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Hold a deep resentment for my mom 2017-06-12 04:51:15 Post No.18411459
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Hold a deep resentment for my mom
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I know it only hurts me, but I can't help but hate my mom. She's constantly talking shit behind my back while wearing this plastic smile. We have a jaded history where I wasn't a good person either, so I think she feels justified in acting like this, despite my infinite fucking apologies and years and years passing by. But even prior to that, she was a walking piece of shit towards me. She was abused and carried a lot of her father's behavior over in raising us, minus the actual physical abuse, so would scream in our faces and slam us against walls and shit. She doesn't seem to think it was that big of a deal and rolls her eyes whenever its brought up.
She even drives me nuts when she pretends she cares about what's being discussed, but it's painfully obvious she doesn't give a crap and is just pretending to further whatever personal cause she wants to manipulate. I wish I could convey her facial expressions and the way she is in these instances. I literally cannot look at her at points in time because it's so offensively obvious to me that she's biding her time and accruing cunt points for future ammunition ("see, I listened, I tried to talk to you rationally, but that goes unscored!"). I cannot tell you how much that bullshit pisses me off, because it just goes to show that she doesn't give a shit about any of us, but is instead solely focused on what SHE wants.
I want to cut her off completely, totally and forever. I think she did a completely shit job of raising us and is a walking toxic factory of anxiety and self-hatred that's clever enough to disguise herself as something that isn't completely poisonous. What I really want to do, sometimes, is choke the life out of her.
Evil cunt. What should I do to get over this shit?
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>>18411459
probably best to just deal with it until you can move out, then you never have to speak with her again
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your only chance to deal with this in a mature way is realizing that 99% of parents fuck up to some degree. some just royaly fuck up. the second thing you need to learn is that they don´t fuck up on purpose. they are just humans with flaws. some with more and bigger flaws than others, but they also don´t have those flaws intentionally. some might be aware but have no clue how to get rid of them. others bask in the bliss of not realizing, but that doesn´t make them any worse or better. maybe stupid, yes, but that´s also not something they can control.
after that, you might be able to generate some empathy in finding out where they got their fuck ups from. in almost all cases, they got them from their parents. it´s a vicious cycle and your only focus should be to break it by not making the same mistakes when you have kids on your own.
what you need to do is get to know what made yuor mom the way she is and then forgive her for fucking you up. after that, let it rest and instead use your energy to mend what she destroyed. and to learn what she failed to teach, to forget the bullshit she infiltrated you with. basically, the whole point of becoming an adult is trying to get rid of the damage your parents have done to you. and that will be true for your own kids one day, so don´t be so supercilious.
take it as a huge opportunity to become a functional human to forgive your mom for being a naive moron with tons of flaws.
besides, i think it´s a natural progress to not being able to stand your paretns face at a certain stage. it fuels your efforts to move out, something that´s very healthy to do.
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>>18411462
I haven't lived with my parents in a long time, all of this hatred and rage has been lingering around and re-kindled on a bi-yearly basis.
>>18411482
I get what you're saying, but I'm having a hard time making excuses for her. "Oh, well her Dad was a mongoloid piece of shit that beat her on a daily basis, so I guess it's understandable that she shoved me against walls and bit my head off at the tiniest inkling of imperfection. Such is life!" fuck that.
I've been taught to take responsibility for my actions, by her nonetheless, so I see no reason whatsoever to shrug off all the shit shes done to me and continue minimizing the impact its had on me. She knew better, she knew the pain and the hurt acting like that can cause a child, and she did it anyway. Do you know what she told my Dad? I overheard her say "Well I was raised like that, and I turned out ok. Why didn't he?". You see, this isn't some mistake she made. This is something malicious and intentional she did because she's stupid and self-righteous enough to believe that she's justified in hurting and manipulating people because she was at one point hurt and manipulated.
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>tfw "Day of the Enamored"
>tfw no gf ;_;
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What can I do if Im a short male in America? I want a gf, not picky on looks just need one that is into white guys. Im 5'6, so I guess average is 5'9.5 here.
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>>18411388
Hit on girls. Take care of yourself. Be a nice person to be around.
Sure: some will reject you because of you are short, but some will go out with you. Eventually one will stay.
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How do you have a healthy sexual relationship with someone?
Right now, I'm fixing my flaws so that I could bear living with myself. I just never understood how 2+ people could coexist and care for one another and pleasure each other intimately. I still can't wrap my head around how people accept one another either. Maybe I have trust issues, but this isn't about me.
How does anyone have a functioning, mutually beneficial, sexual relationship these days?
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>>18411164
Masturbate more infrequently and watch less porn and you'll start to understand.
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are we only talking about the sexual part of a relationship or do you mean the whole "romantic relationship" thing with living together and stuff?
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Its embedded in us man, if you got laid you would understand that.
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My boyfriend always sounds very annoyed at me. I usually push it aside and tell myself he's just going through a lot right now, so I do my best to be supportive, offer my help, ask how everything is going. Everytime I do, he shoots me down, saying things like, "Help me with what? How are you going to help me?" in a semi-yelling, annoyed voice.
What am I doing wrong? Should I just leave him be to his problems? I feel so sad, helpless, and useless. I can't even support my own boyfriend. What do I do, /adv/?
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I dated a girl who acted just like your boyfriend once.
We eventually broke up because of that.
I suggest you do the same. Sorry, but it's for the best. People like that don't deserve your attention.
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>>18411034
Talk to me about hamsters
Kik is rickyrosc0
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>>18411034
Whenever he starts acting shitty, just get quiet and go somewhere else. Another room is good. Even better is if you immediately go into the bathroom, get yourself looking all good and go out. If he asks where you're going say "out". You could just go sit at the library for 2-3 hours but his mind is going to go crazy and he'll feel like an ass. Dread game is powerful.
These captchas are obnoxious..
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What is the least hurtful way of ending a LDR?
Reasons: No realistic future, I feel like I waste both our time keeping something alive which although really nice doesn't have any future, I still love my partner but I'm also a realist. The distance kills all the beautiful things which make a relationship intimate and it wont change due to our lifes being fixed for at least the coming 5 years (we're both in our early 30s). My biggest problem is that I know that my partner will be hurt as she's shy, doesn't go out much and has told me that I'm the best thing that happened to her (and I believe her). I know she wants to keep it going and I also don't want to lose her as a friend. I'm afraid that she might really get depressed seeing her dreams shatter. I'm a loyal person and I even thought about "invest" my life just to make her happy but I know that that's not healthy.
So, what do?
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>>18411031
If you're sure that eventually getting together and becoming a normal couple isn't an option, the only thing you can do is to end it
Granted, there's no good time for something like this, and it sounds like she holds you very dearly, it's going to hurt a lot no matter what
Maybe you could bring up the problems little by little to ease her up on the idea?
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>>18411065
Already tried that some time ago, she had a meltdown. She really thinks I'm the one and due to her social behaviour I don't think she will have anybody to lean on or find another boyfriend any time soon. I can't imagine hurting her so much, but I also don't want to get bitter in 10 years and let it out on her or stuff like that.
I'm even hope that she might fall in love with someone else, just to end it off with me and don't be left alone when I'm gone.
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>>18411082
Well, that's pretty bad. It's good that you care so much about her, though
She might be alone, but what about her family? Are they supportive of her?
The ideal option, but the hardest one to achieve would be to help her with her shyness (at least I suppose that's what prevents her from being normal socially). Try to get her to be more active and get used to deal with other people
For example, if she has a hobby, if there's a way for her to do that with other people. Get her out of her comfort zone little by little so that she doesn't depend that much on you and doesn't fall apart when you leave her
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I want a boyfriend/husband 2017-06-12 01:02:13 Post No.18410920
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I want a boyfriend/husband
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Anyone is looking for a serious relationship here? I am looking for someone, no psychopaths please. You should like pussy(cats).
Hygiene is extremely important.
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>>18410920
poast pics
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>>18410925
Post here your info (with a contact detail) and or a link to your fb profile and I will send you my pic privately
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>>18410920
i will. i am in taiwan
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How to approach women in western society in 2017? 2017-06-12 10:50:02 Post No.18410833
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How to approach women in western society in 2017?
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2017-06-12 10:50:02
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What do I do? Stuck in London for the summer (I'm a southern England boy), girlfriend went back home to the Caribbean (not interested in race mix meme right now), I only have a handful of friends here, finished my uni year and have no job currently. My whole life I've always seen girls through the institutions I go to, how is a man supposed to obtain a lil poon? I can't go up to women in public can I? Especially as a white man
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>>18410833
Become a trap. It's the only way.
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>>18410833
Tinder you retard. If you can't find a slut to fuck on there you might as well neck yourself.
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>>18410833
>What do I do? Stuck in London for the summer
Watch out for cars
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narcissism + low self esteem 2017-06-12 11:51:17 Post No.18410759
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narcissism + low self esteem
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2017-06-12 11:51:17
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TL;DR at end
Is it possible to have extremely low self esteem yet be a narcissist at the same time?
I think I am the biggest piece of shit in the world, I have anxiety, depression, hate myself, am rude to people, judge everyone mercilessly, can't commit to anything, and just don't fit in anywhere. I get a kick out of making fun of people. I'm a complete human failure in all ways and 99.9% of the time I wish I were dead and probably would kill myself if it wouldn't cause pain to my family. They're all disappointed in me already, I can't even imagine what they think of me other than what they've told me already.
Yet at the same time I compare myself to others thinking I have a better body, better face, better discipline, more intelligent, better off, etc. I look down on everyone.
These clash so much I don't even know what to think, the confusion makes it worse. I feel so guilty about being such a fucking piece of shit, I don't think I can even mend this part of myself because it just...happens. Without thinking I do these bad things, it's like it's ingrained in me and I can't stop even if I try.
How do I fix this?
TL;DR
>i'm a piece of shit in all ways
>extreme narcissist at the same time
>can't seem to stop it
>confused
>what do
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>>18410759
>tfw too smart to give you advice OP
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>>18410759
Age, gender, job, family status, why do you behave like jerk to everybody, long term life goals and how are you planning to obtain them?
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>>18410780
>Age
19
>gender
f
>job
web dev who lost her job, looking into working in a gym or something now
>family status
immigrants from eastern europe, only have parents in this country, live with them. get along pretty well other than them being disappointed in me and me clashing a ton with my dad (probably because we're so similar). we'll go from screaming at each other to being happy family in a few hours. dad moved countries when I was 2-5 years old so only saw him rarely until we moved to join him.
>why do you behave like jerk to everybody
I wish I knew. I remember having anger issues as a kid, i would beat up my dolls so much my parents had to hide them. in fact i would hate presents people gave me for no apparent reason, like a book my aunty gave me. I used to shout at my grandma to leave my room as a kid when she came to take care of me. I don't know why I reacted like this. It hurts me to write, i want to die it hurts me so much how rude i was to innocent people.
> long term life goals
to not be miserable. i don't want to be rich like i did before, I just want to not hate my job or my life. I want to actually get along with people and feel like I deserve the relationships I have. in terms of career, I don't know, something in languages or fitness.
>how are you planning to obtain them?
Well I've started by trying to be nicer to people and actually see my friends. Asking for help here I guess is a start. For my career, planning on doing a PT course.
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how to get over a girl 2017-06-12 11:17:30 Post No.18410706
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it's been 10 months and I still remember her every single day even tho I havent seen her since.
what can I do? I dont wanna kms anons.
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Bang a bunch of chicks
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Get over it..You don't even have to do anything. Time will do it for you.
Easy fucking peasy
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>>18410862
Not OP, but I'm in the same boat.
How much time? It's been 2 and a half years for me.
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I've got a question for the femanons
So the sex with my gf is really really bad. My gf can't last longer that 2 minutes (I'm kinda proud of myself that i make her cum that fast) after those 2 minutes of "sex" we wait usually about 15 minutes until she can again, and again 2 min max and she cums. I've got like 17-18 cm dick so it's kinda avarage. In the last 2 years of our relationship i cummed like 5 times total. She likes the usual romantic, one position type of sex, I'm more into hardcore stuff, chocking,pulling,sm,slapping,deepthroathing her and all that. And we do it with every month less and less.
Last night was a disaster. We had our usual 2 minutes routine and after 20 minutes she fell asleep and i tried to surprise her with some wake up pussy eating. She didn't like that. And on top of that beside all of it whenever she cums she tells me that's a bad feeling instead of a good one.
Can someone explain to me what's happening
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>>18410602
>whenever she cums she tells me that's a bad feeling
you gotta talk to her about this pronto you need to sort whatever that is immediately. also I've never been with a girl that can't do multiple orgasms back to back so Idk about the 2 minute thing, I don't know how to help with that. that'd be completely foreign to me to have a woman cum and then have to stop because of... sensitivity I'm guessing? my advice is work on her enjoying orgasms, and then work on multiple orgasms.
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>>18410607
I don't get it what's up with that bad feeling when she cums. What could it be?
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>>18410602
>>18410607
Like he said, most girls tend to go on n on. Tho I did meet a girl a week ago who got stupid sensitive after 2 fucks. She was tight as fuck.
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Experience with Schizophrenia 2017-06-12 09:22:34 Post No.18410571
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Experience with Schizophrenia
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Hello
I'm a 25 year old white male from Switzerland, had a goodand sheltered upbringing but got bullied up until college.(don't know if this info is important). I had a fluke and started to read up on schizophrenia. The more I read about the symptoms, the more I started to recognise myself. I did one of those free online tests and I scored fairly high, and average on another test.
Now I know I those tests can be garbage, and "self-diagnosis" is dangerous, yet somehow I can't shake the feeling that if I don't pursue this somehow, I may end up in a terrible place from which I can't return.
So I was wondering if anybody here has experience (personal, work or close friends/family) and could tell me about it. Maybe I could gauge where I stand and decide if I should go and visit a psychiatrist for further diagnosis.
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>>18410571
Doesn't switzerland cover pretty much all of your medical bills? Just go see a psychiatrist senpai. You're probably freaking out over nothing though.
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being worried that you may have a mental illness is reason enough to go to a psychiatrist
btw why did you feel it was important to let us know you're white?
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>>18410584
Now that you're asking, I don't know why. I read that there's a biological component to the illness, though.
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>she says she has a stomach ache at the last minute
>says we should do something some other time
Was I just ditched?
Wat do?
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>at the last minute
>Was I just ditched
yep
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>>18410493
Well half an hour beforehand but that's still counts as last minute.
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>>18410498
>half an hour beforehand
kinda last minute, kinda not. maybe she got diarrhea, was hoping it would go away, and then it didn't? it could go either way at that point. if it's like, you're on the way to where you're meeting and then she tells you she's not going, you for sure got ditched.
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21 y/o virgin here. I have an oportunity to lose my vcard to a meh classmate from highschool. Should I ignore this and wait for the right person or is that a meme? I feel like I could regret this. I'd like to know about similar experiences.
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>>18410290
If you're a guy, go for it
If you're a girl, don't
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>>18410290
Lots of anons hire hookers, so I think a meh classmate would be okay.
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>>18410291
if you're either, don't. it's not worth it.
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OK
This is my current situation please give me advice.
If your a lawfag even better.
>be me driving home from movies at 1am
>get pulled over by officer
>officer insists i have been speeding and going 40 kmh over the limit which is automatic impoud in my province
>impossible i was in traffic nowhere near that speed
>i tell him no sir i was not speeding
>he is not having any of it, and calls tow truck then goes over my car giving me 3 more tickets
>measures crack in my windshield, tire has small gash on sidewall(no leak not even cords exposed) just giving me the business
>my rage
>he says he paced me no radar evidence no nothing
>held it together told the officer he did a good job and walked home.
>2 years later get letter for court
>go to court
>court only for 1 defective tire charge
>officer tenpenny has 4 other officers "observing" him today
>after court room precedings (judge just postponed the case because i need a tire expert to say my tire isnt risking anybody)
>officer tenpenny and his crew follow me outside to my car
>proceeds to give me another defective tire ticket (why change what isnt broken nothing was wrong with my tire i know that)
>threatens to impound my car on the spot and issue vehicle inspection unless i go to a tire shop today and buy a new tire and give him MY tire as "evidence"
>i comply because i am a law abiding citizen and i want no trouble with police
>pay 300 dollars...tire not in stock have to come back the next day to pick up car...ok its ok, im ok
now the next court day is tommorow. no not for the tire. for the actual excessive speeding. He obviosly tried bullying me and he does not like me. What should i say in court tommorow besides not guilty?
Yes i drive a loud and obnoxious car pic related but i swear i was not speeding lol
I live in BC canada driving laws very strict here. And this is a crime i did not commit and i have suffered greatly financially and mentally from this. Someone give me confidence in tommorow
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bumping because i have to sleep soon and court is tommorow early morning
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>>18410289
you're fucked. welcome to the taxation system that is traffic court. there is no way for you to not get fucked, it is rigged. even without him actually using any equipment to measure your speed and simply pacing, the judge will likely find you guilty.
sorry anon.
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>>18410302
also
>2 years later get letter for court
what? 2 years?
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Yo guys, is it normal with having small balls of lard growing on the skin of your ballsack?
Started to notice them one or two year ago, they're 1-2 mm in diameter, easy to find with fingers.
Can rupture the skin with a needle and pop them like a zit but sometimes I can dig out an entire ball that contains the white lard.
Dig out 2-3 of them every month, is that normal?
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>>18410258
no, talk to a doctor
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>A sebaceous cyst is a sac filled with a cheeselike, greasy material (sebum) caused by plugged ducts at the site of a hair follicle. Sebaceous cysts most often appear on the scalp, ears, face, back, or scrotum. Hormone stimulation or injury may cause them to enlarge or become infected.