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>have several hobbies where I learn new things, live healthily, have several job opportunities and a beautiful girl that wants to date me
>but I'm not happy, in fact I feel caged
Is there something wrong with me?
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might be melancholy. or anxiety, actually, since you say you have job OPPORTUNITIES and a girl that WANTS to date you, so you might just feel worried that you'll screw up. Just take the job, get the girl, and see what happens.
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I feel the only way is to leave it all but I dont want to be jaded, fat, homeless and unloved.
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Are you doing what you want or what society wants you to do?
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Recently got a new phone, used it without a Sim card, got on the internet and all that fine.
Then I got a my old Sim card cut down to size to use in my new phone. I'm doing the exact same I was before, but now it keeps saying I'm going over my 'data limit' What even is that? Why should I have it? Basically I'm losing money for playing phone games and using the internet on my phone. I don't understand? I haven't started calling or texting people AT ALL. So basically I now have to pay to do stuff that previously I was doing for free just because of this Sim card. What?
For now I've just taken the Sim Card out again, it's not like I call people. I really don't understand this.
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Have you set a data limit on the phone? Or did you use the available data on your SIM on your old phone? Otherwise, I'm certain you must have been using WiFi on your phone without the SIM, not data.
And calling and texting people is completely different
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>>18368052
I've got a 2 gig Data limit, yeah. I didn't use it on my old phone, it's been used on this one through shit like the Internet. I've got Data upload disabled on my phone too so I have no idea what's going on.
Why is this any different now though? I want to use Wifi and not pay for data or anything like I did before.
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>>18368067
What are you talking about? Do you understand that there is a difference between data and WiFi?
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My Boyfriend is Acting Distant 2017-05-31 04:56:19 Post No.18367817
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My Boyfriend is Acting Distant
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Hey Yall,
So, I've been with my guy for a little over a year now. We work at the same part-time job. Lately, we haven't seen each other outside of work and we haven't been having much sex. I told him that he seems different and all he can tell me is that he doesn't mean to. I know he works a lot more than me. I hope he's just tired. What can I do? Should I be worried?
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He's cheating.
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Why aren't you seeing each other outside of work any more? What happens when you try to initiate sex?
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You said you both work at a part time job? Does he work somewhere else too? Maybe he's tired and stressed about something.
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Smoking weed for the first time soon outside my window, I have parents so how long does smell last? And how long do red eyes last?
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>>18367798
Ppfffffft
Get off 4chan kid ahahaah
Weed turns you into a zombie oooh ahhh better stay clever kid
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>>18367798
On a windy day, assuming you made sure no smoke stayed in your room, there should be no smell
Keep a fan on if it isnt windy
Make a sploof (empty tube, like toilet pper roll, stuffed with dryer sheets) to mask the smell
DO NOT cover yourself/your room with cologne.
And for fucks sake, just do it outside
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>>18367798
Block any return air vents to your air conditioner/other parts of the house. If there's a gap under the bottom of your door, block that up with a blanket. Light a candle after you blaze, the smell hangs around for a while. How long you're red-eyed and dopey looking is all based on your tolerance, how good the shit you've got is, and if you can take proper hits. Usually lasts 1-2 hours, more if you're smoking more, based again on tolerance.
Wait for your folks to go to bed for half an hour or so, toke up, and watch some shows or play a game and have a good time. Stock up on food and drink beforehand if you're unable to move about the house quietly without being noticed.
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Idk what to do I'm anxious hikikomori with a crush 2017-05-31 04:32:56 Post No.18367745
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So basically I have no idea how to deal with intimacy and having a crush on someone
There is this guy lets call him (B) anyway me and B dated for a very short amount of time 2 years ago, I had never really had a real relationship before that,and lost my virginity to him, a lot of shit went down with his family long story short that ended.
After that we didn't talk for awhile I think, some of it's really fuzzy still, he reached out and told me about a really significant family problem, and we met up and went to a movie because we both wanted to see each other, I remember It felt really amazing to me and we just layed in his truck and talked about life.
After that B's family problem was really bad, and someone important to him deceased, we didn't talk for along time in 2015 but I think we clarified feelings a few times (its still really fuzzy)
After that me and B talked through snapchat and other social media outlets, whenever we would have big breaks of not talking B has always come to me this lasted for a year I think this was 2016
We decided to see each other for the first time in a year in early january ,me and B have been talking to each other and also we have been hooking up about every week or so I really really like B we talk a lot but I feel like I am super annoying and I get really bad anxiety from it, we are both people that don't confront feeling often, and when I bring them up I back out or say things wrong and I can't help but feeling anxious constantly, I feel like his mood can be on and off and its very hard to tell how he feels about me, sometimes he will compliment me and say hes proud of me etc, but other times he will ignore me which I understand because we both like to be alone a lot.
My feelings for B are really strong, and I honestly don't think I would be so annoying if we were just officially together, because I wouldn't worry about him leaving I love him but im scared to confess bc I don't want to ruin what we have.
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>>18367745
I think he already knows you love him.. I mean you gave him your virginity and you hook up weekly. so.. you guys are kinda in love it seems.
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>>18367774
(This is OP my internet cut out so I'm on mimi) I feel like he thinks it would be more trouble than it's worth and to be honest I don't think we could get away with being together offically because of outside forces, I just want him to open up to me even though its not my place
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>>18367796
Be patient I guess.. or.. I dunno.. you seem unhappy.. dunno what to tell you really. You can tell him how you feel I guess.
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Any tips for someone running away to Chicago?
No I'm not sucking off dudes
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>No I'm not sucking off dudes
Nigga your'e in the wrong job then
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>>18367481
Murphy's law
that's about my only advice. you're probably smart enough to figure out everything that can (will) go wrong, and to prepare for it.
I don't know how much things cost. For instance, Portlanad is cheap to rent, but the food and so on can be expensive. I live in Princeton, so I don't know if it's expensive by those standards. Bucks County, PA food was more expensive. Boston is an example of a place you would just not want to go. The people there are richer, and the cost of everything is too high.
Chicago might be alright. Just research it, and don't assume things will go your way.
Murphy's law states that everything can go wrong will go wrong. This is what they use in the military to be completely prepared. I don't suggest you adopt any other mental attitude.
>Why should I be militant?
Because you're not prepared. You're running away, and that's dangerous.
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>>18367514
Is it possible to make it off the streets as a homeless person? I just want to sell drugs or something. Is it possible some fat chick will fake me in or something if I'm good looking?
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19 years old 5'9 around 185lbs Current facial hair progress/"migration" how the fuck do I speed this up? I know my skin looks like shit, I'm washing it every time I shower, and even splashing cold water once I'm done. What else could I do? Is being overweight making the growing process so slow, I've been only trying to eat fruit, and eat meat about 1-2 times a day. Any recommendations?
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>>18367440
I wasn't able to grow anything but patchy shit until about 21. Just Give it time OP.
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>>18367440
my beard didnt look proper until 27. hang in there little buddy
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I'm 24 and can't grow a beard. In fact your sideburns are fuller than mine. My Mustache is thick as fuck but nothing else seems to grow.
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I keep thinking I just fucked up.
I went to target after a 12 hour work day. While I'm walking through the store, I hear a woman in heels behind me. I stop in the athletic aisle just to browse and this asian woman in her late 30s comes into the same aisle and picks up a yoga mat. Then she starts up a conversation with me about working out. This leads to a 20 minute or so talk touching on some personal information such as what my job is, what state i'm from, etc, but I don't think anything anything too big. She offers up a hiking group that her and her husband regularly do, and we exchange names and numbers to set up something later. We talk a bit more about general pop culture like books, tv and movies.
We eventually end the conversation and she walks off with the yoga mat. I hear her heels go around the edge of the store, and I cut through the store to see her walking to the cashiers with nothing but her purse. I backtrack through the store and see the yoga mat ditched.
I'm a little panicked now. I can find her on facebook and her phone number checks out. She even has a couple business pages with her husband, so it's hard to say its fake. I just can't shake the feeling she's going to do something with my personal information. A woman just hasn't been this forward and friendly before to me. Is this just how adults are supposed to interact or am I justified in being worried?
TL;DR: A stranger was able to extract some personal information out of me. Should I be worried?
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Maybe she just wants to fuck
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Trust your gut, sounds dodgy to me
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>>18367445
I doubt that. She wouldn't mention the husband otherwise.
>>18367470
My gut is also saying I'm paranoid. She didn't lie about anything that I can find online about her. If she was going to use my personal info for something, what would it be? She doesn't have my SSN and a lot of other info, so she can't exactly open a credit card or bank account, right?
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Any lawyers around?
preferably family law.
I'm lost of what to do with my ex and our son.
more info if anyone thinks they may be able to help.
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>>18367383
I'll try to help as best I can, but I'm from a relatively obscure jurisdiction.
What's your jurisdiction and what's your problem?
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My ex doesn't work, she gets money from the government because she claims to have PTSD.
(i feel she was using me for money for a majority of our relationship)
She had our child two weeks ago and has refused me any access and doesn't want me to be a part of his life.
I am perfectly fine with giving up my custody and will let her take care of him but I don't want her coming after me for child support.
I would gladly be a part of my sons life, but she doesn't want me to be, and I dont trust her to not take me to court later down the road.
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>>18367391
jurisdiction?
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Advice on teeth cleaning 2017-05-31 02:26:27 Post No.18367357
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How to clean my teeth better?
I have these yellow shit even after briushing my teeth twice. It looks disgusting....what do?
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>>18367357
Floss. Electric brush. Get a cleaning. Teeth are naturally yellower on the bottom. They look good though either way.
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>>18367362
Thanks for your response. Will do all that.
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>>18367375
Check out lists of foods to avoid at times.
Stop smoking if you smoke cigs.
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I'm a young chubby girl, and I lack self control with food. My legs are incredibly weak, but swimming is easy and fun for me.
Any advice for me as to how to lose weight?
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>>18367323
Got discord? I can send you some resources n shit
Otherwise all the questions you could possibly have are answered on the >>>/fit/ sticky.
Tl;Dr: Eat less, lift weights.
I don't mind spoon feeding you all this information over discord because I am greatly lacking female interaction and literally any female contact, even one sided, is enough for me in such a derived state.
Lol
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>>18367323
Stop fucking eating so much
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>>18367333
https://discord.gg/T5cfUM
>>18367334
Thanks for the advice
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Broken hearted and confused 2017-05-31 02:01:20 Post No.18367277
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Broken hearted and confused
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I will try to sum this up and see what every ones opinions. I have a child with a guy I dated for 10 yrs. I was unhappy a long time. Met someone else in online anime chatroom from another country. Became friends, then more then friends as I was trying to move out and leave the bad relationship. Me and the new guy dated, he knew everything about me and accepted me and helped me through the process of moving out. Then he broke up with me for three months while I was trying to get adjusted to living with family. We started dating again 2 months later. That was over 2 years ago. Since then he visited me 3 times for a months period each time. I slowly introduced him in person to my child who rely likes him. They got along nicely. It was great. So in love. Every moment was great and we did new things together. We told each other we were each others true love, love of our lives and soul mates. He was a virgin and a shut in computer science, introvert, very sweet,caring. He is finishing his bachelors degree in computer science in a couple months and said he was moving here to be with e and we would get married. He confessed still being in love with me and loving me two weeks ago. Last week he broke up with me through text no warning. I always asked him his feelings and if something was wrong he said no he was happy with me. I know I have been a little bitchy and moody because it has been so long since last visit, but all he had to do was talk to me and tell me what was bothering him. He doesn't like to talk of such things though. He wasn't used to it. I was first real gf. I think he is to stressed over graduating and moving here, as well as getting a job. He is younger then me as well. He broke up suddenly and is being cruel to me trying to push me away but I know now things that were bothering him He also nervous about starting family. I'm hurting bad. We talk daily. He gets mad that we can get along and that I wont just hate him. I love him so much. IDK what to do.
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>>18367277
three months of i nperson vacation time is not enough for someone to move their entire life over for and inherit a kid
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>>18367277
Look, you've got to prioritise your kid. Sounds like he thought he was gonna get some pussy but backed out last minute when he realised he'll end up with some other guys kid.
He's an introvert and shut in for a reason.
Get yourself a chad. Make him take care of your kid. They NEED a father role or they'll end up a whore if they're a girl, or a shut-in if they're a guy.
Get yourself a chad.
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>>18367288
I know but we were really in love. We were so sentimental we kept every tickets of everything, anything linked to us. Even took tons of sand from our vacation. His parents even sent me things over seas an he gave them sand and other things of us. I didn't expect to get married right away. I wanted him to see how he felt while living with me first ofc, since it was so great in person. He got along really well with my kid and said that wasn't a problem even though he hates the kids dad. Whom I also can not stand.
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>Hate mathematics
>Can't stand to look at it
>Know I'll never do what I really want to do in this world
>Will wind up like 75% of the American populace and hate my job
This is why I refuse to entertain the notion of having kids.
The industrial world makes you waste your life doing things you hate. What's the purpose in bringing more people into this?
You've got to be born with a certain personality type just to be happy in this shit. Normies are Normies because they're born that way. They're under-stimulated by their environment from an early age. It's stupid to try and blame individuals for everything when human-beings aren't created equal.
Self-improvement in 2017 is unnatural adaptation to a world that shouldn't be the way it is.
By the time Universal Basic Income is a reality, I'll be 75 years old.
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>>18367251
You don't hate mathematics, you're just horrible at it because you're stupid
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>>18367251
Buy some text books at your mathematical level and self teach. It may be an hour out of your week at first, but as long as you're consistent you'll eventually worth yourself into a habit of practising some mathematics.
And with all things you practise at, you'll eventually get good at it.
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>>18367343
If I'm stupid, how does that not provide validation to my world view?
How are we not all bounding down one track?
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How much ibuprofen do you need to take with alcohol to die. What's the maximum amount you can take without just vomiting it out?
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Google. If you can't figure out how to google a correct answer, you do not care enough.
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>>18367179
don't do it bro. it takes multiple days to die of kidney failure.
i tried this shit & i just work up 2 days later. you need a lot of it & it's not even that great of a way to die.
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>>18367179
Go to a hospital and tell them you have issues sleeping and need sleeping pills.
Its not like you will be paying your bills any time soon.
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So, I asked a girl out, she was busy but she keeps talking to me, should I ask again? 2017-05-31 01:01:29 Post No.18367058
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Hey /adv/!
So, long story short, met an attractive girl
at the Uni's library. She's been sitting next to me
everyday for the past 1-2 weeks.
I asked her out but she said she was busy with family stuff.
So I was like Allright, no big deal. Maybe she's really busy or doesn't really want to go out with me. Whatever...
She still sits down next to me everyday at the library tho. And we speak like nothing happened.
Should I ask her out again /adv/?
Or just wait 'til she suggests something?
What would you do?
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stop going after attractive girls. god damn.
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>>18367065
But.... They are attractive
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>>18367058
Sounds like she likes the attention. Move.