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>>18401990
Get a good life or other 24hour gym membership so u get to take a shower, and it isn't super expensive, mean while try and find a job and go to a youth hostle

>>18401990
Get good nonperishable food and keep it in your bag or something, Vienna, spam, soup etc.
Find a hotel asap don't be caught dead sleeping outside at night especially in a rough city. If you have a friend willing to shelter you all the better.
Next morning hike the town and apply everywhere.
If or when you get a job save everything. Do not blow it.
May I ask why you ran?

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Better give $800 of it to this man. As you fucking owe it. Want to put up a fight then you're dead , boy.

for the love of god please dont
bike. bus. walk. or cancel the date.

>>18401884
I would be into that.
Make it a double date xD

>>18401884
If your 15 then it's totally cool. 18+ and your totally a loser

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Bumping with more of my work

>First , GET A JOB YA HIPPIE, but keep working on your art.
>Get attention on your work and gratually grow,
>Find a project or patron and start pouring out art for them.
>Never stop.

or

>Go to art collauge on mommy and daddies back.
>Get degree,
>Work in studio as a art-drone.

>>18401870
>>18401900
i like your stuff, a lot. you got already an intuition for light, some fags take decades to achieve it. also dramatism without being super sugary. who are your influences?

also, i dont think youll ever get a fanbase with that kind of work these days. if you took that same style and did edgy drawings of creepy shit (like the OP pic but with a deformed face, or tentacle arms) or satanic goats in the woods or some shit youd get tons of fans. but as it is, it just wont catch the instagram kiddies.

You're not happy. Quit watching porn and do no fap and if you actually stick with it you'll notice that your motivation increases significantly. Also read /fit/ sticky and go to gym.

>>18401827
figure out what you want to do, man. Maybe you want take a trip to our closest star cluster one day?

>What's wrong with me?
I don't know, what do you think is wrong?

>>18401845
>Quit watching porn and do no fap
I have tried so hard anon. I will definitely try my best to stop though.

get a weapon and be aware of your surroundings

if female then maybe you should get a man

>>18401671
rip

>>18401680
Im a man and very capable to defend myself. I am usually very aware - like I said I just slipped up and talked too much.

Im trying to navigate a minefield - Im not shaking in fear.

Thanks anyways

Im asking for the best way to shake a psychopath off my trail

>>18401623
Some guys dont mind.
Some guys actually prefer it.
Maybe you aren't as big as you thought.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Maybe you can show us an actual pic of yourself and then we can tell you why.

Stop being fat and watch them go from just looking to doing something.
Also some guys like fat girls and some guys stare at a person when they think they are ugly too.

>>18401610
The same reason why Anonymous posters on 4chan are 93.87% more likely to pull statistics completely out of their ass than any other demographic.

>>18401620
that's 93% accurate

>>18401962
I detect a 70% rate of bullshit

Honestly I find it odd that you even preface the post with a subject that involves you proposing a group of people that you insult and feign superiority over.

Maybe your problem is that you are an asshole? Life is easy when you start taking it easy on yourself and others. But if you want to keep living your life insulting yourself and others, have at it.

>I lost my dream job because of an inappropriate joke
Let's hear it

>>18401540
>t. /r9k/ poster

>>18401526
similar situation here, except she lives 21 floors below me and I'm going to a university across the ocean in early August

>>18401537
That sucks anon

>Is it normal?
Define normal. It happens sometimes to some people, but it's not too healthy.

>How do I stop this madness?
You know the deal, cut all contact, be sure to spend most of your time doing something stimulating (as opposed to mindless browsing facebook and 4chan or watching romcoms). It will take time either way.

>>18401431
You know, ive been in a similar mindset. You must have something the girl likes you for. A woman doesn't choose you over the size of your dick or your wallet. With the good ones, they choose you because you are emotionally compatible. If she's depressive you can brighten up her day. If she's angry you can calm her.
The most notable thing is your past too. Maybe she meets a guy who's richer, nicer, and sexier. However, she does not know him. She has not experienced anything with him. She has with you though, and she picks that.

>>18401460
>You must have something the girl likes you for
Even then I have a hard time believing that I can bring anything truly unique to the table.
>she does not know him
So if she meets him I'm fucked? I know you said
>She has with you though, and she picks that
But are shared experiences that valuable when someone objectively better comes up?

>>18401487
Shared experiences are WAY more valuable. She knows what makes you tick, she chose YOU. And honestly man sometimes I don't get it either. My girl had the chance to run off with a way hotter guy than me but she stuck by me for reasons I still don't understand. Sometimes we just don't get it but love is weird like that.

In all honesty I cannot promise she won't drop you for someone else. But if she has a shred of goodness and decency she won't.

>>18401386
Happened in my last relationship, you have grown so complacent that the stimulation is gone.

Break up, you are wasting your time.

>>18401386
The honeymoon phase ended in your relationship. The only way to trigger romance and attraction now is by taking the initiative, this is natural after three to five years.

>>18401399
No remedy?

Welcome to the wonderful world of FwB, enjoy your stay.

>she says she still likes me and wants to keep what we had

So you don't actually have any problem?

>>18401321
Don't sweat it just don't do it again, and go find a couple more girls to play with.

I would recommend you to leave her. She will ruin you. If you stay like that you'll get more and more attached to her, but the problem is, she won't. Even if you end up in a relationship you'll always be dependent on her and she won't be dependent on you as much. I would say If you want to just fuck her, go on, but it will cost you much pain later.. So you choose.

>>18401205
Stop trying to live for others. Live for yourself.

>>18401205
I am sorry to hear about your situation anon.

I can clearly understand your feeling of despair, and your desire to end your life. The worst of all I can unsrestand not wanting to kill yourself because that would dispappoint or even crush the only people who ever cared about you. I can understand that the most.

Truth is, I am not sure where I am going with this post either.

>>18401205
Your life isn't your property. You did not will yourself into existence. Your existence is a derivative of a process that has been on a road from simple to complex over the course of billions upon billions of years.

You are one of the apex predators of this planet. Your brain is the most sophisticated piece of organic matter in the known universe.

Life is a job. Your only responsibility is to follow your instincts and intuition. Your heart already knows the path. Listen to it. Your depression is a necessary evil, it is goading you towards the truths that you're failing to acknowledge.

Aristotle occurred thousands of years ago. Aristotle had none of the resources that you have. You are more educated than Aristotle was by the sheer force of public education. The only thing standing between you and greatness is will.

Patience is a virtue.
>"Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. It is the bitter potion by which the physician in you heals it's sick self. Therefore, trust the physician, and drink his potion in silence and tranquility." - Khalil Gibran

>>18401204
There's nothing wrong with playing videogames, in moderation. But putting anime posters and shit around your room is going too far. Use common sense to draw the line. You honestly can't just play a game one weekend and party the next? Do you lack self control?

>>18401219
Additionally, do you genuinely enjoy hanging out with people? Or are you just doing it to please others? Live for yourself, I say. If you truly enjoy being a vidya geek, why not be one? Your happiness is more important than opinions of friends and family.

Nigger do you know the meaning of the word "balance"? You don't have to "kill the nerd", to keep being social, videogames and cartoons don't make you an autistic lonely sadboy by themselves. You can play games, watch cartoons, lose yourself in fantasy once in a while and have a healthy social life at the same time. You just have to stop obsessing over an activity or goal to the point where you ignore everything else.

What I don't understand is why do you want to escape from the real world so badly? I guess you assumed it was because you were a lonely nerd, but you're implying that you're not one anymore, so what is the reason? You should try to figure that out. Could it be that you find no pleasure in your current life and you don't really enjoy the company of the people you surrounded yourself with?

Besides, you seem to have it even worse now than before, when you were into all that nerdy shit. At least back then you had something to "escape" reality. So why do you keep clinging to this "normie" life if it brought you no happiness? Why do you reject the things that brought you pleasure for something that brought you nothing?

You are human anon, remember everything you do today will affect how you are tomorrow

Well heres the thing. Currently im married so ive already been through plenty of relationships and heart breaks, some more intense than others. Honestly my advise is made up of two things: 1. and im not kidding treat the pain like a cold or a sickness that you will heal from. You will go through pain now but in the very near future you will wake up with feeling just fine. the 2. go out with someone else when you feel better. could be a rebound and thats not bad either.

I feel you mate, same thing happened to me about 2 months ago.
All I can say is that change needs time, it's going to be a lot shittier than it is now, trust me, but after that better times will come.

I for myself worked out every day, started playing basketball again and socialized with old friends more than ever.

I still feel the pain everyday though, not to know what she is doing and she got this new guy already.

I stopped all contact on Facebook, WhatsApp and whatever, just seeing her atm would crush my heart again.

Change takes time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mbp0DugfCA&t=312s