im poor turk
i wanna get out of erdoganistan
what do
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Move to Europe and pretend to be Syrian refugee?
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bumb https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/6fff3p/how_can_i_move_out_of_country_getting_islamized/
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bombeli merdane
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Girl 1:
>known for about a year
>I know a lot about her, she knows a lot of my personal history
>very kind to me, cares if I'm upset
>has helped me a lot with studying
>teases me quite a bit without being hurtful
>hugs me every time we meet, comfortable with physical touch
>gives me physical presents on occasion
>occasionally texts me, usually when she has something to say (no "hey wyd" texts)
Girl 2:
>known for a couple months
>don't really know as much about her
>mean-spirited humor but still nice
>has interests a bit more similar to mine
>sends me messages on a daily basis
>has sent me fairly lewd snaps
Which one should I try to become closer with? And don't say both. When you chase two rabbits, both escape.
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You've known them for that long and you haven't made a move yet?
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This isn't even a question that needs to be asked.
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They both would say yes if you asked her on a date, right? Right?....
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Help I can't satisfy my bosses 2017-06-05 04:15:31 Post No.18388192
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Help I can't satisfy my bosses
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>started a new job as a building maintenance technician
>Quickly realize there is never enough work to fill my 8 hour shift
>I'm watched through the cameras since the last guy was fired for sitting around too much
>Have to submit a report at the end of each week detailing what I did that week and if it's not enough I'm grilled about it
Help, I don't know how to satisfy this bitch ass facility manager and it's very anxiety provoking. I'm actually good at my job and I can all the day's work in a couple hours but if I do my job well I'm punished for it
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slow everything down while looking for a new job
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>>18388192
Get some broken item (water faucet or such) and sit "fixing" it for hours on end. Carry empty boxes from one place to another and back again. When in doubt, push a broom.
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>>18388192
You need to keep asking for work. If you finish your day's tasks in a few hours, you should walk over to the management office and tell them to give you more things to do. It's on them to give you tasks. I guarantee if you keep showing up every day and pestering them for work, they're either going to give you a lot more work to do, or they're going to get off your nuts when it comes time to review you, because they are now aware that there isn't enough to do.
It's on you to make yourself known all the time, and either show you are working, or do not have stuff to do. The other guy got in trouble because he wasn't looking for things to do.
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>be me
>18 year old male
>over a year ago my upper back started getting regularly stiff
>I think its just my posture at school or how I sleep
>now I have constant pain and discomfort between my shoulder blades and neck
>even my shoulder joints start to ache
>I regularly pester my siblings for massages
>yesterday my sister was massaging my back when she exclaimed that my spine is curved
>shes a nurse so I'm inclined to believe her
>I went to the Doctors today
>he feels my back and confirms I have mild scoliosis and is gonna send me to get an X-ray
Has anyone out there had/got scoliosis?
How severe was it, has it been fixed or do you still have it?
I'm worried that this is gonna be a life problem because I'm 18 and near the end of my bodily development. I'm an active person and I'm scared that my lifestyle is gonna have to be dropped because of it.
Thoughts?
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>>18388019
It effectively looks like this
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What activities have you been doing to get to this point
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>>18388040
I study science subjects at school, so for much of my time I'm sitting on stools designed for 14 year olds. My posturr isn't great in those classes but I make a point of trying to sit up.
I like to do climbing from time to time so as a training thing, I do pull ups most days, maybe I'm doing it erong in sone way.
All in I don't know desu
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I want to start dating, but don't know how to go about it
All the male friends I have are either in relationships or not looking for a relationship and just want to have casual sex with me, nothing more.
I've tried online dating but all the guys there seem mentally ill or just want sex and nothing else
I'm a 26 year old woman. What do?
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I'm single for the first time in years, I'm 28, your life is probably way less fucked than mine but I still think it's a healthy approach to take things one day at a time and just try to enjoy being "with" yourself or else people will sense your desperation and fear and you'll attract all kind of losers. Other than "dating" and trying to find someone who will hit the right points in your checklist, that's the best option you have.
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>>18387895
I've had 26 years to be happy with just myself.
Let's say I find a person who hits the right points in my checklist. Then how do I make them my boyfriend? How do I get them to like me?
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>>18388550
>Let's say I find a person who hits the right points in my checklist.
AKA chad
>Then how do I make them my boyfriend? How do I get them to like me?
you don't because he's chad and you're a 6 at best
lower your standards CUNT
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I CAN'T HOOK UP WITH A GIRL AND IT MAKES ME SCREAM, PLEASE HELP ME
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>>18387789
Don't be so fucking desperate and it will come naturally. And go outside, not the board but actually go outside fgt.
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>>18387796
This also lower your standards cause ur not that hot
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STOP SCREAMING, THE MORE YOU SCREAM THE LESS PEOPLE WILL ANSWER YOU RATIONALLY.
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>walk, eat, sleep
>repeat
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>repeat
There lies your mistake. How about you change something about your day. Walk around the park or get a dog and care for it. If you feel restless walking around the park you might consider medication for depression.
Also stop using those god-awful "pity me" images, that's why no one wants to answer you.
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>>18387787
>decide to off yourself
>you only get to sleep
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>>18387787
Worst feeling in the world, isn't it? That awful, stagnancy. You need to find a way to break the cycle, otherwise you'll just fall deeper into despair.
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Hey /adv/. I asked this girl out the other night (out in the boyfriend/girlfriend) sense and she said yes. We were definitely having romantic affiliations prior to making it official. Today, however, she is responding to my attempts at conversation with short responses, and not making an effort to keep it going. I could interpret this in of 2 ways: either she's regretting saying yes to my request (which would be weird, considering she sort of made the first move on me some time ago) or due to our relationship she no longer feels she has to make unrealistic or fake attempts at conversation. The latter is what I obviously want to believe, but I could be deluding myself. Please help!
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Just ask her if she is alright and how she feels now.
No need to over complicate things. Hope it works out for you though :)
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>>18387770
You reckon? I just don't want to seem really attached/possessive or anything. I think I'll just let her be for a few days and see if she changes. We're not at all awkward though so if *it* continues I'll just ask her about it. Thanks :)
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>>18387762
study this well, young anon:
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
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I don't know my own feelings towards my best friend 2017-06-05 12:43:01 Post No.18387751
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I don't know my own feelings towards my best friend
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>be me, 22 male
>best friend is girl
>have happy platonic relationship
>each have our own romantic relationships, always there for each other, hang out all the time
>sometimes boyfriends/girlfriends get jealous of us even though they always get priority
>best friend breaks up recently because of that reason
>I broke up 2 months ago
>we get drunk at my place, not super drunk, just a little tipsy
>end up messing around with each other, no sex or orgasm but we played with each other gently
>she regrets it the next day and tells me she thinks we shouldn't do stuff like that
>my mind's telling me no but my body's telling me yes
>say okay because we've been friends for too long to fuck it up over something like that
I've always been okay to smash her. She's a cute girl who gets loads of attention but being my best friend I wouldn't do that. Now I don't know if I'm starting to catch feels after that night because she opened herself up to me intimately. We hug and have plenty of physical contact normally but that was different.
So I don't know if what I'm feeling is romantic love, love for a friend whom I know so well (which has always been there, but maybe amplified now), or just lust.
What does /adv/ think?
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Just fuck already
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>>18387751
what does a hard dick have to do with romance?
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>>18387751
You should talk about that stuff with her, not us.
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Is it better to tell my boss I have the explosive shits and can't make the meeting today or should I tell a white lie and say I have to attend a family event I already mentioned to her might conflict? The meeting is this morning in less than an hour. I was going to attend but I'm shitting every 5 minutes for some fucking reason. I'd call her but I feel guilty calling in sick and know I'd sound weird.
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Well, at least you have a very good reason, so I'd say go with honesty. Your boss won't ask any further questions and will accept your absence for sure.
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>>18387729
Tell the truth.
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>>18387729
get you some Imodium and that will plug you up
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Is 19 too young to settle down? I'm moving out next year into my own flat. I have a job, a car and plenty of money. My girlfriend said she would like to move in and find her own job to contribute but I'm thinking I'm way to young for something this serious. Any advice or stories on moving out?
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Moved in with my boyfriend when I was 18 and he was 20, had been dating for 3 years. Still together 6 years later, still very happy.
He also bought me that hat for my birthday, lol.
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>>18387350
I got married at 19, and I am 33 now, and it's still the best thing I ever did.
BUT. When I did it I had no doubts, and we BOTH. Had jobs and depended on each other. its ok for one to out earn the other, but if you let someone move in, without any money or job, unless you're just expecting to support them, more often than not, you're going to have a bad time.
If they've never had a job and payed rent BEFORE, then there is no reason to believe, after they move in and live off your hard work, they will suddenly start erning.
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You're frogposting. You're too young.
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Why can't I just talk? 2017-06-05 08:43:12 Post No.18387304
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I've been seeing a therapist for 2 years already, and I still can't share anything with her. I've seen 2 other therapists besides her in the past and they were pretty shit doctors desu, just trying to pump me full of drugs.
Anyway, There's been a part of me that's just completely unknown to everyone around me. My friends, my therapist, my family... there's a bunch of shit I WANT to tell them, but I just can't. It would probably help me a lot of I could talk about these things, but I just bottle them up more and more. My head is so fucked, like I can't even think straight because I've been suppressing a lot of my issues and my secrets. I know I'm not going to be at a point where I'm just going to lash out or something, but I can't handle all this baggage anymore, and to be completely honest, I've been thinking about killing myself for months already.
It's gotten to the point where these suicidal thoughts over take any other thoughts or ideas I might have, even when I'm not trying to think about it. And it's like a damn cycle lmao, I can't fucking talk about it. I know I have people I can talk to who might be able to help me... but I just can't talk to them.
Just wanted to vent here, this'll probably be my last post
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Is there no way to express yourself in other ways ?
Have you tried playing an instrument, dancing, singing or running into the wild to let these feelings out ?
I believe we must not keep them inside of us for too long but rather transform/express them
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>>18387304
You sound selfish and egotistical. You have an image of yourself in our mind and want to preserve it so badly that you won't open your mouth to talk, even when it's the necessary thing for better survival.
Get over yourself.
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I been in this situation before, in fact I'm still in this situation, I lied to much that at some point I started to believe my own lies, I hope you are not thinking about killing yourself, dead it's just a waste of potencial and time, and over all, a really pussy way to deal with the struggles that life give us, if I were you I'll join the army, the police something dangerous, because fuck, if you want to end it all the easy way and just kill yourself the do it in a place were the are going to pay you for risking your life, being suicidal or list interest in life ain't that bad because if you think about that gives you a lot of power, you don't worry about yourself? Fine, the you can do the hardest drugs you find, you can get yourself the most dangerous jobs or fuck de dirtiest sluts you find raw because fuck it and STD is going to kill you in a couple of months or years but you were going to give up anyways so who cares, there is something always something to look for, happiness aint easy to get but is something worth it to fight for, keep it up men, something will come up
What's the best way to get a bunch of mp3s nowadays? I want to get a big collection of 320kbps pop and hiphop mp3s so that I can be a wedding dj. Torrents don't really work I have a specific list of songs that I want. I used to use soulseek do those type of file sharing programs exist anymore? I wouldn't even mind paying for the files as long as they are under .99 cents and non-proprietary I want the full mp3 file forever no strings attached. What's the best way to get 320kbps pop mp3s nowadays??
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Why not get flac files? If you're using good speakers, it'd be more enjoyable to have better quality music for your audience.
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Ok, Where can I get flac files? I'm more concerned about the source not the file type. I'll take what I can get as long as the file quality is good and I own the file for good without any weird proprietary bullshit. Where can I get specific good quality audio files where it isn't some sort of subscription service but where I actually own the file??
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>>18387288
flac 320kbps what's the difference one takes up a lot more space but they basically sound the same.
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qt co-worker is away on holidays for a month
when she comes back how weird would it be to have my arms open for a hug to welcome her back.
like be all like "heeeey, welcome back" whilst my arms are open. "how was Europe,etc etc"
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Do you touch her casually like that normally?
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>>18387249
Unless she is single and you want to ask her on date, keep yiur dirty hands off her.
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>>18387249
If she's just a coworker and not really a friend then that'd be weird as fuck
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Career choices: A job I'm interested in or a job I'm talented at? 2017-06-05 07:15:32 Post No.18387031
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Career choices: A job I'm interested in or a job I'm talented at?
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Backstory is imagine someone in their last year of highschool and they're quite good at accounting and learning it above other jobs but they have a long-held interest and passion for psychology.
Obviously both routes have their ups and downs, an accounting job wouldn't be the end of the world but if I could choose to wake up in any job I wanted it wouldn't be it.
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Accounting is boring, psychology isn't going to get you a job. Both are terrible options. Where do you live?
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>>18387042
New Zealand
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>>18387043
What a coincidence, I'm a kiwi too. I did a degree in psychology (along with a law degree), I have a friend who's doing a PhD in psychology and I have other friends who did accounting so I have a bit of insight into what these subjects are like here. Whereabouts are you thinking of going?