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Why in the fuck did my last post get deleted

>>18418938

Noticed that

What race are you?
It helps if you're not white and you can get your own race of women.

Im white and 5'6, Im fit, good looking face wise.
My dating life is well, there is none. Women never speak to me.

What kind of girls do you want?
Im not into single moms or really fat girls. I dont even want kids of my own and since Im in shape fat girls are just a big turn off.

>>18418890
I regularly travel on airlines for my job. Baggage security are used to finding all sorts of weird stuff. As long as it's legal, I wouldn't be afraid of them judging you too harshly.

If you're worried about a whole bunch of people looking at you while the security guy has you empty out your carry-on at the checkpoint, you can always ask him for privacy before you open your bag. There are plenty of facilities for this sort of thing. Expect a significant delay if you do, however.

As for check-in luggage, all the times I've ever had that checked or had it indicated that it could be checked, I was directed to a closed security area where I was asked to open my bag without anybody but airport staff watching me, so you don't really have to be scared about that.

Bump. Packing for a flight that leaves in just over 8 hours.

>>18419464
Your bags will be searched in front of everyone - there is no way around this

time to grow up. you have to be 18 or older to post here.

>>18418823
young adult more like young child.

>>18418823
blame the cat

Don't be stupid, dude, listen to her. What she has to say is important to her and her willingness to share her day with you is a blessing you're taking for granted.

Really, m8. I've been there to, and ultimately, the human connection with her is more important than whatever's on your tv screen, almost 100%

>>18418672
Pretty much this.
Not listening is how you get cheated on.
Alternatively tell her to shut the fuck up cause you do not want to here her crap since she is nothing more than a sex doll.

>>18418654

ask her politely to let you finish your show and tell her you will listen to her after. if this makes her upset then you have a deeper problem in the relationship.

Of course they can. Can a crutch help you heal a broken leg? Sure, but remember it's a crutch and your goal is to not need it one day.

>>18418644
Yeah, they totally help me. I take duloxetine. It took me a really long time trying a lot of different medications to find one that made me functional.

>>18418649
Should my mom get off of her synthetic thyroid medication? Hope that the black void where her thyroid should be will step up and "not need it" anymore?
I agree in part that having proper coping mechanisms and whatnot are important to go along with the medications, but you shouldn't be acting like medication should be taken begrudgingly

>>18418644
Yes they can help and they could also make it worse. Every medication has risks but antidepressants are the worst offenders.

I'm not sure what kind of advice you expect. Just do it and realize that getting rejected doesn't feel as bad as never trying and torturing yourself by thinking to yourself "what could have been"?

Honestly, you never really intuitively grasp that rejection doesn't matter until you actually get rejected a few times.

Oh no! She said no! Literally nothing else changed!

>>18418642
>>flirt all the time
What do you consider as flirt? Maybe you could be misunderstanding them

Nobody really does that shit except literal hookers in big inner cities, dude. come on where do you get these ideas?

>>18418615
I have heard from many friends that anime conventions are pretty easy hookups.

anime conventions have a lot of thirsty weabitch's

What's wrong with you, bro? This isn't even a thing. Trim your beard and mustache so you don't look like a hobo. You act like you either look like shit or you clean shave. Learn to manage your beard, damn.

Really, learn to take care of your beard, and mustache. You don't just let that shit grow anymore than you let your hair on your head grow without even getting a haircut. You have to maintain it and it's baffling that this hasn't occurred to you.

>>18418491
I hope you're not metrosexual, effeminate faggot.

How did you learn to trim beard? Haven't really done it before.

>>18418462
Ay I'm in the same boat. Been shaving since 8th grade. 24 now and full on beard. I hate grooming, though.

Here's what I do:
1) Trim the neckbeard. Basically start next to your ears, below your jaw. Follow the jawline. You'll need to experiment with how much you want to keep under your chin
2) Trim your mustache so it's out of your mouth. Just trim it so it's above your lips.

Just doing those two things (using a beard trimmer with no attachments) once a month will make you look so much better.

>>18418357
This happens everywhere people woek multiple shifts, if you arent in management just do wat youre told and go home.

Quit being a taddle tale

Remind him again, and emphasize how time and money is therefore wasted cleaning up the previous shift.

If that doesn't work you may have to go above him or tell him that you will.

>>18418365
but it causes the whole process to be slowed down, resulting in us not reaching the supposed productivity, basically in huge financial loss for the company.
idgaf what they do, but i hate that their unprofessionality causes me to not being able to deliver the quality of work i could if i could actually do my work and not that of others.

>>18418366
that was the plan. maybe i have to remind him again.

>>18418302
no because masturbation is healthy for you. what you need to quit is pornography.

>>18418302

not really. its a little less unwise if you have some sort of plan in place but if you think masturbating will just force the rest of your life to compensate for it you are hilariously wrong.

>>18418302
I would recommend treating fapping like a cleaning proccess. I call it cleaning the pipes.
Limt it to once a week with an occasional fap if you can't get it to go down.
Mostly if you need to get an aid to fap, don't worry about it.
Eliminate the porn not the fap. When that is easy then consider trying a no fap routine.

You won't know what you enjoy until you try it, so avoiding doing things because you aren't motivated means you'll never find your "true source of happiness". You CAN just exist for the sake of it, but it's a miserable existence for most because it's extremely unfulfilling and you feel like a burden on society (because in most cases you are).

>>18418145
Pleasurable things have lost salience, simple as that, I would look up anhedonia. I think understanding you can't reason yourself into feel like things have value is a good place to start, then going ahead and finding ways to put yourself into a place where you're more likely to feel said pleasure (by exercising, meditating, just find what works for you).

I don't have a motivator, I don't have purpose in my life, I just do shit.

Food tastes good so I eat it, sex is fun so I have sex. Just do shit you enjoiy.

Also what's this bullshit
>Every human action is (supposedly) inspired by a desire of moving away from discomfort and towards pleasure and happiness
Nah mate, inspired by animal brains. Shit's not even vaguely rational, let alone able to be characterised that easily.

>>18418142
Therapy

>>18418157
Do I really need therapy? I mean, I don't know I want somone to talk to, confess, in a relly truthful way, to me therapists are or in for the money or personnal gratification. The father of a friend is a therapist and he just seem to share what he goes through with his patients like it was nothing. But even though I want "authentic" relationships, I do not seem able to create one with my existing friends and making other friends seem pointless or impossible

>>18418142
if you can't achieve one goal make a new goal that is smaller until you achieve that. repeat this process and work your way up to the original goal

BEE UR SELF ANON

>>18418086
What you need to understand is that it's all you have to be. It seem stupid, but how are you around women?
You are shy, you have no flow, no self confidence, in short, you are not yourself.

Just act like they are men, make jokes, be yourself, and they will not see you as a weirdo anymore, they will see you as someone.

>>18418077

being attractive.

movies have lead you astray. there is not some secret code that makes them horny, there isn't some secret emotional process that makes them horny, there is no alternate route to making a woman attracted to you.

you're either attractive ot them or you are not.

Please /adv/

>>18417958
>xanax
Try to fix your mental illness in less self destructive way dumb frogposter.

Psycholog?

£2 a bar

insecurities*

How did you not know that before she became your girlfriend? It's pretty important

>>18417768
you should feel upset. that's not kosher.