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How do you stop hating people who aren't wageslaves?
I hate my job and my life. I get off work and get drunk in front of my computer most nights.
And I fucking HATE talented and hardworking people. If I see some 15 year old kid playing Mozart it pisses me off and ruins my day.
Surely most of us are like this on some level. Are we all hiding it? What's the deal
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>>18424796
by investing your energy in bettering your self. you may never /not/ be a wage slave but you can at least take pride in the hsit you do
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>>18424796
No, dude, most people aren't like that. You have some serious personal hangups and what you are feeling is nothing but sheer unadulterated ENVY. You might want to look up that word. It's nothing but envy. It's toxic, and it's common, but you'll alienate anyone worth a fuck from anywhere near you with that kind of emotional discord.
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>being this jealous
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This problem has been bothering me for a while
If any of you have any advice please I'd love to hear it
>be me 17
>dated a girl for half a year
>she has depression and anxiety really bad
>she was really sweet so I fell in love
>problem is I was making her sad
>so I ended things even though I didn't want to
>we had no contact for a month
>then we started talking again getting back together
>we went on dates and we did stuff (we took each other's virginities when we were dating)
>she started getting more and more depressed
>it only lasted for 23 days
>she texted me one day saying she felt used and walked on and felt like I was using her for sex
>she left me
>I wasn't using her for sex I apologized so much
>she thought my apologies were insincere and told me to move on
>about a month later she got a new guy
>apparently he makes her really happy
>I have no idea if he's a rebound or if she's completely over me
>I really miss her and I have no idea what to do
How do I make this right
I feel like shit that she felt used
I feel like shit when I see her with someone else
Help me please
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>>18424759
Move the fuck on. She is a nut, and you got lucky your are no longer in this situation. Anon, it may hurt right now, but in 2years time, you will laugh at this situation and be glad you avoided this bullet.
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>>18424759
Been there, done that. She'll probably come around again, almost surely, and you'll get to ride that roller-coaster all over again.
If not, well, maybe you can pretend you dodged a bullet. Relationships have to have mutual consent. I don't know why you two kept breaking up with each other, but 3 weeks isn't a long "relationship" Maybe you just need closure? Who knows, dude. Missing her is completely normal though. Anytime I dated a girl for a year or more, they become a part of your life, even if you hate them sometimes.
Best you can do is just be the better man, be accepting, honest and open, and then if she doesn't reciprocate, you can find the closure you need knowing you tried your best.
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A lot of me also feels guilty about hurting her
I'm not used to situations like this so I appreciate you guys
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Well guys, lay it on me. I'm about to go on another date with a like 12/10 married woman who tells me her husband is going to "literally kill me" when he finds out, and she keeps pressuring me for sex, even though I just want to kind of take selfies with her and lay down and cuddle for a while, and so I find it hard to get a stiffy with all this pressure. She also says I can't use a condom and wants me to cum inside her because she can't get off without internal ejaculation, so I feel all this anxiety and pressure (on top of other stuff I won't get into here) I don't have access to prescription stuff like Viagra or Cialis or anything like that.
tl;dr: How do I get hard and cum inside a girl when I'm nervous and scared and feel like I'm out of my league?
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>ssuring me for sex, even though I just want to kind of take selfies with her and lay down and cuddle for a while, and so I find it hard to get a stiffy with all this pressure. She also says I can't use a condom and wants me to cum inside her because she can't get off without internal ejaculation
Why the fuck would you do this?
Even if she's on birth control, there are STDs to worry about.
How are you this dumb?
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>>18424735
Jesus Christ dude, don't do this. On top of potential STDs, are you even sure she's taking birth control? Whats gonna happen when she gets knocked up and her husband finds out it ain't his? What of she calls rape?
Further, stand up for yourself. It sounds like you've been whipped by someone else's wife, and she doesnt respect your boundries. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with just because she presses you.
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I've thought about that, and I guess without getting into all the details, she seems like the best woman I could ever hope to be close to, so I'm willing to compromise my own ideals and security for that. Maybe it's dumb, but she says she doesn't have STDs.
She really doesn't seem to respect anyone's boundaries, which is probably how I'm with her now even though she's married and all, but getting her knocked up doesn't seem too bad. I'd be really proud, honestly. She's really out of my league gorgeous and successful, and I guess I just want to perform for her, so she doesn't think I'm lame and leave me all alone.
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So there's this girl /adv/.... 2017-06-16 06:07:26 Post No.18424734
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So there's this girl /adv/....
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I met this qt in church and I'm getting the feeling that she's really into me but there's an issue here guys, I'm a complete poorfag. I tried to make it in Portland but I fell flat on my face when I hit a couple of unexpected road bumps and family issues and now I am living with my dad and completely broke. I mean broke, I barely have enough money to pay for my car insurance and gas for the next month and I couldn't pay for my phone bill so I'm without a phone.
And then there's this girl, I've been talking to her whenever I run into her and we have lengthy conversations and she makes me feel that tingly, butterfly feeling. I want to ask her out but I'm fucking penniless, I can feel that she's waiting for me to make a move but I'm too embarrassed because I was stupid and made a series of mistakes that led me to be completely broke. What is a poorfag to do guys?
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You can't do anything until you sort your life out, m8. really. Your intuition is right. You need to sort yourself out or you're not going to be anything but a burden on anyone around you. It's cliche, but you need to get a job (some form of income) and balance your expenses. Make a budget.
The basics, man. You need a foundation.
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>>18424734
Either give up because you know you cant satisfy her needs, or tell her the truth and see if she wants to ride it out.
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All women are literally prostitutes.
A girlfriend or wife is just another form of prostitute.
No woman will start dating a broke NEET, it doesn't matter what you look like.
You simply can't afford a girlfriend.
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Redpill me on never getting married. Seeing my parents' marriage and other marriages around me they seem to end either with divorce or both people being miserable and stuck with a person they hate (they they once kinda loved). It disgusts and frightens me to no end. I'd rather live alone with 5 cats than like that
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>>18424713
>Redpill
>>>/pol/
On the question though, that's just anecdotal evidence. A lot of people have happy marriages, and even amongst those who end up divorcing, a lot don't regret the time they spent married. All things considered though, if it's not for you, don't do it
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My own parents love each other. They're disgustingly cute together. Everyone around me has divorced parents though
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>>18424713
Since i'm a child i've said that i never want to get married, also because of some reasons you posted above: i simply fear, that my future partner and i stop loving each over and live in complete unhappiness.
Even nowadays a lot of people either say it's just a phase or ask bewildered why i would want to stay alone forever.
Just because you don't get married doesn't mean that you can't have a boy/girlfriend. I often think that couples who are simple together without ever gettig married seem a lot more content and also manage to kinda keep that first stage of feeling incredibly in love for longer. Besides that's not something you need to decide right now, it's not that anybody is pressuring you.
Hope your parents manage to come on good terms again!
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Being black and dating 2017-06-16 05:47:27 Post No.18424698
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I honestly don't like being black. It's such a shit show in the dating realm. Not HOOK UP realm. Dating realm.
Dating as a black guy is such a shit show for me. You have to try and find out if the girl doesn't mind dating black guys. You gotta make sure you don't seem stereotypical. Just so much stuff.
Not to mention you might be at an innate disadvantage because she may not prefer black guys even though she may like your other qualities.
My dating life has been dog shit. Primarily because I am considered a black guy that acts white. This is a disadvantage because why would a girl date me? When she could date a actual white guy and have zero stigma, zero family issues etc.
Why is dating so bad for me? Doesn't help either that I like Hispanic women.
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>>18424698
date a black girl lol
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>>18424718
That's not the right answer I am pretty sure.
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>>18424698
Have you ever thought that you're the problem rather than your race?
I got several black male friends dating or even married to white girls. I don't think race was even mention or a problem.
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I am a college student looking for a part time job for summer and during school.
I applied to both UPS and fed ex and need to choose between the two. Both shift will be practically the same
4am-9am vs 3:15 am- 8am
I'll list the pros and cons for both jobs
Fed ex
>pays $11.60/hr
>tuition reimbursement $1,500 a year
>20 min drive
>weekly pay every Friday
I would love to get paid weekly instead of bi weekly.
UPS
>pays $11.00/hr
>tuition reimbursement $2,500 a SEMESTER
this is very important
>10 min drive
>bi weekly pay
>union takes money from check about $25
If any of you have personal experience with either company please tell me your thoughts on them. I worked at USPS for about a year and that place was fucking awful.
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Are you looking to take advantage of that reimbursement? If not, FED EX seems ideal since you get more money immediately
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>>18424782
Yes I would be using the tuition reimbursement. It basically comes down to getting paid a little more and weekly VS an extra 4k for school
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>>18424663
No experience with either, but uPS guys seem to be less soul sucked than FedEx guys.
I imagine that has to do with the fact that I feel like FedEx has more restrictions and seeming professionalism. Meanwhile you see videoed of UPS guys not giving a shit and chucking boxes Willy hilly what feels like every other day.
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Wanting romance but no sex 2017-06-16 05:18:35 Post No.18424643
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Wanting romance but no sex
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I want a girlfriend but the only girls who are ever interested in me get all horny and I don't want sex because I'm an awkward virgin who would just leave them unsatisfied. Is there any way to find girls who don't want sex? I just like the romance really.
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>unsatisfied
Learn how to do oral on girls. Cuddling and fingering works too.
Now go make baits on other boards.
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don't lie to yourself. ofc you want the sex, you're just awkward as fuck and scared to death that you'll fail.
work on that and then have a normal relationship like everybody else.
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>>18424652
Doesn't matter. I just want a girl who doesn't make those sorts of demands.
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I recently started dating my oneitis after knowing her for 4 years. We started talking again at the end of last semester and became a thing once our semesters were over.
She is a very attractive girl and likes to party. I don't want to face realty, but her hooking up with somebody while away at college I think is more than likely.
I was wondering if it is ok to take a break for the rest of college and reconvene at the end to start the relationship again. Knowing her I don't think she's looking for a relationship with anybody else, but she still likes to party and I can't stop anything 1000 miles away.
We say that we love each other and I really believe her, and if we weren't going away I legitimately think we would get married. What's my best course of action?
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"Taking a break" is always a euphemism for breaking up. I don't know what to tell you dude. It's like asking if it's a good idea to get cryogenic frozen before you die. Who the fuck knows, man. Probably won't make a difference, and you have to freeze yourself before you're quite dead yet, so you lose some of your natural life.
So, what I would do is just do your best and maintain your relationship, and if you hit a pothole and the whole thing blows up, at least you tried
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>>18424598
>I can't stop anything 1000 miles away.
I'll add that you need to be aware that even if she's right next to you, you can't stop anything. There's got to be trust. Sometimes blind, misguided trust, but there has to be trust, because you can never fully control another person (I mean, unless it's like a vegetable or something), no matter what you think or do.
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>>18424598
If she likes you enough, she will not hook up over summer. If she does, then there was nothing keeping you two together to begin with.
Let her prove herself.
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Hey, I am a loser and pathetic beta male. What do?
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>>18424594
Stop being one?
I see no problem?
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>>18424607
Okay
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If you want add me on Kik and you can ask me questions on how to stop
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Ok /adv/ so somehow my awkward ass has managed to get myself into a situation of a girl that's in an open relationship wanting to fuck.
Usually I'd nope the hell out of there, but I've been trying to get out my comfort zone and fuck it it's an experience. Helps that the girl is a solid 8/10 and I personally can't see us in a relationship anyway.
My issues: we work at the same place and have a couple friends in common. Also outside of one relationship, I'm pretty fucking new to sex so I figure get some experience but I don't want word to travel if I manage to fuck up really badly..
So /adv/ what do you think? I'll answer anything you guys think I left out
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Doesn't matter, had sex.
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Bite the bullet op, can't live in the comfort zone forever.
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>>18424573
So the whole we work together thing isn't that big a deal?
Also how do you get rid of the nerves man fuck I've been on edge since I talked about this with her..
I moved with mummy and new daddy from New Mexico to colorado a couple weeks ago. They immediately started making me look for a job. I interviewed and got one, but they said to bring my social and some form of id to orientation. All I have is my drivers license, and it is a New Mexican one. Orientations tomorrow, what do?
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What are you even asking? Your New Mexico driver's license is valid in Colorado too.
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Kid how old are you And what job did you take?
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DL is a form of ID. You or your parents should have your social security card. On your way to being a big boi. So proud of you, son.
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help me, my family is in the worst shape possible and those problems are starting to get in the way of my studies
I can't do anything else but to jerk off, watch animes and browse chinese-cartoon forums
whenever I try to concentrate in studying I start to think about the shit that's going in my house and I loose my focus
when my family issues weren't so serious I used my shitty mood as an excuse for being a lazy blob, but now that things got serious I can't really concentrate at all
vvat do
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Should probably exercise to help lighten your mood. Also attempt to actually correct the problems at home. What is going on anon?
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>>18424566
>Should probably exercise to help lighten your mood
probably gonna do that next week, already had it planned
>What is going on anon?
what's not going on?
beat the shit out of my drunken father for a second time, and mom kicked him out of my house
I feel guilty as shit tho, he's a decent man when he's sober, but we found him with my sister pissing in our house's doorstep, at 4pm, completely wasted
I lost my shit and I beat him down, even though he was no harm to anyone
worst thing is, it's not the first time this happens
so not only the guilt is eating me out, but also a huge fear to my self, as I undoubtedly have BIG anger issues
that would be the major problem, there are other issues but they are somewhat minor
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After moving out I have learned not to think much about family problems. I love them and try to help but in general worry about myself. Has been difficult but they don't exactly try and help me so whatever.
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so years ago i designed a logo for my childhood friend who's a DJ for him to use.
he's used it for videos, and basically every profile pic he has
anyway we agreed we'd figure out the logistics someday and a month or 2 ago he paid me a small sum of money for making it for him. we agreed on the amount and he pay palled me.
anyway, now ive seen he's opened up a merch store with my logo on every piece he's selling.
i havent talked to him since we dont keep in contact much anymore, but i wanted to renegotiate for a percentage of his sales of the product with my logo on it ,instead of the small amount of money i accepted.
i never thought he'd open up a merch store, obviously i made a mistake and am trying to fix it now.
any ideas or thoughts form anyone would be highly appreciated.
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Let him have his fun, he's a small time DJ and I don't think he even made a proper profit of his merch. Just satisfying his small circle of fans.
Besides he basically promoting your art without any effort on your part.The smart thing to do it not asking for a percentage but ask him to write down your name; instant free advertising. It'll profit you in the long run by getting more design jobs.
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he has around 12,000 subs on youtube and probably more on other sites/ the artwork is mine and people could just buy the shirts because it looks cool
i just want a fair deal for both of us
what do you mean by "write down my name"?
like post on the merch store that the artwork is by me?
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Go for the girl my bestfriend is into? 2017-06-16 03:11:45 Post No.18424351
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Go for the girl my bestfriend is into?
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So there's this girl who's into my best friend. He knows it too, they've been kinda going out but aren't an official couple. He's basically popular - handsome guy, nice, rich but he kind has one too many girlfriends and frankly a lot of the girls know this. I think even she does.
So anyway, here's the thing, I think I'm in love with this girl. You see my dad kind of died recently, its been maybe six months. I was raised by him alone and well, its been hard for me.
She knows though, apparently she lost her dad some years back too and feels the same way so she's been practically visiting me every other day.
Originally I thought she was just being nice, since I'm the best friend of her crush but she's been basically skipping out on dates the last two months to hang out with me.
She still does go to see my best friend and they flirt a lot, but its just, she's genuinely cared for me. She hugs me, cooks for me, visits me randomly. She spend a lot of time just chilling with each other.
So anyway, at this point I was trying to not betray my best friend.
But I sorta got hospitalized, nothing that serious - kinda got hit by a car and well, one elbow is in a cast now - but she apparently skipped out on another date with my bestfriend (I was told by a mutual friend that she didn't tell my bestfriend why) just to go visit me at the hospital because she was so worried, adamantly refusing to leave when I told her my bestfriend would be jealous.
She stayed until visiting hours were over and all that.
Frankly I'm not really sure what to do here. She doesn't call me her best friend because I have one and while she considers us acquaintances I just dunno at this point.
Should I just tell her I've fallen for her? Or just hide the fact because he's dating my best friend. I get that he's a player, sleeps with other girls, but the guy's nice if he dropped all of that.
The girl is an easy 9/10. My best friend is the same but I just consider myself a 5, maybe a 6 at most.
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Best thing to do is try to ask your best friend first if he's okay with it. Bros before hos.
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just read the first line.
if he's your friend then no you shouldnt.
find your own girl.
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>>18424351
U should totally ntr ur Friend, thats how all the great hentai starts.
Give her dat fertile cumming