there anything I should know or do beforehand? Any advice or etiquette? I know one girl said "Pay equal attention because I get jealous"

Two girls and one guy with me being the guy

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You heard her lucky bastard.
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>>18363845
This .. also relax and enjoy the ride
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>>18363830
get it boyee

I feel like I'm having a hard time helping my bf understand the stress I deal with in my life. I've come from a lower income family and parents with no education. I'm living on my own and paying for uni on my own as well. So I mean I get pretty stressed about making sure I get everything taken care of, making sure I get good grades and succeed. My bf came from a higher income background and didnt have to pay for anything so I understand that he doesn't know how it feels. But when I try to explain my worry and stress he seems to try to downplay it like it's not a big deal. How do I help him understand without trying to sound pretentious or something. I just want him to understand that I'm feeling pressure and that I've made it this far is a big deal to me.
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>>18363761
Tell him like you just told /adv/. If he doesn't understand, he's a dipshit.
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>>18363815
yeah, it seemed pretty reasonable the way you presented.

if you haven't done this yet, it must be because you are scared of what he will say.

you know him better than us. is he a reasonable person?

Are you actually being needlessly hysterical even though you're doing just fine and he's right?
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>>18363761
You're obviously beating around the bush here.

If you're boyfriend isn't being emotionally supportive, just let him know.

If you guys love each other, there'll be no guilt-tripping or shame. Just an honest discussion.

Your time together should be enjoyable, not stressful.

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I got accepted into this super competitive internship about a month ago. When I told my parents they said they wont let me do it because its out of state. My parents are super strict with me because Im a girl and they don't want me spending night out of the house. When I try to talk to them about it they either shut down all discussion of it or start yelling about completely irrelevant stuff. What do I do
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Tell them to eat a fat one and you're doing it anyway.
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>They won't let me
You're at least 18, right?

Means you're an adult and you can stand up to them. Tell them to fuck off for being unsupportive asshats and go do what you want to do.

They aren't very good parents if they want to control their child and stop them from being better people, just saying.
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>>18365130
I disagree, if OP is still living under their roof and eating their food, you should still show them respect and recognise that you aren't independent. That attitude belongs to those who are independent.

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Okay gonna send a chick a facebook message, should I put a smiley or no smiley

Hey ____, if you want I'll take you up on that drink sometime this week =)
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he slut, I still refuse to make definitive (useful) plans =D
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>>18363594
"HE SLUT"
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>>18363597
don't be mean about typos because I hurt your feelings

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What the fuck is it about guys wanting sex on the first date?
I get that it's an urge that needs to be resolved but if you ask a girl what's she looking for and she tells you a relationship, why even pursue her?

Lately every guy that has talked to me has been looking to get his dick wet on the first date. They straight up ask me what I'm looking for and I tell them a relationship. They go "Oh good" ask me out on a date and then invite me over to watch a movie. I understand that some people are comfortable having sex on the first date but I am not. There's just too many variables and I don't know this man. Of course they ghost on me after, not really surprised about that.
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I don't see what one has to do with the other.
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>>18363564
they're dating purely on the basis of their dick instead of dating people they want to be with.

also, trad dating is damn near dead so they can get away with it. it's stupid. all I want is to be able to go get a milkshake with a girl and talk, maybe walk in a park, maybe laugh at some commies, and not have that be seen as a lame date.
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>>18363564
>are comfortable having sex on the first date but I am not.
Good on you.
>Of course they ghost on me after, not really surprised about that.
Who cares?

I'm a guy. I'm religious, so wouldn't try to have sex on a first date for obvious reasons, but even before I was religious I wouldn't have done so. Most of my friends met their girlfriends and wives having been coworkers or friends for a while, so maybe that's the problem. Go out with people you've known platonically for at least a while.

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Before I say anything, I know how retarded I am

>be me
>graduate high school
>dad buys me a laptop as a gift
>I'm not very tech savvy but he is and he helps me pick one out
>end up getting a lenovo
>i don't know what to do with it
>I get steam but i don't have much money so I don't get many games
>end up getting the dolphin emulator so I can play some free games
>I download the emulator and a game, but I cannot figure out how to play it.
>dolphin keeps telling me that it can't find any games to play

I'm really stupid and would love it if somebody could give a moron a hand.
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What game?
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Here is what I did.
1. Download and install dolphin
2. Downloaded a 7z game and extracted it to <your path dolphin path>\images
3. In dolphin, go to opitons>paths and click "add"
4. browse to where you are storing the images; in my case e:\dolphin\images

Once I did that, the game showed up in the interface to play.
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>>18363434
Smash bros

30 yr old here. Good looking and lift, with good style.

I live in a college town, how do I pick up younger women (early 20s). I don't want no roasties.
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money
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>>18363416
wait till you 45 and pick the ones who like old men
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>>18363416
hit up local bars.

with that description of yourself and that kind of setting, you'll get em with ease

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I'm in a bit of a pickle..thanks to dating apps.

Let me preface this with the fact that I'm currently in a relationship with a great girl. She's about an 8/10, sex is good, and she makes me happy. Not perfect (no relationship is)..but without the factor that I'll explain below, I'd be 100% happy.

Before I got into the relationship, I was enjoying single life. I was on a few dating apps and went on plenty of one-timer dates/played the field for a few months.

One girl I matched with always struck a cord with me. But at the time she was in an open relationship and she had a boyfriend back home..so obviously it never went anywhere. At one point I decided to delete the app I met her on (never got her number) so I sent her a message with my number and saying if she ever wanted to talk more, to just text me.

That was in December. I never heard from her.. fast forward to about a month ago. I'm in a relationship, and in the middle of the night she texts me. I ask her why it took her so long, her excuse : "I was really busy with a lot and not really serious about dating."

We've been casually texting for a few weeks, not a lot but just off and on. I'm extremely attracted to her and she's starting to drop hints that she wants to hang out.

What the fuck do I do? Literally as we speak I'm texting the girl I met on the dating app while my girlfriend is on a road trip back from seeing her parents. If I had to pick between the two girls to date with no previous history, I'd chose the girl I'm not currently in a relationship with. But I also don't see myself as a cheater.

What do I fucking do.

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>>18363312
Why the fuck did you respond when you had a 8/10 girl OP? Furthermore, why did you keep messaging this girl? Just stop talking to her, its not worth it you dumb fuck
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>>18363328

Because I'm attracted to her, dip shit. More so than the girl I'm currently dating.

Sad to say, but this is all about being honest, right?
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>open relationship kinda girl
>thinking of cheating on stable gf with this woman

alright OP I'm gonna give you some serious advice alright. go get yourself a popsicle stick, some bleach, some dry ice, and one of those popsicle making ice trays. I want you to fill up that popsicle tray with bleach, put your stick in it, then put it in a dry ice bath to freeze it. when it's done I want you shove that shit waaaay up your asshole so it gets absorbed faster.

you're disgusting.

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>be me
>doesn't know how to socialize
>knows a lot of people but two out of 10 of them know me
>doesn't have people to talk to
>sees how people interact
>*depression*
>tries to communicate
>gets rejected
>
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what do
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Anime
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to succeed, you must first fail. failure is the first step towards success
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Try try try

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For the first time ever, I like a girl. What do I need to do?
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>>18363153
What are you fucking twelve? Figure it out for yourself.
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If you're chromosomes are xy then you need to see a therapist.
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Be nice and be yourself.

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Hello

>be me a few months ago
>not ugly, but not chad either
>qt3.14 sits a few chairs down in psych, rather quiet, keeps to herself mostly
>barely have spoken to her
>she is a year older than I am, going to graduate
>develop crush
>dont do anything about it for entire semester like utter retard
>fast forward
>few days before she graduates
>fuck it, leave note on her desk with my #
>this decision was not without thought; i asked some friends (guys and girls) and they thought it was a good idea
>she texts it
>tell her who i am
>leaves me on read, never responds
>graduates
>still can't get over her

Was leaving a note weird? My friends thought it would be sweet / nice, maybe they were wrong.
Was it retarded to even try since she was graduating in a few days? (yes it was, but to what extent?)
Should I text again? It's been about five days since she left on read.
Was what she did bitchy or is that just me feeling rejected?
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>>18362901
Of all the sad fantasies of lonely guys, the saddest is the delusion that looking at someone constitutes a relationship.

What I'm about to write will sound cruel and taunting, but it is just the simple truth.

The fact is that she didn't know you from Adam. She responded to your note out of either idle curiosity, thinking it might be a friend playing a joke, or worry that she was being stalked.When you told her who you were and she could barely place you as "that kid in Psych class" she found the whole thing creepy and decided to blank you in the hope you'd go away.

Before your next crush, write 100 times, like Bart on the blackboard, "To meet a girl you have to actually talk to her"
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DO NOT TEXT HER AGAIN

We live in a world where you do not miss messages. I always see posts on 4chan, hurr durr its been a few days should i text her again. Hurr durr maybe she was going through a tunnel. Hurr durr maybe she accidentally deleted my number.

This shit did not happen. You're making excuses for her not having texted you. She is not interested. Sorry OP, but get over it. Maybe she has a boyfriend, thinks your ugly, or has no idea who the fuck you even are. But she is not interested.
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>>18362945
Never did I think it constituted a relationship; however you are right. I probably should not have listened to my friend's recommendation then.

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So... slightly complicated situation. I have a crush on a girl, but she's gay... but she thinks i'm also a girl... but I'm not sure she's interested in me. I don't want to ask in case she says yes and I have to say "well jokes on you I have a penis". What should I do?
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>>18362885
I genuinely hope you die.

What a pathetic excuse for a troll thread.

I hope you die from a stab wound.
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>I don't want to ask in case she says yes and I have to say "well jokes on you I have a penis". What should I do?

That sounds kinda hilarious, OP.

Do that and report back.
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>>18362889
What the fuck is your problem? This isn't a troll thread I'm serious.

I found my roommates phone with the camera pointed out hidden in my room after a shower. We've been roommates and best friends for 7 years.

Immediately confronted him about it and thought someone put him up to it. He owned up and said he hoped I'd find it and it was intended as a "call for help" to force him to talk to me about him questioning his sexuality.

Claims it wasn't even recording. If that was the case, what a dumb way to do it.

He's been straight his whole life and said one of his gay friends made a move on him. Made him question everything for the last 4 months and his head has been in a tailspin.

Needed someone to talk to, and that person was me. Claims no interest in me.... Just needed a catalyst to make him talk about it with me and not chicken out at the last second.

I can't maybe help feel violated. Advice?
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Homosexuality is a disease, the bible can be the cure. Don't let him infect you op
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>>18362850
He's a disgusting scumbag and you caught him out.

Don't fall for the lies he fed you. Cut ties and have nothing to do with him. Warn your mutual friends, and tell him that if he talks to you again, you'll neck him. I'd consider going to the police, even.
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that situation creeps me the fuck out, he could rape you any day, why are you asking this instead of moving the fuck out of there immediately?

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