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mom refuses to acknowledge trades 2017-09-14 11:40:57 Post No.18720971
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mom refuses to acknowledge trades
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2017-09-14 11:40:57
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i dont want to go to university.
none of you idiots can change my decision on this.
i want to go to vocational school. my mother says she wont pay for it, she will only pay for university.
she thinks skilled trades = mcdonalds.
she said "never take the easy route"....
i feel so much rage inside.
"never take the easy route".
I took 3 different occasions to explain to her skilled trades, yet her mentally ill fucking brain can't comprehend.
"never take the easy route"
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decide on a trade. show her real life examples, ie introduce her to people, of why this is the best choice you could possibly be making for your future. show her that people older than you who have a lifetime of credibility behind what they say are in agreement and it'll make this go easier. the "university is an absolute must" thing was drilled so damn hard into most of our parents' heads, and they didn't have the internet to see through the bullshit. she loves you and is only trying to do right by you.
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>>18720971
Shes not wrong. Skilled trades are an absolute shit hole. If you are really good at your trade live somewhere where they need people and choose something that isnt flooded then its a good shot. Just keep in mind that people who go into trades usually never leave or move on to higher positions. Not because there is no career but because it is easier.
If you are really passionate about a skill trade then I would highly recommend it but if you are doing it because you just want a job then do your research for your area.
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>>18720971
My mom did the exact same thing,but I chickened out and picked a major that seemed interesting. Dropped out and now 10k in debt to her.
Prove that you can do it on your own, anon.
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Can I go to parties in college if i'm kind of a loser?
I have friends who go to parties all the time but they never bring me, implicit understanding is people like me aren't welcome there
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your friends are trash
and yes you can (and should) go to parties if you have the chance
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>>18720957
>they dont invite me
>"hey we are going to that party"
>yo man do you mind if I come with?
You are obviously autistic so I dont know why you want to go to a party to pet their animals while avoiding everyone.
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>>18721040
>petting animals
that sounds super fun actually (i don't have any)
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How do you guys deal with the general stress and sadness of grad school?
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>>18720888
by dropping out
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reminding myself of how much pussy I can get when I have money
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>>18720889
Yeah, that's not really an option for me, I really want to do research.
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Med student. Which specialty should I choose, /sci/? I want a specialty that emphasizes critical thinking over repetitive procedures, pays well, and actually changes people's lives.
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>>18720879
you aint a med student
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If you are going to be just a clinical doctor it doesn't fucking matter - Doctors are a import role in society, but one doctor is about as important as a bee in a hive, the hive matters, the bee need to be there in number, but one doesn't change much
UNLESS you want to do research, than neuroscience sounds fucking amazing...
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>>18720879
You should be a therapist
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Hi /sci/ , brainless here
Its to late for me ?
I have 22 , i know arithmetic and the basic of álgebra
Im just start learning python myself
And reading baldor álgebra
My dream is to become a AI programer
Its to late for me im to old ?
Sorry bad eng
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>>18720868
> Its to late for me ?
Nope
> python
cool
> im to old ?
nope
> Sorry bad eng
> eng
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can I have your contact info?
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>>18720868
>brainless
Wow!
>learning python
well that is pretty mindless
>ai programmer
buddy you picked the best field for being brainless and you will be king of the brainles
no worry ok? you do big time 100 smiley happy dance and I wan offer you full time job at OpenAI
please how can i contact you?
love,
Mr. Elon Musk
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Is it wrong to do practice gf? A girl friend of mine confessed feelings. She's been having a crush on me for 2 fucking years without me noticing at all. She has a great personality, but she's a 5/10 looks wise. I can't breed with that. What I mean is that I know that this isn't going to be the relationship of my life. Is it bad to go through with this?
My list of pros and cons:
Pros
>sex on-demand
>gets gf experience so I become a better bf for my future soulmate
>she does shit for me
Cons
>money that gets spent on doing shit together
>she is going to spam me with things idgaf about on snap
>friend of mine have strong feelings for her
>might hurt her feelings
Overall, I think it can be good for both of us. It's an experience, right? Everyone wins in a way, right?
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>>18720845
But think about all the easy fucking!!
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Just go ahead and do it, you know how often women use and emotionally abuse men? This is how the dating world works. Take and use whatever you want.
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Do it for experience. Don't look too deep into it either.
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How am I supposed to trust her? 2017-09-14 10:56:34 Post No.18720826
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How am I supposed to trust her?
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2017-09-14 10:56:34
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I've been going out with this girl for 3 months now, it's been super great she's a ton of fun super nice all that good stuff
However the only problem I guess is the amount of guys she talks to, I know you're supposed to trust your partner but Jesus Christ, she ONLY talks to guys and refuses to talk to any other girls cause they're "too normie" for her
She only has one girl that's a friend of hers, but she barely talks to her, and whenever she's over at this friends house I've been told she just goes on calls with other dudes
She talks to so many bloody guys it's unbelievable, just in the last 2 weeks she's met 3 more dudes and is constantly calling them
Whenever she's over at my place and she gets a text, it's from a dude
Whenever she's on call with someone other than me, it's always a dude
Whenever she's talking about her friends, it's always a dude
She tells me that she'll always love me and that she's super happy she met me, and I can really tell that she does when we go on dates and hang at my place but this isn't something I can shake off so easily
I love her a lot but I can't get rid of the thought that she's doing something with any number of these guys
Any advice on what to do or if I should do something about this? Any of you guys been in a situation like this before?
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How's the sex?
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>>18720832
it's alright i guess
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Has she dated any guys in the past, what happened with them?
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I am 200cm (6feet,7in) tall, 20cm (8in) dicked, not buff but reasonably fit guy with a baby face. I am told that I am cute looking, usually when going out people flirt with me, have been asked on dates, and got directly offered sex/had girls grabbing at my dick by girls I found very attractive. I am currently an enlisted paratrooper and got conformation that I am going to my countrys OCS next year and that I also made the cut for an electrical engineering study at my quiet prestigious military college (german military for anybody who wonders).
Outside of work I also am a complete loner, never had a girlfriend or sex. I have a few "friends" but can't really consider them friends even though I am honest to them and they are capable of understanding me. Yet I keep them at a distance and willingly limit my time with them to do so. I have absolutely no trouble working with people and manage my buddies in the military just fine, often taking a leadership role and generally I am appreciated by all of them.
I. JUST. CAN'T. STOP. ISOLATING. MYSELF
I just want and to be loved, appreciated and close to someone. I want to feel human warmth and intimacy but I am so fucking alone and I can't stop myself from beeing alone. I hardly trust others and someone touching me is hard unless they are part of my family. No I definitly am not autistic. And I also can't handle people outside a frame work. If there is a reason we are together everything is just fine and dandy but beeing with someone for the sake of beeing with someone is confusing.
I am currently trying to get a therapy slot and a therapist is supposed to call me back this week but I need help with this guys. Just help me understanding what is going on with me.
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kys
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>>18720812
You sound a bit shy
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>>18720812
we need a bit more context, what do you think led you to this point the most, anon?
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i feel trapped
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what's on your mind hun?
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>>18720822
I have problems left and right. I'm going insane. I keep punching myself in the head, face and chest when no one's looking, and when there are people around I bang my head against the wall, pretending it happened by accident. I even sometimes knee my forehead, which gives me headaches. I have no friends and no one to talk to about my thoughts, feelings, opinions, literally anything.
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>>18720856
talk to me anon, i'll stay and listen. why do you want to hurt yourself like that?
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>tfw shat in a condom again and threw it in the trash
Am I getting worse?
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Why don't you just shit in a trash bag instead?
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Again?!?!?
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>>18720803
That takes a lot more effort than just getting up and going to the toilet. Why do you do this?
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I'm Got so my order is followed
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Please post because free time
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If 1 post I uplode truth my girl face
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Shiro buta kisama
Omae wo mou shinda iru.
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Anybody experienced in "confronting" People with knowledge of their addiction(s)?
I love my wife - she's the most precious thing in my life. But recently she has been all sleepy and after that I found empty bottles hidden in our flat.
Now, I don't want to "confront" her, but to reach out to her, aid her and Support her in finding ways out.
But I guess maybe she'll block depending on how I start that conversation.
Any experienced anons here?
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you arent helping if you are playing along, you could ask her how she feels, a healthy person (mentally and physically) doesnt drink to the point where she has to hide it from her husband
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Well, that's not very easy to tell.
It's sold as a med for wellbeing. It has herbs in it and seems to be relaxing and comforting. Older people usually drink it. BUT: it has 79%, so actually almost twice as strong as vodka
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Whatever you do, just don't do what I've seen older men do when their wives are confronted about this shit.
Don't call them names, don't raise your voice, don't disrespect them. I've seen how men can further abuse a woman who's a good person but otherwise in a shitty part of her life and they don't deserve that.
Honestly I am so fucking done. Life is not fair at all. I am a 22 y.o virgin with horrible skin, an asymmetrical face, wide hips, acne scars all over my shoulders and back, no college education and nothing in my bank account. I live with my dad. I am never going to get a gf or be happy. I hate myself so much and every time i take a picture or look in the mirror I feel a rage inside of me and I just want to destroy everything. Whats the point in living if I'll never be good enough? I'll never know what it's like for someone to want me or feel genuine desire towards me. Nothing feels good anymore. How am I supposed to live like this..?
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>22 y.o. virgin
It gets so, so much worse. You can be 30 and virgin. Imagine, 32, no girlfriend, no sex, no job. What the fuck would you be?
Life's not fair but you're not fucked.
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>>18720606
Holy shit, what a faggot
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go attentionwhore on /soc/ you stupid cunt
you're attractive and you know it
sage
Going out with girl I met in class tonight.
Hardly know her.
I grew up in a cultural surrounding which values chivalry during outings.
>Bloke pays the bill
But then again i have realised that isn't always the case and it can be either patronising or too friendzonable.
I was never able to find a straight answer to this.
Also this girl has shown some odd/crazy behaviour while IMing. Not sure whether she gets it's a date.
>Does she know it's a date?
>Who pays?
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In general, if you invited her out, you take the bill. If the conversation is pic related, then hard to say what she sees it as. Don't worry about it too much and focus on having a good time. If she likes you it will become clearer soon and she will be looking forward to another date.
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>>18720503
>you ask out
>you pay
That is the mindset I was somewhat thought. But I also understand the mindset that a girl doesn't want to feel indebted to a guy after the first date.
>this cannot be so hard.
I have never liked explicitly using the word 'date', because that puts unnecessary pressure on both of us. That being said it can cause situations where stuff is ambiguous.
>we live 30min apart and she is driving over to meet me
Makes me think she realises it's a date.
Most I could do now is to later in the day write her
>are you ready for tonight?
>looking forward to tonight.
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youll need more than a sounds good to me, you only asked if tomorow evening is good
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I can't stop fantasizing about cheating on my girlfriend 2017-09-14 07:28:49 Post No.18720468
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I can't stop fantasizing about cheating on my girlfriend
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I feel very conflicted right now, very angry at myself, yet I can't stop it.
My girlfriend right now is more than just my girlfriend. She is my soulmate. Nobody gets me like she does. I want to be with her for the rest of my life. I want to have my children with her. She is the most important living thing in the world to me.
However, I can't stop thinking about how I want to have sex with other women. With my gf, me having sex with her is making love. But there are some girls I just want to fuck. I have one girl in particular who used to be a friend with benefits a while back, and she wants to do more of the same.
I just want to have sex with this other girl purely for pleasure. I find it hard to live a monogamous life because I just want to fuck for fun, does that make me a bad person? My girlfriend would be very upset with me if I cheated obviously, but then I think about how she would never find out. I don't want to hurt her, but I don't know how I can go the rest of my life only having sex with one woman.
I would just like any advice anyone could offer. Even if I sound like the biggest piece of shit right now.
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Try masturbating you degenerate fuck. If that doesn't work, why don't you just join the fuckin Marines?
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>>18720485
Nonconstructive posting belongs on /b/ or /pol/. Please go away.
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If you love her so much, confess her your problem