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My lower back started hurting when I bend forward. I don't know what caused this, but I recently got sick and when I cough heavily it also hurts my back. I thought if I rested a bit it would be fine but if anything it has gotten worse, from a mild aching to a more pronounced pain. I have very limited access to a doctor so that is not the most feasible option.
What could the pain be and how can I stop it? I run sometimes, perhaps this caused it?
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Do you have poor posture?
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>>18383544
No, I have pretty good posture, especially when I run, or so I have been told in the past.
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>>18383548
Probably cancer then. RIP

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So me and an ex of about 3 years ago started talking again recently after she initiated.

After a while of talking I asked if she wanted to go out for a drink to which she said yes.

It's a couple of days away, and now she's saying that while she does want to go, she's 'worried'.

What does this mean? What should I say?
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You should say nevermind, I don't want to meet up.

Grow a nutsack and go meet a real prospect you panzy.
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>>18383433
I should probably have mentioned the reason I originally broke up with her was due to me moving across the country and not knowing when I was going to be back.

I'm still quite sweet on her.
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She might be afraid that she'll grow feelings for you again, idk seems silly if it's been 3 years.

Don't overthink it, ignore it

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I got an undercut but I don't like it. any hairstyle I can get that looks more traditional but short from the sides?
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Just let the sides grow out some and then slick your hair back instead.
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>>18383365
>undercut
>in 2017
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>>18383365
hair grows back, you'll live

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I turned in a job application for Jack in the Box a day ago. The manager says the best way to get an interview is to follow up in a couple days. So I'm thinking of going back tomorrow. What should I say to him to follow up? I'm not good with words. I have autism.
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>>18383285
I usually call back after 3 days and ask to speak to the manager. If the manager isn't in, ask when they will be and call back then.
Explain who you are and that you dropped off an application, and ask if they have had a chance to look at it yet. Almost every interview I have has been initiated this way.
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>>18383294
This. Managers basically want people who will do their work for them and someone who does this is showing themselves to be that person.
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>>18383294
That sounds good but should I go there in person or just call?

I need some /adv/
>Work a shitty retail job with shitty pay
>Boss is the biggest ass-hat
>wont stop you, but he makes you feel guilty for taking breaks and time off
>gets super fucking autistic when you use the words autistic, retarded, slow, mentally-ill, because his wife actually has downsyndrome
>keeps fucking up requesting days off and says he didnt make a mistake, and in fact I did
>tomorrow was one such day. Needed whole day off
I have a few options far as I see.

I can probably move my event tomorrow to the later part of the day and just ask if i can leave an hour or so early, but then id still be working a shit job.
i just dont fucking know. Why is life so fucking shitty.
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>>18383191
A ton of jobs are like this. In my experience people who are complete pieces of shit get fired eventually. Just stay as nice and positive as possible, try to get lots of positive references from other managers or people in power if you can, or teachers. Apply for other jobs and if you have to explain that they won't let you take breaks at all so rather than make a fuss, your looking for a place that follow labor laws. Show them your posite letters of recommendation.and get a better job.
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>>18383191
Just call in sick. Get a new job so you don't have to deal with this tard of a boss. I mean it can't be that hard since I'm assuming you only get paid minimum wage.
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small business, boss is the owner. hes not getting fired.

My (now) ex and I split up about three weeks ago. We hadn't talked since until last night. Nothing special. "How have you been?" "I've missed you." "Hope you are doing ok."

She's just texted me clearly suggesting that I should hit her up if I ever want to sleep together.

I have no interest whatsoever. I like her, I care about her, but I've moved on and neither want to start up the relationship again nor do I want to turn someone who was special to me into just some chick I bang.

How do I let her down easy? Knowing her, it was a big step to put herself out there like that and I'd rather not hurt her feelings by flat out telling her "Thanks, but not interested."
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>>18383162
You don't reply to shit you act busy you also could chill out act like she has a boyfriend and you don't trust her but your ok with it. Don't move in just get some pussy
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>>18383162
Tbh I'd screenshot what you wrote and send it to her.
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>>18383162

Why did you split up? Was it mutual, or one-sided? You still seem to care about her well-being so I assume it was somewhat mutual.

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Ive been dating a girl for a few months and i am happy and she is happy. I am absolutely sure i am in love with her but i can get rid of this sinking feeling that one of us is going to eventually lose feelings. im not in any way falling out of love, however its still a worry in the back of my mind that eventually we will lose our spark and drift apart

What do and how to avoid

Also how to make her not fall out of love with me
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>>18383134
time will tell
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>>18383150
gives me shivers.....
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>>18383134

you can't make her do shit. you can't stop your self from losing it. all you can do is make an effort to be grateful and take the time to enjoy each other.

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My grill is vegan and everywhere in my area that does vegan food i cant afford.
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>>18383068
Sounds like you can't afford a girlfriend. They like to go out to eat and movies sometimes they like to ho to the beach and get fucked
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Veganism is for people who can't deal with the fact that they've got no effective way to change the environment they've been born into other than hurting themselves and enforcing useless patterns of behavior that do no good in the long run other than annoying others
If you want to do change things, get violent, don't just sit there and think you're so important that your impotence in dietary choices makes a difference.
>the animals that i don't eat make a difference
If they actually matter as much as any other life, than the mere existence of the meat industry on America would paralyze all thought for the honest-hearted vegan. Because it doesn't, the human brain must- amazingly- meter it's resources based upon proximity and material observation. Consequently, all anina lives do not mean the same thing. The vegan is only able to save what animals are directly involved with their chain of life, without doing any real good.
Also we don't have the grinding plates of an herbivore look in a fucking herbivores mouth. Look in a carnivores mouth. Theyve got ridged molars or sharp canines. You've got neither. You're not meant to either eat only plants or animals, you're meant to eat cooked portions of either. You don't HAVE THE FUCKING DENTITION YOU'VE GOT NO GRINDING PLATES
plus every time a vegan posts here I pick a new species to eat
Yes, they're are more of them than there are vegans, yes, I can go longer than you on account of I get my vitamins from my diet instead of supplements and therefore have more vitality because I'm not a fucking retard, and yes, I've got enough stored anger to outlast tour pitiful excuse for self-determination
Fucking try me bitches you can't even beat a burger let alone beat me

Veganism may evetunally be proven to be marginally healthier than any other diet. Funnily enough, vegans can't survive without a functional society to support their invalid, overly sentimental view on life.
>Be vegan before B vitamin pills
>die
Good fucking luck
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Also >much gorillas and koalas
They 90% duodenum you fucking moron you've got an appendix they've got what amounts to a whole different digestive system you useless fucks

Go eat some kale and die of a complete and total inability to get a total complex of proteins and vitamins without the invention of farming and a stable society that came before you to literally spoon(pill)feed you into existence you fucking idiots
You exist because of other people and not in spite of them
You would never evolve naturally

You're goddamn right I'm mad
>lol you're this pissed because you kill animals
I KILL ANIMALS BECAUSE I'M PISSED

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I've just now come to terms with how fucking lonely and depressed I am which I've been denying for about 2 years now. Could someone please direct me to the thread that helps out losers who are shit conversationalists? Thanks
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Join toastmasters and make small talk with anybody like cashiers, etc. The biggest thing you can do is make effort.
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You need to get out of your shit hole and go to the mall and get one of those smoothies . I'm a strawberry banana kinda guy
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>>18383002
How would smoothies help?
Just sit at a smoothie bar like an awkward faggot?

Where do I apply? What are these jobs called?
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>>18382958
Street pharmacist
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>>18382972
Legal job please lol
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Graphic designer.

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Anyone dealt with a partner not wanting sex until after marriage?

I've been going out with this girl for about 6 months now, we've had some discussions about the relationship. She at some point talked about not wanting to cage me and saying that if I found someone else, she'd be fine with it; of course, the same would apply to her. I convinced her to not open our relationship, kinda. She still doesn't like referring to it as 'dating', because she feels 'caged', but we are exclusive.

Two days ago, she talked about not wanting sex until after she got married. We've done some stuff, she's received oral and I've touched her to, presumably orgasm, but she refuses to even see my penis, let alone touch it or suck it.

From what I've gathered this is a religious matter, but she just said it 'feels right'.

Now, we're both virgins, but there's a big age difference between us (19, 29). I really feel like I love her and that I could probably wait, but there's also this feeling of having already waited for so long, and I just can't keep myself from thinking about it when we're together.

I don't know what to do. I feel like it'll be bad either staying or going. Like I'd either be a monster that only wants sex and throws away potential life-partners because he's not getting it or an idiot that bends over backwards to accept everything she wants because I'm scared of being alone.
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thats a big age difference, if she's the 19 year old and she's the one who doesnt want to have sex or isnt sure what the relationship is, that's just because she has less experience.

DESU she may need a few more years of figuring her own stuff out and I wouldn't pressure her into anything she doesnt want to do
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>>18382955
Put a little visine in her drink to convince her . Record it op
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>>18382955
From everything you've said, you are just definitely not the one for her, and it won't matter how long you wait. It sounds like she's already been pretty clear about her feelings, saying you're not tied to each other and she's not really going to touch you sexually. If you're the 29-year-old in this situation, I really can't understand why you won't take the hint and move on. If you're the 19-year-old, then I'm sorry to be the one to break this news to you: You are not in a relationship with this girl and she's never going to fuck you, sorry dude. Move on and find another.

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I completed my uni degree, and got a job in the field related to it. I genuinely thought I would be happy.

It's been nearly a year, and I just feel hollow and empty inside. I constantly procrastinate, I avoid work functions, I stay inside on the weekend when I can and just drink. Today I looked at the road ahead of me, and it's going to be 50-60+ years on this treadmill of apathy and ennui. Just, go to work. Day after day. Tell yourself that the holiday you will be able to afford after you bank enough leave will be worth it all.

I feel like an joyless robot. Is this just all there is?
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>>18382953
What field? Considering you got a job I assume business. Yeah you are just a soulless robot now.
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>>18382953
You are probably depressed.
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>>18382953
Work/career won't make you happy. The important thing is just that you can make enough money to live on doing something you don't completely hate. If you can get to a point where you have some freedom in your career, and if you can find people you like to work with, it can be pretty nice.

But life is about friends, family and relationships, your work is really just about supporting your existence

my gf wants to become a tattoo artist, but she is very reluctant in going to an university.

I am against not going to one, there's any degree that could help her out in her pathr of becoming a tattoo artist?

Any advice of becoming a tattoo artist is appreciated
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Woman's Studies or some other useless degree that will be on par with her useless career choice.
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>>18382938
Fine arts? She's right though, there's no point in going to university if she wants to be a tattoo artist. She should be practicing her illustrations and trying to get an apprenticeship at a studio ASAP.
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>>18382938
She needs art degree maybe getting part time job at art museum of similar knowledge tattoo knowledge

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Is it ever possible for a girl to be too into you? I met this person and we went out on a date, and she seems really nice and we have pretty similar personalities and interests. She seems to be really into me. Like *really* into me and it feels a little bit strange.

Were all the other women I dated just assholes, or could this lead to trouble?
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>>18382911
So you've only been on one date? And what's she been doing to make you feel concerned?

generally though I'd say trust your instincts, if it feels weird it probably is.
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>>18382921
She's been texting super persistently and trying to set up more dates right away and sends me messages sounding confused about why I haven't texted in the last hour or two. I like her and she's really nice, but this seems like it may be a bit excessive.
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>>18382911
Yes it is possible. Even if you've never had one you've surely heard of clingy psycho gfs, haven't you? That being said you've had one date, you might just be overthinking it. What's she doing that you think's strange?

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22 year old beta seeking advice. How to score pussy?
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get out more often, thats the first step
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>>18382783
Be interesting, smile, get drunk, be vulnerable yet independent.
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>>18382783
YouTube alpha m.

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