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Dating a married woman - Making a choice 2017-06-07 12:28:03 Post No.18394345
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Dating a married woman - Making a choice
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We have been dating since the start of February and I believe we are both very much in love. The problem is I know she also still loves her husband.
She has been married for 5 years although she hasn't been with him for around 2 years except for the occasional holidays to go visit him as he lives halfway across the world.
This is because his visa expired and he had to leave the country. He has tried on several occasions to reapply for a visa but has failed everytime. He has recently applied again and will hear news if he's accepted or not within the next 5 months.
The problem is she still speaks to him many times everyday and it's rather heartbreaking.
Should I ask her to make a choice between me and him to who she wants to spend her life with and risk losing her forever or should I just wait and hope her husbands visa is rejected knowing that she would then stay with me?
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>>18394345
'so you haven't realized yet that your a piece of shit for sleeping with another mans wife?
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>>18394345
>Should I ask her to make a choice between me and him to who she wants to spend her life with and risk losing her forever or should I just wait and hope her husbands visa is rejected knowing that she would then stay with me?
Ask her to chose.
You're nothing better than a 2 choice otherwise.
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>>18394345
What happened to men that they willingly share their SO with other men? Its not like there are no unattached women but men want only those with other dicks around. Baffling.
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Is there a 'normal social cues' youtube examples for asperger people? I saw this article:
>https://everydayaspergers.com/2014/05/05/10-ways-i-can-spot-and-aspie-girl/
And it really unsettles me how someone can tell i'm aspie just from my odd posturing and smile.
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this seems ... embellished
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it describes me really well besides the flowery parts at the end and some of the childish stuff.
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Anyone know any good autism blogs?
So a few weeks back, I ran in to this girl who I went to middle school with. She was, and still is pretty damn hot. We barely spoke in middle school but now she actually came up and spoke to me. We had a good conversation and walked the same way home. On the way she asked for my snapchat.
After this occasion we have been chatting pretty much daily on snapchat. She oftenly sends me somehting like "What's up :)" and then we talk. Then about a week later she started sending me some mildly flirty pictures. She has sent me pictures of her legs similar to pic related multiple times, when she is lying in her bed or in her backyard. I can't figure out if she is flirting or not. She just sent me a picture of her naked legs this morning with the text. Do girls just send pictures like that to guys without the intention of flirting?
I asked her last weekend if she would like to hangout or something but she couldn't because she had other plans. She hasn't asked me out a single time since we met. I can't tell if she wants the D but is just being incredible tease, or if she only wants to be friends.
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Also this one time I just happened to be shirtless when I sent her a selfie. The picture wasn't really showing off my body but it showed my shoulders and upper chest, and she replied with the "hearts as eyes" -emoji. I have an average face but I am pretty muscular and this just makes me feel like she wants to have sex with me even more.
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>>18394130
>if she only wants to be friends
Girl friends don't send their [straight] guy friends these photos. She's flirting/teasing/whatever. Give her a date, time and location and tell her you'll fuck her there at that time. Then do it.
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>I can't figure out if she is flirting or not.
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What the hell am I doing? 2017-06-07 10:03:53 Post No.18394100
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What the hell am I doing?
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Anyone ever stop and think " what the hell am I doing? ". That's my problem, I got zero fucking idea why I'm doing why I'm doing. I don't know how to explain why I feel this way, but I guess it has to do a mix of space and the fact I'll die. This makes me lose motivation for everything. Anyway to overcome this?
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whoa.... that's deep bro
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>Anyone ever stop and think " what the hell am I doing
Everyone ever
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>>18394100
Probably every day. At work. Work sucks. But then I stop to think what I'd rather be doing. That usually gets me out of it and continue as normal
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I'm gonna cold turkey Paxil.
When will my dick work again?
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that's a terrible idea, home-slice.
talk to your doctor first
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>>18394042
How long have you been taking it?
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>>18394042
Few weeks to few months.
But you will go crazy way sooner.
TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR FIRST you stupid frog poster.
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So there's this guy in my class. Kinda shy and a bit awkward but not stupid. But he acts kinda weird around me. Like when I'm sitting outside the class and there is no one else, he comes by and says hi, we exchange like 2 sentences and then he says sorry and walks off to make a call. Like he always goes to make a call when there is any interecation between us. Or when I'm sitting on a bench he sits like on the other end, leaving a metre of space between us. He sits for 3 minutes and then goes to make his call and I don't see him around until the class starts. Why he acts like this? Is it weird or am I overreacting?
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Sitting AT Other bench is normal for any stranger lol. What Kind of Planet did u life on.
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>>18393939
Ask him what he is doing on weekend. Then ask him for phone number and invite him to do something with you.
Dont forget to buy condoms.
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>>18393951
Yea but not when you're talking with your classmate lol
>>18393965
What? lol
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Moving out as a sperg 2017-06-07 07:10:11 Post No.18393874
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I'm 19 and admittedly kind of an autistic manchild. I have no idea how to be an adult and have avoided things like doing banking and booking appointments because I'm terrified. However, I do have a shitty part time job and have saved a bit of money and a friend and his gf want to get an apartment with me. Should I do it? Will it force me to stop being a retard or will it just crash and burn?
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first of all you are a complete normal intelligent human and don't focus too much on stuff like manchild,irresponsible,virgin,etc focus on task at hand it depends on if you wish for it you should never be persuaded by others for something and let me tell you you might not feel
at home with them due to they being a couple and you being alone they will exploit you and act like its their apartment if you are not desperate for a roof you should not do it but your money your decision try to answer politely and try to maintain a situation where you come out with equal or more profit K good luck for the life dude
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>>18393913
Another dude is going to move in a month or two after we do
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>>18393874
Bad idea to move with a couple, as they will always be right and have consensus about anything (2vs1). In a shared apartment you can learn a lot by asking how to do household things to your flatmate, parents friends etc...
My advice Rule n°1 and cause n°1 of trouble: do the dishes every time, never leave anything in the sink. Then you don't need to do much. Enjoy
After a few days of soul-searching and reflection, I've realized that all of my friends are my friends because we bonded over politics and after discussing and enjoying hearing our political observations and senses of humour we somehow got to trust each other and became able to become friendly about other topics and open up on about anything.
I've realized something though. Not a lot of people I know like talking about politics. I'm trying to make some new friends almost as excellent as my best friends (I have 4 people I consider very good friends). It makes wonder, how the hell do I befriend someone in the first place?
I'm asking because I'm tired of only being close with a few people and being quiet with everyone else. I'm trying my best to socialize with everyone and get close, but at the same time I don't understand how you make friends in the first place, I just talk with people passionately and jokingly about politics and if they like listening to me and having me listen and respond to them we become friends.
My style tends to lure some people in with my edginess and "out there" style and repel people who think I'm autistic. I'm around the middle of the social hierarchy, people generally like me or at least think I'm okay. The people who dislike me are generally not open about it. They think I'm a bit weird or "not right" (I know because a few times when I'm being myself I drive them to the point where they tell me they think I'm weird and I shrug it off).
I don't care to make everyone like me, but I want to make more really good friends and talking about just politics is limiting my options. What can I do?
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huh, you sound like me a bit.
idk man. I've had nerdy dnd friends but they ended up actually thinking they were witches. I've had business friends but they screwed me for money, I've had filthy hippy friends but they just smoke a lot of pot and if you're too serious about anything they don't want you around, its not great for your life progress.
I tried getting along with car people, but car culture is essentially dead on a local level these days unless you're talking street racers and that's not my crowd. normies are not into cars. I made the mistake of talking to someone that asked me specifically about my car and how I was into cars about how I did a bunch of stuff and it became immediately apparent they didn't actually care.
I think the thing is this, people that want to talk politics think differently and that is ultimately the deciding factor in whether or not people will make good friends is if they think similarly to you. not think the same things, but in similar ways.
way I see it there's two options, fake it to be friends with a bunch of people knowing eventually the friendship isn't going to work out, or find people that think like you.
me I'm friendly with basically everyone but there's few people that are long term. even the people that I was so close to I'd call them brothers back in highschool and college aren't around. just recognize that friends come and go save a few.
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>>18393861
>I just talk with people passionately and jokingly about politics and if they like listening to me and having me listen and respond to them we become friends
Bingo, you answered your own question OP. Let me break it down for you.
>I just talk with people
>and if they like listening to me and having me listen and respond to them
>we become friends
It is actually that simple. Good conversational skills and a genuine interest in learning about other people are the two big things that help in meeting people and making friends.
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>>18393892
Well, I'm not looking for fake friends, so I guess I'm better off with less friends that I like better. Your point about people only politics thinking differently from others it's really true, I can't believe I didn't realize it.
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I guess you're right. What else can I talk about besides politics though and would I be able to genuinely get interested in it? Maybe I could try something new and expand the number of people who I can talk passionately with.
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Sent a girl a friend request, no response. 2017-06-07 06:31:19 Post No.18393799
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Sent a girl a friend request, no response.
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About 12 hours ago, I sent a girl a friend request on Facebook. Still no response.
I worked with her yesterday and she kept saying "This could be the last time we see eachother" I felt like she would've just given me her number if she wanted to, but she didn't.
Seems like she hasn't posted anything on Facebook for about 8 months though. Should I DM her on insta? Is that kosher?
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do it man she was hinting it you have more than a chance
>calling is best to be honest
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>>18393815
I'll wait till Friday maybe.
That's when she said she was going on vacation.
I can say like "Hey 'x', have a nice time in 'y'."
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>>18393817
that's creepy just message like kinda missed you not being there so wanna hear from you
Am I totally wrong for not giving more girls a chance and instead holding out for girls I really like?
I feel like I'm wasting a girl's time if I don't like her already, but I never date anymore.
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Well it depends. Who are these girls you're rejecting/writing off, and why are you doing it?
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>>18393756
*ahrug*
I'm of the opinion that dating people just to meet more people is a good thing.
Go out to have an interesting time meeting a new person with a different take on life.
Meeting more people can only help expand your own worldview and broaden your exposure to life.
That is not at all a bad thing, and occasionally you catch a pleasant surprise, or at least a funny story to move forward with your life with.
The worst thing in life is to put yourself in a box where you feel like you know it all. It limits you and warps you in an unhealthy way that limits you from finding, understanding, and truly valuing the things that truly mean the most to you.
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I say give everyone more of a chance. People are surprising.
> wasting a girl's time
If she decided to go on a date with you it isn't a waste. There's always something positive to learn from a date no matter how bad it goes.
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2017-06-07 06:09:02 Post No.18393733
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So I need to get a car soon to get back and forth to work finishing class for electrical engineering and will need transportation im trying to get a auto loan with a credit union I could roughly make 1600- 1800 a month would it be a smart decision to get a Dodge avenger 2010-2013 as my first car cause I really want it almost willing to settle for nothing else but would insurance maintenance gas repairs not be worth it in the long run vs some of the more trusted brands for used cars like Honda Accord and Toyota Camry cause parts would be cheaper cause there so comon of cars
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Your entire post is one sentence.
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>>18393733
Follow your heart. You only live once!
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>>18393738
Bro is an electrical engineer not an English major.
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What to do with my life? 2017-06-07 06:01:41 Post No.18393711
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Hi. I'm a 20 year old who still lives in his hometown with his parents. I've never had a job. I was attending a local community college until about a year ago. Now I do nothing. It's killing me.
I need to move to a new city as soon as possible, somewhere I can live on my own and attend a CC on my own. Somewhere I could get a job with minimal experience. My parents said they would support me as long as I'm going to school and they'd pay for me to move and pay for my first 6 months while I'm looking for a job/waiting to enroll in classes. Sounds great right?
I don't know where to start. I don't know where to go, what to study. I don't know how to make new friends. I don't know how to get an apartment, I don't know how to pick good roommates, I don't know anything. And nobody seems to want to help.
I feel myself wasting away and going crazy while I'm stuck here. Staying here is not an option, the sooner I can escape and be independent the better. I'd like to move to an urban environment where I can more easily get out and meet new people.
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Uh, why can't you get a job where you are?
>Staying here is not an option, the sooner I can escape and be independent the better.
Sounds like you're just looking for an excuse to continue to be a manchild
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It sounds like you're parents are really trying to help, have you asked them how to be more outgoing?
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>>18393711
what is your field arts,commerce or science
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I think my brothers son may have autism 2017-06-07 05:54:09 Post No.18393691
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I think my brothers son may have autism
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Maybe I'm reading to much into it.
But he has hit milestones a little slow, walking, grasping, words. About 2-3 months behind.
But has odd tendencies. He's obsessed with fans and spinning things, he stacks blocks, but only likes to stack them in groups of two. I've noticed he's very peculiar about what he touches, he doesn't like certain textures and seems to need to observe things for a long time before he trys it.
Not sure if those are sign, but I wanted to bring it up to my brother, but I wasn't sure how or if those are really signs.
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>>18393691
yo what the fuck why you looking at a kids tendencies? you some kind of pedafile?
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>>18393691
When I was a toddler, I would put a bunch of little plastic animals in a line that would stretch across rooms. If anyone accidentally bumped into one, I'd find it and get upset about it.
Now I'm older, and I am definitely autistic. Good luck with your brother
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>>18393691
its normal just leave him be not every bird is supposed to fly and stop being paranoid about him he is a goo kid for now just stay happy with that
What kind of doctor or specialist do I need to see for speech impairments or stuttering issues?
I feel like I can't talk unless I have everything rehearsed in my head ahead of time. I can usually tell on a basic agree / disagree level how I feel about something but struggle with words. My speech also slurs sometimes and I use the wrong words when I'm speaking without rehearsing. No one I talk to seems to understand and all my google searches return doctors for children.
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this won't be helpful, but i love that card
also, i have conversations planned out in my head with other people all the time, it gets pretty autistic when im in an actual conversation and trying to hit all the points i rehearsed
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Time to splash some blue so you can control the conversation.
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They're called speech therapists. They do help with stutters and stammers, but some of your problems might also be some kind of ADD.
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Ever since I got "shocked" into being disgusted with porn, girls, and sex, I've been doing nofap. I'm now on day 6, and I feel ok overall, but every night I just feel miserable and lonely. It's not so much me being disgusted with girls or sex, but rather I feel like I am missing out by being a virgin and not being able to have sex. But heres the thing, I just don't feel like jerking off anymore. Before id masturbate like twice a day, now i just dont fucking care enough to anymore. I'm 6 days clean without any effort besides feeling crappy and dejected when I go to bed every night.
What the fuck do I do? I've looked at porn multiple times today and I literally couldn't care less. I didn't get hard nor did I want to.
But last night I dreamt that Ariana Marie and Sophie Dee (two pornstars im familiar with) were sucking my dick. So, yeah, im on some other shit apparently.
I have no idea how to stop feeling so lonely and shit. I've tried MEETING girls but its hard as fuck. I literally have liked like 100+ girls on tinder in the past 2 days and got 0 matches when I used to get a decent amount. I tried OKcupid, Bumble, got nothing and one match on bumble but you cant message the girl has to and she probs wont.
There's this nice girl in my class that I talk to and she seems to like me but I swear I just don't get an appropriate opportunity to ask her if she wants to study together for the next test or something, you know, some excuse to be together. Like I swear im trying I just dont get a good opportunity to ask
Holy fuck just end my shit senpai
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>>18393625
fuCK
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>>18393625
Curious, how'd did you get "shocked"?
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>>18393655
I listened to a girl tell me her sexcapades and some of them were downright gross honestly
now ive come down from it and i dont think shes gross, i dont think her sexcapades were that bad (except for one of them i still think is fucked up) but i still dont want to fap