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>>18399558
>i just lost two friends today.
no you didn't, you lost two people who you wasted some time with. friends don't attack you over petty shit or just walk out of your life because you defend yourself. you won't feel good about it for some time, but you are better off. good luck, anon.

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He just punched you out of nowhere? No warning or anything? And she took his side despite this?

Fuck them OP, you're all immature but at least you admit how stupid that was. My advice is to move on. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone pretty enough to fucking punch me because I like the same girl as them. Nor would I want to be friends with someone that would walk out on me for defending myself. You're gonna feel like trash for a bit, but time heals all wounds. Just remember that you're better off. Godspeed

>>18399592
Petty enough*
Phone posting is a terrible meme

Buuuump

I study and write about [whatever you're blogging or shitposting about]. I work in [general field].

No need to be specific. They don't care anyway.

>>18399525
Just say you're in between jobs.

Alternatively, say you were recently laid off and naturally people won't ask anymore about that

Take a step back and look at yourself. Are you and interesting person that people want to hang out with?
If you're not, just accept that you're weird and do the best damn job for that paycheck. You're not there to make friends.

>>18399464

But I need to mesh with the others to be considered a good worker. We seem to have friendly enough conversations but I still can't fight the fear that they secretly dislike/hate me or something.

I was doing find until today but all of a sudden it became this huge problem that I can't stop thinking about.

>>18399486
You're rushing this thing a little bit too much, at least wait for 3 months before assuming everyone hates you. Did something bad happened on your previous job?

>>18399422
sounds psychological. personally I hate condoms. I haven't even learned how to get off with them - most girls I've been with have been on one or two contraceptive methods themselves.

Just relax and keep trying on different occasions, with different people etc.

You are not the only one, just have sex with girls that are on the pill, and be sure they are std free

>>18399433
yeah, i think that condoms are so uncomfortable that squeezed my dick
>>18399437
thx man good to know that i was really worry about it

Cut ties, block social media and phone.
Perhaps move if they are close by and could show up at your door.
It hurts even more if you leave a line of communication open.

go meet some new people keep yourself busy make art even if you suck etc

>>18399441
>>18399406
Been doing both of these things for like eight months unfortunately.

>>18399368
Eat shit and go fucking fuck yourself nigga

>>18399368
I just fucked up my relationship like that... after a half year of fun got in relationship again... is hard for me to cum, and when I'm alone I enjoy jerking. It's mean I couldn't solve it :-(

>>18399368
You just need to stop masturbating period. Retrain yourself and your brain. "like it's heroin" you answered your own question. If you value your relationship then end this.

>Apart from that, how could I ensure that I end up living happily ever after with her?

Don't get married.

In just one paragraph you're asking multiple major questions that needed long answers.

Just take one step at a time. Secure your financial security first; that's a big task on its own.

>>18399366
>Meaning, what are the do's and don'ts of holy matrimony?

There's no magic guide. It's all between you and her. What works for one couple breaks another, what would fix one couple's marital problems could tear another apart.

This is especially impossible to answer when you're not even dating anyone.

>>18399325
Bump

>>18399325
start exercising; your body might not be used to the strain. it might not seem like you're doing a lot at work if you're sitting at a desk, but you use up a lot of energy.

either this or you might need to change your diet/might have a vitamin deficiency. make sure you're eating consistently and healthy. stop drinking coffee if it's not helping you; too much caffeine can have the opposite effect.

make sure you're getting the same amount of sleep each night and get on a schedule; if you have an uneven sleep schedule, your body can't properly repair itself and will borrow from the next day's energy, making you more prone to being tired.

if you've tried all this, you might be stressed as fuck and need to focus on finding ways to destress and cope better.

>>18399325
i work 7am to 5pm... gotta just keep your self busy,get on a schedule.

>>18399317
She probably loves you but takes the d from somewhere else

can you explain?>>18399338

>>18399317

Not enough information to proceed.

>haven't had sex in three months
>she's in contact with her ex
>convinced ex somehow got her a job

Details left out:

>how long you two have been dating
>how long she has had her job at the tech company
>how long she was in contact with ex before you caught her
>how long she dated ex
>why you two haven't had sex in the last 3 months (distance? Time? Emotional issues?)

>>18399239
>I told her it's okay, no rush, just take some time okay have a break and that I won't bother with other girls, to which she says nah you go ahead
>she goes to a new school
>breaks up

Yeah dude, uh, hate to break it to you but she already knows the relationship is dead because if you two are going to separate schools, you aren't going to be seeing each other very often. And you're probably going to break up anyway because long distance relationships tend to fail because the temptations of what's around you in close proximity outweigh waiting for the LDR.

She probably told you to move on because she's going to do the same.

I'm sorry to tell you this but she's going to move on and part of that is she wants to be fucked like a whore.
You'll be denial like you are now and you'll be in pain because she was your first but make no mistake she thinks she can do better and will move on.
You need to pick yourself up and make something of your life instead of wallowing in self pity and being a weeb wasting oxygen.
I don't know if you're stupid enough to want her back knowing she's swallowed another man's cum but if you're smart you'll move on.
Sort your life out make something of it, you'll meet someone else.
I am right no matter what any of these autists say

>>18399302
Sorry forgot to mention, but distance isn't an issue, we're still within 3 miles of each other even with the new school.

>>18399309
She's not like that though. I know reading this story from the outside it seems that way coz that shit happens often and yeah the guy is in denial, but she definitely isn't like that. She knows anyway if she tries anything with anyone else there'd never be a chance and she said she doesn't want anything. And I'm actually out her league and better than any guy she's been with (without sounding like an ass). I gave her orgasms all the time and she loved sucking my dick etc.

>>18399201
just be friends with them and don't get emotionally attached to them. Be there for them but don't care if they do shit like that. Just disconnect yourself from them and learn to function without them.

>>18399201
I feel you. You can always test their interest by not initiating conversations or not trying to invite them to places.

And if they don't do shit then just ditch them. It's better to be alone than with shit people that make you feel miserable.

You can always make new friends but I guess that you've already gotten this advice numerous times.

>>18399389
The thing about making friends is I find it hard to start the conversations (unless I'm really eager to talk to them.) Once that part it over, I can socialize all day and night, but just the initiation... I'm just bad at coming up with things to talk about.

It's a catch 22.
Much easier to have sex if you don't view it as degenerate. You're less likely to view it as degenerate if you actually have sex.

You're basically halfway there to being a serial killer, if that cheers you up at all.

>>18399136
>How do i stop viewing sex as morally reprehensible and degenerate?
Just don't, stupid.

>How do i stop viewing sex as morally reprehensible and degenerate?
You change your views of sex, or you change your views that constitute your general idea of what's 'reprehensible and degenerate'.

>Moreover, how do i lose my virginity?
You have sex. You satisfy the necessary and sufficient conditions for sex to happen between two people:

- you're in a room alone together
- you like each other
- you know each other
- maybe you've been on a few dates
- maybe you share common interests
- she finds you charming and funny and feels safe around you
- etc. etc.

Does that make sense?

>>18399034
It's the most normie kink on the planet

>>18399034
Very common
I've yet to meet a woman who doesn't like beimg manhandled in bed like a little whore
They just call it being "treated like a woman" when it's in the sack

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If I'm in a new relationship and we are having sex, should I just go for it and pull her hair or should I talk to her about it first

lol you were too beta to make a move on your first date and now you got friendzoned.

she's not interested. move on. either she'll come around or she won't. don't waste time waiting on her when you could be crushing something else.

>>18399078
This.

Move on, it's not even daddy issues, you struck out and got put in the non-viable category. She doesn't want anything from you, but doesn't want to go through the effort of informing you.

In that case you need higher chair, preferably ones where your heels doesn't touch the floor.

>>18399033
i have had it sience long before the first time it happened.

>>18399017
Its normal. Drink more water, have a banana, move around more.