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>>18389676
Self preservation

>>18389676
perhaps you think friendliness is hitting on you?

>>18389676

Survivalism

I have a guy friend that almost never responds to my texts until 1 am or days later. It's really knowing when they're active. But tell him to respond quicker.

>>18389591
idk I'm shit at responding to texts. if I'm working on my car no one is getting ahold of me. if i'm doing paperwork I'm in the zone, if I'm at the gym I'm busy, if I'm driving I have to shift. there's a lot of times I just won't get on my phone. that said, I try and make time for it with priority people.

>>18389591

Sometimes I leave my phone somewhere on purpose so I don't have to deal with people calling or texting me.

But considering he texted you first, fuck it, hell if I know?

>>18389511
Perfect example of modern reactionary politics and how the left is fucking EVERYTHING UP. Unfriend then desu and keep standing up against racism.

>>18389511

Get racist back, explicitly at the people who've systematically encouraged this within the media, the education system and the law.

It's time to name to Jews.

Watch how the biggest proponents of identity politics recoil when their own identity is ever mentioned.

Take Jews down a peg, stop people listening to them, that is how we take back our culture,

>>18389518
this
>>18389528
not this

>>18389467

Take a fuckload of picamilon, mebicar, GABA, ashwagandha, gotu kola, zembrin, lithium orotate, or some combination of the preceding.

Avoid phenibut and benzos as they are all addictive and have horrible withdrawal symptoms. The stuff above is not and does not.

Look into sites like moodgym that help with anxiety and balance in general. Meditate. Take naps if it suits your schedule. Listen to some kind of relaxing music if it helps.

Rates of anxiety and depression in the population as a whole keep increasing, so it's partly just the economy and society being shittier on average with more isolation and less stability, but you can take action to compensate to some extent.

>>18390048
And don't take SSRIs they can cause permanent damage. But certain tricyclics like tianeptine are pretty safe -- you can buy tianeptine online like the other stuff I mentioned -- sulfate lasts longer, sodium kicks in faster, not much dependence risk either.

Once you're feeling stable or when you feel ready, reach out to old acquaintances and hang out or chat a bit more often. Social activity with trusted friends helps stabilize mood.

>>18390054
Also I really like the image you posted. Thanks-- saved.

>>18389369
why do you want to find out?

Just ask him if he's gay desu

>>18389369
if someone was gay you'd know it.

>>18389396
this

>>18389366
don't do it too much. Once every 2 weeks is fine

Physiologically speaking masturbation is 100% identical to sex to the male reproductive system. If masturbating too much was unhealthy then so would be having sex too much. It's not.

masturbation is completely healthy

certain methods are healthier than others. you can desensitize yourself by being rough or by being circumcised. you can also do some things with your mind by watching very specific porn or very extreme porn.

it's all pretty easy to undo. most of sexual gratification is mental, so even a person who masturbates roughly to videos of beheadings or something can recondition themselves to have proper sex in under a year

poster above seems to have the idea that sexual release is unhealthy, that or they have some misunderstanding of what masturbation is

>>18389343
yea gettinh some progessional help would be nice

I feel like I'm missing something here. a girl wanted to come see you from somewhere else, presumably far away, and you think that means there's a 0/10 chance she's interested in you?

buy a fidget spinner and make some dank memes.. duh.. fucking noob

>>18389306
why would you want to

And if you already have a fidget spinner and vape put them together and make a fidget vape

>>18389141
You are not are not the only one. That doesn't make you right, but you aren't alone.

>>18389141
>Am i wrong or is this normal?
No, this is normal. In truth, any interest in sexual things outside of your relationship is considered a betrayal of sorts as this external entity becomes a part of the relationship.
>i cannot tell him and make him change he is not the guy who really likes working on himself
This relationship is not going to end well if he is not open to compromise and growing with you.

I am one of these guys (or used to be).
I think that you gotta understand it's out of habit/boredom more than anything else.

>>18388581
As soon as you feel yourself becoming slow, it's over. DO NOT GET TO THAT POINT, QUIT NOW!

>>18388581
You smoke less. You don't sit down and smoke it all up. You take a hit and go to work

>>18388585
>As soon as you feel yourself becoming slow, it's over
Weed isnt like meth or something dude. If you completely stop smoking your brain will be back to normal in weeks.

How about quit fucking with your dandruff?

What helps me with dandruff is avoid eating refined sugar and white flour as much as possible and exercising regularly.

Where is it thinning the most?

>>18388446
Fire.

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>>18388446
get some garbage bags to put all the trash in, then get yourself some boxes from the ikea to sort everything in.

pic related, these kind of boxes. Any memebrand will do the job desu.

take it off the shelves
throw out the garbage
put it back on the shelves in some sort of logical order using categories

Any time I try talking to anyone I have this crippling fear in the back of my mind like "What if they hate me? What if I'm creeping them out?"

I feel like I want or need that constant validation or reassurance that I'm not a horrible person but wanting this makes me feel like a horrible person especially because I can't expect anyone to do this for me. I whole heartedly acknowledge what I HAVE to do and I have to be able to stand on my own but... I'm weak. I can't.

It's hard for me to just try and talk to people and then expect nothing. I'm always going to be wanting "maybe we'll be friends! maybe they'll like me or want to talk to me!" then thinking "or maybe they'll hate me, maybe i'm expecting too much". I have such a horrid self image, my self-hatred is incredibly high, and my confidence is being shot lower and lower each day. Part of me wants to give up on socializing and become a recluse, then another part of me doesn't want that and will be bitter at seeing people around me actually maintain and strengthen their friendships or even get into relationships.

I don't know. I guess I just want people to like me even if I don't like myself in the slightest, but I can't expect anything from anyone. If people don't like me then... I acknowledge that this is just a fact of life. But I want people to like me. But... and then I get stuck in this terribly vicious cycle.

okay you know what the deal is say it it and say it here on my thread

I'm getting blackmailed from Omegle. Person claims they'll send some stuff to family/friends on Facebook so i Acted like I paid out but immediately stopped the charge and deactivated all social media/told people that my accounts are hacked and are sending phishing links


Am I fucked? Ride out the storm? Anyone else had this happen? Ill probably do something awrful to myself if anything' happebs

and if you're wondering how it started, he overheard me talking about safe space kids playing call of duty and got pretty pissed because he's one of them.

Your saliva. That'll teach him.

>>18388002
A couple years back when I was staying at my uni's dorms, this dumb ass roommate I had would do the same shit. So, you wanna know what I did?
I went to one of this spy shops and bought a small camera and recorded him. Posted pics of it all over campus, put the video online on fb for everyone to see, sent it to his parents fb, and I even left pictures of it in the classrooms and in random books at the library. You could clearly tell in the pic who it was, as well as what he was doing.
Dude would get so much attention everywhere he would go. "Hey toothbrush!" Or my favorite, "You brush your balls today Mitch? Do you brush them with colgate or crest?"
He eventually left the very next semester, but man did I enjoy every bit of it.
Instead of buying something that'll fuck with his balls, why not try and go for a home run OP? Try and fuck with his life instead.

>>18387111

>I DONT LIKE PENISES!

Obviously you do.

>>18387111
Just accept your cock cravings.

This may sound really retarded, but what I'm gonna say is 100% true.

I discovered my gay tendencies through porn. I thought that I'm a bottom and I jerked off to gay/trap porn everyday.

At one point I decided to finally do something about it and downloaded Grindr.

I met up with some guy, drank a little bit of wine, smoked weed and had sex. Sucking a dick isn't as pleasant as it seems. It's not pleasant at all. And when he sucked my dick I didn't know if I even have a boner. He enjoyed it throughout the whole experience and came while I wasn't even close to it.

It wasn't pleasant, but I don't regret it.

Don't feel a need to jerk off to traps/gay shit since then.