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Where would you live if you could South Korea or Japan, and why?
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korea because people aren't social degenerates.
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You've made this thread (or very similar ones) at least three times in the past two days. There's literally one active in the fucking catalogue right now. Why can't you just confine yourself to one fucking thread at a time and stop shitting up the board?
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South Korea because living on an island is a death sentence. Not to mention the racism against foreigners and the whole Japanese work culture disgust me.

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I am 26 and the girl I want to date is 20. Is that gap too weird?

I am so caught up in not being weird that I come off as uneasy. To be honest, a 26 year old dating a 20 year old female seems predatory. I do like her though but would prefer a woman my age or older.

What are your thoughts?
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20 is a legal adult so idk how it is predatory.
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>>18404542
Who the fuck cares? All that matters is they're legal.
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>>18404542
I will be 26 soon and i wouldnt bother with girls under ~23. Why? They tend to be super dumb / naive / cock carousels / not looking for serious relationships.

But if you find your girl fancy, sure, why not? Just dont expect her to become your wife. Buy condoms.

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My new boss is an illegal who married the business owner's daughter, and runs the business into the ground. He still thinks he is in mexico, and threw a temper tantrum, when we were moving a 60 lb concrete lid, my foot got crushed, and is now broken...

Am I going to get fired because of this, and have 0 recourse?
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>>18404515
You file for workmans comp
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>>18404518
is that unemployment?
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>>18404515
Call a personal injury lawyer.

SEARCH "personal injury lawyer + your city & state"

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Korean or Japanese is harder to learn?

And which country would you live?

Why does it feel like Japan stuck in 2000 and Korea is a better version of USA?
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The Korean alphabet is a lot easier to learn, Japanese has a lot more characters. I don't know enough about either to decide where I'd live, though I heard if there is ever an outbreak of war between North Korea and the US, that North Korea will abduct Americans from South Korea to hold hostage
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Hearing Korean for the first time...

It was hard to tell the syllables apart despite years of listening to Japanese anime.
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>>18404493
The languages are of comparable difficulties. Honestly, the difficulty doesn't matter as much as your interest level, they're both alien enough to a native English speaker that they're going to require a pretty hefty time investment to learn, so you need to really be interested in the country and culture to keep your motivation up.

Japanese does have a more difficult writing system; grappling with that might tack on six months to a year to your learning process (given dedicated study). Korea is a little more xenophobic, although you will experience some xenophobia and ignorance in both countries. It's not too bad, though, and you'll have to deal with that as a westerner in literally any Asian country, even Taiwan.

>Why does it feel like Japan stuck in 2000 and Korea is a better version of USA?
It doesn't. I seriously have no clue what you mean. Genuinely not trying to pick a fight, but have you even been to Asia?

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I can't make anyone happy and it really bothers me

I dated a girl and I absolutely fell in love we took each other's virginitys and it was all fine
I broke up with her because I know I was making her sad but I didn't know why
Then we started talking again and we did more stuff like blowjobs and fingering
She thought I just wanted her for sex and she felt walked on
Told me all that the day she ended things with me
Now she doesn't talk to me
Said she's in therapy and she's unhappy because of me
She even cut when we were together
Btw she has depression and anxiety really bad
So now she has a new guy and apparently he makes her really happy

I love her but I can't talk to her and I can't make her happy so is there anything I can do
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you can move on with your life.
and try not to fall in love with the next chick that tickles your fancy.

also, it's not your fault she cut. you didn't put the blade in her hand and tell her to do it. those are serious fucking red flags, my guy (inability to take responsibility for one's actions, deliberate self-harm). you dont need that shit in your life
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>>18404387
u cant do shit OP stop, cut contact and find someone new

remember: never stick dick in crazy
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>>18404387
Sounds like you only wanted her for sex.

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My upstairs neighbors have some sort of schedule where they are active 12am-8am. The woman is some sort security guard and I've seen her coming home at 9pm. They have loud sex and floors are thin (I can hear their springs). Usually I can sleep through it, but once in a while the woman decides to be a real moaner. Last night they had sex at 3am and 6am and woke me up both times so I'm fucking pissed. How should I handle this?
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>>18404309
Talk to them first
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Broom ceiling
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>>18404309
earplugs

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>know a girl whos an ultravirgin since i was like 15-16
>5 feet tall asian girl, masturbates with clit cant even penetrate
>has a huge complex about virginity and thinks she'll never get laid
>is cool and fun to talk to
>hyper self-aware and never a bitch, adamant on not being a bitch
>is 20 but looks 15
>severe social anxiety, had to introduce her to all her friends (definition of a female robot)

basically, i don't think i can date her because we're in a friend group of like 4-5 other guys who think all females are dumb and annoying except her, and there's no way i'm special enough to be the one that dates her because the ratio is just too fucked up


i can't get into any other girls because they just piss me off, most of them

1. lack self awareness
2. lost their virginity at like 14 and fuck lots of dudes
3. are 20 but look 30
4. are boring and annoying to talk to
5. are a bitch

i found a rare earth mineral by accident when i was 15 and now i compare every girl to her and cant ever get into a relationship

do girls like i listed there exist? i just figured she by some sort of freak accident in the uterus developed the brain of a permavirgin robot male while being a moderately cute asian girl, and she's part of the 2% of girls who are meant to be FtMs (but aren't FtMs). the problem is the supply of these girls is too low and the demand of them is too fucking high
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>>18404278
Stop being an idiot and just date her, jeez
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>>18404278
Stop being sooo beta, anon, gather your courage and ask her out
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>>18404278

What tf is wrong with you?!

Just ask her out.

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I'm entering my freshman year of college in September, and I'm currently on-track to enter the CS major there. I really enjoy programming; in fact, I've been doing so on my own for about two years, and as such, am somewhat good at it (though by no means have I mastered it). I created my schedule with my advisor, and was placed in the introductory CS class that seems considerably below my skill level, with no possibility of entering the higher one without completing this one. I understand that this a few of waste-of-time classes are basically guaranteed as part of the college experience, however.

I'm also very interested in math, though I haven't self-studied it as intensively as CS. Looking down the road at a career, I feel like a job in math (probably research of some type) would be more meaningful to me than being some code monkey at a massive company.

I have about three months to freely add/drop classes, though about an entire semester to think about this, considering that the first semester would be pretty similar between either of those two majors. What are your thoughts?
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>>18404251
My thoughts:

>take some CS and some math classes
>if you don't like math -> great, problem solved

>being a code monkey isn't the only type of job that is available

>most math majors I know either work in some underpaid research position or work as a software dev
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>>18404251
The best programmers created their own jobs. We don't care how good you are doing parent and nested for loops. Or you that you can build an algorithm to suck your own dick. You need to build stuff that people want to pay for or you're useless. And that will end eventually.

We only have so many naive idiots with bank loans that want to "build an app and become a millionaire bro, it will be great bro, trust me it will happen overnight like Mark Fuckerberg bro"
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>>18404390
bad advice, just try both OP

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Very long and emotional post about my life. Sorry, I just needed to get it off my chest, I dont have anyone to tell my troubles to.

I live in small country in the former Eastern Europe. I am currently studying on a high school, not really the best one I could pick, I seem to struggle in certain subjects (mathematics), but that's no really point of this thread. I'm the typical 5/10 edgelord sitting in the back of the class you could imagine. I wear only black clothes, listening to metal, redpilled fag who is being accused of being a nazi all the time. I have been mocked since elementary school by my schoolmates because of my small height, mu interrests and feelings. I don't have any friends anymore, not since all my friends started hanging out with the favorite ones, drinking alcohol, smoking weed etc.. I have never been invited to parties, noone ever asked me or took it seriously. I don't have need to go on parties, but it still touches my heart because no one in the class really gives a shit about me.
Part 2 in the comments
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Since the freshman year, I love one girl (my classmate). She knew about my feelings, but didn't care at all. This school year has been different, we started talking a lot, also hanging out sometimes. She got me to places I would never go, also did things I would never do, for example drinking and smoking. She surely has "bad influence" on me, but I don't care. I realised I love her more than anything I know. Me falling in love has been the biggest mistake I have ever done. Wonder why? She's got a new boyfriend, and she's telling me about him, she doesn't seem to be loving him that much, but still. She's 17, he's 24. Im 18 by the way. She clearly sees me as friend only, I never ever hanged out with a girl before, so I'm happy I can be a friend atleast, but at the same time, that agony is crippling me more and more every day. It is harder for me to think about anything else but her in the past days, I can't sleep, I can't eat properly. I've cut myself a little to feel different kind of pain, didn't help obviously.
I can't do this any longer. I feel like telling her no matter the consequences is the best option, I am sure she would say no, but still see me as a friend who she likes. If so, I wouldn't be able to hang out with her anymore, my heart is always on fire every time I look her in the eyes.
There is no way I can lose contact with her for another few years since she's my classmate and I see her every day in school.
There's probably only one way out of this misery.
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You're so close to her already so why don't you just go ahead and be who she wants, only through a sudden change her feelings could change aswell.
Most of your post is whining though that's annoying to read
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Normie advice would be to hit the pub

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So I'm board and suicidal and the only thing I can do to distract myself is play games.
I want to get a gaming laptop. But I don't have the money. Seriously thinking about this:
Buy gaming laptop (about $3kAUD) through paypal.
They can't collect so call them and make payment arrangement to pay it off.
I used to work in debt collection in Australia and know that it depends on the client if things go on credit history. So even if I did get sent to collectors I know that I could get away with paying a small amount.
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>>18404057
Before you make a debt you wont be able to pay off, consider
>stopping playing games as an escape from life problems
>getting job
>getting friends
>talking to parents
>growing up
>getting shrink or psycholog to boost your mental health

Good luck!
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>>18404057
>sucidal
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>>18404057
I can smell you are white from over here


>depressed
>no will
>videogames
>debntz

Yeah you are white alright
Tl dr: White people problems


Truth: not actually a problem

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broke up with my gf about 3 weeks ago but found out shes been trying to get with other lads already so I'm basically shagging anything that comes my way

So I had a strong 8.5-9/10 at my house last night and we basically just watched Netflix and flirted all night but about an hour before she left we ended up making out, which is great but I tried basically start rubbing her clit but she told me no

Am I an asshole for trying to move so quickly?
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>>18403999
No, typically that should've led to sex in my experience. She's in your room watching Netflix ffs.
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>>18404000
I made it clear to her that I'm after a friend with benefits, not much more. My ex and I literally fucked after knowing each other for a fortnight.
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>>18403999
Casual sex is garbage and wont fill hole in your chest left by your ex.

>You will walk away from her when she has violated your integrity, and you will let her walk when her heart is closed to you. She who can destroy you, controls you. Don’t give her that power over yourself. Love yourself before you love her.

Be single for sime time. At least you wont catch aids and alimony in the process.

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How have you guys done when going from regular porn use to having an actual girl to have sex with?

I heard from friends that their performance was ruined by all that porn use. How the fuck do I prepare and avoid fucking up because my dick is used to regular faps and porn?

Anyone here have experience with this switch? how to increase libido advice also welcome.
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>>18403995
Stop watching porn entirely.
Fap once in a while (not every day) with your imagination and GENTLE pulling skin up and down, no deathgrip.

https://yourbrainonporn.com/

Good luck.
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>>18404009
holy shit
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>>18404009
honestly thank you so much

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hi im on probation at the moment and ive been told that im going to be tested for drugs with a new test (DDS2 Saliva test) and i would like to know how long is the detection time and how to pass it
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>>18403988
Drugs are ILLEGAL. Stop violating the law.

If you dont like it, go into politics and legalize it.
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>>18403988
>how long is detection time

Depends on:
What drug theyre looking for
How much you did
How much you do regularly
When and how much you did last time.
Your height and body weight
Your indidual body's ability to metabolise said drug..


And before you provide me all that information, i dont know the formula and i cant begin to speculate. The research is on you.

But it doesn't matter either because theyre gonna test you regardless and nothing you can do will change the result except doing no drugs at all until the test is over. Its totally out of your hands.
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>>18403988
>how to pass it
Don't do drugs while you're on probation moron.

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Well it began in Las Vegas. I was excited, but meeting woman was not on my list, I was in a 2 year relationship and I loved my girlfriend so much. Day 2 of Vegas we go to this club, the TAO nightclub, and I meet this girl who I literally felt like I was falling in love with despite only spending 2 hours with her. She wanted me to go back to her room but I told her I had a girlfriend.

Fast forward to about 10 days ago, I find out my girlfriend cheated on me. I feel so strange and weird, but my biggest regret was not getting any contact info from the girl in vegas. It was a loud nightclub, so I didnt even remember her name. Is there any way I can find her? Is it hopeless?
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Without a name or phone number it's a lost cause I think.
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>>18403749
So, her name could be Cassandra/Angelina, she is an elementary school teacher in california, she likes portal, tesla and space x. Yea theres no way lol
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>>18403746
She probably was a hooker bro

So I recently started seeing a girl who says that she'd only had one sexual partner before me and that they tried vaginal intercourse once but had to stop because it was too painful for her.

So, not wanting to pressure her, I've kind of let her set the sexual pace so far. Now, I'm not big by any means, just under average in fact. We've now tried vaginal intercourse twice and both times had to stop because it's just way too much for her.

Ironically, anal is no problem. And while I'd be content with that from here to the end of time, I do want to please her as well.

tl;dr gf's vagina is like an air-tight vicelock

Any advice on how to deal with this?
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She's too nervous. Do more foreplay, focusing on her.
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>>18403686
It's the girl version of premature ejaculation.
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Can she orgasm?

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