> Went to a girl's house yesterday for dinner.
> Date was okayish, dunno. We talked a lot. It was a bit boring for me.
> When I was leaving I said FUCK IT and went for a kiss.
> She didn't open her mouth.
> lol.svg
Is it a bad idea to ask her what happened when I tried to kiss her? I'm kinda lost here.
pls respond
>>18721794
She tryt to se if she'll go out with u again
im a 5.9ft, spanish white guy, 26, been told im attractive often, living in vietnam with a literal 10/10 asian qt. (i duncare yiur taste, to me she is)
she is christian, smart and creative, devoted to have cute mixed children with a good education. she is caring for me, and i love her, i really do. she also does love me. we have been broke, got robbed, and after 2years, she has been through all of it, by my side. she is a literal angel gf
+ the sex is astronomically good. unbelivably good, she loves me to enjoy her perfect tight skinny body in any way i want, she cosplays for me, she does any kind of stuff i could wish. except anal, she squirts she fucks me in every way, she edges me then milks me, she likes to dominate to her pussy for hours until she is done... (love that shit, bringing her to her limit) i name it i got it. i also do the same for her, we have epic sex basically. i fucked +50 women at least, i promise what i have is total heaven. i feel lucky. im called handsome, but im just a cinematographer and a nerd. she is a nerd too, she plays lol with me, she main poppy i play main teemo. cute af best nerd couple ever. no joke, im lucky.
but still
somehow
when i see another cute, or attractive girl... is not like im attratcted but i feel curious... how they'd be on bed. im not like finding them better than my gf... just different and potentially interesting.
i even feel inclined to flirt with them, sometimes i even did some days me and my gf had an argument or sth
I stopped replying the second i had sex again wth my gf out of realization of how stupid that behaviour is.
so what do? how can i... ofuscate other women, how can i make myself ignore them?
my gf doesnt deserve this behaviour from me, i dont too from myself.
plz help, i really hate women, always making men lose their mind. i just want to get my mind lost in this girl that owns my heart deeply already.
pic related: not her but exacly same tight skinny body type, similar face, no surgery
Ill be happy to provide advice too, so AMA aswell :)
>>18721789
Don't ruin a good thing. The grass is not greener on the other side, she has all you need and more. Your just gonna be depressed in a year from now after you've slept with a few people.
Assuming you live near the city, get some money and move out to a good tight-knit suburb. Still has good internet for your gaming, not too far from work, less women to distract you, and more things for you to do with your gf other than gaming and fucking. Not to mention more privacy. If you can't move out or don't live in the city, basically what >>18721857 said.
So I finally asked out this goth girl after 5 years, and she rejected me.
What now?
If you really liked her, then idk, but if you were doing it for kicks, ask her friends what she likes and give it to her.
You've taken a step. You've been rejected, but everybody has been rejected at some point Anon. This is a good chance to learn to cope with inevitable rejections later on in life, both professional and personal.
Just ask another girl, good luck!
She's just playing hard to get, keep at her.
Any legals in here that can help me out?
My wife wants to file for divorce. She has not filed yet. There is a 1 year old child involved. Our conflicts are not going well. She is threatening to tell the cops I raped her. Bitch has gone off the deep end. I have family in another state. Would it be abandonment or illegal for me to go stay with family for a few weeks while shit cools off? And also, how would look when we determine custody? I really don't want to lose my child.
Sorry dude you're pretty much already going to be fucked by the legal system
>>18721683
You can leave.
And for custody of the child it's best if you just agree on something like adults. If not you'll have to get lawyers
women hold all the cards in divorce court
sorry m8 you are fucked literally she could hit the kid everyday and still get custody
How hard is it to just drop everything, move to a new country, and begin a new life? I've got nothing left for me here and just want to start over.
A lot harder than you think.
First, you'll need a source of income. If you aren't migrant grunt labor, usually the way to do this is by becoming qualified to teach your native language overseas. This can take any range of time between a six month training course and a two-year degree, both of which cost a ton of money. You could also study in another country but you'd have to have the grades, recommendations, and writing samples to be admitted first. If you're American, French, Canadian or British, there are very few universities that are considered internationally credible outside of those countries. It will also take you at least three years to complete a degree depending on your course of study.
If you're only qualified to do grunt labor and you want to do that overseas, prepare for harsh working conditions that will not be in your favor.
Regardless of what work you do, you're going to need a passport to cross borders and a visa to work or study in most countries. If you don't have either, both are a bureaucratic hurdle.
itt tl;dr there's a lot you'll have to do and it will take a while.
>>18721651
>move to a new country, and begin a new life?
>I've got nothing left for me here and just want to start over.
That's virtually impossible (definitely impossible if you are looking at the First world).
You will need to secure a work visa of some sorts - which you won't get if you don't hold a degree in an in demand field OR plenty of work experience (also in a field that is sought after).
>>18721651
>not being happy whereever u are
>thinkin moving will suddenly change youre life around
Think again bud. Happiness can be found in ones own town.
She never texts me unless I text her despite telling me to keep in touch. She never asks to hang out despite telling me she wants to hang out sometime. She won't accept my Snap and Instagram requests when she knows it's me and not a fake user (she let me follow her before and followed me back on both apps but I lost those accounts and made new ones). She's even left me on Read a few times before we could even start a conversation.
When we do text we talk for a good thirty minutes to an hour and she seems invested and laughs at my jokes but I can't tell if it's genuine or if she's just humoring me because we're texting, not talking face-to-face.
Is she just fucking with me? I don't want to waste time on people who play pretend.
When you can't tell, it is most likely she is just putting up with you so she does not feel the as the bad one.
If she does never initiate anything, you should stop trying.
>>18721662
It's weird because she's invited me out twice before (one to dance the other to just hang out but I couldn't make the latter). She use to compliment the way I looked and called me by a nickname she came up with and followed me on every social media platform.
Now it's almost like she's ghosting me. She's never texted first but we do have conversations anytime I initiate (not one word replies).
If we're "taking some time apart" with my girlfriend but with strong hints that she wants to break the relationship completely and i decide not to see other women in this time but she's probably banging other dudes.
Is this a form of cucking? am i a cuck now?
Yes, most of the time people take breaks they never get back together. Also you have to think of why she wanted to take a break in the first place. I don't really know her, but odds are she saw someone and is trying them out while keeping you as a backup in case it doesn't work.
>>18721615
"I want to take a break" is a soft break up. In harsher terms, she wants to test the waters while keeping you as a fall back. If I were you I'd just end it here.
It was already ended when she wanted to 'take a break'. I rather doubt doing that was your idea or that you liked that plan in the first place.
When girls ask for that shit, it is best to consider any relationship done and over in all but name.
Condom problems
I just lost my virginity last week to my gf, who was also a virgin. It was pretty damn awesome for a first time, not as awkward as i'd imagined. Only problem was, i couldn't keep a condom on. I'm about average length, and i bought standard trojans. Those things still look enormous when unraveled all the way. I'm not sure if i'm too small for them or what. I shouldn't be, because those are the average condoms that like 98% of men buy. I couldn't get hard enough to keep them on i guess, and i ended up going through like 5 of them. When i was inside her with a condom, i couldn't even feel if my dick was hard or not.
I said fuck this at one point and went in without one. She started moaning like crazy, and i felt myself get rock hard. It was incredible. But this got her concerned since i leak so much precum and i ended up buying her a morning after pill.
Tl;dr: i hate condoms, but i have to start using them. What do i do?
>>18721596
You're using them wrong. Get hard first. Unless you've got an absolute micropenis standard shouldnt be too big.
You shouldnt be putting them over a flacid dick or trying to penetrate someone flacid either. The condom is designed to stay on once you're hard and becomes useless once you lose that erection and get soft
Honestly the worst part about a condom is staying hard if you're fumbling with the packet and getting it ready, practice just whippin that shit out and getting on fast asf one smooth motion
>>18721607
Yeah but i can't stay hard with those things. I don't feel much. i'll go back to eating her sweet pussy to get her squirming again in hopes that i'll get aroused again, but she tastes like awful latex.
If you both are in an exclusive relationship you could get her to start birth control. Not necessarily the pills, but there's these patches that are easy to buy and are as effective without the need to change them daily (only once a week).
So I have this elderly woman living in the apartment below me, she's old as fuck, like at least late 70s. Anyway, we're not supposed to smoke inside the apartments, but she does as she physically can't get up to go outside to do it. I'm scared she's going to fall asleep or even just die with a cigarette in her hand and start a fire. Not only this, but she smokes right at her window, which is directly below mine, so the smoke drifts into my apartment and messes with my asthma.
Should I talk to her about it, snitch on her to the landlord, or just suck it up so the old broad can live the rest of her life how she wants?
>>18721527
You're a very nice anon, but I would mention it to your landlord, or buy a high quality air filter and just keep your window closed during the day. Maybe try to switch apartments. If it affects your health you should put yourself first.
>>18721540
This. She didnt win some award making her master over your asthma just by beaing an old lady
>>18721527
Knock on her door, ask her politely; if she continues, rat her out to the landlord.
So my gf split up with me yesterday and we're meeting in person on sunday to end things officially and give each others belongings back. During our time together she wrote various love letters to me. Should i return them?
Reading back at them it seems ironic, as she was head over heels for me, but now has fallen out of love with me.
What do?
just burn it bro. The best thing to do.
>>18721457
There's no use for them anymore, throw that shit away when you're ready
>>18721463
BURN IT ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
>slept for about 7 hours this night
>still fell asleep from 2 to 6 PM
Why am I so sleepy...?
Whats with those low ass countertops is that a house made for ants?
>>18721451
Please don't bully Nena
>>18721449
Could be diet
Girl is super nice to me. She keeps making physical contact with me, like pinching my arms and cheeks.
We aren't that close yet, but she asked me if she is my new best friend.
Need halp anon.
Next time you are near her, and she is being all cute, just kiss her. I suggest the ear or neck.
Bu---but anon she is extremely conservative!
>>18721417
I know you have already decided to do it.
Conservatives are not anti-sexuality. But, if you feel like a kiss is too much, just grab her hand casually and playfully turn it as if you were looking for something, and with your thumb, tickle her wrist (the inner part with all the veins).
Can guys below 6 foot ever be truly manly?
Not tough or anything like that,there are tons of bad ass women and boys that are short and could kick my ass but that's not what i'm talking about
I'm talking about the confidence a man gives off, that truly primal attraction that only tall men can make me feel,can a short guy overcome looking like a boy and give off this aura too?
>>18721373
I'm only like 5'8 or 5'9, and I know I give off that confident aura and multiple past girlfriends have brought that up and how they were so attracted to it. Here is what I have going for me that they mentioned or I noticed about it.
I work out a lot.
I give back to my community by doing community service once in a while.
I know how to do carpentry, fix things, and work on cars (my old man made sure of this during my childhood).
I have a big dick but I never bring it up myself and let the women bring it up. It has no reflection on my ego but I know it's big.
Confidence comes from life experiences, knowledge, and how others perceive you OP. That and how you perceive yourself as long as you don't stroke your own ego all the time. Being confident, stern when needed, and compassionate are all things females notice in a guy. The thing is you need to be consistent with these things and really have them as part of your personality. If you falter a lot but talk or act like you are that type of person, they will notice.
I hope you and anyone who reads this can take something away from what I said. We live in an age of self gratification and always taking the easy route and it honest affects our relationships with the opposite sex.
A few examples before I stop rambling.
After a few dates with who is new my GF she mentioned she had to move an entire garden for a garage she was having built on her property. I offered to help. Not manly working in a garden right? Nope, I did all the shoveling and heavy lifting, she asked for input in how to set up the new garden and we bonded during the entire process. Also, I noticed some things that were broken around her house and offered to fix them later. She was very impressed and to this day remembers how in charge I was and yet willing to help her in her daily life and fix things. She found all of this sexy.
Best of luck guys.
>>18721373
My boyfriend is 5'8" (and I'm barely couple of inches shorter), but I always perceived him as very manly.
He works out. He dresses well. He's successful.
He's socially dominant. He's charming, outspoken, calm and always in control of the conversation.
He knows how to fix shit around the house and fix the car. We renewed our house together and I think we were fucking 3 times a day.
He's a gentleman. He's kind.
We also have a rather... Traditional relationship, in a way. When I'm with him, I feel like he appreciates when I'm feminine.
>>18721373
your mistaking confidence and competence for spectacle.
Its a common misunderstanding if you're young or small in social connections.
But if you have been around a man who is just physically imposing in some way and how you feel around them, and then compare it to a man of distinct capability and competence and how you feel around them, your understanding of manliness changes.
And this is true not just for femanons, men that learn the difference know which one to strive for.
most people from /fit/ know this, despite the rhetoric they trade in around there about height.
18, receding hairline, recessed chin, very pale skin that doesn't tan (believe me I've done more than just 'tried'), gapped af teeth. Had 2 girlfriends one of which was long distance both fat and depressed. 16 year old brother swims in pussy, has none of my issues as well as a height advantage which I obviously don't. Broad shouldered and fit, in no way socially retarded and very extroverted and easy to talk to. At this point I've pretty much given up on any dating life just because I look like a fucking troglodite and can't change that at all despite taking very good care of myself and eating well.
Should I fuckin neck
pic unrelated
Stop being jealous of your brother and go out and do something about it. Its all fixable (except height)
Stop defining yourself in your relationships with women. You are good at something, focus on it. You bathe and eat well, that is more than a lot of people can do.
15 years of total sex culture later and we wonder why ugly dudes want to die just because they arent getting laid.
Follow your fucking interests OP and stop thinking with your dick you stupid fuck.
Hi all. I am an illustrator living in the United States with very little knowledge about the Japanese language.
Recently, I started referencing Japanese idols and cosplay models in my illustrations. I would like to reach some of them through twitter with the right "hash tags", phrases, and terminology.
Of course, I can try using Google Translate, but I'm not sure if there are more modern, slang, trendy, "in the know" language that I can use.
I would really like to reach the Japanese cosplayers and show them my illustrations based off them.
Might anyone know any modern Japanese phrases, buzzwords, or "lingo" that fits in the category of model, adult model (idol), cosplay, portrait, fan-art, illustration?
This might be a totally stupid question, I have no clue. Thanks for your time and attention!
Use their goddamn names you tool. Way more personal than some vague reference.
>>18721375
sorry to not specify. Of course I am using their names.
I'm just wondering if Japenese models and cosplayers "follow" or "watch" certain hashtags that aren't obvious to a non-Japanese speaker.
>>18721382
Your calm and civility is impressive for this site.
Do you mind posting some artwork, even some sketch you will never use, if you worry about being identified.. Let us see what this is all about?