Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 1421. page

>>18427985
Yeah, these rules are fucking stupid. If you want an answer, just text her again.

>But I don't want to come off as desperate!
You come off as taking your time seriously. If she's not interested, cool, you're gonna move on. That's the impression you want to leave.

You know how a lot of budding relationships die out? Both people are so focused on trying to appear aloof, they just stop talking and assume the other lost interest.

Just fucking text her you teenager. Take what you want.

>>18428166
bad advice. if your time was valuable you wouldn't have time to chase girls.

>>18427985
You can send one more casual text, if you are really into her, but be prepared for not getting a reply.
A double text in itself would not make you look desperate. The girl had a great evening with you last time, so she can be open for more.
But if you don't get a reply, you shall let her go, and find someone else.

Idk about you but I just find cumming to be a waste of energy. If you have a hard job or make music/art, you'll feel less ambitious and maybe even hungover after cumming. I read a Miles Davis interview where he said never cum before a show and I've been doing nofap since.

Also by doing nofap I realized Tinder hookups are seriously not worth it and I'm better off just saving my energy for gf material girls I meet IRL.

Also my hair falls out when I masturbate regularly. I think it has something to do with loss of biotin or DHT increases. After seeing how thicker my hair is during nofap I gave up jacking off, hookups, and everything not involving dating girls I actually like, which also becomes easier and more abundant during nofap.

>>18427972
>no-fap cures hair loss
Holy shit, this is enough reason to continue. Also I feel depressed after cumming. But I heard cum starts leaking if you don't cumm for a long period of time. Is that true? I don't wanna start leaking cum suddenly while I'm at the beach or school. I

>>18427967
No it's not healthy not to cum for such a long time. If you're not having sex or releasing through a bj or handjob, you need to fap once in awhile.

Don't let your feelings and grief make you retarded. Drop her. It's the only way

What kind of cheating are we talking about here, kissing or sex, and how long was it going on?

She's not sorry that she did it, she's sorry that you caught her. Where were these tears when she was fucking around behind your back? Where was the guilt when the was playing you for a fool? Where was her heartbreak when she was with her lover?

Fetishes don't always happen as a result of molestation. I was not molested by feet when I was young. But you do have a patrician fetish.

You miss the time where you were sexually innocent and the sense of discovery of that time, and you wish you had someone to teach you by that time so you could have enjoyed it more fully.

Well that's me at least...

>>18427943
I guess that's good to know, but moving forward, what do I do about it?

>>18427949
I don't think I ever was sexually innocent. I was basically raised by the internet. A teacher would have definitely been nice though.

>>18427936
Jeeeesus. Your superhero name will from now onward be "Captain Cuck". Break up with the bimbo dude, and get some self-respect. She's waiting for you to make big bucks while she fucks around eith other guys, marries you, fucks around eith other guys, has kids, fucks around with other guys, then divorces you whilst fucking ither guys so that she can take all of your money. Grow a spine you fucking worm. You disgust me. Letting a woman walk on you like that. What kind of fucking man are you anyway?

>>18427946
>falling this hard for bait

>>18427946
That is really mean things to say. But u never even said if u think i can win her back.

>>18427921
Stop being a manchild. Every human being has flaws; I'm sure you're not the prince that was promised either. Unless her flaws don't outweight her qualities (she's a single mom or a crack addict)

>>18427924
I'm stupid; unless her flaws DO outweight her qualities.

>>18427921
>that was promised

Who promised you that?

>How do I get out of this mentality?

Try to meet more girl and compare. You'll see if she really is so bad if you find someone better. If no one measures up to your standards, then you might be the problem.

I also have some matches on Tinder, but not a lot. However, the problem is that I don't know how to talk to girls IRL or on Tinder.

>>18427902
If the girl likes you then making conversation is easy. Read/travel and pursue hobbies so you have more to talk about, then it just comes with practise.

Unless you're a 8+/10 you won't get hot women on tinder, if they cared about personalities they'd go find people irl.

Red Pill

Where are you from? Don't lie.

sounds like you need professional help

>>18427913
Right, I don't mind that but it will have to be a few months down the line when I have some money.

I kinda feel like I'd be too lazy / unmotivated to even attend.

It's not like I haven't looked for therapists, but I don't feel comfortable talking about all this stuff.
There isn't a single person I know in person who's aware I'm even in a bad way at all.

>>18427794
If you see one bitch on the street, she's a bitch
If you see bitches everywhere, you're the bitch.

that's the catch when you go after people you're attracted to, 9/10 times they don't have to work hard to look good or get what they need so they don't develop a personality.

there are still plenty of women who have careers and are goal-oriented but if they're not superficial they still might be batshit in some other capacity, or whatever. there really are few "worthwhile" people to meet out there if you're going to look at it that way, myself not included but you won't find a single on on dating websites.

>>18427794
I can be your emotional tampon internet gf in my free time, anon

>>18427757
There is a type of jobs, that are available for all ages. You can always get a job, but it will be a shitty one. At 22 years, you are not even old, so your chances are not worse.

Sounds to me like your a bit of a failure OP. By that age you should have a full resume. If not full of jobs, then full of volunteer work or internships. What happened with your life? Did your parents spoil you all your life?

>>18427757
Let me guess: your parents are divorced and you hate Jews?

Generally I'd say 'No'

You'll embarass yourself even further. Just take that shit off your profile and get a real personality, you don't have to like muslims but you can just say that in passing conversation after you've given the person an actual reason to like you, so it won't seem like a dealbreaker or like your whole personality revolves around triggering people and kissing retarded shitposter ass.

To be honest man I think you would have avoided the whole damn situation if you didn't put any of that stuff up as to who and who cannot message you. Either ways if they do, it's not so hard to just delete them or ignore them

>>18427638

If you have a type, and are that interested in said type, just keep going out as much as possible and don't be a loner. Amp up your social life and try hitting up bars, clubs, coffee shops, libraries, zoos literally fucking anything because you are playing a #s game my dude.

Holy shit I really want to go to a zoo right now. Going to a zoo high right now, holy fuck with some ice cream? Imagine walking through those tunnels in the big ass aquariums completely blasted; jesus.

bump, i'm in a freakishly similar situation

>>18427660
>>18427663

Yo you guys probably bust nuts to Tracer from Overwatch now that I think of it. I'm more of a Widowmaker guy myself tbhtbh

5/10 are hot catch and most have problems getting them because they are picky already.

And pic related is good.

Duh

To the "average" guy, 7/10s are not truly a catch. It's just that many people here are neets/fat so these girls are out of their league.

What is the latest memory you have of it?

You have to put down everything you did back in the right order

It's not that hard to pick most locks. It just takes time, patience and a little skill plus the right tools which you can typically make yourself. Stop stealing shit from your friends or relatives though.

Do him a favor, break up and find some idiot who wants them who you can enjoy sucking the soul out of.

>>18427536
That was pretty aggressive.

Yeah, if after eight years with you his answer is no, I doubt it will change soon