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just started by first job as walmart cashier like 2 months ago
can i get fired for selling cigs to someone who was old enough (just by looking at them and by b-day) but the ID was expired?
i thought it was ok since he looked clearly old enough but my friend says im fuked
the guy at the end smiled and said "can I please have receipt? Have a nice day, anon"
was this a secret shopper going to get me fired?

anyone familiar with walmart policy on this?
will this be just a coaching or a fire?
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No, that's not illegal. Their age didn't expire, just their legal right to drive.
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>>18374924
in the future an expired ID is never considered legally valid. neither at a bar or at a store.
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>>18374924
There's a 90% chance nothing is going to happen. You aren't that high on the food chain for management to be paying THAT much attention to.

Also some advice: I know you're down on the rocks to be working at Walmart of all places but you don't need to feel so desperate and delicate with the job. You have to try REALLY FUCKING HARD and BLATANTLY ignore simple warnings(EX: You have 15 absences so they pull you aside and tell you to not miss another day,then you go on to call in 4 more times) to get fired or even get coached.

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I've heard some people say that emotional connections significantly improve your sex life.

I've found that for me, it is the complete opposite. Sex with a woman that I care about is really unsatisfying and sometimes, I lose my erection. I seem to prefer sex with someone I don't care about.

What's going on with me?
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You're a man. Only bitches want emotional connections.
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>>18374923
I very much prefer blowing my load in my current gf because I really have a very strong emotional connection with her......
I didn't see that coming, and would have agreed with you until recently....

maybe you've never had a real emotional connection?
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>>18374923
You aren't a beta faggot.

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hello it is the girl who got a lot of feed back on this post. I broke up with him, finally. Now I just want to know how to feel okay with breaking up with him. How to no longer miss him.
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>>18374733
Ofcourse you get a lot of feedback, you basically pull the:
>femanon here

Do something else that keeps you busy at all times
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>>18374794
I'm sorry for late response but it's just
I'm really sad
I loved him for years and it's like my life depended on that for my happiness now I'm just broken
I feel really sad
Like I don't want to be edgy but I just really want to die right now haha
I don't know, anymore. I don't know
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>>18374865
how did he take it?

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does the low carb high protein work
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Every diet works, calories in calories out.
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>>18374671
Yes 100%
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>>18374671
It does. Your appetite will reduce to the point where you have to force yourself to eat once you get into it

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hey /adv/

how do i stop being a beta virgin that's never had a girlfriend.

I really like a girl in one of my classes and I think she has hinted she likes me too but i'm not sure. The first time I talked to her was in class and she sat down next to me and made a joke. Also, when she walks by me she almost always rubs into me with her arm or sometimes her ass. I also have caught her looking at me and as soon as I looked back at her she instantly looked away.

How do I know she likes me back? Do you think these are signs she does like me? Pls help
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>>18374603

Have you tried... I don't know... talking to this girl? Ever?
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>>18374609
in class maybe 2 or 3 times but not once out of class.
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>how do I know ___ likes me
Ask him/her/it out.
If the answer is yes, then they do like you
If the answer is maybe, then maybe they like you.
If the answer is no, then they don't like you.

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Hey, /adv/, I have about two months before uni starts and I want to do a job. I'm interested in CS/Math/Physics but have no experience. What are some good jobs I can do?


(I plan on taking a transfer to a better uni later. What jobs would look good on my resume?)
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bump plz
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>>18374568
if you've already gotten in then it doesn't matter nobody gives a shit about your highschool summer job after yo ugraduate.


when you get into school, get a job at the science stores (chem, physics, engineering) often all have their own supply stores. This looks good, makes you look involved and you'll learn the system better
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>two months
not enough time for a real job
mow lawns or something
learn to program
write a cannonball simulation
volunteer at an animal shelter

for reference op it typically takes 3+ months to land a good job so start well before next summer starts. good luck

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How do I stop being bothered by the fact that i'm not going to make it and just be ok either way? And people keep TELLING me I will and that makes it 10x worse.
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Listen to atlas isnt here,last half a min or so
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>>18374482

Very wague and very wrong question. You arent supposted to ask about
>how do i give up
but
>how do i overcome my struggles?

Read this post >>18374068
also made from somebody who has given up before even trying.

What is your real problem op?
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are you not achieving your goals?
why?
do you have any?

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What steps can I take to stop myself lying to everyone about myself and the things I do? It's gotten to the point where I even lie to my therapist.
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>>18374376

ease out of it. cover your old lies if you need to, but stop making new ones up. close all of the loops eventually, if your lies are things that will stop coming up over and over again.

realize that you're only lying because it's easier than actually putting the work in that is necessary for living an interesting life. also think about why it matters to you so much how you're perceived. exploring these ideas and internalizing the conclusions is what it took to get me out of my shit.

how old are you btw? you may outgrow this.
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>>18374493
I'm 23.

Usually I end up rationalizing it as being 'for their sake' (so they don't worry that I'm struggling).
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>>18374565

stop lying to your therapist. if you don't trust his/her guidance, find a new one. what are you struggling with?

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I am bored in my current relationship and I dont know why.

I have only ever been in one serious relationship prior to this. Only ever slept with 2 people (this relationship included).

However I find myself bored and I feel like I shouldnt be.

My girlfriend is beautiful, has an amazing body, is intelligent and ambitious even plays overwatch/starcraft and league of legends with me. Literally sounds like every guys dream, which she is. I remember before I met her, I was at a function and all my guy friends and guys from my class and other random guys (literally 10+ decent looking guys) were all talking about how amazing this girl is and how she is "wife material" and I was like pffft.

We celebrated 2 years together last week.

She shares the same hobbies as me and we are quite adventurous.

But somehow I am bored. No matter what I have tried I find myself quite bored. Thinking of other possibilities with other girls striking my interest (which shouldnt be happening)

We had a fight recently about something stupid and the only thing stopping me from ending things was not wanting to be alone and remembering how shit I felt for months after my last breakup and how many regrets I had then which I am sure I will have now if I do.

I feel like I get bored too easily and that there is something wrong with me. I know I am taking things for granted. I should be happy, she is most guys dream girl.

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>>18374293
Our sex life is pretty good too, we have sex atleast every second day. I somehow still manage to jack off quite a bit though, I have a really high sex drive for some reason. I feel like I may have a problem.
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Do her a favor and leave her
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>>18374293
Give me her contact info. I'll take her off your hands and show her what a real man is like.

She'll drop you like a hot potato.

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So tomorrow I'll be going on a roller coaster with this girl I like. But the line up is going to be long. What the hell do we talk about? We have lots of things in common, but we are both super shy and awkward
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Ask about her interests, tell her things about yourself and then get her to talk most people love talking about themselves.
Bring stuff up like her hobbies, a TV show, a recent movie, a book, no job or weather stuff people hate that and moSt people hate their job so they will just complain.
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And for the love of God don't do a bunch of research on roller-coasters and the place you're going and then constantly tell her facts about it. She will literally throw herself out of her seat to commit suicide.
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>>18374267
I was never planning on doing that

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I think I'm in a rare and awkward situation.

There are 3 girls involved, 2 of wich Ive known for about 6 months and the 3:rd about a year.

So storymode (it's likely gonna be long):
Met girl one through a meetup group on Facebook (I had recently moved here and didn't know anyone: she was in a same(ish) situation).
>Talked a little online, found out early on she had a bf>eeeh nothing invested really
>Friendship situation>decides to meet up anyways, no intentions
>since then we've become pretty close, I'd say she's one of my absolute closest friends now: outranking many of my friends in my hometown, that I've known for years.

Both girl 2 & 3 are friends of girl 1, she introducerade me to them trying to set me up with girl 3 (I assume, don't have any concrete that this was what they were trying but I got that impression of this night we were out)
>Go with girl 1 to bar to meet girl 2 & 3
>Realize really quickly: "Holy shit! I really like girl 2"
>Due to the nature of this meeting (I assume) I wasn't really in a good position to flirt with her this perticular night.

Fast forward, we are now about 6 months later.
>The long game seems to bare sone fruit with girl 2 (wich is what I want)
But:
>Girl 3 is madly in love with me, girl 2&3 are fighting all the time about me! (I'm flattered but it's in my way!!)
>Girl 1 was gonna move back home in like a week wich she just cancelled because she wants to stay because of me! Ha she suddenly also fallen for me?

Also: I hear all this stuff through rumors and stories: girl 1,2,3 talks about girl 1,2,3 in different constelations, none of them know what is going on (heck I don't know what is going on) but I have the full picture cause they all talk to me haha.

And well my conclusion: there's 3 girls fighting over me and I am in the middle having to take care of all the drama!

>I like one of them
How do I get her without this powderkeg exploding?
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Ask the girl you like out.
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Stop enjoying this mess or you'll end up alone. Faggot.
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>>18374079
I have, we've been out.
Issue: she respects girl 3 too much to actually do something.
Also: speculation>she might just not be into me>but after what I hear>I think it's going Well.

But girl 3 is in the way!

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Pic related. Read it for context. So I listened to one guy who said just let it be and give some space. I first at least tried to test the waters and texted her asking how her day was saying miss you(she has done that first so it's not like it was one sided) she replied and so did I but after that nothing. So I gave up and yesterday didn't text her at all. But at 4am this morning she says hey, so I hey back at 11am when I woke up. Almost 7 hours later still nothing. What the fuck. Is she fucking with me? Is the universe fucking with me?
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You must be 18 years old to post on this site
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>>18374081
I actually pointed out sounding like a little girl on my first draft of the post but something stopped the post from posting I guess so I had to do it again and condensed it and left out most of the angsty bullshit. Anywho I'm actually a 20 year old dude who is just super bad with girl. I'm lucky enough to at least sleep with a girl one every two years. I'm at the two year mark and I'm really scared to let it go because I just don't want to go back to being completely alone again.
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Bumping for someone to give me their opinion on this

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Is there anything I can do to reduce the sound from OTHER apartments? Specifically the one above me?
There's this fat fucking sow that lives above me and STOMPS every time she walks somewhere, and she apparently has to walk across the 300sq ft living/kitchen area every day for 35 minutes straight. I've talked to her and asked if she could be more mindful and take gentler steps, and she just sneered at me and said "Uh, well, it's an *apartment*" so no fucking luck there.
And it's not a lot owned complex, each unit is owned condo-style so most of the landlords are totally independent, meaning I have no contact with hers (assuming they'd even give a shit since I'm not their tenant)

I've only been here a month and it's already having some serious fucking impact on my psyche having my fucking window blinds shake and rattle from this heaving piece of shit goose-step around all day
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>>18374058
white noise generators, noise cancelling headphones/earbuds, ear plugs, calling management and having them listen from inside your apartment.
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>>18374084
It's not like hearing steps on tile or anything, its like when people play super loud bass in their ratty piece of shit cars and the entire thing rattles your windows from 100 feet away.
I'm watching a cup of water shake like the fucking Jurassic Park scene with the T-rex right now.
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>>18374058
Check your lease and see if there is a carpets-on-floors requirement. If you have one, then she probably does as well, and you can contact her landlord and ask that he enforce it.

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Should I feel bad for being a slut if I'm forced to? Every time I meet a girl as soon as we start liking each other or dating or something the next day I wake up in a completely different depressed mood and then they start ignoring me and then it's just one word responses and I'm pretty sure they're talking to other dudes.

If I'm not allowed to have a gf is it okay to be a slut? And also the reason I care is because i refuse to settle down with a used up skank or victim of sexual abuse.
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You're allowed to have a girlfriend and you're the one stopping yourself getting one. Change your mindset, because the sudden shift is what repels people.
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>>18373538
No I act the same I can't help it I wake up depressed it's like I have demons in my sleep that repel everyone
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>>18373548
god you sound like a cuck lmfao

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Im 31 years old and I dont think guys are impressed by them, whats your opinion?
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They are fine.
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>>18423023
this is a blue board go to /b/ with your saggy grandma tits. not that they're yours anyway, an anon posted them a few days ago on here in an imgur album.
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>>18423023

They sag a normal amount. They kind of splay off the the sides a bit more than most boobs. But they're fine.

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