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(F) I literally am not confident at all. 2017-06-11 11:15:57 Post No.18409242
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(F) I literally am not confident at all.
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/b/, No matter what I do, I really just can't be confident. My whole life, I have felt ugly, fat and unwanted. My friends, boyfriend, peers and family tell me otherwise, but I just can't seem to shake the feeling.
On some days I'll feel slightly pretty, sure, but I want to be one of those girls guys drool over. I know that's weird because I have a boyfriend right now but it would make my self esteem better. i probably sound like a slut but whatever desu.
A couple years ago, I used to be a lot skinnier than I am now. I've gained a lot of it back since then, and although I'm nowhere close to fat, I still feel like I look gross all the time.
My boyfriend is an amazing person, and he cares about me a lot. He stopped watching porn for me, and did a lot of other things to make me happy. He's always there for me and we have been together for almost half a year. We watched porn together today and it made me realize how much I really hate my body and how I look.
I always degrade myself, and promise myself I will eat better and exercise, but I lose all motivation in two seconds. So, it comes down to me caking on makeup to make myself look better.
I'm 5'4, and 140 pounds. (Though I really don't look it. I have an hourglass figure.) Dirty blonde hair and blue eyes, pale as fuck. I am still in school (but i'm not underage :^) )
I will post pictures if they are really needed, but my real question is, /adv/, how do i gain more confidence?
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ignore the /b/ in the beginning im actually fucking retarded
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>>18409242
You won't. If you have to ask random anonymous strangers who constantly have motivational issues (ie: everyone's a fucking shut-in NEET), you won't get answers you'll like, or try.
You wanna work on yourself, exercise, get a better diet, stop comparing yourself to porn actresses. That's basically it. Guys are more likely to drool over you if you're a good woman, not if you're a hot slut. The slut part will attract them initially, and then repel anyone of worth, no matter how hot you are.
So be a good woman.
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>I will post pictures if they are really needed
>I want to be one of those girls guys drool over"
post some pics...if you wanna know how are you appearance-wise
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Coffee Shop Etiquette 2017-06-11 09:53:37 Post No.18409032
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Would it be uncomfortable or annoying to people working at a coffee shop if I went in almost everyday and worked on my laptop, but I never bought anything? I'm not a shady looking person or anything, but I don't know if there's a general rule against that sort of thing.
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yeah if you can't even buy just a coffee then you shouldnt be going in, much less every day
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You might be asked to leave if anyone happens to give a shit. Depends on the employee working honestly. I probably wouldn't say anything but others definitely would.
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Well shit. Thanks anons.
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Wednesday morning my fiance took his own life. We have a child together that just turned 5 months old today.
As if this isn't mind numbing already, he is from Alaska and was still legally married to his ex girlfriend. We live in Texas and have lived together much longer 3 months, making us common law married.
However, she is taking it upon herself to plan his funeral and sign everything. She didn't offer for me to take control or anything. She literally told me she's "open to suggestions" from me. She is his EX. I am his CURRENT FIANCE. Is there anything at all that I can do? He has told me so many times how much he hated her. There are texts in his phone between the two of them about divorcing, even a picture of divorce papers (they weren't filled out or anything) and if he knew she was the one making decisions regarding his funeral he would be completely disgusted. Please tell me there's something I can do legally.
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I'm sorry about your fiancé OP. Anyways, your best bet is to consult a lawyer.
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>>18409013
There isn't, their divorce was never made official and no matter your feelings or your late fiance's feelings she has all the right in the world to spearhead the proceedings.
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>>18409078
This unless they were legally separated but guessing not. Sorry, but you cant claim common law while one is legally married to someone else.
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General Lonely Thread 2017-06-11 09:26:30 Post No.18408922
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So how many of you here feel lonely?
How many feel like they can't depend on their family?
How many feel like they don't have friends to rely on?
How many here just want romantic intimacy?
I guess this is kind of a hug box, but whatever, fuck it. It seems like this is a pervasive issue with people in our demographics as we're continually isolated by political situations and ever complicating social issues.
I'm gonna vent a little too - maybe it'll help. I've stopped saying I feel isolated or alone, because people always pipe up "Things'll get better! I'm here for you!", but that's usually just a snowflakey altruistic front. They aren't really there for you, they just seem to say it. Then when it comes time to depend on them or you ask for their help, they flake on you, as snow does. They might not realise it but it's as bitterly disappointing as it always is, so that chipper tune they're singing just ends up frustrating down the road.
What's on your mind, lonely anons?
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That's my life. I've got but one person in my daily life and it's not what it should be... i think I've given up on everything. I just wanna spend my free time watching tv or playing videogames to escape my reality
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>>18408935
Damn Anon, I keep teetering back into the denial phase of 'it gets better, I just need to do more!', who's this one person?
I have one person that I like, we have conversations and stuff but never do anything. Hell I bought Borderlands for them and they fuckin played it with someone else. Oh well, at least one of us is happy I guess.
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Every since I started taking anti depressants I don't really feel lonely anymore, I'm just filled with utter boredom all the time and basically became way more social as I don't give a fuck about what anyone thinks of me anymore. Am I ready to start dating?
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How do I cope with the realization, at 27, that I hate the field I've chosen?
I wanted to be a graphic designer, but I've found myself working odd jobs alongside rare commissions. My parents think I'm amazing, and want me to apply to Disney and other shit that's way out of my league.
I finally told my family today that I want to give up and move on with my life, and my mom cried. She says I broke her heart.
I feel like I've wasted my life with this crap.
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Feeling like I threw away my youth is one thing, but I can't stand that I hurt my mom like this.
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Just level with them, say you're not happy, and can't get commissions and that's that. No offense but your mom seems fucked, she shouldn't have said that over something like this. You're only fucking 27 you didn't waste your whole life come on man, people change cars in their twenties all the time, your whole family needs to chill out
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My mom paid for me to go to school, and now I'm throwing all of that out the window. She'd do anything for me, and I just feel so ungrateful.
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Guys, what's your take on a girl (not your gf, just a friend) who seeks your support and turns to you when she has problems? Say you are in this situation, what do you think about a girl who does it? Do you like it, do you find it bothersome or pathetic?
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>do you find it bothersome or pathetic
only if I'm not clapping her cheeks
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well what are you getting out of her?
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>>18408699
>do you find it bothersome
yes, unless we are fucking regularly. i have my own problems to deal with
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Hey adv! What the hell is wrong with me?
>As far as I can remember, I never really did anything for MY OWN sake, my own happiness
>I always put (and still put) other people's interest forward, even if that somehow means a disadvantage to me
I generally don't care about myself or my future and if there's a dream I wanna chase, or a simple task I should be doing FOR MYSELF then it's like meh.
BUT if it is for someone else, let that be a college, friends etc, then I put the best of my abilities into that task, and literally get anxious about the end result,because I want it to be perfect.
This somehow prevents me from chasing my dream of becoming a comic book artist to be honest (let's forget the fact that I don't really have a solid plan for a story, I only have cool scenes in my head.)
So if making comics was MY dream (I think it is), and I would do it alone (which I've been trying), then I feel close to nothing about this goal.
However, if the scenario would be that there's a writer who'd ask me to team up and he would want me to draw the thing, THEN I would give my best, and would spend hours perfecting every drawing.
Am I a cuck? A simple beta? I'm not a leader by any means, I'm the textbook example of a "follower" personality type, but would all this still be related to the personality? Or do I have issues?
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You're just a pussy, there's nothing really wrong with you. Read this
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>>18408571
>pussy
>self-help
Hahahaha
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>>18408574
> I've never read the book but I already have an opinion of it
Fuck off, why don't you try to help him?
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Losing a fight infront of GF 2017-06-11 06:57:25 Post No.18408487
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Losing a fight infront of GF
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It's never happened to me before, and I don't even have a gf but it has been bothering me. I just want to know, would your girlfriend feel less of you if you lost a fight, badly, infront of her? Every other story I read is that the guy loses confidence in bed, and then she often fantasizes about the guy who kicked her boyfriend's ass. Is it a part of the women to just naturally be sexually attracted to the more dominant man despite however much she may love her boyfriend?
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I guess it would depend on his size? I've never thought about it though. Do people on hear dream up shit to worry about?
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Just don't go to bars with her and you will never get in a fight in front of your gf
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>start pressure washing patio at 1pm
>have break at 3:30
>tension from parents as they think my passport renewal form is too messy to be accepted and I have the renewal appointment tomorrow (I made one of three allowable writing errors and have poor handwriting)
>go back out to continue pressure wash job at about 4
>hose won't attach
>about five minutes pass as I try to attach hose to karcher
>"anon why is this taking so long"
>keep trying to fix it
>"why the fuck does this fucking take so fucking long, why do you never fucking help us with anything"
>"what the fuck have you done to the hose"
>"anon, I want to see that letter your uni sent you. Tell me where in your room it is because I don't trust you not to edit out what we can and can't see".
>letters contain correspondence with GP for OCD-like intrusive thoughts about being a rapist and being labelled a rapist by my peers as well as the fact that I was stalked and sexually violated by a gay kid on my course
>letters confirm that I can suspend my uni placement until such a time that I am mentally recovered (september next year) to return to study
>flip the fuck out as I've essentially just been called a liar
>want to deal with this immediately and discuss the letter straight away
>get locked out in garden "fucking do the fucking patio now"
>at this point I fly into an autistic rage and try to force the door open, start repeatedly slamming head against window
>eventually give up and climb onto roof into bedroom window, grab letters and bring them down for parents to see
>mum starts saying I have no appreciation for her and that I publicly shamed her by telling the GP about her history of paranoia
>"it was only one fucking paranoid episode and it was grounded in reality"
>she unironically once told me years ago to watch the broadband engineer in case he planted CP on the family computer and tried to pin it on her and yet her paranoia "didn't come from nothing" apparently
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>get told I never help around the house and that I've done fuck all work on the patio despite her saying it was looking good only a couple of hours before
>she literally saw me doing the patio for about two hours straight
>says "so because of this letter you don't have to help around the house anymore", calls me a burden
>still chooses to ignore the fact that I had zero problem with doing the patio for more than two hours and would have continued and have never once refused to help around the house on "mental health grounds" or whatever
>autistic rage intensifies
>start throwing shit around the kitchen like a retard, hit frying pan against fridge
>mum is still screaming at me about doing the patio and how I've done a shit job/barely anything, again despite her praising it just a few hours earlier
>dad restrains me, start full on freaking out like an autist at this point, get dragged out the room, throwing stuff with my feet and shit while screaming
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I'm a shit person , aren't I?
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>letters confirm that I can suspend my uni placement until such a time that I am mentally recovered (september next year) to return to study
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TL;DR: I'm a 18 year old loser and I don't know what to do. Please read the greentext though
>cut contact with all my friends after graduating high school because of an incident
>didn't make any friends during my first year of college (dropped out now), so I don't know anyone
>am a social retard with low confidence, can't make basic smalltalk, get really stressed out when I have to talk to people
>even worse when it comes to girls, can't even look at them in the eye so I avoid contact with them at all costs (I'm a KHV of course)
>due to lack of socializing for more than two years now I'm basically out of the loop and don't even know what people my age like or do anymore
>have no passions or hobbies aside from 4chan and anime, and I feel much more comfortable when alone so I stay at home all day
>have tried going outside but I feel even worse and very self conscious when I'm outside
What the fuck should I do? I'm really lost. I have no ambitions or plans for the future. I'm lonely but I don't want to interact with people. My mind is a mess right now.
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>>18408202
Go ask your parents for advice.
>get a job?
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>>18408282
I don't want to talk about this with them. They're completely unaware of my problems with socializing and all that, and I'd like it to stay that way. They're just concerned with me being a shut-in dropout.
>get a job?
Is it better to get a job or to start university again?
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>>18408295
Part-time job while in uni. Try McDonald's cashier. You'll get used to talking to customers, and a lot of your coworkers would be studying in the same uni as you. You can ask them about what they're studying and ask for notes or help on something if it's the same as what you're studying. You're not complaining about money so I'll just assume that minimum wage doesn't matter. You gotta start somewhere, pal.
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(long)Royally fucked up with a guy I liked 2017-06-11 04:57:42 Post No.18408123
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(long)Royally fucked up with a guy I liked
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I posted here before...So last year I liked this guy, we were friends before anything else and I dated someone that he knew. Well that guy and I broke up and I came onto my friend. He was cagey about the situation and said he wouldn't do it because he didn't want to hurt his friend and that it was too soon for me to enter into a new relationship anyway. So I backed off and had some fun on the side to try and get over my ex. But I still liked this friend and while I'd go out with other guys or have casual flings, I kept thinking about him.
Now the guy is a virgin and has a very strong I guess...code of ethics? We started talking more and he was there for me through my breakup emotionally and when my dad temporarily kicked me out of my house. He even worked on my car a few times and slowly we started hanging out more and more, then twice a week he'd come over to my apartment and make dinner for me and my roomie if she was home. One day I sort of jumped him and started making out heavily with him when he was over and sat in his lap. He kind of froze at first but then reciprocated. We made out for about an hour and I told him he could sleep with me if he wanted, but he politely declined and said that while he had the same feelings for me; he needed time to get to that point. I was a little angry at this(It'd been over a month since my breakup) and so went back to doing the casual thing with other guys.
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A couple of weeks later he texted me and asked if we could talk in person about "us" without me drinking. I told him that I had just been drunk and that I didn't like him like that. He then backed off and remained friendly with me, but after trying things out with some other guys and it not working; I realized just how much I liked him. So I came back and things were like normal, our weekly dinners; good conervsations and just...this "warmth" from him when we'd be together. He then brought us up again and asked me if I trusted him. I told him that I did and that he was an amazing guy. He just stared at me and then said that trust, respect and honesty were what he wanted in a girl; and that whichever way it shook out; that he was willing to go the distance with me if I wanted. I told him that I agreed and felt the same way. We left together and things were great, he stepped things up and slowly started to come out of his shell. Again, he's never had a girlfriend and while he was a big guy, strong and funny; he'd been hurt bad before and was cautious according to his friends.
We spent a lot of time talking and started sharing personal things(Something he found hard to do as he's very private) and the trust grew to the point where he even lent me his car a few times for travel and so on. We were bf/gf in everything but the sex. Then in January he came to my work after calling me to say that he was stressed out and "thinking about life". I was hanging out with some friends and we alreayd had plans to hit up a local bar, so I told him to tag along. We got there and I asked him what was wrong, and he said that he felt like shit and that he was sorry; but wasn't ready to talk about what had him so down, but that he could feel a depression coming on and that he hated himself for it.
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I fucked up. I don't know if it was the drinks or what, but I told him I loved him no matter what and that he was the only guy for me since the day I saw him. He was really happy at this and we left together, drove around, made out in his car and he dropped me off home. He surprised me with some choclates a few days later and even hid some in my car as an early valentines present. Then from the end of January to his birthday(February 9th) he kind of fell off the face of the earth and everytime I saw him, he looked miserable. I texted him a couple of times asking if he was okay; he replied once with a "yes" and not at all the second time. I got him a birthday present but decided not to give it to him because of his unimpressed demeanor with everything, but some other friends did and he texted me to thank me for the gift idea. I told him that I hadn't taken part in any of it and that it was his other friends who'd come up with the idea. I didn't know what to do and those two weeks were stressful for me because of that.
There had been another guy I'd been talking to at my local bar(he worked there) and a few of my girlfriends and I went there one night after work. One thing led to another and I ended up sleeping with him. I felt bad about it in the morning, but the guy actually stayed and we kept talking and even went on a date. I had a great weekend with him and we decided to become bf/gf. Then the next day, my friend texted me and asked if I was serious about him and that he'd been so let down by life recently that he needed to know if my words were true. I didn't know what to do and just told him that I was there for him. Valentines day he called me and said that our weekly dinner was ready and that he'd made something even more amazing for us. I...had already booked reservations for dinner with my bf and told him so. He just got quiet for a second and then told me to have fun and hung up.
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A few days later he came to me, dropped off a laptop he'd fixed for me(I'd dropped it and cracked the screen) and asked if we could talk. I told him that the lack of communication was what had led me to talking to this guy and that he was putting in a lot of effort. That I owed it to the guy to at least see it through and couldn't just dump him because he now came running back to me after basically ignoring me for almost three weeks. He cried and asked me if I didn't remember our conversation at the bar about his oncoming depression, at that time; I seriously didn't. I todl him that I didn't and he said that he'd tell me whatever I wanted to know now if I wanted. I was curious and asked him, and he told me about his family falling apart; that his parents had divorced after his mom cheated on his day, his twin had committed suicide and that his sister had attempted suicide. That he hadn't ever dealt with so much at once and that he had been trying to be there for his family while not compltely shutting down from the world and that he was sorry he hadn't been there enough for me, but that that's where most of his energy had gone. I felt bad for him, but at this point there was nothing I could do expect say "Sorry" and that he was dropping these bombs on me. He cried again and the left my apartment without even putting on his shoes.
A couple days later we argued over text and he basically called me a whore and said that I was manipulative and only cared about myself. I panicked and fired back and told him that I seriously didn't know how he felt and that if I had known, I wouldn't have slept with the other guy. This set him off even worse and we ended up insulting each other over text pretty bad. A couple days later he wrote a sweet letter to me and apologized for his outburst of anger and said that he was sorry for not having been there for me and that he'd try to do better going forward in his life. I took his apology and told him to take care of himself
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I have a curved down dick that used to be up straight when I was younger. I want to lose my virginity in the bathroom, but I can't really get my dick to stand horizontally up for my gf to ride it properly. what do? Do I bend my body back?
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Does your GF not guide your dick with your hand?
That's literally all that needs to be done.
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but I told you my penis doesn't bend straight up like other guys when I sit
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My wife won't climb out of my ass.
I've been married less than a year and my fucking wife won't stop berating me and nagging me about fucking nonsense. She's so fucking in insufferable that I've just stormed out of the house on her.
We're doing a social gathering today with her friends at one and so she wanted to go grocery shopping to pick up a Platter to bring over. She woke me up this morning so I would go with her. I work late until 1am 4 days a week, so I like to just relax on Sunday. So Upon buying her her platter, she's bitching to me about how much money we don't have. (honestly we're fine. We make enough and save enough but she's got a real schizophrenic relationship to money). She then brings up how I should manage my own finances and wants to take money from my savings account and put it in hers. I shot down the idea and shrugged it off.
We get back to the house and I'm ready to just shake off this bad morning, get a cup of coffee and play some vidya before we head to her pregnant friends house to hear her pregnant friend moan about it for the next couple hours. And the fucking nanosecond I turn that Playstation on she jumps up my fucking ass with, maybe you could be applying for a different job (since this one has shit hours), you could help me clean (which means I didnt clean all week, or all of yesterday when I was off so you can clean now). She's calling me a child, repeating back what I say in playground nonsense voices, and when I screamed '' Fucking hell '' in frustration she starts on a personal tirade. It's to much. I tried to zone her out on the way out the door, the last thing I caught from her was, '' something something... I'm embarrassed to talk to my mother about you ''.
I can't fucking take this anymore. She's a non stop fucking bitching factory on max output. She makes it her fucking mission to ruin my weekend. It's not even 10am on the start of my weekend and she's dragged me to the store, bitched about money, called me a child.
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>>18407693
Why the heck did you marry her in the first place?
I hope for you you have a Prenup.
Shitty situation though.
The sacrament will still stick to you, so to speak.
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you both sound like you are way too immature to be in a relationship. get counseling and work full force on personal development. also, don't get her pregnsnt becsuse my hopes for the two of you to become a happy family are pretty small and you don't want to have a kid with a crazy ex, don't you?
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>>18407693
Also have a wife that likes to nag but to be honest after reading this i've changed my mind.
That's not normal.
I can confirm.
Is it bad that I like to drink my girlfriend's pee?
I occasionally get her to squat over me and pee in my mouth, and then drink it.
Is this unhealthy in any significant way?
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>>18407579
It is not physically dangerous. Fresh urine is sterile - in fact battlefield medics have used it to sterilize instruments.
But your fetish says something about your self-esteem and need to be degraded that suggests some not-life-or-death mental issues.
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>>18408088
Urine is sterile but it does not sterilize u idiot
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Dilute 10:1 water:pee and use as a fertilizer for plants.
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21 male here and a few months ago I was a virgin. So I don't have much relationship experience.
>be 20
>go to university and moved out into my own apartment
>high school reunion party
>meet old female best friend
>she asks if she can move in with me
>k
>she moves in
>have fun
>hang out all the time, get groceries together, sleep in the same bed (nothing sexual), go to parties together
>one evening when I'm moisturizing my body (YES I DO THAT) she comes from behind and starts jerking me off, using my moisturizer as lube
>ever since then we have regular sex
>actually very frequently because we both have high sex drives
>when she would come home from work she would immediately suck my dick
>she would ride my dick while I'm playing vidya games
>if I came drunk home I would throw her over my shoulder and carry her to the bedroom
>we would hang out all the time
>thought we were having a lot of fun
>had to tell her at some point I'm not looking for a relationship with anybody atm
>I wasn't leading her on, it seemed like a friendship that turned into a FWB situation to me
>she seemed okay with it, and we proceeded as before
>she starts behaving more like a gf/wife to me regardless
>not sure if she really gets it that I'm not looking for a relationship, but the things we have been doing are pretty much unavoidable because we live together
>still having sex
>switched to using condoms because I'm paranoid she will try to tie me down with a baby
>not sure about our relationship, but I don't want her as a gf
>because when we were 18 she gave me signals she wanted to cheat on her boyfriend with me, because he had a very low sex drive and a small dick apparently
What do?
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She's willing to cheat her BF for you with those reason , I think it's a red flag for a damaged girl If I have seen one. Leave to a new place without her, or make her leave from your apartement.
If you keep this up sooner or later she'll have you in her further trap then before you know it 18 year of child support while she sucking another dude.
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>>18407554
That sounds pretty harsh to just throw her out. And if I told her I want to move out without her she would be totally confused. Also I have all of my furniture here. Moving is expensive as fuck.
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>>18408032
You risk digging yourself further, man. I know you're not leading her, but try tell that to the court, especially since you two live together.
If you really sure she's not for you, keep making it clear then. In action and words. Hopefully she'll decide it's not working and move on without fucking you in the ass on the way out.