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Bad*

Also I can't remove myself from her life as we get the same bus

stop feeling bad. call her mean names idk

>>18411405
Honestly I say shit about her in my head but im too pussy say anything to her and shit I don't want things to go awkward

>>18411301
How could you randomly add her, without her giving you her... handle? I don't know how to young-person.

don't use Snapchat you dumb faggot

>>18411358
If you have their number they'll pop up in your recommended friends

Tough one. Like, idk what you're supposed to do when you fuck up your one and only shot with the only girl you can ever be with. Unless you have plenty of shots and other women exist. I want to believe that world exists. Otherwise you're boned

>>18411289
I have never had a shot with anyone, and i've never met a girl who seemed interested in me before (like the girl i bodged it with, she genuinely seemed interested)
Admittedly you shouldn't do/say stuff like this when drunk, but you don't really think... Because of the beer.

The real problem isn't so much that i messed it up with this one girl (even though it really fucking sucks, since she is so nice)
but if she tells everyone and completely mess up my social life because of this.
Stuff hasn't been easy at uni, but just as things started to look up, it seems that it was actually just the last nail in the coffin.

yes you are boned:

apologise for your behaviour/blame the alcohol/accept she doesn't like you back/move on with life and keep in touch with your or friends/keep going out and meet a better girl

Interested, bumping

Also bumping for interest

>>18411205
As long as you don't plan future dates while on dates and/or plan something everyday (have a life outside the relationship) then you'll be fine.

>>18411201
I don't see the issue here. There are so many things to do in life OP, but if they provide you with no utility or happiness, then there is point in taking them up. For example, a lot of people like to go on destination vacations, but I don't, so I'll be missing out on that. But I don't get any enjoyment out of it.

>>18411211
I just feel like I'm an outcast that should continue avoiding everyone like a plague, because I'm too much of a lifeless loser to be worth talking to.

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>>18411201
Do what you like to do man. I think it might be worth it to at least TRY other things, as you might be surprised you like them, but if nothing else sticks; stick to video games.

People try to push more "productive" hobbies on others because it looks better but the reality is that most people are kinda boring, and if you don't have enough money you simply CANT have more interesting hobbies. People view reading, or tv, as more of a productive hobby than video games (for some reason), but when it comes down to it, all hobbies are technically a form of escapism from the daily grind depending on what you think.

Does it bother you that you only play games? If not, then you are all good; just don't let it become an addiction is all.

do wverything to be as healthy as possible (drink loads of water, check your diet, exercise, sleep enough, have excellent hygiene, don't smoke/drink/do drugs, get some fresh air and sun). if it persists, go to your doc and get your hormone levels checked. if they aren't out of wack, go to a dermatologue and if the creams he prescribes don't do the trick, get accutane. do this as your last resort. i've taken it and all it really did was dry out my skin and not get rid of the acne. in my case, it was a hormonal issue, so get that checked before you take heavy medication.

good luck.

>>18411177

If your acne won't go away, go see a Dermatologist.

I had really fucking gross, pus filled acne all of my chin. It was so fucking disgusting. I tried everything I could. Eventually I got so fed up with it I decided to go to a Dermatologist. You know what, she fixed my face. Now my face is completely clear. I'll get an occasional lone pimple once every month or so. But it's tolerable and it will go away very quickly.

>>18411177
tea tree oil (avoid eyes, mouth etc)

if acne get worse, see the dermatologist

>>18410874
Why can you only pay back 100 a month? What were you spending on that was worth $300 of debt?

>>18410874
Should have went to college

>>18410874
Yes kill yourself. Obviously your life dont even have 300$ worth.

>credit
It is something jews in burgerland invited to make you do crazy with debts.

Ask your parents for help.

>>18410766
I bet you have parents. Apologize to them, promise you got your life lesson and get a real job.

And consider dropping drugs. They are degenerate and illegal anyway.

>>18410766
Drug peddler
> kill yourself
> scourge of society
> ruined of the young
> fucking die you scum cunt
> then rot and burn in hell for eternity

>>18410784
Only mum, she's not right in the head.

>>18410785
Implying weed isn't entirely legal in some countries.

you can look into keto. that might be what you need. it works for some people, so give it a try.

depends on what you want to quit. sugar isn't that bad. after 3 days, the cravings are gone. you also don't have to cut salt completely, so moderating the amount won't have any negative effect, unless you count having to adapt to blander food as a side effect.

itms different with coffeine, some people might experience head aches or so, but nothing you can' survive. if you smoke, that's more difficult, put far from unachievable.

carbs is no problem either, if you make sure you hit your macros, you won't feel hungry. then it's just a habit you need to break and if you put your mind to it, you can definitely achieve it.

maybe it would be a good idea to go cold turkey off of one of that list every new week. say, the first week you drop the sugar, the second week you keep that up but also lower your salt intake, and so on.

for staying on track, you need a clear goal that is extremely important to you. you seem to have that, so that's good.
then you need the knowledge, which you can easily find. basically, calories in vs calories out. but ofc it's better to fuel your body with "healthy calories". it's better to eat a filling meal than some fast food since you would skip a lot of fiber and vitamins, which would fuck you over in the long term.

you then need to break it into small chunks and not overdo it. if you don't exercise at all, try to not go all in and work out 5x a week like a maniac. your body can't keep that up and you will need inhuman willpower after a few days. set achievable goals and keep in mind that even working out half an hour every week is way better than not doing anything.

the most important tip is to ditch the perfectionism. if you fuck up, brush it off and pick your routine up again RIGHT AWAY. bingeing once or skipping a workout is far less damage than thinking "i'm a failure, i can't even stick to my resolutions, i'm giving up".

>>18410752
Kek, what an idiot. Keto is for subhumans. OP should go with the superior paleo diet, with the addition of modern day vitamins

>>18410725
>>>/fit/ sticky, count calories and do slow sustainable life style change

Why make it complicated? Just ask.

>>18410676
Because I doubt he'll admit that my messages are bugging him, even if that's the case. He'll be perfectly polite and say the right thing...

i'm a bit like your friend. i also have a few people i mostly communicate trough messages. i value them a lot, but i don't really wnjoy texting since it seems to take so much time and effort to say stuff you could say in a matter of seconds. texting convos are exhausting for me.
if i find the time, i still talk to them that way, but then life happens and i get distracted. often, i actually forget that i was texting with them. looking at my phone is not my priority. maybe i went to the toilet and had time to text you a lengthy message, but then i put my phone into my pocket and went grocery shopping. i might have had the intention to keep writing you, i might also wuickly read your answer before getting into the car, but then i could have met a friend at the shop and we decided to go grab a coffee, and when i came home i was already a bit late, so i had to put away the groceries, take a shower, do some work and then i went to bed snd fell asleep and completely forgot i was supposed to text you back again. i'll get to you again, but that might be 2-3 days later.

>>18410668
I'd say "le" is the correct article in this situation
The use of le, la and lo is something even Spaniards can get very confused over. Overall, the idea is that, if you can get the information "le" precedes by asking the verb "what" (I know my phrasing in here is confusing but I don't really know how to construct the sentence otherwise), "le" (or "la" if it's a feminine noun) is the correct option

I'll give examples for clarity, or I'll try, at least

-"Le vi la cabeza" uses "le" because, by asking the verb "what did you see?/¿qué viste?", "la cabeza" comes smoothly as an answer

-In the other hand "Lo ví por la calle" uses "lo" because you can't really get that information by asking the verb "¿qué?", it would be "¿dónde?/where?"

Therefore, your phrase uses "le" because by asking "dejé" "¿Qué pidió?" "Usar su teléfono" is answered

>>18410668
Tbh both sound correct, I would and have use when speaking. As to which is more "proper" I'd say LO.

LO for guys and LA for females.
Le just sounds to Adress someone without it being gender specific.

>>18410772
this

He made it very clear..

Leave him alone or annoy him

>>18410666
Trips of satan check'd
You hurt him badly and there's maybe one thing you can do to make it better. Maybe wrtiting him a heartfelt apology would be nice, but follow his wish and don't try to get back with him or get any other contact besides an honest apology.

>>18410666
> I was scared of the levels of commitment he was showing
Why do girl do this?
I mean why didn't you talked about it with your BF?
I am in the opposite corner. My GF put the relationship on "pause" because it was "too much" for her.
I don't know the character of your former BF but you should try to contact him. And tell him the real reason you put an end to it. And pray to all the gods that he forgives you.
I would...

he wont give a damn that its "hurtful", atleast i didnt when i just backed off from my officefling

>>18410583
You'd rather just throwaway a 2 year friendship?

>>18410592
are you absolutely sure it is a friendship
or its what you want to believe, i knew her for a year and we were on good terms, but i would never call her a friend (which would also probably hurt her)

>>18410514
http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/tc/swollen-lymph-nodes-topic-overview

It shouldnt last this long. Unless you are permanently ill. Probably something is wrong with you.

Lets be honest, if you are poor and live in some dirthole without free health care (like usa), you wouldnt be able to afford treatment for cancer anyway. So realize how worthless your life is and you will die on the street like human garbage you are.

Go to free clinic. Consider what is better
>death from untreated illness
or
>living longer with killed credit and or debt

Still, if you dont have any other symptoms, i am not exactly sure what will doc do with you.

>>18410522

Well, I get sick pretty frequently, and im always always tired :/

And you got it right, Im an Americunt

>>18410534
>americunt
I know it is not your fault being born in that shithole, but beating dead horse in case of usa health care system (and circumisation) never gets old.

Focus on your
>sick frequently
That is not normal. Stress? Shit diet? Obese? Sport? Multivitamin?

What is wrong with you op?

>please promise me you wont mutilate your baby son

no it's not worth it.

you hit it on the head. my personal stance is if the understanding of the universe that we have is to be believed (its not by the way it gets proven wrong in some big way like once every 2 years, but lets say it is) then it's very probable there is life elsewhere in the universe. that could be great, that could be horrible and they could want to enslave us and steal our planet's resources a la steven hawkings thoughts on the matter. frankly until such time as they land here and say hi, it's not worth it to go down that rabbit hole.

as for us likely never knowing, absurd, nasa is working on an alqubierre drive experiment though I haven't heard any details in at least a year. warp drive means we massively up the chances of running into any other life in the universe.

>>18410506
>you hit it on the head
to clarify, by essentially saying it's all substanceless horse hockey.

>>18410506
I really appreciate your reply. It's unfortunate that these channels keep feeding people's curiosity with substanceless shit. I was one those people myself, whenever I took the time to listen to so much crap. Not anymore, though..

As regards the Warp Drive, thank you for pointing me to the NASA experiment. I'll read about it now.

Have a good day!