How do I deal with a housemate who is a total cunt. He just chucked my thing of cigarette butts through my window into my bed and told me to stop smoking.
Stop smoking. You'll thank him later.
>>18390555
This
>>18390548
I can only imagine you're smoking indoors like an asshole to warrant that kind of reaction. Even lighting your cigarette indoors and THEN going outside leaves a smell behind. Stop
Hi guys so I need some help on what to reply or if I should at all. So basically to sun it up I've been talking to this girl long distance for a few months and everything has been going smooth but lately we haven't been talking for whatever reason. I asked her about it and she's been giving me short answers. So if someone can honestly give me some advice I'd really appreciate that. Thanks
Never talk about the relationship.
>>18390512
So what do I do now?
>>18390513
Gracefully drop the subject.
Got accepted to dream school via transfer after two long years of hard work at shitty community college. Problem is, with the competition being so high, they only took me in for my second-choice major which I sorta give no two shits about.
I already hated college to begin with so I just chose majoring in what I thought I could put a lot of passion and effort into. So when I had to choose a second major for an application so I just chose the one with most creative/artistic quaities out of the list to choose from (that didn't include my first choice).
First-choice was Radio-Television-Film.
Second-choice is Advertising.
Should I still go to the school?
I dunno, I'm just so anxious over this right now that I guess I just need some reaffirmation that I could still make this work to my liking.
Maybe I can just really get involved in the RTF programs a lot and just integrate that into the Ad stuff, use it for a portfolio, and get more experience in production to get a job in that field?
Or maybe just switch my major and end up taking an extra year?
Or maybe double major?
Minor in RTF?
Any advice, I guess? Sorry this is such a shit OP, I guess I just need to vent.
One's major isn't as important as you seem to think it is.
>>18390503
Just intern at the local TV station...
>>18390503
>First-choice was Radio-Television-Film.
>Second-choice is Advertising.
lol what does it matter
This year had a wierd cluster Suicide of people named Joe in my area. I was questioned about it since my name is Joe, and I said I knew nothing which was true. The only ones I know that actually committed suicide are:
Kinney, Joseph Atticus Sep 28, 2000 - Feb 8, 2017
Rigatuso, Joseph David Apr 28, 2000 - Mar 16, 2017
These are the only two I know of since the Police released very little information regarding the suicides. I'm very confused because why aren't the names of the victims released. All they said that they were Highschoolers in metro area. Do you guys think there's a cover up of some sorts, or that this is legit.
this is very spooky
I think /x/ would love to talk about this.
>>18390455
You know, I just had a thought:
Pretty soon, anyone whose year of birth starts with 19 will be legal to fuck.
be on the lookout
i don't want a fellow robot hurt
So I talked to this girl a bit ago in my running club and I kinda want to ask her out. It's about a week or so ago. Would it be awkward now?
Also how do I approach the subject? Just message her on Facebook and ask her to do something?
>>18390448
Ask her what is she doing on weekend and ask her on dinner.
Buy condoms.
>>18390848
Already said I thought she seemed nice and if she wanted to go for a walk or grab a coffee sometime. She hasn't seen it yet.
>>18390859
Do you have condoms ready?
Anyway you are set up. And dont break down mentally if she refuses you.
How do I stop watching thai whores on the internet?
I watch them and then afterwards think "That's fucked up I just watched someone from a third world country humiliate themselves for probably hardly any money.. what's wrong with me"
and then I do it again.
>>18390384
Go on vacation to phuk or some shit, you will drown in pussy for almost no money
>>18390409
But i dont want to take advantage of 3rd world poverty.
>>18390456
Just consider it economic aid then.
You get companionship and sex and the girl gets way more money then she would by doing any other job.
I'm a 20 y/o Japanese guy and my dick just doesn't work right. Whenever I'm getting head or attempting to fuck my girlfriend the sensation is way too sensitive and kills my erection. Do any of you have anything that could solve this situation or anything? Thanks I'm advance
>>18390367
di you went to the doctor ?
condoms, a shitty condom will fix that right up for you.
Why does it matter if your japanese
Where do i go from here?
stop treating her like a romantic interest and just become friends you goofus.
Why are you making a big scene out of asking a girl for her number. Wtf are you confessing to her
She's rejecting you nicely.
Hey /adv/, I'll try and sum this 9 year long-distance thing up with:
>guy finally is willing to travel to see me, we've never met in-person
>we've stopped talking multiple times, "broke up", have fights, etc..
>i don't like him like i did when we first met
>talking again now trying to plan to meetup
>don't want to hurt his feelings
How do I simply say, "I don't want to meet you. Actually, I'd like if we stopped talking now."
Dude has never had a girlfriend, never kissed or even hugged a girl. I'm not a virgin and would rather date men in my local city. I'm not the same girl I was when we first met, and he can't see that....... the only thing we have in-common is our love of the same video games.
Halp?
>>18390275
"Hey things have changed and I've found someone in my area that I have a romantic interest in."
>>18390280
I'll wait a few days or maybe a week to say that to him, thank you
>>18390275
Break up with him BEFORE he fucking buys a ticket and travels all the way to see you. That's emotionally devastating
How long is the honeymoon phase in an average relationship? And how can you tell it's starting to subside & turning into a standard relationship?
>>18390025
You feel different?
stupid question
this is far to subjective to have a real answer
for example, ive had a relationship where it lasted ~3 months
i've had one where its lasted more than a year....
>>18390025
Up to a year on average according to studies.
>how can you tell
Bitch dumb question. You can tell.
Theres a chemical shift in your body. You feel less of the new love high from extreme dopamine and seratonin and you feel a more normalised stable contentment and comfort and pair bond given by oxytocin.
As in you feel pretty much normal except youre attached to the other person.
A few months to a year.
>And how can you tell it's starting to subside & turning into a standard relationship?
When it's not so much about discovering the person anymore and more about what you share/do with the person.
At the beginning, you're all nervous and thrilled that this hot person is into you. Once that wears away, you'll probably feel like you know the person and won't have as much fun automatically.
Hey guys, im 18 and trying to figure out if I'm gay or bi. I've jerked off to trap shit since I was like 16. I recently broke up with my gf of one year and I never had any problems staying hard with her. Then about a week ago some chick came over to give me head and I couldn't stay hard for shit. Also I've been jerking off to gayer shit lately. Is it a slippery slope of gayness from here or can I still have a chance to slay pussy?
>>18389956
the 'slippery slope' doesn't apply to your sexuality. you don't turn gay. you're just gay. the reason you were able to get off to women before is because 1) men can get off to just about anything (im gay but i have fapped to lesbians in the last year) and 2) because when you are younger ANY sexual act is intense because oyu're not used to it yet. the older you get the less things excite you that you don't actually like.
all in all, you're probably gay but the only way to really find out is to go experiment.
>>18389956
there is a way of sort of figuring this shit out, you have to take the sex element out
for instance, I'm straight, but I enjoy sucking a nice penis here and there, it really turns me on, BUT, there is nothing beyond that, like I don't see myself going out with that person, watching movies together or cuddling etc....
With my present girlfriend I totally enjoy having sex with her, but I can be affectionate and enjoy hanging out with her, I miss her when she's not there, etc
some girls I couldn't get hard
You don't slip into gayness, it's not just about fapping and traps and dicks.....
Think of who you are attracted to, beyond that...
I hope this helps
>>18390154
Thanks for the response. The sex I want to be with and I see myself having a future with is a female, I'm just hoping attraction doesn't get in the way of that
So my friend's birthday is close and he is not in the happiest moment of his life.
So i was thinking giving him a book as a present, something to encourage him a little.
Can you help me picking a title?
The book must have a guy who is trying his best to
> overcome sadness,
>relationships,
> looking for his future or something like that.
Thank you for your time.
>>18389935
I dont know of any for sure but i do have a word of advice
I have a sister with clinical depression and she vents to me all the time about how some people come to her and give her things that indicate that she is sad, or makes it obvious that she is sad
>i.e. book talking about how you can overcome self harm
From personal experience, i wouldnt get him something that tells him that you know that they are in a bad time.
Instead of getting him something like that id get him something fun or goofy, or something that he may have been wanting.
But don't completely ignore his hard times, asking when he would be available to talk or just let him know that you're there for him if he needs to talk because you've noticed that he has been different.
Green Eggs and Ham by Theodore Geisel
The Elementary Particles by Michel Houellebecq
what was yours like? Did you find anything about yourself you didnt know, like your sexuality or any kinks? how did you discover what you like and when did you know it was "right"
>>18389828
I started jerking off at 13
got my first blow job at 16
had sex at 19
had first gf and lots of sex at 21
mostly porn is how I figured out what I like until I was 27 and dated a girl and we did lots of kinky butt stuff..
now i like butt stuff
and my new gf, who is a major upgrade in all ways (physically, emotionally, intellectually), also loves butt stuff!!!! i'm in love
>>18389828
>15
>somehow manage to be awkward but a social butterfly at the same time
>at some school dance I didnt really want to go to, youve seen one youve seen em all
>jocks acting obnoxious, kids to nervous to dance, everyone in their cliques
>see this one girl I sort of know, emo goth type, doesnt have many friends and I ive heard her speak literally like twice
>sitting by herself at a table, playing on some game
>think to myself, thats not right, everybody deserves to have a friend
>sit with her and try to start a conversation
>ask why shes over here alone
>"I dunno"
>"well, come sit with us at least"
>"why do you care"
>cant think of a good answer besides "because you shouldnt have to sit by yourself"
>she pauses a moment, then grabs me by the shirt collar and violently kisses me hard
>old hippie science teacher who was too chill for his job sees and high fives me after
been into goth girls ever since
>watch this episode of even Stevens as a young child
>makes my dick feel funny
>spend a few years thinking im gay
>finally suck it it, when my sister isnt home I sneak into her room and dress myself as a girl
>makeup, dress, shoes, everything
>look at myself in the mirror, dont feel anything accept ridiculous
>go to change, can reach the zipper of the dress to get out
>panic, try for 30 minutes but no luck
>dont want anyone in the family to see me, I call one of her friends that lived up the street to come over and hurry
>she walks in, sees me and doubles over with laughter
>I try to explain that its just a stunt for halloween (7 months away), like a joke and please dont tell anybody
>she starts taking picutres of me, says she'll keep it as blackmail and wont tell anybody, but she wants to dress me up more
>spend an hour getting made up again wit new dresses and makeup
>now I get a erection
>she looks at the wall, talks to me trying to keep a straight face
"Ok..ok..noow you can change and I promise I wont tell anybody"
and thats how I found out im into femdom
How can I learn to be more trusting of people and let them into my life, with dating in particular? Any books or strategies for getting over issues like this?
I am becoming very isolated because I am so scared of letting people into my life that I have halfway convinced myself that I'm just a loner type and do better by myself, which I know is not true because I am starving for human contact. But for some reason I have a block where I am just petrified to make a move and ask someone out. I know rationally that it's not a big deal and that like the absolute worst thing that could happen is mocking rejection, but I think what really keeps me from going for it is that they'll say yes and then I have to build a relationship which leaves me incredibly vulnerable.
I'm a guy btw
>>18389638
stop being a pussy
don't date whores or superficial people / date nice and honest girls
acknowledge red flags when you see them
nothing risked nothing gained
Say fuck it and just get used to being alone. It's really not that bad if you stop being a bitch about it.
You'll be dead eventually, anyway.
Listen to The Wall a few times
How can I stop getting over the top crushes? It's like I get these absolutely backbreaking crushes on girls and all other girls stop existing.
yeah maybe you're just the type of person that only likes one person at a time and you like intensely. try to keep it under control cause we're in the minority and that's weird.
>>18389612
also that girl is gross.
>>18389612
Sauce on pic