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Whats the best cure for depression for a person thats used to spending all their time inside coding alone.

My heart was recently broken by a girl. Ive been on tinder and gotten no results. Not really a social type but dream of a girl so bad
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>>18413077
I'm worried that you might want a relationship just for the sake of having a relationship, or so that you aren't left alone with your thoughts. Try and get yourself to a place where you are comfortable being alone (not as in alone forever, but like to a place where you enjoy your own company rather than merely tolerate or despise yourself). As far as the depression, I can't really give good advice for how to get through that. For me, I had depression pretty bad until I did DXM. I still have rough days, but it's much better than it was. However, I'm not recommending for everyone to do that, DXM usually doesn't do that for people
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write a hello world script in your favorite language and show it to the girl as a gift.

guaranteed. pussy.
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>>18413089
lel

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I'm currently stuck in a relationship with a girl that threatens to kill herself if I leave her, and there is no more love in this relationship. I'm only dating her so she doesn't kill herself. What do you suggest I do to get out of this situation?
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>>18413061

leave her with her parents, her friends, or her professionals.

you cannot be held repsonsible for someone who kills themselves, and while its a shitty thought, shes either going to do it or she wont.

and likely, she wont. its just something people say to get attnetion
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>>18413065
I just don't know what to say to her.

How do I go about breaking it off?
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>>18413072
Another anon here, I would recommend telling others first and confronting her about it with others in person. Like you and her parents siting in a room and having her walk and sit down to talk about it.
I'm not sure if that's the best way but its all I can think of.

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My boyfriend'some back is fucked, he may need surgery. We are in our 30s. How can we still have an active sex life when it hurts him to have sex? Advice on positions, ways to approach that I want sex without making him feel bad about it..
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>>18412992
Ask him how he feels about watching someone else bone you.
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>>18412992
I got back surgery when I was 18, yes it sucks for a bit, and recovery will be long. Be there for him, or don't. After he recovers he may still be in some pain but not enough to warrant avoidance of sex positions.
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>>18412992
you/he ok with toys? they can help.

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My wife posted on craigslist looking for odd jobs and was contacted by someone asking her to receive jewelry in the mail and get to keep 20% of the profits. I told her not to do it and she stopped replying to the person but 2 days later she received 2 diamond rings(real diamonds) in the mail. Its been 5 days and the person keeps calling and texting her to get the rings threatening to shoot her. We went to the police and they said she can choose to do a report but personally they would just throw the rings out. I currently have the rings(we do not live together). What should I do with them? Im not trying to make money but don't want to give the rings to the guy because they were probably bought with a stolen credit card im assuming and if it was investigated by someone we would have a chance to return them. I dont want to give the rings to the guy because then it could look like my wife pawned them off, and we want to be able to give them back.
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>>18412937
It was part of scam, guaranteed. The rings are DEFINITELY NOT REAL. Return them or hand em to the police if you're really worried.

They were likely going to have her receive a check for a large sum of money and ask her to send them the 80%. Then while she forked over cash they kept the check would be canceled.

Definitely not real diamonds.
And if they were (which they definitely are not), then the person has your address and you committed grand theft which is a felony which means jail time.

so bait?
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>>18412959
We took them to a pawn shop and they said they were real diamonds just not good quality.
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>>18412959
And if,the rings weren't real why would we bother returning them or taking them to the police when you can just throw them away? Besides the person has been calling her every 30min for the past 3 days why would they do that for a completely fake ring? If they are real diamonds they would be worth at least a few hundred.

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Hey everyone... I am trying to pass my car for an UBER/LYFT inspection. My vehicle is mostly spotless except inside on the roof... I know this is dumb but I used to pin things on the roof (the car is paid off). Now its got these shitty looking holes.

Any ideas on how to cover it up without looking trashy? I'm afraid this would be the one reason I wouldn't pass inspection.

I'm 4000$ in debt from two orbital fracture surgeries so I can't afford to fix this I don't think.... I can barely feed myself.
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>>18412908
Pin things back.
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>>18412910
What do you mean? Do you think they will let me drive if I have a bunch of nerdy pins on my car?
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reddit.com/r/uber
reddit.com/r/Lyft/

Protip, of the two you're probably going to want to drive for lyft. Judging from how butt frustrated uber drivers are over not having an in-built tip system, you might want to go for the other option and save yourself the hassle.

I'm an introvert coming to the end of a masters in math and theoretical physics

tell me what job I should look for

go
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Get a doctorate and/or become a computer programmer
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>>18412903
>Get a doctorate
I'd have said this too. Academia is the career for maladjusted people.
t. academic
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>>18412903
its good that you did mathematics. its sought across many fields. just try anywhere you like and see what comes up.

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Hey /adv/ pretty straightforward question. Porn and 4chan are a massive hindrance to me reaching my full potential right now. Any advice on the best most effective way to block websites preferably in a way where it's a pain in the ass to unblock them, or where I could give someone a password, etc.

Thanks.
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figure out by what method these random IP bans start happening
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>>18412868
K9 Web Protection, basic and password protected
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>>18412868
In the end nothing you use will be better than willpower because you can just subvert it since there is no consequence from doing so.

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Hey adv
I feel like my bf doesn't love me
So I've been dating my boyfriend for a month, he is 19 I'm 18. When we first met we talked about our pasts and had a really personal convo about his mothers death, my abuse ect ect. We met up and fell in love and we started dating about 3 days later. Now my trouble is I feel like he doesn't love me and is using me. I'm a virgin and he is my first for everything ( kissing and sexual things) I feel like he's using me because like he said maybe for me to go back to his house and he didn't call me last night because his dad was pressuring him to study since he was out the whole weekend. Anyway he does things to show he loves me like he says that he wants to live with me and he said he doesn't want to do 'stuff' yet and that he wants to make me feel good. He also helps me when I feel depressed and goes out of his way to talk to me but still I feel like he doesn't love me... What do I do??
I met his dad aswell and he has met my mum, and he says he wants to introduce me to his friends aswell, I also asked him to cut his hair and he did it. He constantly calls me sexy, beautiful and cute but i don't know does he love me?
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>>18412827
you sound really insecure anon, he doesnt sound like a bad guy, or someone who might use people, dont overthink it.
if you want to make sure, you can wait some months before having sex.
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>>18412827
just relax. from what you've told us it seems fine. i think that you're not telling the whole story, post more since what you've given us is too vague for us to give you real advice, because it seems you're more concerned than what is justifiable from your post.
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>>18412827
Just like what the other anons have said, he seems fine from what you've said and you appear to be a little insecure and overthinking it.

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>be me, 24m
>meet qt 3.14 at work
>ask her out, she says she has a bf
>fast forward ~3 years
>have become relatively close with qt 3.14 despite no longer working together
>usually drink and/or get high together every week or two
>recently she starts making comments about my body (lost some weight and i'm pretty /fit)
>also makes comments about my dick
>she starts buying my drinks when we hang out
>also hooks me up with drugs and never asks for anything in return
>looks me in the eye more often, she's generally warmer toward me than usual
>she's still with bf (who she knows is no good for her, she's too scared to leave him since they've been together for so long)
>wondering if her recent change in behavior is due to her being into me, or just feeling extra friendly
>thinking about making a move next time i see her, but don't want to be wrong and make things awkward

There's a lot more to it than that, but that's the gist of my situation. Basically I'm wondering if I should make a move, and if so, whether or not I should say something to her or just make a move and talk about shit afterward?

If any more details are needed just lmk
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>>18412758
You should probably work things out with her boyfriend before you get into her pants...having her cheat will ruin things for everyone
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>>18412905
Okay yeah, that's a good point.

By making a move I was only talking about going for a kiss, not trying to get in her pants right away, just to make it known to her that I'm interested. She is the type that likes when the guy takes charge as she's very pretty and probably has had plenty of guys "confess their undying love for her" before.

Also, as I mentioned before, her boyfriend treats her terribly and she knows that, but is too nervous about being alone to leave him. There are a lot of things that I would have to discuss with her before taking it further, but the kiss would just be to bring up the subject I guess.

Like I said, I just don't want to come off as another beta orbiter that confesses his love for his hot friend and gets rejected for not having the balls to just take what I want so to speak.
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>>18413074
murder her boyfriend and present her one if his severed fingers as a love offering

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I've been charged with Trafficking a schedule 2 drug in Australia.

I did it because I want a reason to kill myself.

I'm not sure what to do
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>>18412730
Go fishin'.
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Umm your answer was in the question dumbass. Or are you here for sympathy?
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>>18412730
dont admit it here you faggot. get a good lawyer and sue 4chan until they delete this post.

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Plus is mining still a thing?
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don't do it you don't have enough money. mining costs a shit ton of money now because you need special computer hardware. get a job you lazy fuck.
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I have job, unless where would I have the money?
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>>18412729
Bitcoin is a sham and vulnerable to the same practices that caused the 1929 stock crisis (Bitcoin value has crashed due to investor pools in the past). Don't invest.

If you want a safe investment for your 500 bucks in case the dollar collapses, get gold or silver instead.

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Any tips on how to take care if hair that get oily very quickly? Thank you!
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shave head
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Don't use much product if your hair is greasy.
There are tons of shampoos for oily hair, also try something with Tea Tree oil in it maybe. Alternatively, you might be shampooing too much, which can make it so your follicles dry out and start churning out oil. You could try not shampooing every day, maybe once a week; some of my friends have done this and it seems to work. However, it will look really gross for a few days if you do this, but you can use dry shampoo in the mean time so it doesn't get too greasy.
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>>18412703
I have the same problem.

These days I only wash my hair with Aleppo soap, which is a natural product that has been produced the same way for thousands of years. Great stuff. When you first start using it you might have dry scalp for a while, but your skin will adapt.

If you can't get Aleppo soap try Marseille soap or any soap based on olive oil instead (though Marseille soap is rather pungent).

For product, I use hair tonic. Apply to dry hair, rub it in, let soak, model. Gives a dry finish, but keeps your hair in shape. Plus it makes you smell awesome.

If you can't find any decent hair tonic in a drug store, find a classic barbershop and ask the old guy.

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So I posted this on lgbt, but then quickly realized that it's just a meme board and no one replies to you if you're not baiting or not making a tfw thread

So I finally had my very first TS experience, but just couldn't enjoy it all due to anxiety.

All we did was some short kissing with very light tongue and then I gave her a handjob. She finished herself and I didn't get any of it on me.

Now I'm scared shitless that I might have caught something, since I know that TS have a very high rate of STDs.

What are even the chances of catching something from an experience like this?
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well there was no penetration so I'd assume you're be fine. Don't worry, even if you got an STD, the worst thing about them are the social stigma
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Bumping to see if anyone else has any input or advice.

I'd really appreciate it
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There is virtually no risk of getting an std from giving a handjob to another person. If you had an open wound on your hand, maybe.

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Hey /adv/ I have fucked up in almost every regard in my life. I am a lonely fat piece of garbage. Ive failed and fucked up college three times. Nothing really seems worth it to me.

How are you supposed to just figure out life? I push myself to insane lengths every time I try but I fail cause I can't keep it going. I don't see the point in it after awhile and then that becomes my mind set and I fuck myself.

I just want to know how I can find a way to keep going. Like how do you decide on what to be? Where does anyone get this motivation from? Ive tried hard and I don't know what to do with my life.

How did you all decide what to do with your lives and how do you keep going?
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I know these are part of depression but I start off happy and then things build up and I just can't handle it.

Today I took off work cause I was just horribly depressed as well as having a really bad issue with my leg. And I got yelled at that by my boss.

Like sometimes I try so hard for my job doing the work of 3 or 4 people. But other days I just want to lay down and die.
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>>18412623
Only real reason I cant yet kill myself is cause I live with my parents and they are on a trip and if I do it the cats will either starve or eat my body.
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>>18412650
Well heres my last reply. Im gonna end it all the day when they are on their way back.

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My long term boyfriend broke up with me. We are stuck living in the same small apartment for 5 more months. How do I cope? How do I meet new people? I feel like my whole world is falling apart.
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>>18412578
that's a pretty rough situation. why 5 months?
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Do you have parents? Everyone lives with their parents these days.
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>>18412632
it's just the amount of time left in the lease

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