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Question for men over the age of 25 2017-09-13 02:40:57 Post No.18718251
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So is cheating the only way to stay happy in a long-term relationship/marriage?
After many numerous relationships, I'm stuck deciding between being an asshole or just fucking off and going MGTOW.
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You could have multiple open relationships.
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No.
Just don't be in a relationship. MGTOW is for fags and losers, if you want to be independent you don't need to be a drama queen about it just fucking do it. Like for fucks sake it sounds like you're begging to be single and not be tied down, why the fuck are you even in a relationship? Some people just aren't built for relationships. If you can't stand someone that much fucking break up with them. Cheating is worse than being a guy who sluts around. Pulling the wool over someone's eyes is a cowards way.
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>>18718251
a relationship is a mutual commitment. if you don't want to make a commitment, then don't enter a long term relationship.
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Getting my life on track again. 2017-09-13 02:23:37 Post No.18718221
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Getting my life on track again.
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Hey /adv/, I'm trying to get my life back on the road again. Currently a NEET but trying to change that by getting a job, saving up for uni etc.
But, I want some company (friends,gf etc) Where do I go about finding these? I don't like clubbing or overcrowded area's that much since I can't really make or keep a convo going in them. Any advice is welcome I guess.
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>>18718221
It's great you want to make some positive changes. You can meet people once you get a job, and hopfully befriend some co-workers. I wouldn't put "clubbing" or "hanging out" with people as the priority. Concentrate right now on just getting a decent job. don't overwhelm yourself
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>>18718226
Any idea on what I can do after getting a job?
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>>18718221
Pick up a hobby somewhere. It's pretty easy to meet/talk to people that go to some event you all enjoy. This can be something as simple as a chess hangout in a bookstore or something
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Giving up on pursuing relationships 2017-09-13 02:22:55 Post No.18718220
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Giving up on pursuing relationships
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Should i just give up on actively trying to get into a relationship with a girl ? This is because i see that if they really want you they will just go for it and i ALWAYS see them flocking to the alpha beefcakes with generic haircuts.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not some overweight acne riddled fuck that does nothing all day. I actually take care of myself in the limit of the possible. I go to the gym, i try not to walk like a disgusting hobo and i also try to always show my more funny and witty side to others
I'm just really tired of grinding my brains with beating it around the bush when i could be applying harder for my studies or doing anything productive.
Do you have any helpful advice for my situation ?
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You do you. That's literally it. I, for one, can't be arsed to pay attention to my girl much. Pretty sure she doesn't think she's even my gf, maybe she thinks we're just le super good friends. Buddy asked me if we text daily and shit, I told him yeah but I'm actually on 4chan when I could be out with my girl. She just asked me if we'll meet tomorrow after work, I haven't even replied yet.
Bottom like is, nobody gives a shit about you besides your mom and dad (even shitty parents care for their kids in a twisted way)
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>>18718235
I don't actually see where this fits very much.
I just wanted to get it off my chest and see if someone would have a contrary opinion (and why, of course)
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Do you want a family? Do you want a life long partner?
Then yes, keep looking.
I see benefits with marriage. Society favors a married couple. Especially if the female works. It's hard to live on just one income.
Good women desu though are hard to come by. Same with good men. Our society has downgraded so much.
I married a beautiful girl I met at Uni whose originally from a country outside the USA. She cooks, cleans, and is highly religious. A very virtuous woman whose HAPPY. She also works as a nurse. We're best friends too, and our relationship is one of the important things to me.
I almost gave up. I was so sick of American morals, and the degenerative behaviors in my generation. I thought I was going to die alone. I stopped looking, until I met her one day in one of my classes. Dating another culture has been really amazing. Her culture is like taking a step back to the 1950s were men were men and women were women. There's respect, and conservatism. There were cultural differences (like not celebrating birthdays???), but we learned.
There's billions of people here on Earth. Don't limit yourself to the people in your town. Don't be afraid to date outside your culture.
If you're truly interested in doing something like that then I suggest going to an international church in your area. Unless you travel frequently or live in a big city it can be difficult to meet different cultures
My brother is super fucking autistic, and my parents hired this caretaker who is dirt poor for very cheap. For extra money, they have been paying her to have sex with him which I know she feels awful about it, my brother is fucking gross, and a total asshole to her, instead of trying to learn how to make my brother be less of a dick they just use his condition as an excuse. I am thinking of offering her the opportunity to be my live in maid, so she can get away from my fucked up family, but it would mean my parents being super dicks about and my brother not having a fuck buddy. Honestly, shes easy to get along with, cute, a great cook and keeps a very clean house so I don't see it really being a problem for me to do it, I have a two bedroom apartment I pay for myself, and she doesn't have kids, or any kind of family so it would just be her moving in. I know its weird to get a live in maid for an apartment, but I really like this girl and hate the situation my parent put her in. Should I do it?
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>>18718210
I guess talk with her about it.
Maybe help her get another job, if you have any connections.
Also Jesus Christ are you parents assholes.
Also, if your brother hasnt fucked her already, maybe she's a score for you.
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>>18718210
This sounds like some fucked up euroshit.
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>dirt poor
>very cheap
>technically involved with your family members
>has no family of her own
here, let me offer my moral advice: you should totally do it
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Why does it feel like such a chore to be with a girl? I've recently met a chick, we click really well but I just don't feel like doing anything. Hate is a strong word but yeah, I hate the texting game, having to call her for shit, now we planned a trip just the 2 of us this weekend but I'd rather ride my bike alone, set up camp somewhere in the woods and fry some meat.
I know I'm an innately lonely person but I don't think it's normal for it to feel like such a burden. That's why it's so hard for me to maintain relationships and friends, that it generally tires the fuck out of me to be with people. Otherwise I'm a fairly active, happy and high-energy person.
How do I find a like-minded gf? I'm tired of this chick and I barely know her. Not even looking forward to go in vacation with her.
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>>18718209
It's not that it's a chore to be with a girl, it's just that you don't love that girl and you like being alone more
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>>18718212
It's a chore even calling my best friend. Every time he calls me he's all like "dude you never call wtf man" and I unironically love that man more than pretty much anyone (inb4 fag). It's a chore even having to talk with the cashier at fucking KFC. I just don't like being around people and interacting with people at all. I'm sure there's some sort of name for this condition but whatever.
Now, there has been a random chick I met once I don't even remember where, but she made me feel like I could be myself (like don't give a fuck about her and being with her 24/7) and she would love me unconditionally. How do I meet a girl that would love me unconditionally?
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>>18718223
you want a woman with no standards and no self respect to give you the benefits of a relationship (work on HER END) without receiving any of the benefits of a relationships.
just don't date. get a fuckbuddy. relationships require mutual work. maybe one day you'll meet someone worth the work or someone with equally low social needs.
>be me
>like a girl at my work
>have no experience with girls at all, I'm 24 in one month
>make small talk but not more than how are you and random shit
>I'm always the one that has to talk first
>she always smiles cause I always talk to her with a smile
>one day I noticed she parked next to me, she was parked somewhere else first but she moved spots next to mine
>minutes later she moved to where she originally parked
>what does that mean.jpg?
I badly want a girlfriend but I'm too autistic to actually go all out, it seriously feels horrible inside waking up everyday knowing that for 23 years of your life you have been alone... Should I just ask her if she has a boyfriend or some shit?
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It is called conversation.
http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation
Chat her up. Ask her what is she doing on weekend. Invite her somewhere. Dinner, zoo, ice cream, demonstration whatever. Tldr ask her on date.
There you will SMILE at her, look into her eyes and attempt to flirt with her. Pic very much related.
And dont shit where you eat. You will probably need to find new job once you fuck this up.
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>>18718216
Shiiiit sounds harder than I thought, also anon can you explain why she decided to park next to me?
I already told several of my coworkers I like her, have no issue people knowing.. It's not like its some amazing job.
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>>18718231
Don't look too much into it. She parked there because she didn't park anywhere else.
Also why do you need a gf? I can honestly say my worst period in my life is when I had a gf. I've never been as close to losing it as when I was with her, fucking succubus.
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She won't stop writing. 2017-09-13 02:12:41 Post No.18718204
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>went to a uni class
>first session
>have to work together on project
>get her fb
>contacts me next morning about keeping me up-to-date with news if class' WA group (don't have WA)
>start talking
>convo keeps going and going for days
I have only met this girl twice now. Shares so much info about herself and her interests when we chat on fb. Insanely long message chain for only a few days of chatting.
Never had chats moving this quickly.
But when we talk in person, it's just a normal convo/no flirting/no signs...
I don't mind keeping the convoy going, as she isn't an uggo.
Yet i am starting to feel something must be wrong/feels unnatural. Don't know what's up here. What to do.
(I suspect yellowfever)
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>>18718204
Ask her on date and dick her already.
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I wish a girl would message me.
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>>18718233
Join us, you'll definitely get messages from QTs
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What should I do while walking past people I don't know? When I look at them I feel like a creep and when I stare at the floor or some object I feel like an autist.
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>>18718187
Well I think glancing at them and then looking at something else is socially acceptable, but I see no problem with ignoring them, it's what I prefer people to do
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>>18718196
If I glance at them what should I be attempting to comunicate? Should I smile at them?
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Just look straight ahead or whatever. You don't have to fucking stare at people down the street. Ez mode, look at your phone.
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My new gf have jokingly confessed to me a few times that she is not entirely comfortable with me being smarter than her. She has never brought this up in a serious manner. Now i have a reasonably high IQ, but mind you not mensa level IQ. But i do have a quite wide range of trivia knowledge due to my obsession with reading wikipedia articles. Now if it's not clear at this point I am slightly autistic, and have less than optimal social skills. Thus when she confesses her discomfort with me being smarter than her I am at a loss of words. I don't know what to say and how to act. Any one of you have any tips, of how to handle this situation?
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You do you. Fuck her.
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The important thing to take from this is you are doing things that make your gf feel insecure over her own intellect. This is obviously not good. Whether you're actually objectively smarter than her or not isn't particularly important, rather you need to change the way in which you act in order to ensure she feels comfortable in herself, otherwise you risk alienating her and ruining your relationship.
You should probably tell her that you don't believe that you're smarter than her, and ask why she feels this way. Perhaps you're spending too much time in your head, rather than spending time with her in the moment. Perhaps you're too quick to put down her ideas or do not give her time to voice her opinions. These things can easily become a bad habit for those with self-assured intellects yet become toxic in a relationship where give and take is fundamental.
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>>18718201
>You should probably tell her that you don't believe that you're smarter than her
What if his gf is a dumb bitch?
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I have been paying a homeless chick to let me fuck her, and I don't want to stop, I want to be safe about it. I met her a few monthes ago, and for food and I'm guessing drug money, and being allowed to shower at my place, she lets me do all sorts of depraved shit to her. I wear a condom when we have sex, and she assures me she isn't a prostitute, I have noticed since I started paying her, she doesn't even have to beg anymore and just hangs out in the van she lives in.
I know its gross because shes homeless, even if shes cleaned up well during the time I've been fucking her, but the sex is amazing so I don't want to stop. How do I be safe with this entire thing? is there any way to be?
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>all sorts of depraved shit to her
like what exactly?
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>>18718167
It's not gross because she's homeless, it's gross because you are taking advantage of her.
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>>18718167
She's selling sex to you for money. That's prostitution by definition. I would BET money that she's with other people btw.
That's beyond nasty, no offense. You can try wearing a condom (even during oral), but they don't protect you 100% of the time.
So when it comes down to it, you really need to think....is the sex REALLY worth it? That you'd risk diseases that can stay with you forever and may eventually kill you?
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>Hey, mister? What's a good Blu-ray Player for Windows 7 x64? VLC and none of the stuff for it seem to work. And Google hasn't been giving any good results so far. We'd prefer to play directly from the disc, but will rap if have to.
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How about you get VLC working instead.
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>>18718122
>download mpv
>stop being a faggot and download mkv format movies
>????
>profit
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>>18718122
>2017 paying for movies
you poor and tech illiterate people are hilarious.
Sup /adv/
Not sure what I should do. I had a big fight with my girlfriend and went out with my friends. Got really drunk and flirty with one of my friends who happens to be a girl (she also has a boyfriend) we stopped ourselves before anything happened.
Next morning my girlfriend and I broke up. The next day my girlfriend came back and we sorted our shit out.
Now I hear from my friend who I was flirting with that some people said we hooked up (we didnt). She tried to clarify that to said people.
Not sure what to do now? Do i tell my girlfriend? and if so what do i tell her? I didnt cheat on her.
Im just worried that she thinks that I did, she was already jealous of me being friends with this girl.
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Worried that people might say things to her. What I did was wrong, but I didnt cheat on her.
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Your relationship is over, mate.
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>they're still posting this bait
Believe you're baiting Anon! Believe!
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can a magic 8 ball predict the future?
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Most likely.
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Ask again later.
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can a magic 8 ball predict the future?
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>been getting closer with ex gf
>tells me her LDR bf she left me for is not gonna last
>talked in past about us getting back together
>hanging out with her and she wants me to stay the night
>day goes great, lots of fun. I put a lot of effort and time into seeing her and it's paid off. Hadn't slept in 24hrs tho.
>dead beat by the end of the day
>she's been flirting hardcore, gave me the eyes quite a bit
>had me unzip her from her dress (she got dressy for me)
>had me turn around while she "got changed"
>she just wanted to get herself looking sexy
>kissed me and danced around with me showing herself off
>wanted to go further but limits since she's still dating this guy
>I end up showering and everything half awake ready to pass out where I stood, buzzed on some alcohol
>asleep before long
>wake up a bit later, she's mad at me because she shower wasnt clean after I used it and in my stupor I forgot to flush
>apologize since I never do that
>her: "this is why we aren't ever getting back together. Just pet peeves like this. We can't ever date again because I just can't handle you doing this stuff all the time."
> tell her she's objectively wrong and she shrugs it off and says she loves me but not in a relationship way and then falls asleep next to me
The fuck happened
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She is a cheater
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she is a whore who will cheat on you just like her ldbf
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Yeah this is pretty sketch for me. I feel like she's done with him, but at the same time she says he's coming to see her soon and he already spent the money and is hoping actually meeting will change his shitty attitude.
As for me, it seemed pretty positive up until she started telling me how we aren't ever getting back together and she doesn't want a relationship with me
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Decide my life plans for me 2017-09-13 11:18:10 Post No.18717961
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Decide my life plans for me
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I'll keep this simple. Most votes wins.
I'm unemployed after finishing studying. I've been living in my old room at home for about 5 weeks now and I'm massively depressed.
Choice 1: Fly across the globe to Europe for a 2 month trip. Staying for free with my father and brother. I will see a few countries, smoke pot and see family I haven't seen in 5 years. It will cost 33% of my cash for the flights alone. And probably at least another 33% for everything else.
Choice 2: Start renting a place to stay in the city, unemployment money will pay for rent and a bit of food. Realistically the move will cost about 20% of my money.
The catch is: Choice 1 leaves me with a huge loss of funds and when I return, I will most likely be back here to the same place just like now. Choice 2 is also risky, finding a job is hard, and my life will probably suck nearly as much as it does now anyway.
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choice one, dont live your life for finding an apartment and shitty job. wont hep the depression
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>>18717961
Choice one because it will fuck you up in the long run and I hate you.
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Yeah, my vote's for #1. If a couple plane tickets is a third of your money, you don't have enough money to do anything, really, so why not have a good experience.
Shitty apartments and unemployment benefits will always be there for you, anon