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I made a thread the other day about this guy who said he all the sudden doesn't like me like that. So I texted him tons of stuff like trying to
Interpret why he all the sudden felt like this. Literallt before this happened, he would say he's in love with me, when he's drunk he said he loved me, stuff like that etc. then all the sudden he says he just doesn't like me the same way and it really hurt.

I kinda feel like it was after I went out with his friends and I was really akward the whole time Bc when I went out w my ex's friends he wouldn't let me talk to anyone so I literally have to learn how to communicate with people again idk. The next morning he looked at me different and started acting diff since. Or it could be from other stuff, that something about my physically or whatver he doesn't like and is coming to terms with it now.

I asked him to block me so I could move on and he refused to block me. He said he felt guilty and felt really bad about all of it. But after sending him like fifty texts just trying to figure out why, I finally just said "well im just gonna block you so I can move on, and not hope that you Change your mind" I blocked him and that was that. A couple hours later he called me on a fake number. Wtf? He said he felt bad I was going nuts& wanted to explain& wanted to be there for me Bc he still cares about me& basically said the same things "I don't like u like that" then he said he just like dating lots of ppl there's nothing wrong with me, then he said he's only liked two girls in his life and it's just how he's wired. I asked him more question about stuff he said before and he was like I don't know I wasn't lying no was just drunk and stuff. I said okay and told him that I'm blocking him so I can move on and he needs to respect that and not call me ofher numbers. He said okay, and then he said talk to you later, and I was like I'm not talking to you later but okay bye and he said bye.
Like can someone help me out here
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>>18721309


Also He was looking at my Instagram stories still on a fake account which is weird i think. He said if I was any other girl he would just cut her off and say bye and never talk to her again but he cares about me so he didn't wanna do that to me. And I was like
Well if you realy care about me why are you saying you don't like me like that? And he said no I just care about you as a friend.


Should I just stop thinking about this and block him and move on?
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I kinda just wanna improve my life and put it all over Instagram and never speak to him again as revenge
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>>18721309


Can someone help me pls

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I'm going on a date with an artsy girl on Sunday but were both pretty awkward. Nervous as fuck, have no clue what to do with her/places to go.
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Art Museums? A play?
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>>18721303
Just ask her what she'd like to do. If shes an art student she might want to get out of the art bubble for awhile.
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>>18721368
Fucking dinosaur

Take her to a movie or something where you dont have to force .

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I am a girl with a problem. I love both my boyfriend (M) and his best friend(A). This makes me suffering because I don't think it's normal and I shouldn't cheat on M. Tell me your opinion about this question.

(Just in case, you must know that I like more M than A and I don't want to break up with M)
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I think I'm your heart/head you know what you want to do.

I think you will eventually either lose this crush or cheat on M. Give it time and let it pass.

If you cheat just tell your boy M
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>>18721299

OK, thanks :)
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Oh wait what, a girl wants multiple dicks because she is confused about emotions?
Shut it down.

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So pic related who used to date my friend is stuck at a halfway house in Philidelphia and asked me for a ride to Poughkeepsie NY to be with dad (who I guess cant drive). Besides a twenty minute phone call last night and the fact she used to date my friend I barely know her and shes never given me the time of day. Now she has no one and is hoping Ill make the 5 hour journey to get her home. Im considering doing it even though I get nothing from it, just for the adventure. Would you take a 5 hour trip for a girl you barely know just out of boredom?
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For me, you can do whatever you want, even have a 5 hour journey: if you don't try, you won't know what's your future dealing you...
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Lol gross hell no dont do it. 5 hours of listening to some nasty junkie pratyle on and on
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>>18721280
I wouldn't

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>invited to first party >lots of normies want me to go >my whole year level is going, even the nerds >don't like anyone >am extremely socially awkward
please help what do I do, do I go? What if it's a big joke on me or I get in a fight or worse?? Is it bad if I just stay home, I feel like after school finishes everyone will just forget about me anyway
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Don't worry and continue living your life as normal. :D
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If you go, no makes big deal abouts it. In case yous have more elaborate and exciting plans can skips the festivities. If needs outspells: no makes big deal abouts party. also no makes big deals about you if you goes. Dance have a beer. That is party. Kiss the girl. No has one, just pick one. That is party. Beings klingy killjoy is bad.
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Go, sithe down, and slowly sip on a beer while talking with people. There's always a few people who aren't that into the party but went anyway, find them and hang out. No one is gonna set up a whole party to prank you.

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What respectable job can a 25 year old with no degree get?

Im sick of working all these McJobs, i just want a job that i can proudly tell people about. Every ICT related job which i could easily do requires a degree in some field and i never went to University.
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...ahahaha
You are mighty confused there man.
Theres more to life than jobs and youre halfway through the best 10 years of your life.
Think about that next time you fill out an app.
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>>18721251
Thats all well and good Mr.Moneybags but im poor and need to work.
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>>18721260
Keep telling yourself that. Wage slave away anon. You'll thank yourself in another 5 years.
Right?

After many years of interviewing and applying, I finally got myself an IT help desk job.

Unfortunately I fucked that up and was just fired yesterday after only five days.
I feel terrible. I feel lost. I have no idea what I can do other then going back to same routine of applying to as many IT jobs as possible and hoping one of them will end up taking me but I fear that I will once again be unable to land any kind of job and maybe never get hired again. The alternative would be to find something non-IT related but I have zero clue what I would be qualified to do other then retail as that is the only other experience I have (even though I am no good at that either).

What can I do?
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What did you do?
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>>18721223
Why were you fired? Whatever you did wrong must be addressed if you want to move forward productively from this anon.
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>>18721292
>>18721255
from what I remember (I was really distraught so I didn't hear everything) was that I appear to be "asleep with my eyes open" while at my desk and that I was caught on my phone too often. Other stuff I can only assume, such as having trouble dealing with basic it problems some of the users where having (I could of solved them but I was super nervous at the time so I came off as not knowing anything) and possibly not showing enough initiative to do more work (the entire time the only thing they had me do was set up a bunch of PC's and laptops with software and I was pretty bored an annoyed that I wasn't being given more work in between).

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Last night I spilled water on my MacBook Air, and I know Apple is finicky about hardware issues.

Now, after letting it dry with a towel and fan over night, it's not turning on. I don't want to plug it into my charger at the risk of shorting it out.

What do? Is there any hope? This laptop has been my best friend for 1.5 years
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>>18721217
Put it in a bucket of rice.
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>>18721220
Open or closed?
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>>18721217

put a donk on it

old british trick

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Should I worry about getting into a good college or should I just focus on getting an education?
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what do you want to do? what might you want to make a career out of?
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All college that aren'tt ivy league or world renowned provide about the same level of education

It's really your professors that matter
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>>18721161
Wow I fucked that first sentence up

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>Get bank account with large sum of money in it from third party (I assume it might be hacked)
>Transfer it to a paypal account that can't be traced to me
>Use it to buy my own recordings on bandcamp using "name your price"
>Get a legit check from Bandcamp that looks legit by the government

I'd only access the bank accounts and the paypal in places I can't be traced. The only downside I see is Bandcamp taking some of my money with their taxes.
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>>18721133
>paypal account that can't be traced to me
>can't be traced
>can't
How mich stupid are you and how many years in prison are you facing?
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>>18721133
Everything is taped, recorded and traced and will be used against you, including this thread.
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>>18721133
>no mention of using vpn or doing things at starbucks
>regardless will still get in trouble for not reporting suspecious activity that directly benefits you
The transaction will get flagged when you try to get the money out of the bank too quickly. You would have to do it over a large time frame which will give them opportunity to find you. Once you get it into paypal you will still need a way to give it to yourself in a way that doesnt directly tie you to the account. Its better to buy bitcoin and give it to yourself and then just take it out as you need it so the IRS doesnt get suspicious.
This all depends on how large a sum of money it is.

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"Just be yourself"

How do you deal with this when you're rapidly improving your life and the people closest to you are uncomfortable with it or assume you're being inauthentic? It seems like outwardly they want me to succeed but they don't like the more self-assured powerful version of me.
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>>18721117
Are you sure its not because you are getting cocky and they dont like your new personality?
Your dnd friends arent going to want to hear about your work outs and diet plans but once you start improving yourself then you are going to want to talk about it with someone to validate yourself.
You could be turning into that vegan faggot of the group.
Alternatively some people dont like to compared to people who might be better than them. They clump around other shitty people so they can feel better. So when one person steps out of line they want to encourage them but they will start to resent them.
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>>18721126
(not OP here) nope, this is a phenomenon. People get unfomfy when people change for the good. Shows them others can do it while they're being lazy.
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>>18721141
This is just what frog posters want you to think.
I work out and have friends who are twice as big as me and while there are people who hate they arent the people who you normally already know.
The people you think are jealous are usually mad because you no longer do the things they enjoyed doing with you. Its impossible to keep major changes in your life from effecting your personality.

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>Banned from every club/bar in my college town

All because of a couple drunken mistakes that I now deeply regret. How can I stop my social life from being ruined?
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Change town, start new. You're the town's drunk, it won't go away.
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Are you a nigger? If so, go eat some watermelon and KFC and drink your PURPLE DRANK and fuck off.
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>>18721084
It depends on what you mean by "a couple drunken mistakes".

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Please help, /adv/.

My boss is starting to develop paranoid delusions. I work for a small company, she is the owner, and I am one step down from her, so there is nobody else to report to.

It started a few weeks ago, when she started dealing with some health problems. She began acting erratically in meetings. We made jokes about it being the medications, which she wasn't used to.

But as her symptoms got better, her behavior got worse. She has started thinking that employees are out to get her or undermine her work. She has also started making major scheduling mistakes.

For the last few years, she has been great to work for, there was no problems. She ran the company successfully. I'm worried that her recent illness damaged her brain somehow.

What do I do, anons? Anyone who confronts or challenges her recently, she gets suspicious of.
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she still taking the medication?
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>>18721065
Maybe she just needs to get laid OP. Does your boss by any chance like you?
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>>18721083

No. The meds were discontinued awhile ago.

>>18721086

Ha! - she is a cougar.I don't dip my pen in the company ink, though. Plus, she seems pretty paranoid about her boyfriends right now as well.

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I have a false aligation against me at University. Don't know what to do. I've considered getting a layer or just shooting myself. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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shoot yourself
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>>18720999
Holy shit first trips
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>>18720999
Murder suicide.
Leave a note explaining that she lied and forced you into a situation that you had no choice but to kill yourself and you decided to take her out also.

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I want to kill myself but preserve my organs for donation. What is the best method to achieve this?
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>>18720996
Why do you want to kill yourself? Best way is to be in a coma right at the hospital so they can harvest your organs while you are still alive.
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by being discovered and able to be medically attended to pretty much immediately. so write note, tape to chest, walk into hospital emergency room unit, blow head off, traumatize the absolute fuck out of every poor bastard there to witness it, ???, profit!!!

why do you wanna kill yourself?
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>>18721004
Thats dumb. You would be super uncomfortable the whole time and the ice will help clot your blood so you can be saved.

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