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Why are men so obsessed with porn even when they have wives and families. My day and my husband is so busy jacking it to women online that he didn't even do anything for me special at all.
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It's my bday I mean
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>>18376357
He's bored of fucking you or you've become more and more unattractive/fat during the relationship that he'd rather jerk off than put his benis in u
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>>18376354
Happy birthday anonette.
Sounds like your husband is an asshole, and has a porn addiction.
Not all men are like that. Talk about this with him and consider talking to a professional. It is not normal.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-06-02 10:30:27 Post No.18376208
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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>>18376208
Be honest, what do you think of guys with slightly blonde/orange hair. Before i really get to know someone i can feel the prejudice, this only happens in the college environment though, in any other place i get respected like it's usual.
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Girls, do any of you not use facebook?
If not, why don't you use it? If you do use it, is it something you would ever give up or are you too addicted to it?
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Does size matter?
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Posting pics of the girl you like on 4chan makes you unworthy of her. It's quite frankly creepy and disrespectful.
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>>18376057
Hmmm so bad start I got goin here
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You can never be too sure about breakups because people always get back together again.
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>>18376051
why is she on /s/ lmao
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Bradon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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How often do girls masturbate through life? How often is it right after you discover masturbation? When do you do it the most frequently? how much is it?
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Could I get an invite into the female only advice group on facebook just to have a look around?
You know the one im talking about
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Hey birds,
Rank in order of importance:
>Facial features
>teeth
>physique
>height
>"personality"
Also don't reply unless you're at least marginally attractive. I don't care about what ugly fat chicks want lol
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My girlfriend and I are into bdsm. Last week I went to town on her with a tawse, totally destroyed her ass. She seemed into it while it was happening but ever since she's been really quiet around me and looks at me like she's scared. I asked her about it and she said it was just a little more intense than she would have liked and she'd get over it. what should I do, if anything?
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spa day with her
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>>18375017
agreed
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Look up aftercare.
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I told a girl at a party last night that I thought she was cute and I wasn't lying.
The problem is I don't want to date her.
How do I navigate this conversation??
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>>18374943
jesus, i have never seen straight guys pull this off before, congrats.
honestly, i dont know. any time this happens to me i just feign being busy until they leave me alone, but i have zero real life interaction with the guys i do this to so...
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My advice? Get that pussy while the getting is good. Why don't you want to date her if you think she's cute and she clearly likes you?
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>>18374943
tell her you're gay
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>invite girl i like a lot to party this week
>"hey can i bring my friends? i'd feel so awk without them haha"
i dont want her to bring her friends, so i told her to just bring one friend so she feels more comfortable and told her not to worry. did i do the right thing?
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>>18374766
>i dont want her to bring her friends
Why not?
Also, what did she say? If I was her, I'd probably feel kinda bad. But maybe she didn't mind.
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>>18374766
"It's not my party, so I don't think I have the right to bring a gang of strangers to it. Why don't just you and I go?"
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It's ok. But you shouldn't feel bad for that or take it as a ref flag. Sometimes they just do it just in case it's not going well.
Use it at your advantage.
Be friendly, nice and get to know her friend. She might appreciate and even get a little jealous.
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Boyfriend becoming uninterested in sex 2017-06-01 10:54:12 Post No.18374320
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Hi /adv/
My boyfriend seems to be loosing interest in either me or sex, it's really starting to bum me out.
I've brought it up to him a few times, he says he's just tired and just loosing interest in sex as he gets older; which I understand completely, but at the same time he can't be THAT tired.
We average having sex like 3-5 times a month currently, we used to be very sexually active for the first couple months of the relationship and we've only been together about 8 months at this point.
He's 30, honestly not in the best physical condition (slightly over weight but he's been working out a lot and eating better to try and change that) and works a desk job (if that helps, I think it's making him a bit sluggish). His diet isn't the best either but I've been helping him eat better since we've been together
I'm 24, I think I'm rather attractive and really do my best to try and act playful and sexy to try and help turn him on. Like I'm a tiny girl with nice curves at a low/healthy weight. I have a cute face and I wouldn't say I'm boring at all.
It's really starting to get to me and make me feel unattractive, I've never had to fight for someones attention before and usually I'm the one pushing my partner off me for sex, so this table turn is really throwing me off.
I know he's not cheating on me, we live together and he comes right home after work, it's rare that I work when he isn't, usually if he's not around me he's texting me anyways.
Any suggestions are welcome, I really love him but the lack of sex is making me rethink our relationship, which is pretty shitty to say but sex is a big part of a healthy relationship for me, I don't even want it all that often, just more than like once a week.
Thanks in advance everyone~
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lmao ur fukken finished kid.
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Bumping with similar situation.
You could ask him if he's still attracted to you, and when he says he is tell him it doesn't feel like it and that his lack of attention is abnormal and frustrating because you go out of your way to initiate sex and get shut down, and emphasize how important a healthy sexuality is in a relationship.
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>>18374320
what percent of the time do you initiate?
when you initiate, what percent of the time does he turn you down for sex?
how many times a week do you initiate?
also, if you're not directly initiating sex, try that. is he more submissive or dominant in the bedroom?
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Why does weed bum me out/depress me instead of making me feel relaxed, calm and happy like it used to?
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Because you're addicted
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Different strains? Weed isn't all the same. Every plant is different and has different chemical makeups.
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>>18374249
ehhh, getting high feels the same no matter which strain I smoke at this point.
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So according to the internet, the way to get girls is to continually ask them out and face rejection rates of 90 % plus, including being laughed at to my face, given fake phone numbers, being stood up, giving someone a huge ego boost and a superiority complex over me, and facing the risk of the girl laughing about the "omg so creepy guy" on social media for all to see.
And the above is only the long shot scenario of women I barely know. The "better" way is to ask out girls in your social circle or friends of friends. So I can be rejected by people I'll see repeatedly, and laughed at and embarrassed by all the people I'll see the most in life.
Or online, where I can be 1 out of hundreds of matches for each women, who, at best, skims off the Chads.
What's the deal? This all sounds crazy. I've never asked out a girl or had attention from one but all this is unrealistic. I have awful social skills but I'm not an autist. I can easily tell that all of this is internet fantasist shit.
The real method is to be a normie and have an instant connection with all other normies. Even extroverted normies have nothing to say to me but when I see normies talk to other normies so effortlessly, it's like seeing someone talk to themselves, it's so damn effortless. This is the only way: being part of the hivemind. Anything else is a life of quiet desperation.
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Aw man I have a sad now. I see your point. Love and paring stopped being about survival since the dating pool has become oversaturated and women began to realize they aren't completely unable to provide. It's got a lot of us guys unfocused on the only true, real objective, making babies. since there's also a bunch of distractions it's even easier. I'm not a social butterfly, far from it. I have one friend that I don't just tolerate for socializing sake, ten more that I pretend to care about because it's easier to meet people, the only thing that gets me to hang out with people is the hope of finding my mate. It's not like I am like desperate for sex. I just want to provide for a family I don't have yet, I feel like when I have the mate box checked, being a working dreg and getting my life completely together will be more worth it.
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>>18374068
>frog poster
>never asked girl out
>why even bother
Were you brought up by single mother?
Life isnt easy. Dating isnt easy. Everything worthwhile in life isnt easy. Shut the fuck up, decide what are you willing to sacrifice in order to gain sex / gf / wife and act like it.
So far you havent managed to do anything better than bad shitposting. Return back when you decide it is time to improve your life. I will gladly talk to you or give some moral support. But you have to deserve it first.
Good luck frogposter.
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>>18374068
From what I gather, ask out girls you know and may see more often, but only if they seem like they are not repulsed by you (touching you, getting close).
Don't ask out close friends, but acquaintances. Avoid the friendzone.
Wait for them to show some interest, or at least show you that they don't find you abhorrently repulsive (a smile or wave... generally signs of "Hey, I'm not hostile, and I don't think you are either").
Don't straight up ask them either. Test the waters.
Find a subtle (or not-so-subtle, but at least looks like you are trying) to ask about the relationship status - "You doing anything with your boyfriend this weekend".
Find out if they are single, then gradually push boundaries. Make jokes, try to tease her (and she how she responds) and get some banter going, start physical contact.
If all goes well, you'll be flirting.
Then you ask her out.
Fuck asking girls out using averages. That shit is dumb and social suicide.
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How do i get rid of acne? Its putting me down, i look decent but the opposite gender gets put off immediately by my face too.
Have tried benzoylperoxide and inderm. I eat healthy and go to the gym 4 times a week.
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>>18373990
this is me before and after tretinoin, a prescription cream you rub on your acne and it kills it in like 3 days.
the problem? well your face gets lots of gunk and it doesnt stop acne from being made, so if your face is a coming and going of pimples you will still constantly be seeing them appear and trying to get rid of them.
what made me look permanently like my 'after' pic is accutane. i was only on it for 3 months before i had to stop it for unrelated reasons, but in that time it cured me. i still have to use a strong face wash and moisturize, but my life is so much better now. not just because i look good but because i dont spend ALL day fussing over my face, washing it when you touch the wrong 'spot' applying cream after cream after cream.
its so simple now. wash face. then moisturize. amazing.
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>>18373990
STOP. SCRUBBING. THE SHIT. OUT. OF. YOUR. FACE. stop using harsh cleaners. what you are doing is killing all the bacteria on your face, while also creating a bunch of dead skin. well guess what, the beneficial bacteria aren't as hardy as the bad, and you just created a bunch of microscopic decaying waste on your face. "well but I'm washing my face" yeah but all that food goes into your pores and sticks there, and then you get a bacterial infection, then you get a zit.
only use water for like 3 weeks. you're going to get really oily for a bit because your skin is overproducing oils cause you keep drying it the fuck out like a good goy buying all that shit, then you're going to break out, then it's going to clear up.
since you work out and sweat more, it should go a little faster, but you also need to be taking a shower soon after working out. what I used to do was a steam shower, and then a cold shower. steam to open up and clean out your pores, cold to slam them shut and help with lactic acid processing and recovery.
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>>18373990
The only thing which helped me was not giving shit. Then suddenly i grew up and no pimples.
The best thing was how all it took one look from my mom and she was literally insulted by my face. So i was at varios doctors, dermatologists and woodoo witches, everybody prescribed different tactics and drugs.
And yes, nothing worked. I annoyed my mom simply by showing my face to her.
Good luck with your puberty!
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Please, give me a movie, a song, a book, anything to make me cry. I desperately need a release. I'm really tense. Emotions keep building up and every once in a while I need to let it all out. Thing is, I can't bring myself to cry on my own, I need some external force to ignite it. My usual methods are not as effective anymore.
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What are your usual methods?
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>>18373519
If you are fine with animu:
Kimi no na wa - Happy tears (Romance)
Wolf Brigade - Sad tears (Action/Psychological)
Both of these hit hard in the feels
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>>18373519
Try watching Hachi: A Dog's Tale. I never cry, I didn't cry when I was a teen and my father died, but that movie ALMOST made me cry.
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My boyfriend said he might be attracted to males. He said he's gotten hard at the thought of having sex with males but wouldn't date one.
He always loses his boner whenever we do lewd stuff too, so it makes me scared that he isn't even leaning towards bicurious and is just a full blown homo.
Do I dump him? I don't want to risk it and next thing you know he's cheating on me with another dude. I already had something similar happen with a previous boyfriend.
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pls respond
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>>18372928
Yes tell him you are willing to put a strap on and pleasure his anus. Tell him it's your fantasy and make him your little bitch !!
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>>18372928
Dump that faggot.
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What to do if you're ugly? 2017-06-01 01:35:04 Post No.18372846
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What to do if you're ugly?
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I mean, if the guys with superior gene pools get the girls. Where does this leave people like me? Any ways to improve myself? /soc/ rated awful scores as well once, so it's not just my imagination. Definitely need some advice on this one. I'm a bit alternative as well but I wouldn't have any idea to get into that scene.
Thanks in advance!
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buy her a 1200$ watch, it gets girls wet as fuck
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>>18372864
watches arent looking good on girls and males who wear them are reddit tier
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>>18372846
Get rich ! Boat + liquor+ summer heat + hoes + bill cosby=?
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GF does not want me to meet her (male) friends 2017-06-01 04:28:29 Post No.18371787
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So me and my gf just got in a fight. Here's what happened:
>We've been dating for 6 months and things have been going pretty good.
>Finals are coming coming where I live so we haven't seen each other for almost two weeks. >Sunday comes I see an opportunity to hang out so I ask her if she can go out.
>She then tells me she's going to be running with some of her friends.
>Ask her if I can join in, we've been talking about doing some exercise together some weeks ago.
>I haven't meet her male friends.
>She says it's not a good idea
>Ask her why
>She says it would be uncomfortable
>Ask her why, again.
>She says they don't know we're a couple
>Tell her it doesn't matter, they have to find out sooner or later
>She says it would be awkward for her and them, because they would think I'm somehow protecting her from them
>Ask her if they would be jealous or something.
>She then explodes and tells me I'm the jealous one and a lot of shit.
>Tries to turn this in a fight and gets defensive.
This was all over facebook, I told her to talk this face to face the same day or fuck off, she choose the later. So what do you guys think? Was she cheating or something? I don't think I can trust her after this unless she honestly explains the whole thing.
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>>18371787
Forgot to say, she pretty much said I should never meet her friends (male, yeah she doesn't have any female ones).
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>>18371792
Big red flags there bro
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>>18371787
>only has male friends
Red flag # 1
>doesnt know we're a couple
Red flag # 2
>doesn't want you to meet
Red flag # 3
>turns it around on you
Red flag # 4
Your dumb ass after 4 red flags "hurrr I dont think I can trust her again after this, maybe I can..I don't know, if she crys hard enough and rationalizes it to me I'll totally eat that shit up though!'