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Not really an advice thread, but I got some shit I need to say because I have nobody else to say it to.

Yesterday my schizoaffective and depressed girlfriend had quite a bad episode. It was so random and comepletely out of the blue. And I know it wasn't really her talking and not her true feelings but some of the things she said to me really hurt and honestly felt like I might lose her.

She told me she wanted to break up, that she didn't want to love me anymore, that she wished she could forget about me and never knew me, and that she hated me. I even called her for an hour while this happened and I could hear her breathing and crying but she refused to talk to me and just sent me mesages. And she threatened to self harm too and she almost did.

This was just over 24 hours ago, but even since then things just haven't really been the same, for the first time it just feels fake now. I still love her more than anything but I don't know I just feel numb right now. That's the only way I can describe it. I'm not sure how to get back to normal either, and right now I'm not sure it can, but I'm going to try my best as always.

Sorry about that, but I just had to put it somewhere. Feel free to share whatever is on your mind too :|

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So a while back I broke up with my girlfriend because she was cheating on me with multiple men for our 4 years of dating. I was so pissed I drove to her house and used my key to get in. It's about 2AM here and she's asleep. I was gonna mess her house up or take a shit on her bed but I'm getting cold feet. What should I do

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I had a rather shitty break up last month, I was dating this girl who had a lot of problems and I guess people who do not like themselves all that much are quick to find what they don't like in other people. After several years of telling me that I was everything to her she switched on me, magnified everything not perfect I had ever done to her and then told me she needed space to lick her fictitious wounds. Dating this girl has basically been like walking on eggshells and trying not to wake up a pack of hounds. In many ways I'm glad it's over, the sex was terribly boring.

Here's the problem though, I'm a creature of habit. I got used to her company in a way that feels irreplaceable right now. I'm sure many of you can relate, losing that special person who you share everything is a harsh adjustment. I suggested last week that we should stay friends, and continue to keep some of the positive parts of our relationship alive. She's been absolutely terrible about it though, even though she seems to want my friendship she's been a terrible friend all around.

My question to you guys is, am I fighting a pointless battle here? Does it work for men and women to have a positive friend based relationship after shit goes south?

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Learning the guitar

So I've never learned to play the guitar, idk my hands are too inflexible/fingertips too soft and sweaty for me to play effectively I feel. But now I want to start with flamenco

Any tips? How long did it take you to learn?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=inBKFMB-yPg

I can just imagine the pussy I will plow once I learn how to play this

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TLDR: Started dating girl. Girl takes meds for depression that suppress libido. Wat do?

So i (27 M) recently started seeing this girl (25). We've been having a blast during our dates and we're getting along famously. 2 nights ago, we were watching a movie on the couch and i saw an opportunity to lean in for a kiss. She seemed to doubt for a second and then pulled away, saying that her sex drive has been very low since she started these new depression meds. Not wanting to pressure her or make her feel uncomfortable, i told her it was fine and we just cuddled for the rest of the night.

Normally, i would've just dropped this girl and moved on to another one, but i REALLY like this girl and i'm willing to take some time and just see how this plays out.

I don't have a massive libido myself, but well, i do have one. Is this something that's going to persist, resulting in pretty much no sex at all? Is there anything i should or shouldn't say? The last thing i want to do is pressure her into anything, but i would like to know what i'm getting into.

Typing this i realize i don't even know exactly what i want to ask. If any anon in the same situation could shed some light on this situation, that would be very much appreciated!

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Hey /adv/
I just took about 500Mgs of Adderall as an attempt of suicide. I don't know what might happen, or what I should do in the meanwhile.
Pic unrelated

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>dad passed away from cancer this year
>before he passed away he told me I was set to inherit some money, his wife protested against me getting anything at all though
>a month later after he died, I find out all the money had been taken out of his 401k the day he retired from work, which I was not made aware of by anyone
>there exists a photocopy of 3 check stubs: one for his wife, one for him, and one for me, which states I am entitled to 50%, as well as his wife, don't remember dad's stub
>according to human resources all the money was taken out and given to her, so it could put towards the mortgage on the house

Do I have a case here? Isn't this type of situation supposed to go through probate? There's a check with my name on it that I never received. And that fucking bitch never said a word to me. What do I do, /adv/?

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What makes a woman develop feelings for somebody?

It's like it just magically happens. I'll meet a woman, and it seems like she's pretty neutral about me, but then one day I see her and she clearly has decided that she has a romantic interest in me.

Like it's just a magical switch that got turned on. What is it exactly that triggers this in a woman?

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So I slept with a girl and afterwards asked her how I rated - she was honest and said "she's had better", based partially on the fact that she likes it rough.

We're meeting up again sometime soon and I'd like to improve.

So now my problem:
My stamina isn't the best. The only other partner I've had definitely couldn't do rough (too sensitive). I could last for an ok while with my last partner until they came, as long as we did plenty of foreplay and we had sex in missionary position (doggy style would make me cum too fast - and her too slow). But I have a feeling if I go all out crazy mode on this chick I won't last very long. What do? Any good techniques that are good for rough sex that will let me get her off without making making me blow my load too quick?

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How do I reset my ability to fall asleep? I've recwntly quit smoking weed. One of the main reasons I smoked was so I could sleep better, but now that I've quit, it takes me at least 3 hours to fall asleep.

Is there an easy way to get back to how it wad before I started smoking, apart from waiting?

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My girlfriend wants to settle down in the near future and has expressed interest in getting married. However, I'm unsatisfied with the relationship right now. I want go out with other people and experience new things because I feel I haven’t meet enough people to feel comfortable settling down yet. Additionally, she isn't fulfilling my need for intimacy which is making me a bit moody. She is stuck in a dead end job that is holding her back, and she isn't really showing a real commitment to improving her situation or herself as a person. She fights with depression and a lot of problems holding her back from achieving her goals in life. To top it all off it's a long distance relationship where we switch off driving a couple of hours only to see each other every other weekend. It’s a rough drive and a lot of time and money. Despite this, I endure it because she is an exuberant, supportive, and selfless person, who really wants to overcome her problems. She always expresses her feelings of worthlessness when we talk about education, I get frustrated and try to suggest ways for her to improve her life. I want to help support her anyway I can because I know without my fervent support nothing would change for her. I have a great deal of love for her, and I just can’t decide what to do. I think she is an excellent person and if not for my own insecurities about settling down I would ask her to marry me once I graduated. I don’t know if my feelings of dissatisfaction will just pass with time, or if I will be happy settling at this point in my life. I just want to talk to other people and gain perspective about what life might hold for me, and if I should take a chance this summer while I’m free. Picture unrelated.

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My sister is 15,turning 16 in 2 weeks. I found out she's dating a 20/21 years old guy. Is it normal these days? Should I be worried?

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not sure if this is the right board, BUT...
Today I got a haircut around where I work because the one I got a few days ago made me look like Jim Carey from dumb and dumber. People at work were ripping on me so as soon as I could leave for the day I went straight to a barber shop. Problem was, it's a poor neighborhood, corner barbershop, you can picture it. The old man did what i asked him to, and buzzed my hair down to a 0, basically just take the electric trimmers and take all the hair off.
Thing is, he absolutely grinded that thing into my skull, and now there's all kinds of red "razor" bumps and some actual nicks from the electric trimmer. I'm worried about hep c, HIV, and other blood borne illnesses that i might pick up as a result of under sterilized or not sterilized equipment. I'm going to schedule a blood test with my doctor, but i probably won't get my blood drawn for another one to two weeks. Is that too soon for anything to show up on a test? Can anyone assuage my fears of catching something virally infectious?

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I just took 12 (500mg) Tylenol after drinking 6 Red's apple ale, am I going to die? (Sorry about the pic it said I needed one)

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Ever since 9th grade I've been embarrassed about my dick. Granted it's mainly because I was a late bloomer (grew six inches in height in my final year of high school) and I was watching a shit-ton of porn, but I was still self-conscious about it. My dad even randomly talked to me when I was starting high school by saying he has a small dick, and whenever someone would try to make fun of him for it he would say, "If bigger was better, we'd worship fat people." I mean, it's stupid, but he managed to procreate, so what should I care, right?

Anyways, came home Saturday unannounced because I wanted to surprise my family, and lo and behold my dad was porking my mom right on the fucking living room couch. The same goddamn couch I would eat Cheerios off of when they would spill out of my bowl when the FoxBox was on. And they panicked and screamed, and my dad has got to have the biggest fucking meatstick I've ever seen. That damn thick smacked his stomach so hard when he jumped up I'm sure he left a bruise. They all thought it was funny. I couldn't help but wonder why he had lied. They asked me if I was home to stay, but I gave them some bullshit excuse of having a room at a Hilton because I needed to cool of from finding out my dad's a liar.

Came home this afternoon. Had my stuff, went upstairs to my old room, and I found my younger brother fucking his girlfriend on my bed. My goddamn fucking bed. And that fifteen year-old piece of shit was almost as hung as our dad. He's four fucking years younger than me. He's almost as tall as I am, way taller than I ever was at his age.

I've refueled my Ford twice just driving all along the Valley. I'm sickened. Why the fuck was I played this hard by the universe?